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Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by earleswood(f): 8:28pm On Sep 27 |
NIGERIAN MEN IN USA, KILLING THEIR IMPORTED WIVES FROM NIGERIA. Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America "Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota. The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.” The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl. In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children. Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement. The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores. He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight. Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace. Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education. Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head. Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious. Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife. Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed. If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them. Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her. He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and leave early with impunity.” Mr. Nwodo endured so many embarrassing moments from his wife and her mother until he could take it no more. One day, he bought himself a shotgun and killed both his wife and her mother. Caleb Onwudike’s wife, Chinyere Onwudike, 36, became a RN and no longer saw the need to be controlled by her husband. Mr. Onwudike, 41, worked two jobs to send his wife to her dream school upon bringing her to the US from Nigeria. After four years, she qualified as an RN. Once she started to make more money than her husband, she began to “call the shots” at home. She “overruled” her husband on the size and cost of the house they purchased in Burtonsville, Maryland. She began to build a house solely in her name in their native Umuahia town of Abia State, Nigeria, without her husband’s input whatsoever. Mrs. Onwudike came and went “as she liked,” within the US and outside the US. In fact, she once travelled to Nigeria for three weeks “without her husband’s permission” to lavishly bury her father, despite her husband’s protestations that they had better things to do with the money. Mrs. Onwudike let her husband know that this was mostly her money and she would spend it however she wanted. Through her hard work, she had risen to a managerial position at the medical center where she worked. Upon her return from burying her father, her husband got one of her kitchen knives and carved her up like a Thanksgiving turkey inside their home on New Year’s Day. Death is death, no matter how it comes. But the goriest of these maniacal killings is probably the one that happened here in Los Angeles, California. Joseph Mbu, 50, was tired of his RN wife’s “serial disrespect” of him. The disrespect began as soon as she became a RN. Gloria Mbu, 40, had once told her husband he must be “smoking crack cocaine” if he thought he could tell her what to do with her money now that she made more money than him. Before she became a RN, Mr. Mbu had been very strict with family finances and was borderline dictatorial in his dealings with Mrs. Mbu. However, Mrs. Mbu learned the American system and would no longer allow any man to “put her down.” When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces. Follow Ewere Okonta Blogs #EOB #everyoneシ゚ #viralpost #ewereokonta Okonta Ewere Clinton @topfans Ewere Okonta |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by Emmanuelcann: 11:46pm On Sep 27 |
Sad. Deplorable! |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by stacyadams: 1:17pm On Sep 28 |
Omo single life is the best 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by ItisWell22(f): 3:09pm On Sep 28 |
Really horrible and disheartening. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by funabite(m): 9:24pm On Sep 28 |
Some wife can put you in serious depression. But real men will always control there temper. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by electma: 12:55pm On Sep 29 |
funabite:which one b real men, rest, temper na temper as nothing to do with real men 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by Ilekokonit: 4:14pm On Sep 29 |
funabite: It takes the grace of God, EXTREME self control and a mans STRONG DESIRE to stay out of prison and to avoid the Social care system then take over his kids and mess up his kids heads for him to think twice and avoid taking laws into his own hands in these western countries when his erstwhile "good" wife that he imported from Naija suddenly goes rogue on him after he had invested his time, effort, emotions, youth and money to bring her from Nigeria and train her and provide everything for her and Thats where Beer Parlours comes in handy for any Nigerian man living in the West whose erstwhile "good" wife sufdenly goes rogue on him. Make yourself scarce in the house and there are Beer Parlours that open late into the night that you can seek refuge to avoid going home too early where things may escalate into violence (from either side) if you go home when she is still awake. Men should flee the devil and not allow the woman they took abroad send them to life imprisonment. He who fights and run away lives to fight another day and if it means moving out of the family home and going to rent a single room in a shared house FAR AWAY from where your tormentor lives, then you may just be prolonging your stay out of prison 'cos if you stay in that house where the so called wife sees you as a hindrance to her enjoying the trappings of life as a FREE single mother, you may be pushed to snapping point one day or night and you just say Bleep it and throw caution to the wind in desperation out of extreme provocation which will usually come in hurtful words thrown at you by your wife in the presence of 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by ObalendeCMS: 7:14pm On Sep 29 |
Nigerian women are VERY useless! If & when I japa, I will never "toast" a Nigerian woman. In fact, they'll look like sh!t to me. |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by aswani(m): 4:36am On Sep 30 |
Men abroad should stop coming to Nigeria to marry and if you do, stop expecting to control your wife's finances once she starts making good money. In a lot of these cases, the now liberated Nigerian women will provoke their husband's instead of filing for an amicable divorce or keeping things distant and respectful after separation. I keep saying only a small percentage of Nigerian men would resort to anger without being provoked. Those in the marraige counselling industry need to speak up and tell the truth instead of being scared of how they will be perceived. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by BlackfireX: 4:41am On Oct 01 |
E don kill am |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by Almightyprosper: 1:10pm On Oct 01 |
They're not wise. Killing them isn't the solution. Because God will not forgive you for Killing a woman that gave birth to yours seeds. He'll not. It's better to sell the house without her knowledge. Buy another one and come home drunk at least 2 months. .. find your partway. ONLY true Christian can be faithful |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by psalmylee(m): 7:10am On Oct 04 |
funabite:na u be real.man abii ? Just pray make u no encounter jezebel.. Nigeria women are all pretenders when they have nothing..wait till they big one the bread winner or highest earner in the family 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by Bullet4thiefnub: 11:22am On Oct 04 |
Na full Dey marry |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by Emma09(m): 11:00am On Oct 05 |
Recycled Story of over 5yrs ago now find its way back on Nairaland. |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by Bullet4thiefnub: 4:10pm On Oct 26 |
Ilekokonit:That’s the game , if you see where these girls talk amongst themselves, they all love the free single life with the dollar money and the house , they deliberately aim at the divorce, no matter what you hear or they tell you it is a lie , she simply wants to be free , her friends know but they keep their secret and even convince themselves that it is the man that is the problem while it is a well crafted plan approved by the board of directors 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians Killing Their Wives. by DEGABA(m): 9:02pm On Oct 26 |
Terrible |
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