Merry100:

If every woman go for handsome men how will guys like you marry? Women have high taste o. We will just be selecting men like Leonardo DiCaprio, Michael B Jordan, Lee Min-ho, Will Smith, Idris Elba. If we want to pick from Nigerian, at least we will pick guys like Maurice Sam. You should be thanking God we are considerate. 😂🤣🤣

Some of those men are gay or divorced. While others prefer only beautiful girls between the ages of 18 to 23 or don't date black women.

Women are really terrible at choosing men.

jorion:


Some of those men are gay or divorced. While others prefer only beautiful girls between the ages of 18 to 23 or don't date black women.

Women are really terrible at choosing men.

Read again, men like.

Merry100:

Read again, men like.

So you even know what like means or are you looking at just their PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES?

jorion:


So you even know what like means or are you looking at just their PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES?

Yes, just their physical appearance.

Merry100:

Yes, just their physical appearance.

So, the brain and morality don't matter. 😂😂😂😂😂

Now I understand the baby mama syndrome.

YOU DO HAVE TERRIBLE TASTE IN MEN

jorion:


So, the brain and morality don't matter. 😂😂😂😂😂

Now I understand the baby mama syndrome.

YOU DO HAVE TERRIBLE TASTE IN MEN

See, who is even talking about brain? 😂🤣🤣

You just picked the conversation from the middle.

Beside when guys approach me, is it my IQ or morality that matters to them first?

Merry100:

See, who is even talking about brain? 😂🤣🤣

You just picked the conversation from the middle.

Beside when guys approach me, is it my IQ or morality that matters to them first?

Women pick mem that are protectors and providers.

Men pick women that are fertile and loyal.

That's why men never forgive a cheating woman and women don't stay with broke men.

YOU ARE A WOMAN AND YOUR IQ IS NOT A FACTOR WHEN A MAN ASSESSES A WOMAN.

It's also better the lady works hard to support her spouse if she wants successful marriage. Why must it be only men?

Merry100:

If every woman go for handsome men how will guys like you marry? Women have high taste o. We will just be selecting men like Leonardo DiCaprio, Michael B Jordan, Lee Min-ho, Will Smith, Idris Elba. If we want to pick from Nigerian, at least we will pick guys like Maurice Sam. You should be thanking God we are considerate. 😂🤣🤣

So that is how few women are in the world, abi? Oshiomole is already laughing at you. 😆😆😆

I agree

A man who has money already have something to offer! So the Topic doesn't hold any arguing

Whenever this talk of marriage and money comes up , I always ask myself is it a crime for the woman too to have money ?why does having money have to do with the men alone ehn ?

Rubbish!

There are two sides to the coin actually as the table can turn real fast. Speaking from experience 💔

Can you not also have money.

Man that have money.

So that you will lay down and be eating like bag of rice.

Witch

Merry100:
Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.

If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.

Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.

It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

only a woman with the qualities you say a man should have can locate a man with the qualities you say a man should have. maybe your write up should have been on how women should develop those qualities first

Exceed15:
Yea it's ok to marry for money but know the man is also allowed to bring in another woman to enjoy same reason u came for.

Merry100:
Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.
If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.
Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.
It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

Why not consider not marrying at all? All of this try-your-luck/game-of-change you lot think when you think marriage, why not save yourselves all of that drama and potential regret by not marrying at all? Haba!

How many men have money The less than 20% who have money will simply have multiple side chicks

Well written post... Watch how some men will start vexing unnecessarily.

That said... Any woman eagerly waiting or looking for a wealthy man to elevate her and her family from poverty is beyond irresponsible and irredeemable.

The world has equalled the scales to the extent that women now have equal opportunities to get into career roles and positions that were once male-dominated...!

America is on the verge of having a woman rule them for the first time in their history.


The fact that women in Nigeria still have a dependency mindset is just shocking and saddening.

Exceed15:
Yea it's ok to marry for money but know the man is also allowed to bring in another woman to enjoy same reason u came for.

FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PREACH!!!!!!!!!!

jorion:
■ When someone especially a woman calls you a husband material or a family man or a responsible guy or a real man, you should find a peaceful place and examine your life critically.
What she means is that I am done having all my fun and I am looking forward to finding financial, emotional and physical security in a man so that I can comfortably jump from one phallic to the next without the stress of thinking about who to marry.

Isn't that kind of what men mean when they regard a woman as wife-material? Or are you too high on your own bullsheet to see this for yourself?

There isn't any special formula that works but one major stressor in most families is financial constraint. Being poor breeds a lot of problems both literally and figuratively. Be wise

My own is that if she came for the money,treat her like she came for the money.. Wetin I use money buy,no suppose get mouth dey question me for my hux.. She no suppose get opinion in my home. Na so e reach,and she must be premium. I won't like a situation when what I am buying has already been used and damaged by multiple persons. Cux she must have lost so much value,hence should be used when there are no better options..

Exceed15:
Yea it's ok to marry for money but know the man is also allowed to bring in another woman to enjoy same reason u came for.

wahala wàhálà wahalaaaaaaaar

Codes151:
Can you not also have money.

Man that have money.

So that you will lay down and be eating like bag of rice.

Witch

I laughed and laughed at this... You are really pained 🤣

Bag of rice is small, the bag of rice will eat until it bursts, maybe you will go crazy for a while but then you will accept it instead of dying in bitterness.

Marry for both money and a good díck.
😁

Merry100:
Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.

If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.

Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.

It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

What ever you do , make sure you all take your fight against poverty more seriously.
90 % of Men genuinely marry for love.
90% of women genuinely marry for material gain and comfort . They were naturally wired that way.

Marriage should be built on Organic love, trust, and compatibility, not monetary gains. Women that married for love
will always care for the man wellbeing.. Money no Money, She always make and want to saee him succeeds... I doubt This generation could practice this . . No one wants to suffer . I always advise guys to try to date responsible girls ..You will enjoy Relationship and marriage...

- Post-modern women, across culture, have always married for money. Hence, why their husband don't have any respect for them. Well, women are the weaker sex, so perhaps they can be given a pass sometimes, especially if they behave and obey their husbands.

And what happens if the man goes poor.

Will you leave the marriage?

Why will I want to marry a liability who is not ready to compliment my efforts. Na only man come this world come work?