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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:01pm On Sep 23
Philosopher1979:


A post wall woman
1. Needs to beg her way into relationship.
2. Not complain if she has to share her man with other women.
She is not in the market anymore.
Now you are saying it is the other way round.
The way post wall women have turned the table in modern times is amazing. In traditional african culture that people say is primitive, a woman has to be a virgin before any man can take her serious. Now ex prostitutes and damaged women are been begged. Its phenomenal.
Maybe our forefathers knew something we didn't know.


Exactly the Mordern sexual market place is highly bastardized Martinez39s wrote about it, I would look for the post and put it here, ugly girls, prostitutes, ex-prostitutes, post wall women, non virgins, fat women, damaged women, hoes now have more market appeal than the majority of average and poor men, due to innate sexual urge which makes men chase and simp, rise in feminism, globalisation, poverty, most men settle for scraps, that's if they manage to get anything at all

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:06pm On Sep 23
Martinez39s:
From the early beginnings of human history to the time things got more comfortable and safe, and as things are getting more comfortable and safe, one of the games of women is clear:

(1) to continuously and increasingly absolve women from any responsibility or obligation to bring anything to the table in relationships while maintaining women's standard for men's performance. (and even increasing it and making it more one-side.) This is even made socially acceptable.

(2) to continuously increase the power of women in relationships/marriage, give them authority in relationships/marriage, and short change men even as the traditional standard for male performance and achievement is maintained,

(3) as it follows from (1), to make it okay and socially acceptable for women not to improve in character, manners and attitude, and not to seek to contribute in a relationship etc. Men are supposed to be satisfied with them just being females and consider themselves lucky to have a female as they (men) fulfill their traditional roles without the authority that comes with it; men are even supposed to provide 100% and even do the chores even if the wife is a stay-at-home wife. Any suggestions that the man must provide and protect is approved; but it considered misogynistic to suggest that stay-at-home wives with providing husbands should do the chores.

(4) While the standards men must meet before they are selected for a long-term relationship are maintained, and are even increasingly increased, that of women are dropping and are intended to be nonexistent eg. unlike before, a woman doesn't have to be a virgin to be considered for LTR; unlike before, many men are dating and marrying single mothers; unlike before, many men don't mind dating a woman older than them; unlike before, many men don't go for young, fresh women, they are having something serious with evening newspapers; unlike before, men are having no problem with a woman with high body counts; unlike before, men are assisting in house chores even as they pay 100%; unlike before, men are okay with a woman who is barren etc. However, broke men stand no chance, as it has been from the beginning.

(5) Women are supposed to have standards, but men are not. Men are supposed to accept anything, while women can pick and change their minds as they please.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:27pm On Sep 23
Skepticus:


The "Desperate for your commitment" part reminds me to inform men (who care to read/listen) that men who are on their purpose or indifferent to women and are getting choosing signals (Green Light) from women should be highly observant and try to understand the deep underlying reasons why women are choosing them.

Most men who are on their purpose, bettering themselves (making money, building status etc) give off "provider" vibes which attracts mostly women who are there to enjoy the "provision", not the man or his essence. In fact, most choosing signals (Green Light) from women are manipulative. Only a few, are genuine.

Like I said in some of my past comments on this thread, nothing bad in making your money or improving your status to attract women to you (though, there is a large segment of men who encourage minimalism/less flashiness or show off, when it comes to the red pill and it helps in sieving out manipulative gold diggers from "seriously-interested" women) but it is WISDOM to get what you want from her (especially if she is there to Gold Dig or giving Manipulative Green Lights) spending little or nothing. If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man.

Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 7:52pm On Sep 23
Philosopher1979:


Cold approach
1. Eliminates scarcity mentality. I mean when you k ow you can get ladies at anytime no lady can do shajara for you. You already have 15 girls on your WhatsApp you sex chat with or say high to.

2. With cold approach, you simply emanate confidence and sexusl energy. Ladies pick up your confidence and easily fall for you. I don't k ow maybe it's psychology or body language but the confidence you get from cold approach is infectious.

3. A lot is simos need cold approach to build up their confidence and end scarcity mentality. Scarcity mentality, lack of confidence and inability to assert themselves is the bane of simps. This is the disease cold approach cures.


You hit every point bro!!! but there is something else cold approach does to you. There is something else I have been able to unlock about myself.

I don't know if other people have been able to unlock it but that's what I want to share when I create the thread. It's was a total mindset shift. As in you no go even get anxiety about approaching again. (I'm just working on a way to arrange the thread in a structural way)

Also as I said before. I usually get choosing signal like once a year. My guy the rate of choosing signal wey I dey get this days should be more than times 10 of that.

I think women just start sensing the aura.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:56pm On Sep 23
If you are afraid of loosing a girl, you have already lost her, if you like a girl more than she likes you, you have already lost her, if you simp for a girl you have already lost her, if you act stupidly because of a girl you have already lost her, if you use money to get a girl commitment you have already lost her

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 8:18pm On Sep 23
Men are even simping for single moms like as if they don't respect their seed, no dignity, no self worth, sexually thirsty, sexually frustrated, what nonsense

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 8:31pm On Sep 23
JESHAL007:

Tr
This guy you really know how to dig for post😂

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lintonite: 9:15pm On Sep 23
Trp is golden
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 4:31pm On Sep 24
Smartb0y:

You both got a point lumi.

On the baseline,it depends on why she's with you in the first place.
Quite alright,we understand women want a provider, someone that'll do all the hardwork while they get the glory.
However, even cases when the man doesn't lose his wealth but ends up losing the woman is due to a very common factor.
"That which got her attracted to him is no more there" , there's no mystery, nothing left to discover about the guy.
When advertisy comes, it's a test of a man's strength and seeing a man be a man in the face of adversity turns her hot.
She would be very curious hence on the long stay the course while he's trying to pick himself back up.

A woman doesn't want and most definitely doesn't need another woman in a relationship with her.
She wants to feel like a woman,she wants a man she can throw all her baggages at and he won't shake.

On this forms the baseline as regards attraction on a natural scale.

Attraction born out of power/money is almost always superficial.
It never last,why because nothing beats natural.
Nature is a bitch,you can't cheat her, instead learn to fuvk her well so you can have your way(referring to nature grin)

All in all,if the man uses money to keep the relationship going or attract her,it won't last.
If it was born out of something natural, there's a possibility it might stand the test of time.

As usual, choose your poison wisely.

Yeah, u sure are. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 4:41pm On Sep 24
Perfectskills01:


Girls can have sex with a guy they ain't dating . How you approach her matters . That is why if you want just the sex , you must approach from the right angle .

Let's see how 5 guys approached one girl and they all end up having sex with her, although they approached from different angles .

1st guy approached by being just a friend , then it led to relationship and he ended up having sex with her . What you must consider about this first guy is that , he must have spent a lot of time , trying his best and buying stuffs , this might take months or years before he got laid .

2nd guy approached her because she has a problem of accommodation or financial issue . He used her presence issue to bargain sex with her and she gave it up

3rd guy approached with friend and benefit intention. She later succumbed as long as the guy keeps providing, she gave up her coochie to keep him providing

4th guy was chosen, he is her spec, she gets wet just by thinking of him . The guy got the chosen signal and approached , she put up little resistance and later gave up the coochie.

5th guy was a straight shooter. He approached with sexual intentions ( direct game ) . On making his sexual intentions known , at first she got angry and resisted him . With some persistence , she gave up the coochie.

What you need to understand here is that all the 5 guys approached her from different angles, although they got laid . All road leads to sex . It depends on the road you choose to follow.

How you want it to go is how you should start with her , if she doesn't accept immediately, with little persistence, she will succumb or run completely.

Maintain how you started. If you deviate you will spoil the game . For example, it's wrong to accept to date a girl when you have already started with friend with benefits, vice versa . If she doesn't agree with your starting, next her , don't settle for what you didn't start with .

And if you have started with indirect method, better maintain it till end , because if you now start going direct, vice versa, you will ruin the game and she will run away .

This is applicable to all of them. They can have sex with different guys who approach them from different angles. Know your angle, it matters .

Puka, this u?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by abba190: 10:33pm On Sep 24
so this thread still exists? grown up men wasting thier time discussing women

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 5:40am On Sep 25
Perfectskills01:


Cold approach is for newbies to build confidence, nothing more . If you expect to get girls that meets your expectations, then cold approach will ruin you . So I approve your cold approach ideology because you intend to focus on building confidence.

One of the best way to get girls genuinely interested in you is through social circles. What do I mean here. I mean that when you see a girl you find sexually attractive and you want her , don't cold approach her . Instead, use social circle to get to her . It is not the confidence you lack to cold approach her , you only obey the simple rule of the game .

Don't cold approach her if you are serious to get her

Once you see her , gather some information about her . Know her house , know where she works , know her friends, know the people she is close to etc . This information will go a long way to easily get her attracted to you without the chance of her manipulating you .

How to use social circle to get a girl

Those people close to her have much influence on her and decide what she does most of the time . Getting close to her social circle will make things easy to get close to her and strike conversation freely without her being on guard and defensive .

Cold approach will likely ruin your game because she will be on guard against strangers , she will hide many things for you and a stranger is a easy target . On cold approach, you are a complete stranger even if you have seen each other many times .

Most ruined relationships and dating for men are mostly started on cold approach. A rich guy with ride will easily get a girl , but these girls won't be genuinely interested in them because they cold approached these girls . Most of the girls that don't give us issues are often gotten through social circles, maybe your place of work , a friend of her introduced you, her sister linked her , your friend introduced you , you got her through your neighbor or from the church . This is social circle, it's much free from ladies manipulation and ungenuine of women's interest .

So a wise man with good game don't cold approach girls he seriously wants to get , instead he finds out the people close to her or events that can link them to talk like an old friends

It's not about the confidence you lack to cold approach is about obeying the simple rules of the game . Cold approach is fraught with too much manipulation and ungenuine love .


However, cold approach is useful for newbies to build confidence. Is like a baby step in the game . The game is deep beyond cold approach.

I know this may work for you but I disagree. I see it as a waste of time and energy to be gathering info about her work, house, friends and all that...how many girls will you do that for? I believe in taking the bull by the horns...just approach her and talk...if she likes you,fine, if not, you haven't lost anything.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:53am On Sep 25

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:10am On Sep 25
Fisher007:


My fellow redpill brother, they will learn. You see marriage is a scam no matter how you want to see or sell it to any logical and reasonable person.

The lady knows time is clicking . She senses the undefeated wall even if she can't understand what exactly is the wall. Her mum knows too that the attention and charades around her daughter is going down.

In Asia most women over 25 are leftovers women. Men don't care about them. In Pakistan you don't even exist at that age. Even the Muslim men here in Nigeria literally just marry the old one just to have an haram of ladies. In the US guys now pump and dump girls above that age. In Saudi Arabia/ UAE they just use them for fetish potty potty party. The reality is women brought this upon themselves.

Why marry? When you literally take responsibility of an entitled creature without rationale thinking. You pay for everything in most cases, you must provide and protect, you are basically growing a pet ( invincible- Omni man reference lol). All they do is form love to you after all their past years of riding the cock carousel. Then they bring more trauma and emotional baggage to your life.

I am happy for those Marrying Sha. There must be Adam ( the provider/ husband) and there must be the serpent ( the Uncle, ex boyfriend, just a friend, colleague, gym buddy, driver and red pill brothers). No wonder everyone especially the male attendee at the wedding says our wife. Lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:18am On Sep 25
I hate when a man is expending so much time, energy, and mental power just to get a girl either for relationship or sex, especially when the girl is showing little or no signs of interest. This really annoys me

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:40am On Sep 25
This is why a lot of guys need the redpill, it saves lives. I’ve heard about men who take their own lives when their gf/partner leaves them out of scarcity mindset, simply because they feel they can not have a replacement, don’t be like them. Take the redpill everyday like your daily meal.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:50am On Sep 25
After all you’ve read, it might be tempting to
think: This stuff is great. I get it. I’m a redpiller. But it’s not that easy. Just because you agree with the philosophy doesn’t mean
the roots have fully taken hold in your mind.

Fooling with books so you can sound smart or have an intimidating library is like tending a garden to impress your neighbors. Growing one to feed a family? That’s a pure and
profitable use of your time. The seeds of redpill are long underground. Do the work required to nurture and tend to them. So
that they— and you—are prepared and sturdy for the hard winters of life.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 8:22am On Sep 25
ubunja:
exactly. Go where you're celebrated. It's a simple enough concept, but the way guys struggle with it you would think it's rocket science.

Maybe many guys don't see themselves as loveable that they feel they have to force a girl or buy her love for her to love them. Any man can be an alpha if he seeks a woman who sees him as alpha. Simple ABCs. It's always about how a woman sees you. Plus women are turned on by the strangest things due to their upbringing and histories. So it's not even that you try to impress a woman, but something about you automatically impresses her before you even try. Many men will be surprised if they ask their GF, "what is it about me that you like". Cause the things they think impress are not the things that actually impressed.
I once talked to a girl I found was attracted to me. And I thought it was how I looked. Until she told me that everytime I mentioned the phrase "sex without condoms" her pussy dripped like a tap. She was a huge fan of raw sex. And here I was thinking entirely about the wrong thing. It wasn't about me per se. But About her. What turned her on.

Men must just deal with women who are turned on around them. Saves from so much heartache.



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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rillycool(m): 12:08pm On Sep 25
This one off me grin cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:31pm On Sep 25
Remember that the Mordern world is cold out there for men, the ruling elites in government and corporations are waging a war against masculinity, since men are the building block and powerhouse of civilisation, they are pushing resources, passing laws, institutionalizing policies, because of the innate hierarchical nature of men, they don't want any future competition, anything to demonize traditional masculinity, anything to control men, anything to distract men, they don't want a generation of strong men, they don't want an era of empowered men, gynocentrism, feminism, are tools in their hands, family laws, divorce laws, affirmative actions, are all instruments to subdue the men, society doesn't care about male health, nobody cares about you or love you as a man until you are powerful and successful, we always have the male burden of performance but redpill makes you aware of the game, the modern day scam of what's going on with regards to life

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:24pm On Sep 25
JESHAL007:
This is why a lot of guys need the redpill, it saves lives. I’ve heard about men who take their own lives when their gf/partner leaves them out of scarcity mindset, simply because they feel they can not have a replacement, don’t be like them. Take the redpill everyday like your daily meal.

Many years ago, when I was the chairman of Simps in my area, one girl then played a fast one on me and went to sleep with her ex. A homie then, took me to a native doctor who promised to help me bring back my girl. That her ex used charm on her. I was asked to bring 30k for the juju, this was around 2014.

So I went with my guy to buy fowl and other things for the work the native doctor will do on the girl. Omo as I reach the village market square, I told my guy let's branch to a nearby restaurant and chop first. Lo and behold this beautiful Akwa Ibom girl, the babe fine die. Almost 40k was with me that afternoon... Na so I ordered for food and the babe kept smiling at me. She served us food and jokingly said something to her madam in Efik Language. The madam laughed, so after our brief lunch, I wanted to pay, the girl still repeated the statement. Omo, her madam said okay na, maybe na person husband o. I asked them why they were laughing, her madam opened up to me that her girl said I fine like a woman, that I even fine pass woman, that she likes me o.

Long story cut short, I never returned to that native doctor place that day. Me and my guy went to a nearby betting shop, I gave him 2k to play virtual soccer, while I relaxed watching some replay of the previous weekend matches. That was the day, I stopped simping. The cow, I wanted to give native 30k in the name of snatching her back from her ex, is still roaming the streets of Nigeria, unmarried, broke, and without destination.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:26pm On Sep 25
Just resuming from break. I was banned on Saturday because of my commentary on Edo election, one PDP mod took my comment personal and banned me. grin grin

But am back from the ban grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:30pm On Sep 25
5 Reasons Why Women Don't Respect You

(Men Stop This Now)👇👇👇👇

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:31pm On Sep 25
1. Pedestalizing her - Making her the center of your universe puts you in a state of neediness and inferiority.

It shows that you are a desperate loser with zero options

When she comes across a man who doesn't hold her in high esteem, it spikes her emotions.

Never worship her.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:32pm On Sep 25
2. Not having/Weak boundaries - Women test boundaries to see where they lie.

If you've none, She'll walk all over you and try to get away with as much as she can.

Be clear and honest about your values and boundaries.

Never hesitate to put her in her fvcking place.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:32pm On Sep 25
3. Argue with her instead of removing attention - To argue with her is to leave your masculine frame and fall into her frame.

When you argue with her you give her your powers.

The only weapon you have against women is attention. Take it away, I
ignore her.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:33pm On Sep 25
4. Allowing her to lead you - Men lead, Women follow

But when you allow her to lead you and play by her rules, you lose your individuality and self respect

You keep yourself submissive and her in a dominant position.

She will start looking for man who has leadership qualities

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:34pm On Sep 25
5. You lose your masculine frame -

When:

You argue with her
You don't enforce boundaries
You're always available
You get jealous & insecure
You pedestalize her
You show emotional weakness
You ask permission
You seek attention & validation
You lick her pvssy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faber(m): 7:35pm On Sep 25
She wants a man:

- who doesn't put her on pedestal
- who wants her but doesn't need her
- who has his own mind
- who can't be tamed
- who is assertive and dominant
- who can fvck her brains out
- who doesn't beg for attention or validation
- who is not a simp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:39pm On Sep 25
Facts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by EreluRoz: 8:07pm On Sep 25
Faber:
5 Reasons Why Women Don't Respect You

(Men Stop This Now)👇👇👇👇

rest

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