Why marry a prostitute in the first place?

Because if she's not a prostitute, you won't be worried.

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

She will even be using every fibre of the little self control she has not to tell you the good dik she had.
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Instead of asking stupid question, can’t you just divorce her and move on since you don’t trust her.

Fool, rubbish outa here.

Thats not necessary. There are certain questions you keep private to yourself and in the world generally!

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Are you desperately looking for an excuse to DIVORCE her ?

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

ur a fool how can u marry a woman u dont trust if she ask u too will u be happy

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Very wrong, you have trust issues, please kindly divorce her of you don't trust her

Iranu abacha

Faber:
Go through her phone first...

Then from her phone you may see one or two clues...

Steal her blood or saliva while she is asleep and Use it for pregnancy test, before paternity fraud hits on you.

Or you consult a native doctor...If I marry tomorrow, which I dont see it happening, they no born any woman well to cheat on me. I know where I will go and I will be briefed of all your whereabouts. 💯 Tested and trusted

You be OG like me

Spiritual information dey walahi
And my plugs too good😂😂😂

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

If that is how you think, she also has even more right to ask you if you slept with another woman while you were away. In fact, she should even ask you to prove that you did not.
Maybe you should also ask your mother if your father was the one that birthed you.
Nonsense!

Keep living your life according to what you see and hear on social media. When you use your own mouth to scatter your marriage, we will see if the social media people will come to your aid.

There is just a level of irresponsibility that has crept into a lot of people.

Ask her, she is ur wife and you married her. It's all about your existence.

AlphaNugget:
Ask.

You paid her bride price. It is your right.

Meanwhile, OGs can know from how slack the pußsy is 🤥

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Nice you hv tradition backing u up, why u still dey fear?

No need...So if she has she would tell you "Yes?!
Be serious.

Ask her because of the grave consequences on YOU if she had even just one moment of weakness.

However, let her know it's not that you don't trust her but you know that as humans we are prone to fall even when we never planned to.

You need to take the risk.

No

consequences....

you are accusin her of misconduct....now its up to you to prove it....
your word against hers....

enjoy....
if you are wrong you will automaticaly loose anyways....her trust in you will vanish that you even dare....
if you are right you loose too....

kiki....adam and eve....😂😂

What do you expected her to respond? You expect her to be honest if she just did?

You don't ask such questions until you have evidence. Even if you know she did, it you just act like you don't know until you gather evidence.

Asking such without evidence will just create problems and start a war in-house.

Open her toto shook hand inside and taste it to ascertain if another man has nutted inside...you can't stop a woman from cheating she can only be faithful if she chooses to otherwise Baltasar Egonga will take her to the bush for some knacking adjustments.

What where u thinking? Oh u expect her to admit that she cheated abi?..dey play...oga I will advise u go for consultations (oracle) cos if u kpai today she go dey knack dey go ..nothing will happen

Everything is wrong.
You have trust issues and this can cause a serious issue .

Oga is very wrong I can't belittle myself to ask such disrespectful question to a woman I call my wife what nonsense are you now giving her license to sleep with other men or what or if she did she would tell you did, make una dey get sense abeg

Trust is a fundamental part of relationship. Why would you marry someone you don't trust to be faithful

Don't do it bro, it will bring misunderstanding between you both.

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Simple, assume that she did something while u were away and perform whatever cleansing. Tell her it's just normal to do so after long separation.
(Also assure her you trust her 100%, but make her take pregnancy test and u both take hiv/std tests )

It's your right to ask... It's just amusing that you would expect an honest answer.

Even a cheating hoe will swear to virginity...!


Damn... Auto-correct kept removing "hoe".


How on earth did an innocent word for farming become a dirty word?!!

APOPTOSIS:
😂😂😂
Like if she slept with Ebanga Ekonga 😂😂😂.
Learnt he will be visiting Nigeria this festive period on an official visit.
Then his wife will be visiting Ghana.

Will she be doing giveaway in Ghana. Date and venue? Let me go and sharpen my dick, that woman has great body body abeg.

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

abomination no Dey again bros.thats d only thing I want to tell u.

Be wise ....Just tell her that....there is family tradition...that any of our wives that slept with another man when the husband is not around ...will run mad if she sleep with the husband again....watch her facial expression.

if you re good at reading faces

booom***

na wetin I use pursue my ex that time when I go NYSC.

she left with speed and never showed up again

Trust is a fundamental part of relationship. Why would you marry someone you don't trust to be faithful.

Absolutely nothing.


The fact still remains that virgins are less likely to do adultery.
On an average Between a girl who kept herself till marriage and an average Nigerian girl with 10-30 BODYCOUNT and with at least 5 ex, WHO WILL LIKELY CHEAT IN A MARRIAGE?
USE YOUR HEAD AND ANSWER THE QUESTION HONESTLY.

MOST OF THESE AVERAGE GIRLS HAVE DATED MARRIED MEN.

IF A SINGLE GIRL CAN SLEEP WITH A MARRIED MEN BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, WHAT'S SPECIAL ABOUT SLEEPING WITH OTHER SINGLE AND MARRIED MEN WHILE MARRIED?

IF SHE DIDN'T RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE'S MARRIAGE AS A SINGLE GIRL, HOW CAN SHE RESPECT HER OWN MARRIAGE?

A cheat, hookup girl, runs girl, OLOSHO etc ARE IN THE SAME CATEGORY.

See how you brought your wife's pussy as a topic for discourse.

Tueeh, I am ashamed of you