So, I met this fine girl in a bank. I couldn't stopped admiring her fine dark skin, height, breast and well curved shape.

I deliberately delay leaving the bank after I was done just to talk to her. I approached her while she was leaving and asked for her number which she gave me .

We started talking and everything was okay. I told her to be my girl she said I should asked her out when we go on a date . I agreed.

She chose the venue of our date, one of the finest place in town.

On the day of our date, she booked a bolt, got there and asked me to pay . I willingly do while admiring her short dark shinning dress . Omoh she was so hot and sexy that night . I was like I don land correct baddie.

When we sat down she said she was hungry and I asked for the menu. She ordered for chicken. I remember paying 17k for that chicken alone. She even took the remaining ones home. I noticed she was more interested in the food as she brought out her phone and started making videos, taking pictures . We couldn't talk more cos she seems more interested on her phone than our conversation

We left . When I log into WhatsApp , I saw videos of our date with captions, Self Love, Took myself out today and I love it. She even posted on her Facebook story. See comments .
Then she started ignoring my chats. Conversations dropped immediately. Omoh e pain me die .

I screenshot the credit alert of the last dollar transaction I received ($980) and my dorm account balance and posted for only her to see. Few hours later she called and apologize for not responding to my calls and chats . She said she was overwhelmed cos of her rent . I asked her why she didn't inform me , she said she didn't want to start bothering me.

I told her I will see to it. She seems cool with me instantly. I immediately invited her over to my place for the weekend. She came on Friday and I made sure she went to the market alone , buy food items, cook stew and soup for me . She washed my clothes and kept my house neat.
Omoh we fvck from Friday till Monday morning before she left . I was so satisfy .
When she got home she reminded me of the rent I told her I will see to it once I received my next pay which is two weeks away. Assured her to be calm. She was calm. I invited her over again that same week and the sex continue. She is so sweet. I wish she didn't misbehave before .

Well, I blocked her after she refused to come over the 3rd time insisting I send her the rent.

Why make her cook for you, u no dey fear ni?

Sleeping with girl and eating her food, no be d same tin
Abi na any food u see u dey eat ni

illicit:
Why make her cook for you, u no dey fear ni?

I no dey fear anybody. Nah both of us go eat am

Afikoo:


I no dey fear anybody. Nah both of us go eat am

Lol

But for real, no dey allow random girls cook for u even if they are in ur house

Everything go well. Useless oaf of a girl.

ItisWell22:

Even itiswell seff shock .. You are doing well Our brotherhood... Na no loose guard season we dey

You sabi lie oo,
In that case, we proud of you brodaman, u conquered finally

Afikoo:


I no dey fear anybody. Nah both of us go eat am

A girl that ghosted you and never was interested in any form of conversation with you during your first date will never come to your house to cook for you.

Stop lying...

I was a bit angry that you paid for her bolt and also allowed her eat up to 17k on a first date but your pound of flesh at the end made me proud. My brother my brother, in whom I'm well pleased. You deserve a handshake, take it.

As a greedy girl, the $ you flashed drew her back and she got played. Don’t invite her again, just end it and move on.

illicit:


Lol

But for real, no dey allow random girls cook for u even if they are in ur house

Why?

You think life is Nollywood?

Girl wey wan harm you, go harm you. Whether she cook or she no cook. There are easier ways a wicked Nigerian girl can harm a guy, cooking is not one of them.

Nonexisting1:
I was a bit angry that you paid for her bolt and also allowed her eat up to 17k on a first date but your pound of flesh at the end made me proud. My brother my brother, in whom I'm well pleased. You deserve a handshake, take it.

If the story is true, he is still the big loser. The girl got free food, money and orgasms. He gave up his time, money, and energy just so he could put his penis in a warm hole.

Nonexisting1:
I was a bit angry that you paid for her bolt and also allowed her eat up to 17k on a first date but your pound of flesh at the end made me proud. My brother my brother, in whom I'm well pleased. You deserve a handshake, take it.

In addition to the handshake, that dude deserves a pot of yam pepper soup.

JASONjnr:


A girl that ghosted you and never was interested in any form of conversation with you during your first date will never come to your house to cook for you.

Stop lying...

When promise of house rent is involved?

I no even get anything to proof to you self

Nonexisting1:
I was a bit angry that you paid for her bolt and also allowed her eat up to 17k on a first date but your pound of flesh at the end made me proud. My brother my brother, in whom I'm well pleased. You deserve a handshake, take it.

The 17k was just for the chicken ohhh.
She order for a cup of cocktail, small chops .

When she ghosted me I was so pained to my bone. Nah why to take girl on a date now dey hard me

Zonefree:

Why?

You think life is Nollywood?

Girl wey wan harm you, go harm you. Whether she cook or she no cook. There are easier ways a wicked Nigerian girl can harm a guy, cooking is not one of them.

It's not even about harm but hygiene or even the know how to cook

Not every girl or every body can cook decently

I cant just eat from a random girl in my house, how have I been eating before she showed up

Guys still take hungry Nigerian girls on dates.

Imagine more than 20k for someone you just want to get to know, do the numbers: in a country where too many of these girls are entitled and don’t have sense, how much you wan spend before you meet someone reasonable.

Dates are not for opening wallets, you shouldn’t spend more than 5k maybe on drinks. Which is to wet the throat, from all your gist.

That babe no even loss anything, cuz the sex, you both enjoyed it. While you still paid for Uber and things (more expenses on a useless being)

JASONjnr:


A girl that ghosted you and never was interested in any form of conversation with you during your first date will never come to your house to cook for you.

Stop lying...

The money he posted on his status made her think again.

She came for the kill and he killed her instead

JASONjnr:


A girl that ghosted you and never was interested in any form of conversation with you during your first date will never come to your house to cook for you.

Stop lying...

A greedy girl would. From the story (fake or real), he treated her very well on the first date and never complained or made any fuss. Then subtly followed up immediately with account earnings proof, and then also proceeded to assure her of his willingness to take care of her rent burden when she brought it up.

Classic fish and bait.

This thread is still goated: https://www.nairaland.com/1588732/women-fishlike-behaviours

TheFreshVanilla:
As a greedy girl, the $ you flashed drew her back and she got played. Don’t invite her again, just end it and move on.

She fit kpai me if she come my house . She dey vex for me Wella

frugal:


A greedy girl would. From the story (fake or real), he treated her very well on the first date and never complained or made any fuss. Then subtly followed up immediately with account earnings proof, and then also proceeded to assure her of his willingness to take care of her rent burden when she brought it up.

Classic fish and bait.

This thread is still goated: https://www.nairaland.com/1588732/women-fishlike-behaviours

Just read that thread and I can agree with the fish and bait aspect . I have used that tactics especially screenshot of my dorm account balance to lay girls easily.

Afikoo:
So, I met this fine girl in a bank. I couldn't stopped admiring her fine dark skin, height, breast and well curved shape.

I deliberately delay leaving the bank after I was done just to talk to her. I approached her while she was leaving and asked for her number which she gave me .

We started talking and everything was okay. I told her to be my girl she said I should asked her out when we go on a date . I agreed.

She chose the venue of our date, one of the finest place in town.

On the day of our date, she booked a bolt, got there and asked me to pay . I willingly do while admiring her short dark shinning dress . Omoh she was so hot and sexy that night . I was like I don land correct baddie.

When we sat down she said she was hungry and I asked for the menu. She ordered for chicken. I remember paying 17k for that chicken alone. She even took the remaining ones home. I noticed she was more interested in the food as she brought out her phone and started making videos, taking pictures . We couldn't talk more cos she seems more interested on her phone than our conversation

We left . When I log into WhatsApp , I saw videos of our date with captions, Self Love, Took myself out today and I love it. She even posted on her Facebook story. See comments .
Then she started ignoring my chats. Conversations dropped immediately. Omoh e pain me die .

I screenshot the credit alert of the last dollar transaction I received ($980) and my dorm account balance and posted for only her to see. Few hours later she called and apologize for not responding to my calls and chats . She said she was overwhelmed cos of her rent . I asked her why she didn't inform me , she said she didn't want to start bothering me.

I told her I will see to it. She seems cool with me instantly. I immediately invited her over to my place for the weekend. She came on Friday and I made sure she went to the market alone , buy food items, cook stew and soup for me . She washed my clothes and kept my house neat.
Omoh we fvck from Friday till Monday morning before she left . I was so satisfy .
When she got home she reminded me of the rent I told her I will see to it once I received my next pay which is two weeks away. Assured her to be calm. She was calm. I invited her over again that same week and the sex continue. She is so sweet. I wish she didn't misbehave before .

Well, I blocked her after she refused to come over the 3rd time insisting I send her the rent.

Wicked man😅😅😅

Nice one Op, I see you're good at reverse psychology. I have protocol and it works for me. I prefer first date to be in my house (I won't make any move for sex) cuz it's our first date. second date eh erm I go make move. Taking a girl out on a date you're not sure if you will be serious with is waste of time n aside it makes them have entitlement mentality.

Afikoo:
she said I should asked her out when we go on a date . I agreed.

God knows I would have left her standing right there for such a dumb demand. Which one is ASK OUT.? God forbid. I have NEVER and will never do that crap. Even my wife sabi say I no dey for that trash.
Girl you wan do abi you wan stress me?

Good job, God bless you

JASONjnr:


A girl that ghosted you and never was interested in any form of conversation with you during your first date will never come to your house to cook for you.

Stop lying...

Guy they will on the premise that they are coming to collect money and run away which the dude did. If he wasn't playing her the way she is also playing him once the money gets to her hand straight block. Na Yahoo girl she be but jam street

ReacherSaidNoth:
If the story is true, he is still the big loser. The girl got free food, money and orgasms. He gave up his time, money, and energy just so he could put his penis in a warm hole.

Your view is different from that of a girl that's why you are a man, a girl doesn't see it that way. To them she has spent a million naira by opening her legs without getting money (prostitution or hypergamy). Cooking and going errands to the market is is different for them even if they are also eating the foot.

Hmmm

CORRECT BRITHER, HOW WIDE IS HER VIRGIMUS DEY?

Cunning man die, cunning man burry am, well played. Though you almost lost the game but you recovered well.

While yours is to handle logistics plus feeding, never you let a girl decide the place for the date.. talk more of dictating how much you spend. For example, I always order first and she'll naturally ask for same thing.. or a different thing but within the same budget. But anything above that budget I'm drawing the line and letting her know she'll be paying.

For a girl, seeing a huge chunk of credit alert entering your phone gets her wetter than from watching you try to impress by spending on her.