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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by MadPolitician: 12:09pm On Sep 14 |
Fiscus105: Fortunately, i have no sisters. Just agile and well trained brothers. Lucky me! What are you going to say again? 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Ojagun(m): 12:12pm On Sep 14 |
ForUrgentSale: Very Good 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by 0neal(m): 12:17pm On Sep 14 |
Haydens: You finish work with this writeup The present times, necessitates smart measures to prevent being scammed in the name of fickle romantic love. Genuine desire can't be negotiated 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by sweetkev(m): 12:25pm On Sep 14 |
Roger3D:Government policies also have effect on individuals and homes. 4 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by 0neal(m): 12:26pm On Sep 14 |
Fela Durotoye parents were middle class well to do and gave him a solid foundation. He was working and earning a decent pay prior to meeting his wife. His wife Tara was already in business, before he got married to her. He doesn't belong to that list 4 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by livinbygrace: 12:27pm On Sep 14 |
To the single mean out there,dont ever marry a broke girl,i mean a lady that is not contributing anything .It wont end well! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by TossTos: 12:29pm On Sep 14 |
Hmmm , this is very serious.. |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Roger3D(m): 12:30pm On Sep 14 |
sweetkev:They sure do |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Drone95(m): 12:35pm On Sep 14 |
Op na ur own u talk o me I no dey hear anything o
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Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by sweetkev(m): 12:38pm On Sep 14 |
Roger3D:Funny but true. Its so sad there have been a lot of divorce cases under President Tinubu regime due to the current hardship in the country. 3 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by samuelson06(m): 12:48pm On Sep 14 |
seunoladele: You are a very bad relationship coach. 3 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by felixzo1(m): 12:54pm On Sep 14 |
Chimarto:the some body daughter is already suffering in her house 2 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Solcampbell: 12:57pm On Sep 14 |
jeff1993: Bro, how do I go about this? I'll be 30 next year and I just got admission to study medicine and surgery in a Fed. University after completing my studies some five years ago. That means I'll be a doctor in the next seven years, all things been equal, (in the absence of strikes and all). I'll be around 37 years at the time. Since the course is very demanding and don't require distractions and also couple with the fact that I'm not that financially bouyant. Also considering the kind of young ladies we have today, it's difficult to find a lady whose understanding and supportive. And I need all the focus and attention I could get while pursuing my dream. Initially I've been thinking of getting married in my level two or three, but I'm now begining to have serious second thoughts and postpone marriage till I finish my program. Buuuutttt! I really love children! And I think seven years is too long a wait to have my own. Even though na just one pikin i get for now from now till when i graduate, I swear e go sweet me die! Infact my child will give me more motivation to continue to push harder no matter the obstacles towards the realisation of my dreams, since I'm doing the family I'll raise in the future. But the problem is I don't even have a girlfriend. Infact, I'm still a virgin. I live in a very conservative society ( core north). You can't just be moving around or dating a girl or sleeping with her. You must marry her first. As the matter be like this, I no get money for marriage talk more of getting stuck with a lady whose not working or running a business, a lady who will sit at home waiting for the man to fulfil all her financial needs, even though na Maggi she wan buy. ( Most northern women are like this) But I can definitely take care of one or two kids while I continue schooling. I have a side hustle ( freelance writing). It is from this hustle that I've been saving for my studies and I believe from it I can still provide for my kid from now till the next seven years. Abeg Boss, you know where I fit find such ladies or how I can be connected to such ladies that her and her parents can agree to such an arrangement even though she lives in another state in the south? I"m a man that keeps to my word and I'll definitely not abandon my responsibilities to her. Infact, if i get a really good lady that really did a good job in raising my kid , I wouldn't hesitate to marry her after graduation from med. school PS. I'm not an Hausa man, I'm an Edo Muslim who's very liberal. 5 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Nanalucky: 12:57pm On Sep 14 |
This days love is all about money.....no woman will love or respect you when you don't have money...... forget about all the talks...my brother get money....look for woman way go born for you..... love die the day you are out of money 14 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Lazy9jaYouth: 12:59pm On Sep 14 |
Offpoint1: Flesh and blood have not revealed this to you 2 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by professore(m): 1:00pm On Sep 14 |
seunoladele:You have spoken well. |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Cute9gerian: 1:02pm On Sep 14 |
diamond68: The fact that you can’t handle more than one Woman doesn’t mean you should project your inadequacy unto others unless you’re a female ofcourse and just straight up bitter. Polygamy has been the norm since the Dawn of time. Virtually all wealthy men that aren’t following this brain washed western ideology of life is polygamous, are you going to say they are sisified as well. It is the nature of man to handle multiple women hence the practice of polygamy and no matter how you resist, you cannot go against Nature. 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by diamond68: 1:09pm On Sep 14 |
Cute9gerian:and yet you mr many wife with your superior ideology have all chosen to japa to the white mans land.CASE CLOSED. YOU ARE DEFEATED |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by advanceDNA: 1:22pm On Sep 14 |
Fiscus105: So....u are insulting his parents because he thinks most modern women no longer love men but date and marry for financial what they would gain..?? So there is no other reason that could have made him have that view asides from having horrible parents?? So let me get this straight.....u think u are doing the society a favour by insulting his parents ?? 5 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Treasure17(m): 1:23pm On Sep 14 |
ForUrgentSale:Deep. It's well. 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by achimendy(m): 1:23pm On Sep 14 |
Chimarto: Don't let Nigerian economy determine whether you'll get married or not , we have other countries with better economies so look else where. 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by djon78(m): 1:27pm On Sep 14 |
seunoladele: You can't compare women of then with women of now A man talking of marriage must have something tangible that makes sense he's doing If you don't have any tangible thing doing I am very sorry for you The kind nagging and disrespect you will get no be small thing Have something tangible you are doing first Not just because of woman But for you to have peace of mind Be very ok for yourself Before you begin talk of woman Because woman/family Na just expenses 8 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Neduzoma123456: 1:28pm On Sep 14 |
I didn't read the rubbish up there ... But I'm sure the real reason many men are afraid to marry is because of MONEY...period. 5 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Haydens: 2:01pm On Sep 14 |
0neal: 💯💯 |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Princeton92(m): 2:07pm On Sep 14 |
Many times i wonder why i need to marry anymore..... I'M TIRED SHA 3 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by pinokio6634(m): 2:10pm On Sep 14 |
If no be for street we for no Dey see puccy at all,cos all this old men wan collect all the girls finish |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Moniya4Real(m): 2:15pm On Sep 14 |
[May wisdom not depart from you bro. God bless you and your brainy brain.quote author=Haydens post=131996268]Marriage in this generation is a scam. Every woman is always using a man in one way or the other if the man is not wise, check it out, if she's not using you as an attention giver she's using u as an emotional tampon or she's using you as a financial mugu or shes keeping you incase if her now boyfriend doesn't later marry her, or she's keeping you as her second option or she's using you to pass through life e.g exam success, promotion, finances or she's keeping you as a free food man especially when she's hungry then she'll remember you or she's keeping you as her status viewer e.t.c the list goes on and on. If you know about women nature you won't like them neither will you hate them rather you'll remain indifference. They don't love rather they are pure opportunists. Every women that have existed on this planet earth are opportunists, they can't love and dont know how to do it. What's happening in the west gives a perfect definition of how women are opportunists i.e marry a rich man or a celebrity then divorce him in a few months or years then claim half of his properties and monthly allowance that she didn't suffer with him for when he was struggling. The only love that women have is SELFISH-LOVE. Finally, You can't be wise and be in love at the same time.[/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by freakyavia: 2:16pm On Sep 14 |
funny when this country ergo this world makes it hard for young men to succeed the old are frustrating men with their leadership or display of wealth the frustration dey no be lie and motivation isn't there there is no sure hope of success and when it comes to women firstly they have population they have all the jobs by virtue of Being women also 99% keep the hookup culture alive by being available to YES MEN and the sugar daddies what is the use? 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Druss(m): 2:53pm On Sep 14 |
2 things I am telling my kids about income. 1. Get a job and start working towards financial independence 2. Do not marry someone who isn't gainfully employed or seeking gainful employment either by their hands or someone else's business. 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by SeriouslySense(m): 2:57pm On Sep 14 |
Life is not random nor meaningless, its just bad government policies that make life meaningless and poor leadership with poor capacity to think traware: |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Offpoint1: 3:25pm On Sep 14 |
gabbytabby:Read my comment again slowly... Summary is ONLY MEN LOVE, women are in for benefits. 5 Likes |
Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by AkpaMgbor(m): 4:13pm On Sep 14 |
jayce232:Only famously rich or inventive men or men who did things that 99% of most men lacked balls to do get legacies that live after them. No matter how good you are, you will not be remembered after your grand children leaves this world. But Hitler will still be remembered. Infact once you pass away from the memories of any living person you are eternally forgotten. 99% of married couples in the 1700s are no longer remembered. 2 Likes |
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