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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by regenerateman(m): 4:25pm On Sep 11
The love for your mum and wife are different. The love one has for his mum is unconditional and the love for your wife is consciously made.

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Image123(m): 4:57pm On Sep 11
A man shall leave father and mother and cleave to his wife, that's practical. That doesn't mean you should not love or take care of your parents.

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by fohlarp: 5:18pm On Sep 11
Let me say dis,if u can't love her more dn ur Moda why marry her.d man proved to d Moda wot is cald love.families shd know wot dey call boundaries,u can't grow on ur own without ur wife.
Ur wife will help u grow to be man,ur mom helped u grow to a boy level.
D stage of marriage was set to grow to be a man,av his own life n live it well,if a Moda shd come in n destroy his child's home she has already set d pace for him to be destroyed.
Parents shd know dat.its anoda level to grow,not Staying with parent agn,live ur life with ur wife,not mom.
It's of future consequence,except d wife na anoda thg,d guy woyld av bn complaining

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 5:37pm On Sep 11
Zonefree:
Father
Mother
Son
Daughter
Nephew
Niece
Wife


In that order.

And that's FACT!!
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 5:39pm On Sep 11
1Sharon:


As long you're okay with your wife loving her father first

If your wife tell you now, she wants to keep her own surname, una go squeeze face. Tell me, what's the point of changing her name when she isn't seen as a family member? You guys only want her name changed, so it can feed your own egos
why shouldn't she..



But when she needs anything esp for her personal use .. she should always ask her father. ..
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by 1Sharon(f): 6:03pm On Sep 11
DeeScan:
why shouldn't she..



But when she needs anything esp for her personal use .. she should always ask her father. ..

Ditto.


When you need babies, cooking, sex domestics go to your mother grin

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 6:16pm On Sep 11
1Sharon:


Ditto.


When you need babies, cooking, sex domestics go to your mother grin
lol ..

Funny ..

But realistically, females wants babies more than a man does ...
Cooking - we don't need a female for that most times ...
Sex - it's as cheap as fvck these days .. so if wifey doesn't yield, yeah well, you know what next ..

Domestics - hahahaha , same shiit we do during our bachelor days.. Doesn't sound like a big deal to me ...


Now let me see how a dependent wife would not love her husband more than her father...
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by 1Sharon(f): 6:20pm On Sep 11
DeeScan:
lol ..

Funny ..

But realistically, females wants babies more than a man does ...
Cooking - we don't need a female for that most times ...
Sex - it's as cheap as fvck these days .. so if wifey doesn't yield, yeah well, you know what next ..

Domestics - hahahaha , same shiit we do during our bachelor days.. Doesn't sound like a big deal to me ...


Now let me see how a dependent wife would not love her husband more than her father...

Yen yen yen. Keep telling yourself that 👍🏽

We all know why you're quick to remarry when this same non-family member dies.

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 6:25pm On Sep 11
1Sharon:


Yen yen yen. Keep telling yourself that 👍🏽

We all know why you're quick to remarry when this same non-family member dies.


What would that reason be??

Not all of us re- marries btw


...
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by 1Sharon(f): 6:30pm On Sep 11
DeeScan:


What would that reason be??

Not all of us re- marries btw


...

Congratulations.

By the way, say hi to the strange woman that lives with your father for me x
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 6:34pm On Sep 11
1Sharon:


Congratulations.

By the way, say hi to the strange woman that lives with your father for me x



She happens to love her husband so much than anyone else.. I'd implore you to do the same ..


Btw, can we have a conversation about how seducive your lips are

🥴🥴
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Houseontherock1: 6:53pm On Sep 11
MasterTeeUSA:
Lol you just contradicted yourself. You do agree wife can leave lol...Love her until she does, so you are talking of conditional love. The love of a mother is not conditional. Times of struggle, times of pain and times of joy...she still loved you else you wont be alive. Honor your Father and Mother that you may live long. Why didn't the 10 commandments talk about loving yourself? Even Adam said, the wife you gave me...he never said I took the fruit and ate. Be wise...Loving your mother is not the same as not loving your wife, but if you had to choose...choose wisely.

The bible equates your wife to you! Like I said, mother and wife are on 2 different levels in a man's life. Your wife can leave you, we have also heard of mothers being mean to their children - even on this platform! Now, the bible says you become one with your wife. Not 2! Please read your Bible! Respect your parents,honor them, but don't ever be mean to your wife because of your mum and don't ever be mean to your mum because of your wife, ensure they can tolerate each other... inability to understand this fact has been a source of separation in a lot of homes, especially in Africa.

Mathew 19:5 and 6
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate
Ephesians 5: 28-29
28[b]] Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. [29] For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the church[/b]
God took Eve from Abraham's ribs...that sums it up!

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:00pm On Sep 11
Zackattack:

I don’t want to say you’re ignorant because you sound like a pro in fantasy.
It’s very easy to say everything up there and believe it.
Kal Max said realism is fascinating. Even us, sometimes is bewildered of the choice we make when reality is staring us in the face.
You know you will never choose your son inlaw over yourself when faced with death, but you needed to make your point. Ride on!

if i am in a life and death situation where i have raised and nurture grown adult children and they have now their own families/children and one of us got to go, who else should go but me (who would be old and who's lived a full and rewarding life)? better yet, what kind of worthless narrow minded parent would think they should stay while one of these young adults should go (instead of them)?

wouldnt it be normal to say that the oldest person here (with no children to raise any longer and probably already a foot in the grave) is the most fit to take the fall?
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by 1Sharon(f): 7:11pm On Sep 11
DeeScan:



She happens to love her husband so much than anyone else.. I'd implore you to do the same

🥴🥴


Does she know her love is unrequited?
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Dilaminu: 7:41pm On Sep 11
mmadu4:
So guys i often wonder is it OK to love wifey more than our mom. like can a man put his wife first before his mom?

a neighbor of mine sent his mom away all because she had altercation with the wife and told the wife to leave her son and set him free from her juju ,

i wanted to put mouth but don't want to insert my self in family matter . nothing will make me send my mom away like that though .

so guys would you do it?
A mother is your first love in the world, and you can't compare her love to anyone else's. She is the one who raised you well, so your wife sees you as a good person and chooses you as her husband."
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by eepeepook: 7:41pm On Sep 11
MrCork:



Shaaaaarap there...are u gointo maary yor mother. Is she gonno giv u pusssssy? Why the heck are u people actin like childrens? Please apply brain please. Your mother need tonfind her own man. U must put yor woman first..pirrriod!!(no ofencse) angry
…but why are you gay, sir? No offenccee.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 9:07pm On Sep 11
1Sharon:



Does she know her love is unrequited?
it is not ..


I'm done with this conversation except we talk about you lips ..
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by 1Sharon(f): 9:11pm On Sep 11
DeeScan:
it is not ..


I'm done with this conversation except we talk about you lips ..




Feck off
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by DeeScan: 9:15pm On Sep 11
1Sharon:



Feck off


Lol ..

Why you gotta hard ball though 🥴🥴


You can't be that hard to flirt with ..


Loosen up mamacita 🥴🥴
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MasterTeeUSA: 11:06pm On Sep 11
and you do realize women do not leave their husbands in the ultra-jewish culture...and yet we divorce up and down, so can you divorce from yourself? You wife can become ex-wife but there is nothing like ex-mother. Just think about it and ask yourself...why did Jesus turn water to wine even when He said His time is not yet near after His mother intervened Lol. Wisdom is profitable to direct.




Houseontherock1:

The bible equates your wife to you! Like I said, mother and wife are on 2 different levels in a man's life. Your wife can leave you, we have also heard of mothers being mean to their children - even on this platform! Now, the bible says you become one with your wife. Not 2! Please read your Bible! Respect your parents,honor them, but don't ever be mean to your wife because of your mum and don't ever be mean to your mum because of your wife, ensure they can tolerate each other... inability to understand this fact has been a source of separation in a lot of homes, especially in Africa.

Mathew 19:5 and 6
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate
Ephesians 5: 28-29
28[b]] Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. [29] For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the church[/b]
God took Eve from Abraham's ribs...that sums it up!
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by HellVictorinho8(m): 11:43pm On Sep 11
NOETHNICITY:
Bro whether or not you chose to rank, mum is simply the most important person in my life, period!
No other person even comes near.

If my mother tells me to divorce my wife, I will do it.

divorce then mari ur mum them


angry


u think am jokin wit u

angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Houseontherock1: 12:24am On Sep 12
MasterTeeUSA:
Wisdom is profitable to direct.
Absolutely grin

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Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by NOETHNICITY(m): 6:39am On Sep 12
HellVictorinho8:


divorce then mari ur mum them


angry


u think am jokin wit u

angry
So for you you can’t love someone you can’t marry?
What is wrong with you guys?
Are you people really this sex starved?


You guys should try and get something better to do with your lives. When you have money you see women wanting to dash you their pusssssy. Then you will realize that there is really nothing special about pussssy.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by HellVictorinho8(m): 7:01am On Sep 12
NOETHNICITY:
So for you you can’t love someone you can’t marry?
What is wrong with you guys?
Are you people really this sex starved?


You guys should try and get something better to do with your lives. When you have money you see women wanting to dash you their pusssssy. Then you will realize that there is really nothing special about pussssy.


nobodys asking u to not love ur mum









u dont av 2 remind me dat am financial un4tunated





another cursed miserable murnin

embarassed embarassed
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by NOETHNICITY(m): 8:17am On Sep 12
HellVictorinho8:



nobodys asking u to not love ur mum









u dont av 2 remind me dat am financial un4tunated





another cursed miserable murnin

embarassed embarassed
Then why should you base maximum love on whether or not you can marry a person?
Fucccking pussy lovers
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by JobZoneNews(m): 8:18am On Sep 12
You should love both. There's a commandment to love both. Love your wife as yourself. Love your neighbor as yourself.
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 8:38am On Sep 12
TOPCRUISE:

So sex is your definition of love


Of course.... **i wanna make love means i need pucccccccy quick sir** ...this aint rocket sceince sir!!!((no oofenncse)) angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by MrCork: 8:41am On Sep 12
JobZoneNews:
You should love both. There's a commandment to love both. Love your wife as yourself. Love your neighbor as yourself.


Son u still aint answer a questions yet...are u going to fukk yor mother or can the thing giv u bloooowjob??....so why wuld any sense man choooose old cargo mother over younger fresh puccccccy sir??(no oofencsese) undecided
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by HellVictorinho8(m): 9:48am On Sep 12
NOETHNICITY:
Then why should you base maximum love on whether or not you can marry a person?
Fucccking pussy lovers


Maximum love undecided

















Imagine what what



U now minhmize and maximise


Do u also subsidize






What a embarassed
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by NOETHNICITY(m): 11:34am On Sep 12
HellVictorinho8:



Maximum love undecided

















Imagine what what



U now minhmize and maximise


Do u also subsidize






What a embarassed
Unapologetic dunce spotted.
Skull too thick that you can’t even process information
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by HellVictorinho8(m): 11:43am On Sep 12
NOETHNICITY:
Unapologetic dunce spotted.
Skull too thick that you can’t even process information



U want me 2 process ur maximum and minimum luv



4 what



angry
Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Tegabadguy(m): 4:09pm On Sep 13
mmadu4:
So guys i often wonder is it OK to love wifey more than our mom. like can a man put his wife first before his mom?

a neighbor of mine sent his mom away all because she had altercation with the wife and told the wife to leave her son and set him free from her juju ,

i wanted to put mouth but don't want to insert my self in family matter . nothing will make me send my mom away like that though .

so guys would you do it?
i love my mum

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