According to Daddy Freeze, dating a lady in 2024 is like adopting an orphan .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0UHjFdR674?si=PVevwl8ro6hIPy6n

The insults on our ladies is too much ...

Girls, y'all need to sit up and stop envisioning relationships as a way out of generational poverty ...

Unless ofcourse, you want to keep proving men right ...

The average Nigerian female is a war refugee with no parents or relatives begging for daily crumbs.

To even muster the effort to talk to them and thinking all the expected refugee requests induce vomit and makes me just change my mind & walk past.

Very disgusting, poverty-stricken gender.

Fahvvy:
The insults on our ladies is too much ...

Girls, y'all need to sit up and stop envisioning relationships as a way out of generational poverty ...

Unless ofcourse, you want to keep proving men right ...

Stop bàwo??
Is it not easier living rent free, bills free, and still get an orgásm out of it... ... Who cares about proving men right...

Afonja44:
The average Nigerian female is a war refugee with no parents or relatives begging for daily crumbs.

To even muster the effort to talk to them and thinking all the expected refugee requests induce vomit and makes me just change my mind & walk past.

Very disgusting, poverty-stricken gender.

When you happen to go to different organisations in this country , don’t you see females heading a number of divisions? Are the best banks not headed by females? I don’t have a single friend that goes around begging for anything. They have enough self respect. Why on earth do you think we work so diligently? The way some of you come to Nairaland with your ceaseless complaints is crazy. Perhaps, it simply tells the kind of men you are if you meet only females that beg.

Not true!
Orphans are grateful.

Nigerian ladies think letting you be their bitch is a PRIVILEGE.

sweetrace:


When you happen to go to different organisations in this country , don’t you see females heading a number of divisions? Are the best banks not headed by females? I don’t have a single friend that goes around begging for anything. They have enough self respect. Why on earth do you think we work so diligently? The way some of you come to Nairaland with your ceaseless complaints is crazy. Perhaps, it simply tells the kind of men you are if you meet only females that beg.

All those female bank managers have men that they are still billing.


Greed is in your blood.

Afonja44:


All those female bank managers have men that they are still billing.


Greed is in your blood.

Aww poor you! Your mum, sisters … must be terrible examples of the female gender. So you’re forgiven for thinking every female is just like them.

sweetrace:


Aww poor you! Your mum, sisters … must be terrible examples of the female gender. So you’re forgiven for thinking every female is just like them.

Every single female is an orphan including you

Afonja44:


Every single female is an orphan including you

My parents brought up wonderful kids. I’m sure it is obvious to you. We don’t go constantly insulting every member of a gender. Unlike you who insults all females because one person asked for your non existent money.

sweetrace:


My parents brought up wonderful kids. I’m sure it is obvious to you. We don’t go constantly insulting every member of a gender. Unlike you who insults all females because one person asked for your non existent money.

Did your mom depend on your dad for survival?
Yes or No?

Not an insult

Afonja44:


Did your mom depend on your dad for survival?
Yes or No?

Not an insult

My parents worked!!! Besides, what happens in a marriage is private. There are marriages where one partner looses their job, but no one knows because they are mature enough to handle it. There are also marriage where one partner stays at home to take care of the kids. It is their decision. You need to work on yourself if you’re attracting only leeches. Maybe you’re one of those men who tries to attract a woman by flaunting your little money instead of getting to know her. Of course she’ll treat you like her cash cow.

sweetrace:


My parents worked!!! Besides, what happens in a marriage is private. There are marriages where one partner looses their job, but no one knows because they are mature enough to handle it. There are also marriage where one partner stays at home to take care of the kids. It is their decision. You need to work on yourself if you’re attracting only leeches. Maybe you’re one of those men who tries to attract a woman by flaunting your little money instead of getting to know her. Of course she’ll treat you like her cash cow.

You haven't answered the question.

When you are done talking to her, she will still bill you. Except she is not Nigerian.

Even the working class ones will still bill you.
All relationships are transactional these days

Dating in 2024 has evolved significantly, and Daddy Freeze’s analogy of it being like adopting an orphan resonates with many. It reflects the complexities and emotional investments involved in modern relationships. In today’s fast-paced world, dating often requires more than just attraction; it demands understanding, patience, and sometimes even a willingness to support someone through their past traumas. Just as adopting an orphan involves commitment and nurturing, dating someone may require a deep emotional connection and the ability to face challenges together. Moreover, the emphasis on mental health and personal growth means that partners often come with their own baggage, making the journey of dating both rewarding and challenging. Navigating this landscape requires empathy and a strong foundation of communication.

Wiwwolt:
Dating in 2024 has evolved significantly, and Daddy Freeze’s analogy of it being like adopting an orphan resonates with many. It reflects the complexities and emotional investments involved in modern relationships. In today’s fast-paced world, dating often requires more than just attraction; it demands understanding, patience, and sometimes even a willingness to support someone through their past traumas. Just as adopting an orphan involves commitment and nurturing, dating someone may require a deep emotional connection and the ability to face challenges together. Moreover, the emphasis on mental health and personal growth means that partners often come with their own baggage, making the journey of dating both rewarding and challenging. Navigating this landscape requires empathy and a strong foundation of communication.

-Written by Chatgpt

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This noise is just too much

Fahvvy:
The insults on our ladies is too much ...

Girls, y'all need to sit up and stop envisioning relationships as a way out of generational poverty ...

Unless ofcourse, you want to keep proving men right ...

The rate of begging is outrageous, this is a pandemic. To even think we have more girls than boys in the university marvels me at this behaviour.

sweetrace:


When you happen to go to different organisations in this country , don’t you see females heading a number of divisions? Are the best banks not headed by females? I don’t have a single friend that goes around begging for anything. They have enough self respect. Why on earth do you think we work so diligently? The way some of you come to Nairaland with your ceaseless complaints is crazy. Perhaps, it simply tells the kind of men you are if you meet only females that beg.

Exception isn't the rule.

Even working class ladies are still bent on this line of thought, you hear them saying men's money is sweet to spend, it's your responsibility to foot my bills, your money is my money and mine is mine. There is nothing to defend, only a few have different perspectives and has nothing to do with working in top organizations but family orientation towards accountability and responsibility flas an adult.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Exception isn't the rule.

Even working class ladies are still bent on this line of thought, you hear them saying men's money is sweet to spend, it's your responsibility to foot my bills, your money is my money and mine is mine. There is nothing to defend, only a few have different perspectives and has nothing to do with working in top organizations but family orientation towards accountability and responsibility flas an adult.

Okay! I really don’t know the circles you move in.

sweetrace:


Okay! I really don’t know the circles you move in.

This isn't about the cycle, this is found in all female groups, whether low , medium or high income. As I said before the exception I see is family values, I have seen this trait in a Doctor, Engineer , a manager of a large grocery store, jobless ladies. I have also seen a jobless lady not having such mindset while her gainfully employed counterparts move from one point to another seeking for whom to devour.

Its pathetic we are in this today, men really contributes immensely to create this super entitlement in women making most women crave to live in a world where they ain't responsible or accountable for anything.

ricson11:
According to Daddy Freeze, dating a lady in 2024 is like adopting an orphan .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0UHjFdR674?si=PVevwl8ro6hIPy6n

It's always been like that. Obviously, it's like that everywhere. I got sick of it. That's why I chased that baker Gordana so much. I won't support anyone anymore. It is possible. If she is a virgin, 18-20-23 years old, beautiful.
It's not a problem in support. The problem is that you get too little in return. Unbearably little. I won't do that.

sweetrace:


Aww poor you! Your mum, sisters … must be terrible examples of the female gender. So you’re forgiven for thinking every female is just like them.

He told you the truth. Don't insult him.

sweetrace:


My parents brought up wonderful kids. I’m sure it is obvious to you. We don’t go constantly insulting every member of a gender. Unlike you who insults all females because one person asked for your non existent money.

You're making communication personal. You are insulting. Why? You don't know who he is. I don't know who you are. You don't know who I am. Can we communicate in a cultural way? Still you should be, one lady. I guess you know how a lady should behave.

The problem is not taking money from men, but feigning a non existent love because of money. If there's true love between the duo, even the ladies tend to make more sacrifices in a relationship but I don't even know maybe the new generation ladies know anything called love, they just wanna survive

sweetrace:


My parents worked!!! Besides, what happens in a marriage is private. There are marriages where one partner looses their job, but no one knows because they are mature enough to handle it. There are also marriage where one partner stays at home to take care of the kids. It is their decision. You need to work on yourself if you’re attracting only leeches. Maybe you’re one of those men who tries to attract a woman by flaunting your little money instead of getting to know her. Of course she’ll treat you like her cash cow.

I understand you. You are right here. But you have to know that a huge number of women are unsuccessful. The law of hypergamy is ruthless. As a worker, no matter how well I earn, I cannot date a woman who earns the same. I cannot date a woman who earns more than me. I felt that very painfully. Also. Women who earn money. They no longer have femininity. They become men with female Instruments. That is very unattractive to any man worth anything. Successful women have a big problem finding a man for themselves. They will not date men below their level and there are few men above them. . Also. That small number of men will not date successful women because they need a woman and not a man with female Instruments. Feminism is represented both among women who are poor and among successful women. Poor women use us as an ATM, and successful women will not use us. Personally, it's easier for me to reach a poor 21-year-old girl than a successful 30-40-year-old woman. I don't know. I'm tired of everything. And I'm not the only one.
I'm a normal man. I'm not a bum. Certainly there are some here. But I tell you that the situation in male-female relations has never been worse and it is global.

lecowas:
The problem is not taking money from men, but feigning a non existent love because of money. If there's true love between the duo, even the lady make more sacrifices in a relationship but I don't even know maybe the new generation lady know anything called love, they just wanna survive

The sad miserable truth
I'm sick of it all.No love.Just a lie. And nothing.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Exception isn't the rule.

Even working class ladies are still bent on this line of thought, you hear them saying men's money is sweet to spend, it's your responsibility to foot my bills, your money is my money and mine is mine. There is nothing to defend, only a few have different perspectives and has nothing to do with working in top organizations but family orientation towards accountability and responsibility flas an adult.

My money is my money and your money is our money. That is one of the main reasons why my marriage failed. One of the reasons.

sweetrace:


When you happen to go to different organisations in this country , don’t you see females heading a number of divisions? Are the best banks not headed by females? I don’t have a single friend that goes around begging for anything. They have enough self respect. Why on earth do you think we work so diligently? The way some of you come to Nairaland with your ceaseless complaints is crazy. Perhaps, it simply tells the kind of men you are if you meet only females that beg.

Engaging in argument with mad boy? I think before you reply any comments, you have to start with his/her moniker.

Not until you realise that more than 70% of Nigeria teenage boys are on Colorado,and that 90% teenage boys here are frustrated and sexually starved, you won't stop engaging them in needless arguments, this one you just replied now, I'm very sure he would happy that female replied him, infact, the happiness would lead to multiple ejaculations.

She will want you to adopt her Family too

goran3310:

My money is my money and your money is our money. That is one of the main reasons why my marriage failed. One of the reasons.

Sorry about this, I don't see any reason why a member of a family(wife) will feel uncomfortable bringing her money to help other member(husband) of the same family , that's the height of selfishness and self centeredness and such persons should never be in a relationship. I did this discussion with my Ex girlfriend and she had same opinion there and there I nee she will never be ok for marriage. I share my assets with you and it got to yours you say you can not spend on a man, to hats the exit door.

Truth is ; we the men caused all this from on set, especially those yahoo boys that throws money around girls.

Finding love in Lagos Island, is like looking for a needle in a haystack.