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Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by PJtech: 9:01pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
While at work you recieved a call that your best friend was shot a d in critical condition and you also receive another call that your wife is in labour Who are you visiting?
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Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Sonnobax15(m): 9:02pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
![]() My wife's who I'm gonna visit... Abi my friend no get family? ![]() These days,fvck friends cuz they ain't helping matters......... |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by PJtech: 9:04pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
This matter cause serious kasala for twitter last week |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Karleb(m): 9:17pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
I didn't mute Buchi for you guys to bring his screenshots here. Buchi is an idiot that speaks big grammar in the same class as Reno. Your friend that was shot is the emergency and you should visit him first unless there's someone already with him. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by shortgun(m): 9:24pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
My friend obviously....he's in a life threatening situation. Giving birth is a natural process that shouldn't be life threatening with all things equal. Even if things go south in the labour room, my contribution will be almost zero. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by DeltaBachelor(m): 9:33pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Wife ni ooooo. No friend, No FOE ! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by thesicilian: 10:55pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Ruminations of an idle mind. Maybe next question will be what you will do if you see 10 million dollars to pick on the ground ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Dizzyyish: 3:07am On Sep 12, 2024 |
I thought this guy had left this Simple way of reasoning after that his ex-fiancée fiasco, with the very people he pedestalized rushing him like piranhas. He's even using shame tactics, calling opposite opinions "gay", like women. How many fathers (just in Nigeria) were in the delivery room seeing their child be born, and did it have any effect on things later on? She's surrounded by nurses and doctors meanwhile your friend is dying. Smh. 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Brandiebird: 3:52am On Sep 12, 2024 |
Dizzyyish: But your friend is surrounded by nurses and doctors too. This is a question of loyalty and if you would pick a stranger over your own flesh and blood (your child) then you need to grow up. Your friend has his own family by his side, his own father maybe and you are abandoning your own child. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Newborn27(f): 7:37am On Sep 12, 2024 |
shortgun: Your comment shows that you're single and haven't been opportune to witness pregnancy period with a wife and cheerfully expecting the day she'd deliver. Your friend can be helped through the phone calling the necessary people to care for him....but your wife needs only you on delivery day. Your presence at the hospital has a lot of impact on her. Even if you are both in different city or country at the time of delivery... she'd be happy to have you around...maybe virtually. She's delivering your baby and blood. 6 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Carcholce: 11:38am On Sep 12, 2024 |
thesicilian: I swear. I am even amazed people will spend their time responding to such posts. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by JovialJune(f): 12:36pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
shortgun: So what's your contribution to your friend in the hospital? Your presence will remove the bullet and make him well? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by JovialJune(f): 12:45pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
Karleb: Because you're the doctor that will treat him abi? Why won't Buchi's words hurt you when you don't know the value of mothers and you're not loved at home, were you forced to comment on this thread? Complaining on something that doesn't affect your existence. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Kelechi009: 1:17pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
Karleb: Would your friend do the same for you, remember your friend is also being treated at the hospital. So what's the point? 3 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Kelechi009: 1:19pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
JovialJune: What's so funny is that people will eventually discover their own friends will choose their family over them in such a scenario. I was surprised this was even a trick question. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Karleb(m): 1:20pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
JovialJune: Were you forced to mention me ![]() Complaining on something that doesn't affect your existence ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Karleb(m): 1:24pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
Kelechi009: The point is that getting shot is an emergency, a serious one. Pregnancies are planned, even the unplanned/unwanted ones. A person is most likely to be die from gunshot than from having a baby. CS is one of the safest surgeries out there. Giving birth is so safe that some men don't even follow their wives to the hospital. I won't call anyone a friend if they can't do same for me. 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by JovialJune(f): 1:40pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
Kelechi009: What was funny was the way most men were choosing their friend on X, it was a serious debate there lask week, very callous of them, which shows the breed of men in existence today, imagine if their father treated their mother like that when she was trying to push them out, same people will be foaming in the mouth condemning their father with insults, yet they would do same thing to their wife, smh. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Klass99(f): 1:53pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Sharpsharp00123: 1:53pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
PJtech:Even God knows I don't entertain all these useless questions 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Kelechi009: 2:14pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
JovialJune: Yeah, I would just try to be objective in the situation. The best course of action would have been to assign someone to go to the hospital right away and pick up my friend, then use my phone to keep an eye on their condition. The distance between the "friend" and my location could be another criterion that is not assessed here. For example, if it takes an hour to get to the friend, it would be much faster to send an ambulance or use Uber rather than making the trip there yourself. In this case, the family will undoubtedly hold the husband responsible for the wife's passing (if she dies because of lateness of taking to the hospital). Next question we should ask is, does this "friend" have any family members and why is it that none of them were called. |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Dizzyyish: 2:36pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
shortgun: Apparently the friend is also in a hospital but it's not stated or strongly implied in both the pic and post (I assume it was on Twitter). Women don't typically give birth at the side of the road so that one doesn't need to be stated. The friend also being in a hospital and not on the roadside bleeding out does need stating. That said, I'd still choose friend because between birth and being mortally wounded, one is incomparably more synonymous with death. 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by JovialJune(f): 4:25pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
Klass99: I was on ban but was off it for some time, just decided to stay away for a while How are you and yours? I just checked your profile what happened to your comments, can't see most of them anymore, some kind of error? |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Klass99(f): 9:39pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
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Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Klass99(f): 10:34pm On Sep 12, 2024 |
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Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by JovialJune(f): 10:09am On Sep 13, 2024 |
Klass99: Okay cool, and I've been good thanks, enjoy your day ![]() |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by JovialJune(f): 10:09am On Sep 13, 2024 |
Klass99: Lol always welcome 🙏🏽 ![]() |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Dilaminu: 6:05pm On Sep 13, 2024 |
PJtech:"I will choose my wife until she gives birth in good health because I am her support at that time. So, my mind won't even go to my friend; she and the child are both mine. How can I leave them? When she gives birth, even if it’s about my friend, he will have people to support him. It doesn't have to be me; he has family and relatives." 5 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by Shokoloko(f): 6:14pm On Sep 13, 2024 |
shortgun:Labour is life threatening 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by GloriousGbola: 6:28pm On Sep 14, 2024 |
shortgun: Your child is being born and you would rather be with your friend. Interesting. I can only assume that your dad's friends were also more important to him than his wife and children. Bros over pikins 4 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by GloriousGbola: 6:30pm On Sep 14, 2024 |
Shokoloko: Even if Labour was not life threatening. It is the man's child being born. The moment you have a child that is the most important thing for you as a responsible man. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Wife In Labour Or Your Friend In Emergency by folake4u(f): 6:49pm On Sep 14, 2024 |
shortgun: El O El. |
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