I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

With you gone, they’ll be One less mouth to feed



Drop venue for your funeral before you go, that rice must not miss me

TechToyin:
I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

Imagine the best artist in this world drawing a very beautiful art
Can the pencil he use draw another thing from the thoughts of the artist?
Just maybe sometimes we forget that we are nothing but pencils in the creators hands and we give ourselves too much importance leading to too much pressures
We often forget that we are clay and dust that are supposed to help build Gods kingdom
OP give life another chance but remember that you are nothing but clay moulded to be used by the creator
Don’t mind all this people who have taken their places and treasures here already they have gotten their rewards already
I want you to live again and give your life to Jesus Christ
For only in him can you find salvation,regeneration and all you need
Like I said first he is that great artist and you are nothing but pencil all used to draw Gods plan for his creations
Understand your purpose
And ask him to come and help you

TechToyin:
I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

I beg you in the name of who you worship, drop that thought. I have evidence that most people that committed suicide regrate it before death.

udede:
I beg you in the name of who you worship, drop that thought. I have evidence that most people that committed suicide regrate it before death.

I am heavily indebted

Zaheertyler:

Imagine the best artist in this world drawing a very beautiful art
Can the pencil he use draw another thing from the thoughts of the artist?
Just maybe sometimes we forget that we are nothing but pencils in the creators hands and we give ourselves too much importance leading to too much pressures
We often forget that we are clay and dust that are supposed to help build Gods kingdom
OP give life another chance but remember that you are nothing but clay moulded to be used by the creator
Don’t mind all this people who have taken their places and treasures here already they have gotten their rewards already
I want you to live again and give your life to Jesus Christ
For only in him can you find salvation,regeneration and all you need
Like I said first he is that great artist and you are nothing but pencil all used to draw Gods plan for his creations
Understand your purpose
And ask him to come and help you

You wouldn't understand

Share your story. Talk to someone.

NoahHadNoArk:
With you gone, they’ll be One less mouth to feed

Drop venue for your funeral before you go, that rice must not miss me

Be careful with your words. What you wish unto others …

TechToyin:
I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

I've been there. But then again, there is hope as long as you have life. Things will not always be like this forever, it's just a phase of life that everyone goes through, yet there's another phase were things will fall in place for you. So cheer up my friend and keep pushing. Na who give up Bleep up.

udede:
I beg you in the name of who you worship, drop that thought. I have evidence that most people that committed suicide regrate it before death.

I’m not encouraging suicide but what are the evidence that those who committed suicide regretted it after death?

@op…stay strong

Drop the thought guy.. get busy, travel to a different location and free your mind from worries
You must fulfil your destiny in life, so don't kill yourself. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, keep faith.

Let me tell you one secret, if you commit suicide, immediately you take ur last breath and open your eyes to the other side of the world an angel will show you millions of people on earth going through worse difficulties than you went through that made you committed suicide but they are still calling on God and hoping for a better tomorrow. Before you will open your mouth to beg for second chance demons will welcome you in ......

flokii:
Drop the thought guy.. get busy, travel to a different location and free your mind from worries
You must fulfil your destiny in life, so don't kill yourself. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, keep faith.

.... I am heavily indebted

When a suicide survivor I know penned down his thoughts after survival, one line I read that has stuck with me is "after I took those substances, the pain set in that very moment, I knew I didn't want to die" of course he survived, but had to suffer months of pain in the hospital and now trying to live again and happy for a second chance. Unfortunately, not everyone gets that chance at the first attempt, posting here shows that you don't really want to die, LIVE, please LIVE, you will see beauty in life and you'd remember the days you thought all of them gone.

TechToyin:
I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

Do you have parents?
Do you have siblings?
Do you have any one who RAISED you and taught you to be a MAN?


LIFE IS FULL OF CHALLENGES....... that make us BETTER, that also separates the weak from the strong.

You made terrible choices that led you to this point of considering suicide.... now you want to escape the reality of your past decisions. IT WON'T WORK.


Why not GET A JOB, pay your loans, get someone to PROPERLY MENTOR YOU AND DISCIPLINE YOU in the right path SO THAT YOU CAN OVERCOME YOUR ADDICTIONS TO QUICK MONEY.

You are YOUNG AND THERE IS SO MUCH GLORY IN YOUR FUTURE, THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU.

Whatever made you consider suicide is not actually worth it.

Just make up your mind, and get to work, step by step you will be a better man.

Why do you want to commit.

TechToyin:


I am heavily indebted

even Nigeria is heavily indebted so bro or sis,just be calm we all know right now things are not easy but that doesn't mean suicide is an option.... remember garri with sugar and kwili kwili who you want die leave for

I have been there.
When ridicule, failure or downfall keep staring you in the face helplessly, ending it all might appear just the shorter option.

But remember dear, we have all learnt through life that the shorter way is not usually the right or safest way out. It is indeed the longest or in fact a no-way to succour, because in the end, the problem, the people and circumstances have not disappeared, you have only managed to delete your very promising self. In which case, You would have lost it here and most likely hereafter.

I can only recommend the way I took which helped me out:
- Embrace Christ: What brings suicidal thought is not the problem itself, but the loss of peace when you remember the situation you are in. And I can guarantee you, there is a toltal peace that comes when we yield to the Saviour and allow Him bear the burdens. THIS IS REAL, NOT IMAGINARY please! Even if the problem doesn't vanish like drastically, you are guaranteed inner comfort, an infallible lead per time and a sure companion.
- Brace up for the worst: I agree that if nothing is done about the continued pile up of your debt, it may spell terrible consequences e.g incarceration,
loss of collateral properties and reputation, physical harm etc. all these I have had to be confronted with. Yes, but it won't likely be death.
- Like right now, withdraw from everything you can't control or safeguard e.g your good name, people's reation if the worst happens etc
-Dwell On the Minors - There are some very little legitimate things that has always given you bits of happiness. Please do them if possible
- Approach the debt from the littlest: Looking at a mountain from the peak would discourage even the best climber, but the real victory starts in pacing along right from the very foot

Remember: It not over until God says it is, and certainily you are still here only because He hasn't said it is over.
We keep pushing

You can pay me, I would do it for you, we just set up the date

udede:
I beg you in the name of who you worship, drop that thought. I have evidence that most people that committed suicide regrate it before death.

How, then why did they proceed?

thumbsme:
I have been there.
When ridicule, failure or downfall keep staring you on the face helplessly, taking the shorter exit of suicide might become just the smarter option.

But remember dear, we have all learnt through life that the shorter way is not usually the right or safest way out. It is indeed the longest or in fact no-way to succour. Because whatever was the motive, you would have lost it here and most likely hereafter.

I can only recommend the way I took which helped me out:
- Embrace Christ: What brings suicidal thought is not the problem itself, but the loss of peace when you remember the situation you are in. And I can guarantee you, there is a toltal peace that comes when we yield to the Saviour and allow Him bear the burdens. THIS IS REAL, NOT IMAGINARY please! Even if the problem doesn't vanish like drastically, you are guaranteed inner comfort, an infallible lead per time and a sure companion.
- Brace up for the worst: I agree that if nothing is done about the continued pile up of your debt, it may spell terrible consequences e.g incarceration,
loss of collateral properties and reputation, physical harm etc. all these I have had to be confronted with. Yes, but it won't likely be death.
- Like right now, withdraw from everything you can't control or safeguard e.g your good name, people's reation etc
-Dwell On the Minors - There are some very little legitimate things that has always given you bits of happiness. Please do them if possible
- Approach the debt from the littlest: Looking at a mountain from the peak would discourage even the best climber, but the real victory starts in pacing along right from the very foot

Remember: It not over until God says it is, and certainily you are still here only because He hasn't said it is over.
We keep pushing

thank you so much for this word of encouragement, it also thought me a lot, because am also going through a lot right now, am lonely I don't av any good job at hand right now, that keep on makin my head hot day by day I av tried my best walk round submit CV and tell people but uptill now there s nothing and my savings s going down day by day.

Perish the thought of suicide...

You said you are indebted...so what are you afraid of? What is the worse those you are indebted to can do? Is it disgrace and embarrassment you are scared of?

We need to develop our mental strength to face what life throws at us. I know our mental makeup is different but we need to encourage ourselves and be strong to face life challenges.

If it is loan apps you owe money to and you are bothered about their constant calls and fake threats of embarrassing you, just forget about it, they can't do anything. It is all fluff.

I consider suicide to be a selfish act, because if you decide to take the easy way out because you cannot face disgrace and embarrassment what do you think the family and friends you left behind will feel based on your shameful act? If you put deep thought into the effect on your children, wife, parents and siblings, you will think again and see reasons to live.

I saw "tech" in your name, I don't know the skills you have, but I believe there are millions of people praying to have what you have.

There are people without debts and with millions in their accounts who are on life-support and just fighting for survival.

If you have good health, you have everything.

Forget about suicide, talk to people, sell anything you have to offset part of your debts, appeal for more time with the people you owe, and pray to God for him to see you through and I believe things will turn around.

Peace

A content Writer/Virtual assistant

TechToyin:
I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

TechToyin:


I am heavily indebted

How much?

samcarter3030:


How much?

105k

paulavon:
Perish the thought of suicide...

You said you are indebted...so what are you afraid of? What is the worse those you are indebted to can do? Is it disgrace and embarrassment you are scared of?

We need to develop our mental strength to face what life throws at us. I know our mental makeup is different but we need to encourage ourselves and be strong to face life challenges.

If it is loan apps you owe money to and you are bothered about their constant calls and fake threats of embarrassing you, just forget about it, they can't do anything. It is all fluff.

I consider suicide to be a selfish act, because if you decide to take the easy way out because you cannot face disgrace and embarrassment what do you think the family and friends you left behind will feel based on your shameful act? If you put deep thought into the effect on your children, wife, parents and siblings, you will think again and see reasons to live.

I saw "tech" in your name, I don't know the skills you have, but I believe there are millions of people praying to have what you have.

There are people without debts and with millions in their accounts who are on life-support and just fighting for survival.

If you have good health, you have everything.

Forget about suicide, talk to people, sell anything you have to offset part of your debts, appeal for more time with the people you owe, and pray to God for him to see you through and I believe things will turn around.

Peace

A content Writer/Virtual assistant

Thank you. It's 105k. I just 23years. I am afraid that my parents and relatives will be disappointed in me when they start sending the sms.

The only valuable I have is my phone. Which will go for about 20k. Hopefully by month end I should have at least 70k.

I really appreciate your words

Zaheertyler:

Imagine the best artist in this world drawing a very beautiful art
Can the pencil he use draw another thing from the thoughts of the artist?
Just maybe sometimes we forget that we are nothing but pencils in the creators hands and we give ourselves too much importance leading to too much pressures
We often forget that we are clay and dust that are supposed to help build Gods kingdom
OP give life another chance but remember that you are nothing but clay moulded to be used by the creator
Don’t mind all this people who have taken their places and treasures here already they have gotten their rewards already
I want you to live again and give your life to Jesus Christ
For only in him can you find salvation,regeneration and all you need
Like I said first he is that great artist and you are nothing but pencil all used to draw Gods plan for his creations
Understand your purpose
And ask him to come and help you

Thank you so much Sir

Hhh

Die MF die!

I must tell you that you don't have a problem.

Shame and disappointment are just a temporary feeling, they don't do much.

Do you know the level of pain and disappointment your parents and relatives will feel knowing you committed suicide because of 105k? Do you know the worth of a 23-year-old?

I owe fair money about 120k for almost a year now, I pay them from time to time, I also owe Palm credit, they call frequently and issue threats, I just block them and it ends at nothing, it doesn't even bother me.

Don't allow their threats to make you depressed, focus on your life and look for means to pay them.

TechToyin:



Thank you. It's 105k. I just 23years. I am afraid that my parents and relatives will be disappointed in me when they start sending the sms.

The only valuable I have is my phone. Which will go for about 20k. Hopefully by month end I should have at least 70k.

I really appreciate your words

paulavon:
I must tell you that you don't have a problem.

Shame and disappointment are just a temporary feeling, they don't do much.

Do you know the level of pain and disappointment your parents and relatives will feel knowing you committed suicide because of 105k? Do you know the worth of a 23-year-old?

I owe fair money about 120k for almost a year now, I pay them from time to time, I also owe Palm credit, they call frequently and issue threats, I just block them and it ends at nothing, it doesn't even bother me.

Don't allow their threats to make you depressed, focus on your life and look for means to pay them.

I cherish your advice, God bless you
Those loan guys are very stupid people, well I have told myself, anything that I can't do with my money,I will never ask them for assistance again.
Deleted palm credit,aella, branch and written to them to close the account,it's only branch that complied,the other two sends me message from their centre which I don't even want to see.
Palm credit called me possibly if I need assistance,I just block them
Once I'm done with fairmoney, the same close of account will apply to them ,they are not helping someone either, very useless flock

Op, no be you first take dept. Even the government takes dept.

Just chill and breathe. Please do not kill yourself. Things are hard but killing yourself wouldn't solve anything.

Tell yourself it gonna be fine! Take a walk, breathe... Like is sacred, please don't end it.

TechToyin:
I am contemplating suicide . I am loosing it

Don't do it Sir. There's life after death. No matter how bad the situation is, there's always a way out. Most of the time, we just have to swallow our pride and ask for help.