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I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:01pm On Oct 31 |
Good evening folks. I will go straight to the point. I got my girl pregnant, and although I have not done anything on her head yet, my parents and her parents are still on good terms (because, my dad, informed them that I would do an introduction next month). Well, we have had little confrontations here and there; the last time, I had to take her things back to her mother's house, but I later begged, and she returned back to me. But today was what I couldn't condone again; she was insulting and dared to insult my only sister (she called her a bastard and said that she would divorce if she eventually got married) while my sister has not had any interaction with her because she is an undergraduate. I had an issue with her and she was just lamenting and insulting my siblings, I had to put her on her place, and she resorted to picking up my kitchen knife and wanted to stab me with it - on God I was scared during that moment - but I overpowered her and slapped her, telling her that so she has the mind to try such, she was very very furious. I called her mum and after talking to her mum, unfortunately, the said mum sided with her, I told her that I won't be sleeping with someone who just attempted to stab me, and her mum was just lamenting that I hit her daughter, I pleaded my innocence that I beat her because she wanted to stab me, but her mum was not even concerned that her daughter tried stabbing me. I told them off, and I vowed not to beg her to come back. I told her that I would move on, that she should do whatever she wanted with the baby in her womb, that I was out, and I called my mum, and she sympathised with me. Now she has left and I just want to know if I should still take her back if she comes back. I love her, but I love my life also. I might have been bleeding by now if I hadn't overpowered her. Omo, I was so scared for my life. During that moment, she had the knife. Modified* I am not taking her back, I have decided to move on with my life. My baby will always still want to see his/her dad in the future, I need to stay alive so as to see my baby in the future.....but for now, I will dust my shoes and move. Edit: She suggested to abort the 2 months and 2 weeks pregnancy, I tried talking her out but she seems adamant. I have been trying to process everything ever since she told me this (today, being 3rd day of November). I just want to be mentally and emotionally strong......this is it fams, this is life π₯Ί Cc. Rocktation, dominique, farano 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by H0didon(m): 9:05pm On Oct 31 |
What did i just read?? You're a big f**l for thinking to take her back. Nigga, you are seeing the flag is damn red but yet still tryna paint it blue, damn!!. Run faraway man!!! I'm pissed to see a matured folk who can't think mhen. Weak men these days. I'm outta here, nonsense. As our Ancestor would say "No matter how wisdom becomes available just like water, some people would still die thirsty". 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Samueltemi337(m): 9:06pm On Oct 31 |
So na this women beater dey threaten me for nairaland π 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Nakashima(m): 9:07pm On Oct 31 |
You dey talk and reason like simp 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Sonnobax15(m): 9:10pm On Oct 31 |
A dead man has no business with *LOVE* Person wey threaten to stab you with knife . You still get mind to dey call her the love of your life Omoh,there's this very good friend of mine who's also a Nairalander.....I think he once created different threads on here on how his baby mama violently tried to stab him......Tho I was pleading with him to forgive her,but the moment I heard that part,I instantly withdrew my apology asap...... Cuz life no get duplicate at all......Run for your life bruh.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by dkidd: 9:14pm On Oct 31 |
Consequences of fvcking raw... I nor know why we no dey hear word. See who want born for u? A girl that will comfortably take up a knife to use on u Na that one u wan marry lol? Her nature is her nature and she won't change. This ur case strong oo cos she might make attempts on ur life in future if yawah dey. 9 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by succri(m): 9:17pm On Oct 31 |
Oya commot body Commot body Commot body Who dey , who dey check am Unrelated tho , the song just rang in my head 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by DEXTROVERT: 9:18pm On Oct 31 |
My advice There's a phase you are now Newly married, whether legally or illegally So far she us staying with you, As a man, your patience has to be at a very high level. Now you will see reactions of women, Most of time their real personality Sometimes influenced by hormones. She will make you angry much more and you also will make her angry as well You have to shealth your ego and be calm if you want the whole thing to work. The rule is don't be angry when she is And if you unfortunately get angry at same time, be wise to step down your anger if not Yaya go gass 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by RealityKings: 9:27pm On Oct 31 |
This is the problem I have with all these nairaland trolls. So just common knife stab in the chest you can't take. And you will be online forming one kin strong odogwu I am sure if we leave you and that girlfriend in a ring, she will beat your life to stupor. Just let her go back to her family jeje ππ 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:32pm On Oct 31 |
H0didon:I am not a weak man bro, I honestly know that I was sympathetic because of my unborn baby 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:34pm On Oct 31 |
Sonnobax15:Bro, the knife part scared me.....I never expected that from her 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:34pm On Oct 31 |
Nakashima:Lol, I was just sympathetic of my unborn baby. Samueltemi337:How am I a woman beater bro, leave joke aside bro. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by RealityKings: 9:35pm On Oct 31 |
dkidd: Nonsense! The guy is not a real man! he should have been a man and let the girl stab him like 5 times before reacting.. I don't know the kind of weak men we have nowadays ππππ The girl would have helped me and a few others eliminate competition.. Giveaway go dey reach my side |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:37pm On Oct 31 |
RealityKings:Bro you won't understand. You think it is a joke? I don't like beating woman, I was even careful because she has my baby in her. This is a chat with my close friend who knows her
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Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by RealityKings: 9:38pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget: I no dey like this kind thing... You should have waited for 5 or 10 stabs at least before doing anything na |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:39pm On Oct 31 |
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Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Lance008(m): 9:40pm On Oct 31 |
Which kind Chinese relationship Una Dey practice mak one go hold knife another one go come use karat collect knife from her Jus continue till knife pairs ur chest 6 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Samueltemi337(m): 9:40pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget:Did you touch her or not? |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by RealityKings: 9:41pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget: By now I for don iron my black native con chop for funeral This one way everywhere get as e be. ππππππππ |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Lance008(m): 9:42pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget:Na mad girl u date better werey and dem Dey jobless 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:44pm On Oct 31 |
Samueltemi337:I hit her after I used force to collect the knife from her. The insults from her, coupled with the fact that she just attempted to stab was enough to hit sense into her thick skull 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by efficiencie(m): 9:44pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget: You want to take obituary back abi? Go ahead and take her back. What will follow is "with gratitude to GOD for a life foolishly spent, we regret the passing of a son, brother, and baby daddy, Mr Inogetsense."! 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:46pm On Oct 31 |
Lance008:This is the first time she would act this way...lol, she is actually out of job because her pregnancy makes her to vomit often after eating |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Martinez39s(m): 9:51pm On Oct 31 |
Una no dey hear word. In today's age, if you want children as a man, get them through surrogates. Don't mind people telling you that it is dysfunctional and disastrous since it will be a single-parent household. The empirical stats and sheer observation that infer that single-parent families end badly and yields dysfunctions are taken from fatherless homes. In fact, stats show that children of single-fathers end well as much as those from two-parents households. Women nuture, men are the ones that raise, discipline, and mold children. Family values are propagated, enforced, and guarded by men. See now, in order to maintain your peace of mind, you had to part with your unborn child. If that woman decides to deliver, you have another man or woman raised by a single mother, and will likely have no masculine influence in his/her life. I am sure you must have seen from your experience that nothing beats peace of mind and order. In today's age, single-fathers have more peace of mind and quiet than most married heterosexual men. Anyway, I could start going into the mistakes you made, but I will only say one thing: when you send a woman packing for something she did or said wrong, you don't go begging for her to come back. 7 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:52pm On Oct 31 |
Martinez39s:Please shed more light, I am a lover of your RedPill π |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Nicepoker(m): 9:55pm On Oct 31 |
She picked up a knife and you are contemplating to take her back. Your community should disown you. |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Martinez39s(m): 9:56pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget:I will, bro. I am currently taking a five-minute break from a project I have been working. I tended to scroll, but I saw your post and I had to comment. I will compile my advice to you and send them tomorrow, unfailingly. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 9:59pm On Oct 31 |
Martinez39s:Thanks brother, I appreciate βΊοΈ |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by AlphaNugget(m): 10:00pm On Oct 31 |
Nicepoker:Lol brotherly. I am not taking her back anymore, I will wait for my mentor's advice tomorrow on steps to take. |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Mcslize: 10:08pm On Oct 31 |
AlphaNugget: So you truly want to marry that lady? I won't sugar coat this for you. Trust me, if you marry that lady, just say bye bye to your peace of mind. Every day na una go dey fight and she must surely stab u one day with knife or bottle. This is not a curse. I can already sense and feel the aftermath of everything right from here. If you like doubt me. If you marry this girl, it won't be long, she will fullfil one of her fantasies using you as a specimen. To make it worst, she has an uncontrollable anger issue that will perfect this fantasy. You don't expect me to spell the fantasy out for you do you? Of course not. You already know. This is not jamboree. This will be a true life experience. Don't wife that girl o. I have warned you. If you like doubt me. |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by idahme(m): 10:13pm On Oct 31 |
Samueltemi337: Get sense for once mumu man, that was a clear case of self defense. If u like when woman carry knife for u allow her to stab u so that u go get sense 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by idahme(m): 10:14pm On Oct 31 |
Sonnobax15: Not threatened but attempted . |
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