A guy wakes up in the morning, then he gets a text:

“Good morning handsome, I would love to get breakfast with you, all breakfast on me at this spot right down the street from you”.

Then another message: “Hey there stud, I am going to the gym at 12pm, I would love to go with you. Maybe you could teach me a thing or two, I'll teach you a couple things”.

Then he gets another one: “Hey, having a penthouse party tonight, 9pm, it's gonna be great. You can network with other high status guys that we are inviting. It's gonna be great, and I have some of my girlfriends there as well, all bad peaches”.

Yet another: “Hey, what's up handsome. Just sending you some money because you are so damn good looking”.

Let's say that happens to him for 1 day. he probably would think he is the guy.

Then it happens for 2 days. He is going to think damn he is like Thor. He would feel like he is almost on God mode.

Now this happens for 7 days. Then he thinks he is damn invincible.

He literally would think he is God's gift to women If he got this type of attention and got this type of love every single day for nothing more than the fact that he exists and has a ‘PENIS’.

He would become a piece of shit person, would just sit there and be a low IQ slowpoke. Not read, not better himself , not bother being intelligent at anything.

All the above is an analogy that depicts the life of a modern day girl/woman that gets lots of attention and thinks she is super attractive.

A better analogy has not been advanced! This is front-page worthy!

99thEnemy:
A guy wakes up in the morning, then he gets a text:

“Good morning handsome, I would love to get breakfast with you, all breakfast on me at this spot right down the street from you”.

Then another message: “Hey there stud, I am going to the gym at 12pm, I would love to go with you. Maybe you could teach me a thing or two, I'll teach you a couple things”.

Then he get another one: “Hey, having a penthouse party tonight, 9pm, it's gonna be great. You can network with others. Higher status guys that we are inviting. It's gonna be great. And I have some of my girlfriends there as well. All bad peaches”.

Yet another: “Hey, what's up handsome. Just sending you some money because you are so damn good looking”.

Let's say that happens to him for 1 day. he probably would think he is the guy.

Then it happens for 2 days. He is going think damn he is like Thor. He would feel like he is almost on God mode.

Now this happens for 7 days. Then he thinks he is damn invincible.

He literally would think he is God's gift to women If he got this type of attention and got this type of love every single day. For nothing more than the fact that he exists and has a ‘PENIS’.

He would become a piece of shit person, would just sit there and be a low IQ slowpoke. Not read, not better himself , not bother being intelligent at anything.

All the above is an analogy that depicts the life of a modern day girl/woman that gets lots of attention and thinks she is super attractive.

This is GOLD!!!

I call it the 419 effect!!

Here Goes:

The correct evaluation is a Girl that you think is a 4 but in reality is a 1, but she thinks she is a 9 due to constant validation/attention from men. So there are three perspectives. Yours, hers and reality(based on the quality of girls in her area). A village girl that is 9 can become a 2 when she comes to Banana Island Lagos or Asokoro,Abuja. But their perspectives always shift no matter the reality because men help to overinflate an already bloated ego. So the 419 paradigm is the scam of the ages.

luminouz:

This is GOLD!!!

I call it the 419 effect!!

Here Goes:

The correct evaluation is a Girl that you think is a 4 but in reality is a 1, but she thinks she is a 9 due to constant validation/attention from men. So there are three perspectives. Yours, hers and reality(based on the quality of girls in her area). A village girl that is 9 can become a 2 when she comes to Banana Island Lagos or Asokoro,Abuja. But their perspectives always shift no matter the reality because men help to overinflate an already bloated ego. So the 419 paradigm is the scam of the ages.

This all shows that constant unearned validation and attention is the reason for the ‘sense of entitlement’ especially of this type.

When you reward ones’s superficial qualities, they become very lazy, self absorbed and lack ambition.

Naija girls are never beating the allegations,omo I’ll just keep chasing my bag,cos my babe sef attitude na story for another day

99thEnemy:
A guy wakes up in the morning, then he gets a text:
“Good morning handsome, I would love to get breakfast with you, all breakfast on me at this spot right down the street from you”.
Then another message: “Hey there stud, I am going to the gym at 12pm, I would love to go with you. Maybe you could teach me a thing or two, I'll teach you a couple things”.
Then he gets another one: “Hey, having a penthouse party tonight, 9pm, it's gonna be great. You can network with other high status guys that we are inviting. It's gonna be great, and I have some of my girlfriends there as well, all bad peaches”.
Yet another: “Hey, what's up handsome. Just sending you some money because you are so damn good looking”.
Let's say that happens to him for 1 day. he probably would think he is the guy.
Then it happens for 2 days. He is going to think damn he is like Thor. He would feel like he is almost on God mode.
Now this happens for 7 days. Then he thinks he is damn invincible.
He literally would think he is God's gift to women If he got this type of attention and got this type of love every single day for nothing more than the fact that he exists and has a ‘PENIS’.
He would become a piece of shit person, would just sit there and be a low IQ slowpoke. Not read, not better himself , not bother being intelligent at anything.
All the above is an analogy that depicts the life of a modern day girl/woman that gets lots of attention and thinks she is super attractive.

sadly here is the REALITY of women:
if you walk in a room with your wife, and you see 3/4 guys that had sex with her in the past, the value of your wife will diminish that instant in your mind, and you would be ashamed of even holding her hand.... BUT, if a wife walks in a room where there is 10 women that had sex with her husband in the past, she will be PROUD TO BE THE ONE WHO GOT TO MARRY HIM TODAY.
therefore, a man with a lot of exes is value, while a woman with a lot of exes is WORTHLESS!

Mtcheeeewwwwwwwwwwww

MrBrownJay1:


sadly here is the REALITY of women:
if you walk in a room with your wife, and you see 3/4 guys that had sex with her in the past, the value of your wife will diminish that instant in your mind, and you would be ashamed of even holding her hand.... BUT, if a wife walks in a room where there is 10 women that had sex with her husband in the past, she will be PROUD TO BE THE ONE WHO GOT TO MARRY HIM TODAY.
therefore, a man with a lot of exes is value, while a woman with a lot of exes is WORTHLESS!

A lady enjoying or valuing the fact that her husband had so many partners prior to her and she emerged the one who was wifed also speaks a lot about the modern day basic girl/woman who is in the same train with the category we speak of.

99thEnemy:
A lady enjoying or valuing the fact that her husband had so many partners prior to her and she emerged the one who was wifed also speaks a lot about the modern day basic girl/woman who is in the same train with the category we speak of.

sadly, it has always been that way.... there is a reason why so many women around the world are happy to become a 2nd/3rd or even 10th wife of a successful/wealthy man, while most men would never want to be sharing a wife with another men (even though we now seldomly hear about a woman marrying multiple unemployed simps)

Little wonder why average naija girls behave the way they do.


By the time they get over it, precious time would have been wasted accumulating outrageous body counts.


The way the cookies crumbles from innocent little girl to "Apere Ajase".




Won n pe e ni sisi inu e n dun........

99thEnemy:
A guy wakes up in the morning, then he gets a text:

“Good morning handsome, I would love to get breakfast with you, all breakfast on me at this spot right down the street from you”.

Then another message: “Hey there stud, I am going to the gym at 12pm, I would love to go with you. Maybe you could teach me a thing or two, I'll teach you a couple things”.

Then he gets another one: “Hey, having a penthouse party tonight, 9pm, it's gonna be great. You can network with other high status guys that we are inviting. It's gonna be great, and I have some of my girlfriends there as well, all bad peaches”.

Yet another: “Hey, what's up handsome. Just sending you some money because you are so damn good looking”.

Let's say that happens to him for 1 day. he probably would think he is the guy.

Then it happens for 2 days. He is going to think damn he is like Thor. He would feel like he is almost on God mode.

Now this happens for 7 days. Then he thinks he is damn invincible.

He literally would think he is God's gift to women If he got this type of attention and got this type of love every single day for nothing more than the fact that he exists and has a ‘PENIS’.

He would become a piece of shit person, would just sit there and be a low IQ slowpoke. Not read, not better himself , not bother being intelligent at anything.

All the above is an analogy that depicts the life of a modern day girl/woman that gets lots of attention and thinks she is super attractive.

Meanwhile, 9 of, if not 10 over 10 of guys doing this to the girls/ladies are nothing but just to get to the pants and moves to other victims, but since God has designed women to fall for such GIMMICKS, they won't be able to RESIST such dangerous AMBUSH, which they misterprete for ATTENTION.

They usually come to reality,wen they are about to cross the Rubicon...........30 yrs of age!

The downside of those over-inflated ego is that just like ballon, it's easy so burst. Insecurities and superficial ego goes hand in hand.

A simple thing like ignoring her, not giving her special treatment, expecting civility from her, expecting her to act right, or pointing at her deficiencies, can almost send her to depression.

Many also hold on to their past glory as they aged, since they can't understand why these treatments are fading off and society now treat them like adult.

I still think one of the blessings of being a man is that from little, the harsh realities of life falls on you, and you can't escape it. Such realities with open your eyes, make you work hard and not suffer from grandeur delulu.

Like the old saying, "Men see themselves in little boys, but women see themselves as little girls".

The more beautiful the lady, the harder the cope.

This doesn't apply to every woman though, but to those who went through life relying only on their beauty to get by, without adding any value to themselves whatsoever.

MrBrownJay1:


sadly here is the REALITY of women:
if you walk in a room with your wife, and you see 3/4 guys that had sex with her in the past, the value of your wife will diminish that instant in your mind, and you would be ashamed of even holding her hand.... BUT, if a wife walks in a room where there is 10 women that had sex with her husband in the past, she will be PROUD TO BE THE ONE WHO GOT TO MARRY HIM TODAY.
therefore, a man with a lot of exes is value, while a woman with a lot of exes is WORTHLESS!

In summary, A PADLOCK THAT CAN BE OPENED BY MANY KEYS IS USELESS; WHILE A KEY THAT CAN OPEN MANY PADLOCKS IS - A MASTER KEY.

Sharp and accurate

pansophist:
The downside of those over-inflated ego is that just like ballon, it's easy so burst. Insecurities and superficial ego goes hand in hand.

A simple thing like ignoring her, not giving her special treatment, expecting civility from her, expecting her to act right, or pointing at her deficiencies, can almost send her to depression.

Many also hold on to their past glory as they aged, since they can't understand why these treatments are fading off and society now treat them like men.

I still think one of the blessings of being a man is that from little, the harsh realities of life falls on you, and you can't escape it. Such realities with open your eyes, make you work hard and not suffer from grandeur delulu.

Like the old saying, "Men see themselves in little boys, but women see themselves as little girls".

The more beautiful the lady, the harder the cope.

This doesn't apply to every woman though, but to those who went through life relying only on their beauty to get by, without adding any value to themselves whatsoever.

You should be proud of yourself for what you’ve done here..

Even I, as male has enjoyed attention from both sexes and is now experiencing the true reality of life leaving me behind.

From not being able to attract the kind of “girls” that used to discreetly collect my number from people who knew me and into not-desiring to go to certain places anymore for the sheer fear of not fitting-in.

I mean, I’ll probably look out of place in a school campus and might be mistaken for a young lecturer or a masters student at best all while I’m not 40 yet, even though I’m ultra fit and healthy, is indeed baffling.

But I’ve come to terms with it… the same type of people who used to call me “my cute baby” now call me “fine man”. I know I’m not who I used to be and sadly, it’ll only get worse when I finally lose all my hair haha . These are even the silver days still! The bronze and even coppers are not far behind!

While I have accepted this reality, there’s a lot of people who will carry this grandiose personality to the grave and would still be questioning why their coffin is not positioned in the right way as they’re being lowered down! Well, nobody would give a shit at that point, that’s for damn sure!

Jagermeister:


You should be proud of yourself what you’ve done here..

Even I, as male has enjoyed attention from both sexes and is now experiencing the true reality of life leaving me behind.

From not being able to attract the kind of “girls” that used to discreetly collect my number from people who knew me and into not-desiring to go to certain places anymore for the sheer fear of not fitting-in.

I mean, I’ll probably look out of place in a school campus and might be mistaken for a young lecturer or a masters student at best all while I’m not 40 yet, even though I’m ultra fit and healthy, is indeed baffling.

But I’ve come to terms with it… the same type of people who used to call me “my cute baby” now call me “fine man”. I know I’m not who I used to be and sadly, it’ll only get worse when I finally lose all my hair haha . These are even the silver days still! The bronze and even coppers are not far behind!

While I have accepted this reality, there’s a lot of people who will carry this grandiose personality to the grave and would still be questioning why their coffin is not positioned in the right way as they’re being lowered down! Well, nobody would give a shit at that point, that’s for damn sure!

Life is very hard, and I mean that literally. It is also harder when the tools a person have to make it easy is ego, delusion, living on past glory, entitlement, especially when they are just one calamity away from being downgraded to nothingness.

Just one car accident, a loss of job, a victim of others aggression (stray bullet), or being cut off from their host (for girls who depends on mens money to feel fly) etc. Life is hard, but the wrong mindset makes it harder.

I do not know if this is a good thing, but compared to other species, humans are cuddled from birth to at least two decades. Many of us went all through our formative years being reliant on others (eg parents) and thinking the world owe us.

For men, its also worse. Many of the looser male are those whom are tall and attractive, and went through life getting girls easily. And many girls are victims of those boys, since the girls aint carrying any load themselves, and think being instagram worthy couples is what life is all about.

The need to pepper others, or be in the spotlight is more important than the need to make sure you move along with time, and not stuck on the past.

I have said it before that ''delusion is what makes many people sane. If people can see the harsh realities of their life, they will be depressive''. So you can say that delusion is a good thing somehow. Its an anesthesia to the mind.

Regardless of the gender, its a very dangerous thing for adult to start life on easy mode for up to two decades. It will just make them lazy and feel like they are better than others.

Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeewwwwwwwwwwww

This one sting am enter bone marrow she no fit ignore.

Where is Ereluroz the elephant aka Iyaebe aka Zzor ?

pansophist:


Life is very hard, and I mean that literally. It is also harder when the tools a person have to make it easy is ego, delusion, living on past glory, entitlement, especially when they are just one calamity away from being downgraded to nothingness.

Just one car accident, a loss of job, a victim of others aggression (stray bullet), or being cut off from their host (for girls who depends on mens money to feel fly) etc. Life is hard, but the wrong mindset makes it harder.

I do not know if this is a good thing, but compared to other species, humans are cuddled from birth to at least two decades. Many of us went all through our formative years being reliant on others (eg parents) and thinking the world owe us.

For men, its also worse. Many of the looser male are those whom are tall and attractive, and went through life getting girls easily. And many girls are victims of those boys, since the girls aint carrying any load themselves, and think being instagram worthy couples is what life is all about.

The need to pepper others, or be in the spotlight is more important than the need to make sure you move along with time, and not stuck on the past.

I have said it before that ''delusion is what makes many people sane. If people can see the harsh realities of their life, they will be depressive''. So you can say that delusion is a good thing somehow. Its an anesthesia to the mind.

Regardless of the gender, its a very dangerous thing for adult to start life on easy mode for up to two decades. It will just make them lazy and feel like they are better than others.

You speak as if you know me!
I was still enjoying the highlight reel of your prequel message and then there’s more.
I remember I might have been red pill before there was “red pill”.. Maintained standards that didn’t waver until they actually started to!

At 6.5ft along with other indices, I thought I was put here on earth to do rounds on women, which I did… now that somewhat impressive height has done that same number on me and made me look older and now I’m having to modify my macho-man standards to get laid! Isn’t life just the best lesson teacher?

And oh, my mentality plus work motivation was gutter too, real gutter… I was an entitled garbage for a very long time until I started to rehabilitate my mind (mostly facilitated by reality and only because I chose to see it)

I agree with you… life is like competitive bodybuilding, when you get off the cycles and gear, you look sick even though you’re relatively healthy and probably bigger than most (case in point, Bautista).. it’s literally the same on starting life with an advantage and losing it, it’s twice as hard to get over! You’ll keep questioning yourself.

Oh and yes, delusions can be good and bad… the good side is what you described.. the bad? Well… story for another Nkwobi joint!

pansophist:


Life is hard, but the wrong mindset makes it harder.

The only good thing Life offered me was understanding from a very young age that it isn’t easy.

When I see younger ones complaining about it, I just tell them it has never been easy even to those we think it’s been easy to.

The mindset changes everything.

luminouz:

This is GOLD!!!

I call it the 419 effect!!

Here Goes:

The correct evaluation is a Girl that you think is a 4 but in reality is a 1, but she thinks she is a 9 due to constant validation/attention from men. So there are three perspectives. Yours, hers and reality(based on the quality of girls in her area). A village girl that is 9 can become a 2 when she comes to Banana Island Lagos or Asokoro,Abuja. But their perspectives always shift no matter the reality because men help to overinflate an already bloated ego. So the 419 paradigm is the scam of the ages.

Luminouz stop writing rubbish

EreluRoz:
Luminouz stop writing rubbish

nlfpmod come and see content for front page oh!

Jagermeister:



At 6.5ft along with other indices, I thought I was put here on earth to do rounds on women, which I did… now that somewhat impressive height has done that same number on me and made me look older and now I’m having to modify my macho-man standards to get laid! Isn’t life just the best lesson teacher?

This is the current me
Exactly that height and facial look,

I don't know when the prime years of a guy starts, but I guess I'm beginning to ascend into that now, considering my age and other recent stuffs sha

I feel like on top of the world and I know I might still have 10more years at this stage....make I enjoy first



I go read your message in the next 15years.... Archived already and Thanks 👍

Useless 9ja girls, always want to reap where they didn't show.

I no go ever better for any 9ja girl. Useless ashawo them!

DevilsEqual:




This is the current me
Exactly that height and facial look,

I don't know when the prime years of a guy starts, but I guess I'm beginning to ascend into that now, considering my age and other recent stuffs sha

I feel like on top of the world and I know I might still have 10more years at this stage....make I enjoy first



I go read your message in the next 15years.... Archived already and Thanks 👍

Rock and roll baby!

Don’t hold your breath!

pansophist:


Life is very hard, and I mean that literally. It is also harder when the tools a person have to make it easy is ego, delusion, living on past glory, entitlement, especially when they are just one calamity away from being downgraded to nothingness.

Just one car accident, a loss of job, a victim of others aggression (stray bullet), or being cut off from their host (for girls who depends on mens money to feel fly) etc. Life is hard, but the wrong mindset makes it harder.

I do not know if this is a good thing, but compared to other species, humans are cuddled from birth to at least two decades. Many of us went all through our formative years being reliant on others (eg parents) and thinking the world owe us.

For men, its also worse. Many of the looser male are those whom are tall and attractive, and went through life getting girls easily. And many girls are victims of those boys, since the girls aint carrying any load themselves, and think being instagram worthy couples is what life is all about.

The need to pepper others, or be in the spotlight is more important than the need to make sure you move along with time, and not stuck on the past.

I have said it before that ''delusion is what makes many people sane. If people can see the harsh realities of their life, they will be depressive''. So you can say that delusion is a good thing somehow. Its an anesthesia to the mind.

Regardless of the gender, its a very dangerous thing for adult to start life on easy mode for up to two decades. It will just make them lazy and feel like they are better than others.

Boss himself,your post was educating as usual.

But have you ever considered starting a personal blog? Seriously the wisdom and knowledge you possessed could do the world a whole lot of good.

Jagermeister:


You should be proud of yourself for what you’ve done here..

Even I, as male has enjoyed attention from both sexes and is now experiencing the true reality of life leaving me behind.

From not being able to attract the kind of “girls” that used to discreetly collect my number from people who knew me and into not-desiring to go to certain places anymore for the sheer fear of not fitting-in.

I mean, I’ll probably look out of place in a school campus and might be mistaken for a young lecturer or a masters student at best all while I’m not 40 yet, even though I’m ultra fit and healthy, is indeed baffling.

But I’ve come to terms with it… the same type of people who used to call me “my cute baby” now call me “fine man”. I know I’m not who I used to be and sadly, it’ll only get worse when I finally lose all my hair haha . These are even the silver days still! The bronze and even coppers are not far behind!

While I have accepted this reality, there’s a lot of people who will carry this grandiose personality to the grave and would still be questioning why their coffin is not positioned in the right way as they’re being lowered down! Well, nobody would give a shit at that point, that’s for damn sure!

Bro if i get your point,you're saying you're below 40 and you're now looking unattractive?

But many men are above 40 and are still looking good. Maybe you need to work on yourself and adopt a more healthier lifestyle.

Your prime as a man begins at 30 unlike for women Provided you're living a healthy lifestyle of course.

Give credit to Myron Gaines for this write up to though.

If you want to see practical example of delusional behaviour look at how women live their lives.

Cc. Myron Gaines.

pansophist:


Life is very hard, and I mean that literally. It is also harder when the tools a person have to make it easy is ego, delusion, living on past glory, entitlement, especially when they are just one calamity away from being downgraded to nothingness.

Just one car accident, a loss of job, a victim of others aggression (stray bullet), or being cut off from their host (for girls who depends on mens money to feel fly) etc. Life is hard, but the wrong mindset makes it harder.

I do not know if this is a good thing, but compared to other species, humans are cuddled from birth to at least two decades. Many of us went all through our formative years being reliant on others (eg parents) and thinking the world owe us.

For men, its also worse. Many of the looser male are those whom are tall and attractive, and went through life getting girls easily. And many girls are victims of those boys, since the girls aint carrying any load themselves, and think being instagram worthy couples is what life is all about.

The need to pepper others, or be in the spotlight is more important than the need to make sure you move along with time, and not stuck on the past.

I have said it before that ''delusion is what makes many people sane. If people can see the harsh realities of their life, they will be depressive''. So you can say that delusion is a good thing somehow. Its an anesthesia to the mind.

Regardless of the gender, its a very dangerous thing for adult to start life on easy mode for up to two decades. It will just make them lazy and feel like they are better than others.

I'll like to print this your write up and paste it on my wall and read it every time I woke up, it's very inspiring and full of harsh realities.

Being a man sucks and the hardest thing in this life is to be a man but some delulus won't believe it until life hits them by then it'll be late for them.

Some people won't understand.

Haydens:
Give credit to Myron Gaines for this write up to though.

If you want to see practical example of delusional behaviour looking at how women live their lives.

Cc. Myron Gaines.

Done.

Badmashiii:


Bro if i get your point,you're saying you're below 40 and you're now looking unattractive?

But many men are above 40 and are still looking good. Maybe you need to work on yourself and adopt a more healthier lifestyle.

Your prime as a man begins at 30 unlike for women Provided you're living a healthy lifestyle of course.

No bro… bad comprehension!

I didn’t say anything about aesthetics!

I talked about being representative of my age. There’s no 40 year old laying a 20 year old on merit except perhaps you’re famous (even still) or there’s a motive for her! It’s no natural selection.

And let’s not talk about the part where you said I should work on myself; very laughable because you know little bro!

Jagermeister:


No bro… bad comprehension!

I didn’t say anything about aesthetics!

I talked about being representative of my age. There’s no 40 year old laying a 20 year old on merit except perhaps you’re famous (even still) or there’s a motive for her! It’s no natural selection.

And let’s not talk about the part where you said I should work on myself; very laughable because you know little bro!

On the being famous part,you're very right on that. Most men 40 and above laying 20s girls are either well-known or well-loaded with money.

But at 6'5,you just need to put yourself on camera and you'll easily become famous because 98% of nigerians are below that height. I'm sure you've been showered with attention even from your fellow men let alone women.

I envy your height though,not that im short at 6'0,but the advantages I've gotten as a result of my height just makes me wish i can grow taller.

Badmashiii:


On the being famous part,you're very right on that. Most men 40 and above laying 20s girls are either well-known or well-loaded with money.

But at 6'5,you just need to put yourself on camera and you'll easily become famous because 98% of nigerians are below that height. I'm sure you've been showered with attention even from your fellow men let alone women.

I envy your height though,not that im short at 6'0,but the advantages I've gotten as a result of my height just makes me wish i can grow taller.

On the attention part, there's no way you're escaping it if you're that high up, especially if you're heavy-set as i am and man, you're by no means average at 6ft.. you're a tall dude.

And then the "getting famous" part? Bro nobody is going to hand anything to you for being a tall fellow...

You'll get a fair amount of free🐱 and attention (even from men) but that's about it.. you might not work as hard as a short person to get fame from today's internet space but you bet your ass that you must put in the work nevertheless..