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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 8:42am On Sep 11
MarketDispatch:


When wife or girlfriend leaves you, you return to your mother.

It is best to manage the two relationships without conflicts.


Which mother, am i sopose to go n fukk her? Fukk no. If my girl leave, i simply pay for another woman. Brother there are thoudands of womens on the street & online . Even from nairaland, u can find women. Bro i have fukk up to 14 babes on nairaland so far...so why shud u streess over one babe leaving.
Wot u do is tell yor mother to go find her own husband...we dont owe them nada!!!(((Real talk))) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 8:44am On Sep 11
Daddyoung:


Hahha you really amuse me now. You're clearly a sex starved motherfucker who will sell his mother to just have a look at a titty. I'm not doing this with you so buzz off psych


Son..it will not makes sence until u reach 18year old & u hav expirencse with women...i take it u love yor mother coz u stll bresssst feeeedin...corrrect?goat!!!((no oofencsse)) angry

Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by gabicon: 8:46am On Sep 11
mmadu4:
So guys i often wonder is it OK to love wifey more than our mom. like can a man put his wife first before his mom?

a neighbor of mine sent his mom away all because she had altercation with the wife and told the wife to leave her son and set him free from her juju ,

i wanted to put mouth but don't want to insert my self in family matter . nothing will make me send my mom away like that though .

so guys would you do it?

The simple answer can be yes or no! But looking at it critically, a mother's love is different from the love of a wife and we all have the capacity to properly compartmentalise these love.

What is truly different between a mother and a wife is influence, most of their fued are not about any other thing than influence on the son or husband, that ability to assert control.

A mother builds this influence over time, a wise wife will make time her ally and build influence.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 8:47am On Sep 11
Segzy19:
For you to recognise a gay, it means you are also one yourself. All that fills your brain is sex. Even your name says so.... Better find something profitable to do ....

Mumu!


TOOOO LATE TO APOLOGICE. APOLOGY NOT ACCEPTED...shame on u for bein gay & chooosin yor mother over pussssssy. U sir, are a disgrase to manhooood. Cant u tell yor mother to go n find a man? Why on earth wil u chooose old cargo over nice young beautiful pucccccccy.goat!!!(no oofencse)) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 8:51am On Sep 11
NOETHNICITY:
But you dull sha
Where did the man say he will bleep his mother?
So for you love is equal to fvck?


Son, did u juss arive from the villahe?
Were did u hear anyone say love is fukking equaly? This is why u fail schoool exam but then blame teacher.goat.
The boy say he would rada love his mother than to love women.is his mother goin to give him blooowjob?
Techicaly,he gay, you gay!!!((no oofencse)) angry

Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Natbrowny: 9:08am On Sep 11
jnrbayano:
Stupid question
Are they in a competition?

πŸ˜‚. Dem no dey compete, dem no even fit compete
D question was designed to psychologically teach a person to strike a balance. Not to choose.

Never underestimate how a text u see online, a book u read can influence a person's decision.

Topics like that many sef - u r not supposed to choose but to strike a balance.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Psoul(m): 9:18am On Sep 11
Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too

Immediately I got to this comment, I stopped reading.
This is the summary of every reasonable response to that question.

I don't wish to add or remove anything from this response. My intended comment is embedded in that. πŸ™‹πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Maeve7: 9:51am On Sep 11
Useless question. The way you love your parents is totally different from the way you love your spouse. Apples and oranges.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Segzy19: 9:58am On Sep 11
Pele! I know you are sick already

[quote author=MrCork post=1319492

TOOOO LATE TO APOLOGICE. shame on me for bein gay & chooosin my mother's pussssssy. I am disgrase to manhooood. I Cant tell my mother to go n find a man. Why on earth wil i chooose a nice young beautiful girl over my old cargo mummy's puccccyyy? I am a goat!!!)) angry[/quote]
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Segzy19: 10:00am On Sep 11
Pele! I know you are sick already

MrCork:


TOOOO LATE TO APOLOGICE. shame on me for bein gay & chooosin my mother's pussssssy. I am disgrase to manhooood. I Cant tell my mother to go n find a man. Why on earth wil i chooose a nice young beautiful girl over my old cargo mummy's puccccyyy? I am a goat!!!)) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by femi4: 10:32am On Sep 11
Lordbinsmar:


Epeelee Sir, SIMPle man grin
Ki lomode e mo
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by adieora(f): 10:38am On Sep 11
Stupid question in the first instance
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 10:55am On Sep 11
Segzy19:
Pele! I know you are sick already


APOLOGY NOT ACCCEPTED...YOU PREFA YOR MOTHER TO WOMEN & U CLEARLY DONT LIKE WOMEN....you are gay..shame on u twice. Gay man!!!!(,no oofencse) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by ScarletBrace(m): 10:58am On Sep 11
mmadu4:
So guys i often wonder is it OK to love wifey more than our mom. like can a man put his wife first before his mom?

a neighbor of mine sent his mom away all because she had altercation with the wife and told the wife to leave her son and set him free from her juju ,

i wanted to put mouth but don't want to insert my self in family matter . nothing will make me send my mom away like that though .

so guys would you do it?

kids will pick their mum first.
Your mum is someone's wife.
If your dad had same mentality, you would ve been a lost case by now.
Eagles teach eaglets how to fly independently. True mothers teach their daughters how to create their own homes, not extend mama's home into her son or daughter inlaw's home.
Marriage is discipline and work. Making money is easier than succeeding in marriage. Kids make money. Mature minds manage marriages to successful ends.

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by lapintoz: 10:58am On Sep 11
Never!

Your wife can leave you but your mother is your No. 1 fan. Come rain, come shine, your mother has your back.

Your wife's No. 1 priority is her child(ren) you are secondary no matter how good a man is.

So why make your wife your No. 1, someone that makes you her No. 2 at best?
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 10:59am On Sep 11
adieora:
Stupid question in the first instance



Dont mind them. They are all steeeewpid nairaland mofo & they dont like pussssssy. How tha fukk can somone choose his old cargo mother over babe? Real men dont do that $hit.
Ilitrasy is a desease...truss me!!! undecided
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Godswings(m): 11:02am On Sep 11
No reasonable/responsible wife will fell comfortable watching her husband love her more that his mother, likewise the the mother-in-law.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Segzy19: 11:03am On Sep 11
Your problem! We know that already. Your name implies that already
MrCork:


APOLOGY NOT ACCCEPTED..I PREFA My MOTHER TO young WOMEN & I CLEARLY DONT LIKE young WOMEN....I am a motherfucker and gay..shame on me twice. I am Gayman!!!!(,no oofencse) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 11:28am On Sep 11
Segzy19:
Your problem! We know that already. Your name implies that already

CONCLUSION;
WATCH & LEARN FROM THE BIG BOYS (me)....PUSSSSSSSY RULES THE WORLD....so u tell yor mother to get lost & find a husband!!(no oofensce) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 11:29am On Sep 11
MrCork:


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CONCLUSION;
WATCH & LEARN FROM THE BIG BOYS (me)....PUSSSSSSSY RULES THE WORLD SIR....so u tell yor mother to get lost & find a husband
U have a long way to go son!!(no oofensce) >:]
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 12:01pm On Sep 11
Yungmil:




If u compare your mum to any woman in the world.........u are lost


Ur wife can divorce u and marry another man in seconds.


Shaaaaarap there...are u gointo maary yor mother. Is she gonno giv u pusssssy? Why the heck are u people actin like childrens? Please apply brain please. Your mother need tonfind her own man. U must put yor woman first..pirrriod!!(no ofencse) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Yungmil: 12:43pm On Sep 11
MrCork:



Shaaaaarap there...are u gointo maary yor mother. Is she gonno giv u pusssssy? Why the heck are u people actin like childrens? Please apply brain please. Your mother need tonfind her own man. U must put yor woman first..pirrriod!!(no ofencse) angry



Sarcasm!!! But if u real den I talk 2 human not di.c.k
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:18pm On Sep 11
MrCork:



Son, did u juss arive from the villahe?
Were did u hear anyone say love is fukking equaly? This is why u fail schoool exam but then blame teacher.goat.
The boy say he would rada love his mother than to love women.is his mother goin to give him blooowjob?
Techicaly,he gay, you gay!!!((no oofencse)) angry

Bro your dullness stretch sha
Your dumbness looooooooooong, really!
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by izubext007: 1:21pm On Sep 11
sweet mother
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:21pm On Sep 11
MrCork:


CONCLUSION;
WATCH & LEARN FROM THE BIG BOYS (me)....PUSSSSSSSY RULES THE WORLD....so u tell yor mother to get lost & find a husband!!(no oofensce) angry
You too dull jare
Pusssssy rule your world, not mine.
Try and get something more productive to do with your life, only then will you find that life is farrrrrr much more than just pusssssssy
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:24pm On Sep 11
HellVictorinho8:


u met mum first doesnt mean u shud or must rank

U dont have 2 rank


So MrCork wont av certain imaginations


Ur mums ur mum
Ur wifes ur wife

They are important in their respective ways as mum and wife


There are things u can get or that u got from ur mum that ur wife cant
give u

There are also things u can get from ur wife that ur mum cant give u



itz like ranking ur sister and daughter








am i cleared angry
Bro whether or not you chose to rank, mum is simply the most important person in my life, period!
No other person even comes near.

If my mother tells me to divorce my wife, I will do it.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MasterTeeUSA: 2:45pm On Sep 11
Lol you just contradicted yourself. You do agree wife can leave lol...Love her until she does, so you are talking of conditional love. The love of a mother is not conditional. Times of struggle, times of pain and times of joy...she still loved you else you wont be alive. Honor your Father and Mother that you may live long. Why didn't the 10 commandments talk about loving yourself? Even Adam said, the wife you gave me...he never said I took the fruit and ate. Be wise...Loving your mother is not the same as not loving your wife, but if you had to choose...choose wisely.



Houseontherock1:


The Bible already called you one with your wife! You and your wife have become ONE the moment you LEfT your father and mother to marry her! Your love for your wife is love for yourself! It's funny how you guys are jumping on the mum first bandwagon without deep careful thought...you create problem for yourself when you start comparing mother's love and love for your wife. A good mother will encourage you to love your wife, she will pray for the success of your marriage without having any issues with your wife. A good wife will ensure she doesn't put you in a tight spot by making you choose between her and your mother... mother's love and spousal love are on 2 different levels!. Your mother gave birth to you; your wife gave birth to your children... even though your wife may leave you, love her until she leaves.



Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Sleekfingers: 2:52pm On Sep 11
The day my wife disrespected my Stepmom...... She no wetin her eyes see....

My wife is my wife . And my mum is my mum .... The difference is clear . ..
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:10pm On Sep 11
When will you daft entities quit asking vapid questions? Is the love you show to your mom and your wife the same? One is storge, the other, eros. Why compare?

Seriously, when will this all end? You people never get tired of β€œman and woman” posts?

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 3:46pm On Sep 11
NOETHNICITY:
Bro your dullness stretch sha
Your dumbness looooooooooong, really!

THANK U NONENTITY...dunce!! undecided
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 3:47pm On Sep 11
NOETHNICITY:
Bro whether or not you chose to rank, mum is simply the most important person in my life, period!
No other person even comes near.

If my mother tells me to divorce my wife, I will do it.


THANK U NONENTITY...dunce!! undecided
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by blahc007: 4:02pm On Sep 11
Natbrowny:


U valid. As in ehn. They just misunderstood my views and dats exactly our problem as human beings most tyms

Check this scenario
A man and his wife together, have a son
The son will choose his mother (thats the mans wife) over his own wife when he married coz the man had same mentality.

Now when issue arises and d son always falls back to the mother coz he loves her only. This same man will now call his son on a seatdown and talks sense to him to respect his wife and solve issues amicably. The same wife he didnt regard back then will now be who he turns to to talk to his son (who happens to be the mother of the son)

When we say who do we love most. That question was design to mess with you psychologically. It was designed for us to create a balance.

U'll start seeing stuffs like
Mother vs father
Mother vs son's wife
Mother vs daughter's husband

We compare things that are not d same and can never be. I made my view jeje, insult n praises start dey enter. That's life

And most of these people are adults...lacking simple understanding.

Wisdom demands that we understand things like this before taking a wife, Cos most mothers who lack wisdom will want to boss there daughter inlaws....

Well, let them remain single and love there mother alone, meh dem forget marriage for life .... Na wen dem wan finally settle down, experience go teach them.

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