| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Psoul(m): 6:21pm On Sep 20 |
EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.
It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.
I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.
Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.
I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.
It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.
From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.
This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.
I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.
Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.
I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.
Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.
Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.
Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.
Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.
Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.
Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.
I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.
This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.
It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.
Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……
Please nairalanders, help me. Seems you come from a family of evil people. *You started developing sexual feelings for your blood sisters. *You caught your sister on a phone intimacy chat *You caught her masturbating while on call. *She asked you to come have sex with her. *You started having sex with your sister's underwears and that of other girls. This means you go about stealing girl's undies. *You graduated into full blown masturbation and womanizing. *You also delved into homosexuality. Your case is strong. Guy, are you sure you dad is not even having sex with his daughters? |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by wizod(m): 6:26pm On Sep 20 |
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by wizod(m): 6:27pm On Sep 20 |
Psoul:
Seems you come from a family of evil people.
*You started developing sexual feelings for your blood sisters.
*You caught your sister on a phone intimacy chat
*You caught her masturbating while on call.
*She asked you to come have sex with her.
*You started having sex with your sister's underwears and that of other girls. This means you go about stealing girl's undies.
*You graduated into full blown masturbation and womanizing.
*You also delved into homosexuality.
Your case is strong.
Guy, are you sure you dad is not even having sex with his daughters?
After reading your comment for someone that needs help, I saw that you need help more than him |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by icold: 6:46pm On Sep 20 |
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by criuze(m): 6:50pm On Sep 20 |
This night take a bath of warm water adding little table salt to it, read Psalm 35 and 91 into it and ask God for help
Command the water to turn into the blood of jesus, then bath with it
And trust the lord, you will see how your body will come under instant control, continue doing this you'll be liberated
This prayer is one the easiest to answer
Quote me back if you try this and testify 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by ronyman(m): 6:59pm On Sep 20 |
Every action of a man is a revelation of a spirit that lives in him or spoke to him. Gospel is your only freedom you are not the first I. This bondage and won't be the last. You need Gospel. EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.
It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.
I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.
Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.
I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.
It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.
From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.
This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.
I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.
Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.
I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.
Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.
Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.
Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.
Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.
Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.
Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.
I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.
This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.
It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.
Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……
Please nairalanders, help me. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by AngelicBeing: 7:03pm On Sep 20 |
wizod:
After reading your comment for someone that needs help, I saw that you need help more than him Hahaha, l think l agree with you, hahaha 🤣 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by GofGs: 7:06pm On Sep 20 |
Chat me up on 08166109757 for a lasting solution. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by LINTUNE(m): 7:08pm On Sep 20 |
triple996:
Mastubation is hell
Only addicts will understand
We have literally lost hope on stopping
..........but I dont mastubate with women pants or get attracted to my sister. That's a whole new level  that's sickness. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by skuribeebo: 7:09pm On Sep 20 |
You better continue. That is your cross, carry am.
If you stop, it's either you rape a baby or you have mental issue, or you die of lack of sex. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Votukpa(m): 7:11pm On Sep 20 |
EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.
It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.
I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.
Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.
I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.
It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.
From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.
This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.
I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.
Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.
I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.
Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.
Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.
Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.
Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.
Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.
Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.
I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.
This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.
It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.
Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……
Please nairalanders, help me. Bro take it easy. All is well. You're addicted that's all. Your Neurotransmitters are all out of balance that's all. You feel bad for dumb religious reasons, that's all. If you masturbate once in 3 months, that's ok. Solution: please do this. Reset your brain 3 Days hard dry fast hard but super efficacious. Do this once for three months. So for 3 days in each of the 3 months do this-isolate yourself:no food no water, no bathing, no brushing. go dryyy. On the fourth day break the fast with only lemon water. Drink this for the whole day. Then eat papaya and watermellon. This will probably bethe hardest thing you will ever do in your life. You will become normal again. Then you will ascend to the plains of God hood. Learn to meditate 1hour per day. NO pain NO gain. For all those who doubt this. Try it, it will humble all kinds of human weaknesses out of you. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by yungpowers(m): 7:17pm On Sep 20 |
Hit me on Whatsapp on zero eight one three eight eight zero zero eight two seven.
This is a deep case and no amount of discipline can save you. No matter how you try you will still fail. Hit me for solution.
God willing I will create a thread on this one day that many met be free |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by akposking(m): 7:45pm On Sep 20 |
2RightHands1Coc:
Nairaland played a part in corrupting my mind,with all this una yeye topics wey go dey pop up randomly
And what are you using two right hand and one cock for  1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Konquest: 7:45pm On Sep 20 |
EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.
It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil. My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.
I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.
Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.
I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.
It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.
From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.
This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.
I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.
Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.
I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.
Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.
Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.
Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.
Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.
Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.
Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.
I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.
This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.
It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.
Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……
Please nairalanders, help me. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Ezennia101(m): 7:56pm On Sep 20 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
If your useless prayer and useless god is working, it would have rebuked you from attacking innocent nairalanders. Too bad he failed to help you. That's why you go around showing so much bitterness on the cyberspace
I'm sorry for allowing my emotions take a better part of me and I never meant to insult you or show any form of bitterness but the guy clearly stated he is tired of what he's indulging in which is draining him so much and want a way out to stop it. You giving him reasons to continue is purely evil which is why I rebuked you without any insult. As for the God am serving you can't fathom his benevolences upon me and am more than greatful to him. I'm not perfect but I still maintain my stand which is masturbation is evil and nothing on Earth can ever justify evil even if am the one indulging in it, evil is evil.
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Ezennia101(m): 7:59pm On Sep 20 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
If your useless prayer and useless god is working, it would have rebuked you from attacking innocent nairalanders. Too bad he failed to help you. That's why you go around showing so much bitterness on the cyberspace
I'm sorry for allowing my emotions take a better part of me and I never meant to insult you or show any form of bitterness but the guy clearly stated he is tired of what he's indulging in which is draining him so much and want a way out to stop it. You giving him reasons to continue is purely evil which is why I rebuked you without any insult. As for the God am serving you can't fathom his benevolences upon me and am more than greatful to him. I'm not perfect but I still maintain my stand which is masturbation is evil and nothing on Earth can ever justify evil even if am the one indulging in it, evil is evil. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by NairalandGossip: 8:11pm On Sep 20 |
EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.
It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.
I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.
Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.
I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.
It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.
From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.
This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.
I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.
Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.
I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.
Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.
Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.
Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.
Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.
Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.
Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.
I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.
This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.
It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.
Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……
Please nairalanders, help me. Check out the book on my signature and be free. It saved me too |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by EagleMenage: 8:14pm On Sep 20 |
NairalandGossip:
Check out the book on my signature and be free. It saved me too I would, thank you. |
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by lacasera14(m): 8:43pm On Sep 20 |
For you to keep masturbating even when you have a wife makes it a more serious problem. Whenever the spirit comes you can just unleash it on your wife rather than masturbate. The goal is to cum and you can cum with your wife. Why your wife can't satisfy but your fingers makes it a more spiritual affair. You need deliverance. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Donpraiz: 8:56pm On Sep 20 |
Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. (2 Corinthians 5:17)
My brother go and meet a very strong man of God deliverance
Let the man of God lead you to Christ .
Immediately you accept Jesus as your Lord and personal savour.
immediately masturbation will leave to alone
There is no connection with the kindom
light and the kindom of darkness.
After your deliverance start serving God, and start worshipping in any Bible believing church and also belong to a department in church that will help your spiritual life
Have it in mind that masturbation is from the Marine kindom and you have been married to a marine wife unknown to you.
That is why I recommend you going for deliverance by a strong man of God.
This is the only way you can be set free by accepting Jesus as your Lord and personal savour.
God bless you. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Okechinwadike: 8:57pm On Sep 20 |
faebenezer5star:
First you will start using touch light phone first then Start fasting 6-3pm everyday for one month,but in each day you break your fast eat only fruit and water on the next day after fasting then eat food like that. You eat after every one day then contact me after 15days into it. Don't forget to pray one hour every night from 2am to 3am . Is there any possibility of stopping As you stated? |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by prizeless(m): 9:03pm On Sep 20 |
No one here can help, only GOD can |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Medici777: 9:11pm On Sep 20 |
Waist problem? |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by chazon(m): 9:16pm On Sep 20 |
I was once in ur shoe
Struggled with it for over 13yrs
Even as a married man when wife is away
But when I did the following:
I drew closer to GOD and started serving in a unit devotedly
Took fast of consecration too
God busy with work
That was all
Try this steps, it works
God will give you grace man 1 Like 1 Share 
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by budaatum: 9:25pm On Sep 20 |
ngwababe:
How was he abused at home? His sister wanted to fuq him. A consequence of putting boys and girls in the same room. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by budaatum: 9:47pm On Sep 20 |
chazon:
I was once in ur shoe
Struggled with it for over 13yrs
Even as a married man when wife is away
But when I did the following:
I drew closer to GOD and started serving in a unit devotedly
Took fast of consecration too
God busy with work
That was all
Try this steps, it works
God will give you grace man A Roc! Though I couldn't find a free download for The Secrets of Mind Power: The Secret of Success and Other Essential Works: (The Library of Spiritual Wisdom)
Book by William Walker Atkinson, his other books are here. https://www.globalgreyebooks.com/william-walker-atkinson-books.html 
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Stevo35: 10:10pm On Sep 20 |
No be juju be that? Go and reconcile with your village people. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Loverboi2cute(m): 10:15pm On Sep 20 |
D last time i masturbated was last year on d 31st Dec 2023 (CrossOver day)
... b4 then I had been a chronic masturbator ever since i passed out of secondary school in 2014;
dat 2014, i released my 1st semen while pleasuring myself... pressing dikkk hard as I dey explour new sensation (home alone after WAEC)
2015 was worst!! It can be termed a year dedicated to soapy
... 2 or 3 times everyday (daily cycle oo)
after am back from Computer school (was always mesmerized by d hot girls in my Computer department... hence fantasized to dat)
When later, I started working in TradeFair in my momsy friend's Store... started earning salary, bought Android phone.... started accessing Pornography seamlessly & it was a new turning point... Fapped to d erotic videos like crazy
Every year by year, d story was always d same... Whenever i start progressing on a clean sheet, KaBOOM !! l will always relapse/fall back to wanking gbola
I thought i was a crazy lunatic
It made me weak after d act
Made me lack confidence
Looking lekpa
Constant masturbation made me sexualize gurls... & Lack d drive to woo a girl
I remember all those numerous nights when I sub MTN night special (N50 for 500MB)
I go sub d maximum 2GB with 2H & lie down watching Bleep Red & fap dikkk from 11PM to 3AM
D next day I'll be spent & feeling exhausted... and i no even dey fat at all
So make i fast forward guys:
After I self-service on d Evening of 31st December 2023 (last year),,, I follow my guy go CrossOver Service wey girl invite us to
(E been get babe wey my guy dey woo for WhatsApp with my help... dat nightfall she video called from d church,,, said we should start coming.... already secured seat for us)
so we enter road, fly bike dat night go Ago
We land for ZION MINISTRY
***To be continued below ↓↓↓ |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by galantjoe(m): 10:17pm On Sep 20 |
Every boy masturbates or has masturbated in the past. So don't feel you re alone. a lot of us have passed thru same thing.
So to stop it, be determined. Stop those remembering fantasies that cause you to masturbate. Be focused, engaged in activities that will keep your mind off masturbation.
If you trust your wife as one that can protect your confidentiality and help you to over it, tell her. Otherwise dont. |
| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Loverboi2cute(m): 10:18pm On Sep 20 |
I met a mammoth crowd right from d Estate gate leading to d church.... several frustrating minutes, we eventually linked up with d girl, squeezed our way through ppl...past security and went to our secured seats...
Dat night inside d church, it was as if d whole Lagos converged there @ once...It was so choked up... Energetic youths, Electrifying Atmosphere
I haven't seen such gathering in my life
Fast forward to when d Pastor came on stage: Prophet Ebuka Obi,,,
His Preaching was captivating
He made us to enter Covenant with God pertaining d new year
He urged us to point out somethings dat we use to do and drop dem... Dat we should keep maintain d Covenant by not going back to our old patterns
Made us understand d implications of breaking covenant....
Omoh, I mentioned abstinence from Formication, Masturbation and swore to keep dem as my Covenant
Fast forward,,, any time am urged to self-service, d fear of breaking my Covenant pops into my head and I'll discontinued and return back my mamber.
It was a very hard painful battle
Fast forward... D urge/Addiction don dey die off sef
Thanks to Prophet Ebuka Obi... U made me took covenant on dis one
U put fear in my body...of d consequences of breaking my Covenant
It was a tough discipline act
I don't see any sane reason to masturbate again
I have confidence unlike before
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| Re: How Do I Quit This Negative Addiction Ruining My Life? by Psoul(m): 10:25pm On Sep 20 |
wizod:
After reading your comment for someone that needs help, I saw that you need help more than him I think your own problem has no solution. Why didn't you use the time you used to respond to me to proffer solution to him. Anu mpam. |
