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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by jordyspices: 8:48pm On Nov 16
Chai see wetin equatorial guinea 🇬🇶 dey cause
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by JovialJune(f): 8:49pm On Nov 16
Lol these generation of men are nothing to write home about at all, especially the ones getting married, very immature, clueless, senseless lmao 🤣

If these are the majority male breeds available for marriage, I pity females, because what the hell, lmao 🤣 😂 😆

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by justtoodark: 8:49pm On Nov 16
Wrackcityoffici:
It shows there was little to no communication on your end even while you traveled…I understand your paranoia, na you sabi the kain woman wey you marry, but if you were making efforts to communicate during your absence, you would have known this or probably be certain she has no one else…sounds like you just went and left your wife and kids at home, and you guys talk once in a while, even when y’all talk, I bet there’s no vibe or ginger, so it feels like you don’t really know what she’s capable of because youve been absent but you trust her because she’s goes to church and does the normal but lowkey, you know you were absent during those months…if tou really were present, you would know or see signs even from miles away, you go see signs if you paid attention to details…I understand no family is perfect though, I really pray you guys sort things out, atleast you seem like the type that works hard to care for his family and you being scared to ask her means you trust her but lowkey we all know we can’t trust the flesh of that gender, our desires and the way it brings things hard to control

stop rewrittin the bible....this kain thin we call jonny just come....i was dubbed by many women already tey tey....
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by ukaface(f): 8:51pm On Nov 16
ehikwe22:
Woman will cheat in your nose let alone in your absense for several months.

She will cheat. If you are brave to marry a woman, be brave enough to accept infidelity - that's if you ever find out. A woman would most certainly cheat. You don't have to be away. But if you're away, that makes it almost 100% certain.

And forget about that tradition. We have it in all parts of Edo and Delta from Onitsha area to the Auchi area. They're lies. They don't work. It's just a mythology
Come, bring your ear, I wan whisper something for your ear
* your mama cheat?*

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Rooneyx(m): 8:51pm On Nov 16
Her mobile phone will expose all you need to know. Simple and short
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by MuslimIgbo: 8:51pm On Nov 16
justtoodark:


are you a VIRGIN hunter....??

i have a word for black men like you....stuuuuuuppppiiiidddd....!!
Lol
Triggered borehole
Aka public toilet
Aka leftover
Aka public commodity
Aka used product grin

Why are you and girls like you always triggered by issues and topics like this?

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by justtoodark: 8:52pm On Nov 16
ukaface:

Come, bring your ear, I wan whisper something for your ear
* your mama cheat?*

😂😂....
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Rooneyx(m): 8:53pm On Nov 16
JovialJune:
Lol these generation of men are nothing to write home about at all, especially the ones getting married, very immature, clueless, senseless lmao 🤣

If these are the majority male breeds available for marriage, I pity females, because what the hell, lmao 🤣 😂 😆
You sound like someone that’ll do way worse. How wide are you? He’s having doubt you’re spilling rubbish. Madam shut up pls

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by justtoodark: 8:53pm On Nov 16
MuslimIgbo:

Lol
Triggered borehole
Aka public toilet
Aka leftover
Aka public commodity
Aka used product grin

Why are you and girls like you always triggered by issues and topics like this?

ewee....

see me see attention.... shocked shocked
oya which part of madness of nigeria are you from....

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Marc3500: 8:54pm On Nov 16
justtoodark:


i dont fear my wives....

i just make sure i dont get in their way of lifes....😂😂
who wan suffer....😂😂

but i have to trust....their is no other way....
ok
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Latakia(f): 8:54pm On Nov 16
MuslimIgbo:

Go ask your mother how many men she slept with before meeting your father and what's her BODYCOUNT since after marrying your father.
Then compare the figures with yours and you'll definitely see truth in what I have been saying.

Also ask her to tell you who your real father is...
lol he pain u bah grin na you get trust issue so you must ask your dad whether your mum be virgin and sleep around before and during their marriage grin

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Omodua(m): 8:54pm On Nov 16
Don't bother to ask her. Asking her is commiting yourself.

We have identical culture and traditional taboos guiding marriages. If she derailed in your absence, the god of the Land will deal with her only. You would only be involved if you know her adulterous outings and keep quiet.

So, don't bother to ask. She will suffer the consequences if she cheated in your absence.

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Pzpropertylimit(m): 8:56pm On Nov 16
If u get any hacker there , pay heavily and get her WhatsApp and Facebook hacked for u. Whatever u see and hear there should advise u what to u sir . Welcome back to ur Virgin wife . 8 months and the woman should be staying for u because na u carry holy penis. Them don Bleep her tire !
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by MuslimIgbo: 8:56pm On Nov 16
Latakia:
lol he pain u bah grin na you get trust issue so you must ask your dad whether your mum be virgin and sleep around before and during their marriage grin
Lol
Pain me kẹh grin
Topics and responding to wasted pained oloshos is like oxygen to me cheesy
I can do this all day and night grin
Na you go tire grin
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Mervingreat: 8:58pm On Nov 16
Haaa! oga what type of question is this? Why will you ask your wife such questio? If you don't trust her then don't travel again stay home 24/7 and 365 days a year or you send her packng to have your peace of mind.

If you love yourself don't ask such question if you do I pray RIP not say to you too soon.

My honest advise.

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Wrackcityoffici: 8:58pm On Nov 16
justtoodark:


stop rewrittin the bible....this kain thin we call jonny just come....i was dubbed by many women already tey tey....

Oga calm down and read…I never said anything about the woman being a saint, I just said if there was communication, then he would see signs from miles away, but lowkey if you feel this way about woman and don’t trust her, why do you guys marry them…because that’s dumb o…na una be the real johhny sha, to really think anything you do can work with a woman you do for trust, one guy up dey talk say him go meet babalawo lol…woman wey go Bleep the babalawo still plan kill am…Trust is very important for me even in friendship, so why marry someone youre not sure if she can kill you the next day, that’s the height of stupidity, a lot of men like you who have relied on their own power and wits don get hypertension o…if you can’t get a woman that you can hold accountable for her actions then no marry person wey go kill you…you go dey track her phone still dey check her puna lol…women kuku smart pass una normally…oga chill, no be by your power o…stop moving with stupid women who have nothing to offer, that’s when you shall have peace
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Hyperdulia: 9:00pm On Nov 16
Go ask her. Why ask for advice
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by NewHe: 9:01pm On Nov 16
Very wrong! That's lack of trust.
Probably you laced her with thunder bolt ,so you want to climb her now!

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by justtoodark: 9:02pm On Nov 16
Omodua:
Don't bother to ask her. Asking her is commiting yourself.

We have identical culture and traditional taboos guiding marriages. If she derailed in your absence, the god of the Land will deal with her only. You would only be involved if you know her adulterous outings and keep quiet.

So, don't bother to ask. She will suffer the consequences if she cheated in your absence.


that marriage will be fvcked if you risk it and land wrong anyways....

this is not the same thing as askin for a dna test for a child....
you have to be very sure of your accusations....as soon as you get women out of the mood of love then its over for sure....

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by JovialJune(f): 9:03pm On Nov 16
Rooneyx:

You sound like someone that’ll do way worse. How wide are you? He’s having doubt you’re spilling rubbish. Madam shut up pls

You mother's own must be as wide as a well for you to think every female is like her

Let me guess, you are a son of thousand fathers right? I'm not surprised, only your kind of breed can come up with a -0 IQ comment like yours

Never quote this moniker again.

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Omoawoke(m): 9:03pm On Nov 16
And you think she way say yes if she did

If a woman cheat on you, she will hold that secret even at point of death. She rather die and go to hell than confess.
Unless you catch her with all evidences, otherwise she will never agree she did

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Bluntemperor: 9:04pm On Nov 16
You questioning is suspicious!
Marriage is based on Trust,so if and since you don't Trust her,she should just moved away from you!
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Barcalee: 9:06pm On Nov 16
Alaye ask her point blank,we are talking tradition here not English language oooo,and more so life no get duplicate. If you fail to shout out you'll later run around shouting . A word is enough for the wise.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by justtoodark: 9:06pm On Nov 16
Bluntemperor:
You questioning is suspicious!
Marriage is based on Trust,so if and since you don't Trust her,she should just moved away from you!

and him from her simple....

they dont trust each other....soo whats the point....??
should we celebrate not trustin each other now....

yehh we happy for una you dont trust each other....

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by KosiGee(m): 9:08pm On Nov 16
MuslimIgbo:

You're brainwashed with stupidity and hypocrisy. I know your type...
Meanwhile, it doesn't matter if she tells the truth or not, the man's business is to ask and find out the truth.

You are brainwashed. Even with education, you can’t be helped.
I’ve seen lots of people like you, some are well educated, well travelled but can’t do away with this silly superstition.

If the wife cheats, it’s believed that something will happen to the man. You are just a victim of your own messed up mentality.
A woman could be cheating and the husband will have the best health, living the best life until he somehow learns or suspects that another man has slept with his wife…that’s when the trouble starts. His mental health dips, he turns a shadow of himself not because of the betrayal and unfaithfulness but because somewhere in Nsukka, he has been conditioned to believe that bad things will happen to him. That’s done bs bro

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by abbey621(m): 9:10pm On Nov 16
Got to believe this is for cruise and nothing else because it seems men of nowadays are no longer men but boys in disguise! As a man you've got to be 2 to 3 steps ahead of your woman. It's either you live in delulu and trust her completely or you do what most of us do which is TRUST BUT VERIFY!

Simple software on her phone allows you to monitor conversations!
Tiny recording device exists that allows you to hear everything.

If you're not into technology but still paranoid, go the traditional route, no need to explain that one too much but Yoruba people are experts!

All in all, the ball is in your court! Above all before you sleep with her make sure you and her get tested, since maritial trust is already compromised.....Ire oooo!
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by MuslimIgbo: 9:11pm On Nov 16
KosiGee:


You are brainwashed. Even with education, you can’t be helped.
I’ve seen lots of people like you, some are well educated, well travelled but can’t do away with this silly superstition.

If the wife cheats, it’s believed that something will happen to the man. You are just a victim of your own messed up mentality.
A woman could be cheating and the husband will have the best health, living the best life until he somehow learns or suspects that another man has slept with his wife…that’s when the trouble starts. His mental health dips, he turns a shadow of himself not because of the betrayal and unfaithfulness but because somewhere in Nsukka, he has been conditioned to believe that bad things will happen to him. That’s done bs bro
Brainwashed soul.
Your type will lie to yourself and still believe the lies grin
Only wasted loose people are usually triggered by issues like this. You'll need see a girl that's upright, with high morals and raised by responsible parents argue about morality like this.
Wasted soul.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by aidoko1: 9:11pm On Nov 16
If you be Igala you darr not.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by redcliff: 9:13pm On Nov 16
thesicilian:

Are you saying this because your instrument is smaller than every other person's?

If shatta bandles fit give woman belle there is no man above 5ft5 that has a small pinis. Most men are above 5ft5.

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