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Diran: Live with your partner for at least 3 years before considering marriage. During this time, start adulting, learn to live with each other. Then get married.

Lagoslandlord: Get married early, face the troubles involved with your youthful strength and enjoy your later age when your kids are grown. Trust me by age 40 your worries are less


@trevorrandy: My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets

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Somtie24: Pay attention to how your mother-in-law treats her husband-it could be a preview of how your wife might treat you.

Dean: Never marry a woman who doesn't speak good about her Dad.
Chances are high that you won't be able to please her as a man.

single stitch clothing: never marry the woman who doesn't want you to look good.

........Yet people get married every Saturday

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Razak Haruna: I married a liability not a partner someone who never showed any appreciation for my effort now we are divorced cos things get worst in my finances

Okey Chinweze: Her beauty and her shape will not raise your Children, her kind and nurturing heart will. Above all, marry a kind and respectful woman

Anthony J: Marry a woman who wants marriage not a wedding

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getembeelectrical nkr: marry your friend. the one you can gossip with and laugh very loud about things. not afraid of farting in each other presence

Blessfirstson: Don't marry without good income you will frustrate and stress out and you won't enjoy the marriage.

rasheedlawal347: Don't marry out of pity and watch the family u marry from


greatkentasc: please do not believe you can change a woman after you have married her, anything you see when dating is what you will leave with for the rest of your life


Ibrahim Raji: don't married daughter her parents live separately dangerous zone


Trevor Brown: If you don't know your personal values don't get married. Figure yourself out then find a woman who's values align with yours.

Uncle Tony: The red flags you ignore in the beginning will be the reasons you leave in the end. Your partner should

GOFRONT:
........Yet people get married every Saturday

Suicide n birth too run side by side. It doesnt change the reality of life struggles.

Everyone has a different story

GOFRONT:
........Yet people get married every Saturday

Irony of life. lol

Marry a lady in which, two of you really love each other.

Make sure you marry lady that, she also,bringing income to the family, but never depend on her income.

Immediately girl agrees to date you, make sure you are in control of ur relationship which will latter translate to be in charge of your marriage.

And above all. Treat your wife the way you want your son-in-law to treat your own daughter.

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........Yet people get married every Saturday

Most times, bad news make "breaking news"

People like sensational bad news to feed their bais about a topic

There are many marriages out there working and working well. If marriage was as bad as they say, then why do people get married every Saturday like u rightly pointed out....

Marriage cannot favour everyone, if it favours the person fine, if not then move on.

You would not say because fire can burn one's house , one would refuse to cook his food or because accidents happen, you would trek for lagos to kano

This rule no 5 is gaining momentum in west and that's really worrisome

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........Yet people get married every Saturday

And they are the ones that will contribute to this in 10years to come...

Fiscus105:
Marry a lady in which, two of you really love each other.

Love alone does not sustain marriage. It takes more than love to be in a healthy marriage.

If she wants to leave, let her leave.
They believe they can do well as a single parent or as an unmarried woman. Having sex with several men and begging on whatsappp for 2k.

Perhaps that works for them since they have several men to rely on. If they beg 20 men for 2k they can probably rake more that 20,000naira.

At least she's not doing that under my roof. Whatever sooths her. Let's see how long she can do that.

I can imagine the mugu that sits in his car for 10minutes before going into his house all because of a bad wife, dancing on his wedding day, shinning his brown teeth and asking his unmarried friends the most foolish question in this current earth today "what are you waiting for?". One fool who asked him that question when I attended his wedding, I had to return home with the envelope I came with and never gave him shishi.

Zonefree:

Love alone does not sustain marriage. It takes more than love to be in a healthy marriage.

Comment on everything I analysed there and stop erasing others vital points to proof a foolish of your own point.


You are not do urself good by deliberately disinforming others, if you can change a narrative of comment in the open forum like this, what will now open in close context.

I would not be surprised if you a type that Yoruba called "tuletule" AMEBO.

Marriage has totally lost it's purpose to me these days l swear It's real bondage especially when you have kids and your wife keeps misbehaving and wrecking your sanity...So my sincere advice to young men is this...Don't get married!!!..but if you must marry...then never marry for love or out of pity and never breed like Rabbits so you will be free of unnecessary commitments to quit the marriage when the time comes!

That I never have money to venture into polygamy yet

Let me grab a cup of coffee

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........Yet people get married every Saturday

[b]that is why the advice above , so that we can learn sir

Na dem Fela sing suffering and smiling for...

Some of them dey enjoy, while some dey see hell on Earth.

Na only for 9ja you go see girl with just #5k for account, dey prepare for marriage 😈

Marrying from a single mother is a big big red flag. Marrying someone with alot of inlaws is one of the worse things you can do .

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Love, Endurance, Respect for Each Other and most importantly the Fear of God is the only thing that can sustain a good marriage.

Marrying for love, marrying for beauty, don't ever marry for any of these reasons if you are a single guy reading this, if not you will regret it.


Marry for:
1.) financial freedom
2.) economic growth
3 ) political expansion
4.) business growth and expansion

It is better to marry an ugly or average looking lady with a great career or business prospect that will help you solidify your finances and guarantee a great financial future for your kids than to marry a broke, jobless, visionless, lazy hot looking beautiful lady. I give you two years after you marry that your hot looking supermodel girlfriend, she will be naked in your front and you wont have an erectiøn


Romantic love and physical beauty are not enough reasons to marry any lady, be warned, romantic love is a fallacy

No regrets, na when kids enter the marriage you go see cruise but if you can withstand it. The rest na enjoyment.

One or two kids don do

Make sure as you dey see money, you dey invest am cos you go continue to dey pay bills till God knows when.

Marry woman wey love you even when shishi no dey, if na you love am pass she go leave you.

Be ready for divorce anytime,

Ok