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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by techbro1: 11:17am On Sep 14
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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by jayce232: 11:17am On Sep 14
ForUrgentSale:
I've removed every thought of marriage or having kids from my mind. I just want to live whatever time I have left and leave this wicked world. I don't care about legacies anymore
People talking about legacies in such a wicked world are just being delusional! Of what use are legacies when u are no more? The moment a man drop dead, everything goes with him, forget all these legacy talk my brother

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by StraightGaay: 11:18am On Sep 14
Healthrelatedjo:
Lol...I'll get married to a beautiful God fearing woman,have kids and enjoy my family ijn...na u Sabi wetin dey pursue u from enjoying marital life.
You mold one yourself, such woman doesn't exist, maybe on mars

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by shortgun(m): 11:19am On Sep 14
The main reason is that women these days have become equal with men and no man wants to get married to another man angry

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by gtassure: 11:19am On Sep 14
seunoladele:


© Seun Oladele, 2024.
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Listen to motivational speaker at your own peril!

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Wizardslayer: 11:21am On Sep 14
It doesn't matter if you have the money or not, a disrespectful woman is bad for any man irrespective of your status.

Just don't marry from gen Z and a girl below the age of 25.

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by vengertime: 11:21am On Sep 14
TheBreastSucker:
Being single gives you opportunity to suck different breasts grin

Especially the left side
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by jojothaiv(m): 11:21am On Sep 14
DevilsEqual:
And yeah, we no dey use money run woman
As it should be!
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by SlavaUkraini: 11:21am On Sep 14
How many ladies today would want to marry a man that has nothing ?

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Dshocker(m): 11:25am On Sep 14
Healthrelatedjo:
Lol...I'll get married to a beautiful God fearing woman,have kids and enjoy my family ijn...na u Sabi wetin dey pursue u from enjoying marital life.

Beautiful and God fearing bawo 😝😝😝

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by MadPolitician: 11:27am On Sep 14
Most of these gals are unmarriageable
Let's face the facts.
Their mothers trained them to challenge every man on every topic.
Things start to go south while at the dating stage because she has to act gangsta to represent mama.

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Roger3D(m): 11:29am On Sep 14
Chimarto:
The issue is money no matter how you may paint it. If I can feed well I don't mind marryin, I'm running away from marriage because of the evil government we currently have and I cannot bring somebody's daughter to come and suffer with me just because I married her the worst thing that would happen to a man is to be married to a woman who doesn't have any source of income to support. So when you look at those various parameters you rather prefer to be single and stay on your own at a point in time I've advised myself that I may not even married if the economy continue getting worst.
So the government is responsible for you being single abi? grin
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Chetas81(m): 11:32am On Sep 14
TheBreastSucker:
Being single gives you opportunity to suck different breasts grin
bingos idea lol, suck camel breast suck goat breast suck kangaroo breast always swt you,get married to those i mentioned, so that you have more breasts to sucked🦘🦘🦘🦘🦗🦗🦗🦘🦘🦘
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by ActiveFarms: 11:32am On Sep 14
jeff1993:
To any young man out there please dont listen to this stupid advice!!!

If any girl tells u that let's marry first and we will manage together, my GUY FLEE!!!! FLEE with all your might cos na marriage be her ultimate. After marriage then u will see her true color.

If as a man u dont have money, just look for a lady and impregnate her and make her a baby mama and try to take care of your child.



grin
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by diamond68: 11:33am On Sep 14
Cute9gerian:
It’s because marriage today especially monogamy is a scam.Marriage will only make sense when polygamy is embraced just the way our ancestors practiced it.
all you men who like having many wives are full of oesteogen. Like you are females in men body. It’s hard work being around just one woman but these transsexuals want to have many wives and be around several women gisting and gossiping about rubbish. Like wtf ? Why ? These men are low key transsexuals. Something wrong with their spirit . That’s why it was easy for the white man to come in and capture them all. Sissified men

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by saviourGeorge: 11:34am On Sep 14
Amen
He who finds a wife, found a good thing
And obtain favor from the Almighty

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by bluefilm: 11:36am On Sep 14
ForUrgentSale:
I've removed every thought of marriage or having kids from my mind. I just want to live whatever time I have left and leave this wicked world. I don't care about legacies anymore

This is so sad, I must say
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by spiSeyi: 11:38am On Sep 14
No need for epistle just say lack of peace undecided have you ever wondered why men die earlier than their wives.
Whala be like marrying a Nigerian lady who is either, hot temper, entitled, rude, hole 🕳️ , broke, or a typical feminist

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Acekidc4(m): 11:40am On Sep 14
diamond68:
all you men who like having many wives are full of oesteogen. Like you are females in men body. It’s hard work being around just one woman but these transsexuals want to have many wives and be around several women gisting and gossiping about rubbish. Like wtf ? Why ? These men are low key transsexuals. Something wrong with their spirit . That’s why it was easy for the white man to come in and capture them all. Sissified men

What's this one saying🙄 we are saying A you're saying B........like are you ok🤔

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Fiscus105(m): 11:40am On Sep 14
Haydens:
Marriage in this generation is a scam. Every woman is always using a man in one way or the other if the man is not wise, check it out, if she's not using you as an attention giver she's using u as an emotional tampon or she's using you as a financial mugu or shes keeping you incase if her now boyfriend doesn't later marry her, or she's keeping you as her second option or she's using you to pass through life e.g exam success, promotion, finances or she's keeping you as a free food man especially when she's hungry then she'll remember you or she's keeping you as her status viewer e.t.c the list goes on and on.

If you know about women nature you won't like them neither will you hate them rather you'll remain indifference. They don't love rather they are pure opportunists. Every women that have existed on this planet earth are opportunists, they can't love and dont know how to do it. What's happening in the west gives a perfect definition of how women are opportunists i.e marry a rich man or a celebrity then divorce him in a few months or years then claim half of his properties and monthly allowance that she didn't suffer with him for when he was struggling.

The only love that women have is SELFISH-LOVE.


Finally, You can't be wise and be in love at the same time.


Speaking from ugly experience that happened to ur dad.

Every care, attention and money ur father spent on ur mother, and you are waste and muguwise".
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Ferdinandu(m): 11:41am On Sep 14
seunoladele:


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Out of every Ben Carson, Cosmas, Mensah there are millions of Men who got disillusioned with life with the idea of "just get married and everything will take care of itself as time gets by". In a place like Nigeria if you don't want to end up in Poverty for the rest of your life don't ever get married and start bringing children to this world if you don't have some measure of planned out life. The kind of poverty I'm seeing in this country, it is better you live out your life in comfort without raising a family than living with a family with Nigeria kind of poverty. Angela Merkel never had children though a partner, same with Macron of France, Kamala Harris who is close to becoming American President don't have children but all these people are living their lives to the fullest without Children. In a place like Nigeria just make sure you secure the bag than Marriage. You can always get a partner or children at any time with your money but, you see that kind of Nigerian poverty, if you fail into it you are likely doomed to poverty for life. Don't let Motivational speakers deceive you. If a woman marries you because of your money, it is still okay if she is still loyal, you can always send her parking at anytime if she becomes disloyal. Ned Nwoko knows Regina married him because of his money but they are still happy, Same with Oshiomole and his wife, Hon Ukachukwu and his wife. So Bleep this kind of motivation

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by advanceDNA: 11:43am On Sep 14
Healthrelatedjo:
Lol...I'll get married to a beautiful God fearing woman,have kids and enjoy my family ijn...na u Sabi wetin dey pursue u from enjoying marital life.

If u use the criteria of God fearing woman marry for this modern times....u don run urself street.....

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Fiscus105(m): 11:44am On Sep 14
MadPolitician:
Most of these gals are unmarriageable
Let's face the facts.
Their mothers trained them to challenge every man on every topic.
Things start to go south while at the dating stage because she has to act gangsta to represent mama.


What about ur own sisters? Have you blamed your mother too for her failure to training her well?

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by advanceDNA: 11:44am On Sep 14
Fiscus105:



Speaking from ugly experience that happened to ur dad.

Every care, attention and money ur father spent on ur mother, and you are waste and muguwise".

Why are u guys so quick to insult pples fathers and mothers just to make a point?

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by diamond68: 11:46am On Sep 14
Acekidc4:


What's this one saying🙄 we are saying A you're saying B........like are you ok🤔
why you wanna be around many women in your house ? Madness mate . Be around drama all day. You know women love drama
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Fiscus105(m): 11:52am On Sep 14
advanceDNA:


Why are u guys so quick to insult pples fathers and mothers just to make a point?



Why guys are quickly, to say trash?
In every action thr is always reaction.

Check the guy comment, you will know he is comming from ugly upbringing.

If you know how to talk, remember someone also know how to give u the same amount of reply.

This is public forum, if everyone leaving them to have free useless opinions,.....they would mislead thousands of people now and in future.

many teenagers getting wrong brainwashing from social media and you should also remember, the comments are thre for several years to come for people to read and get either encouragement or discouragement.

If you blame society, you should endeavour to remember that you and others contribute to such decay in society

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by gabbytabby: 11:58am On Sep 14
Why will a real man sit idly and be comfortable being feed by a woman for 5 years you will even loose the respect of your children there should always be a plan b job you can do while planning for your next big break that is why your youth is the phase for foundation building to learn different skills. Your employability and work ethics, your honesty, diligence and humility also come into play.

A job is what you use to look after your family first if you are lucky to get a job that you enjoy doing that is a bonus.

You should always have a plan to move from employment to accumulation to self sufficiency where money then works for you. That is why I no understand this vision less young men running round town chasing skirt upside down. You are what you invest your time on.

The woman is really the price just make sure you get a good committed woman or man the one you would be proud to model your children after and your journey of life will be pleasurable.

You are your children ancestor so be intentional about your choice most marriages are two young people building together just know that you will reap what you sow. How exciting it will be to look back at 60 and know how you have done it your way and come out the other side really proud of yourself.



Offpoint1:
No matter how modern woman loves you, she can never feed you, pay bills and take care of family for over 5 years, without you getting her full wrath and that of her family.

Only men can take responsibilities of women for eternity without bending.


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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Quebec91(m): 12:01pm On Sep 14
cheesy
ForUrgentSale:
I've removed every thought of marriage or having kids from my mind. I just want to live whatever time I have left and leave this wicked world. I don't care about legacies anymore
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Quebec91(m): 12:01pm On Sep 14
cheesy
TheBreastSucker:
Being single gives you opportunity to suck different breasts grin
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by ednut1(m): 12:02pm On Sep 14
The economy is so bad that rich and comfortable are having 3-4 side chicks . While the average man without money or looks stick to olosho, masturbation or naive young girls 😭

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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Quebec91(m): 12:03pm On Sep 14
cheesy i tell you
Chimarto:
The issue is money no matter how you may paint it. If I can feed well I don't mind marryin, I'm running away from marriage because of the evil government we currently have and I cannot bring somebody's daughter to come and suffer with me just because I married her the worst thing that would happen to a man is to be married to a woman who doesn't have any source of income to support. So when you look at those various parameters you rather prefer to be single and stay on your own at a point in time I've advised myself that I may not even married if the economy continue getting worst.

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