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Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Goodmarlian: 9:15pm On Nov 16
I met this very pretty girl on her first semester in school, after months of toasting her she accepted to be my girlfriend,we are all lovey dovey in school and many people are aware of our relationship this was early 2023 I liked her personality and picked her for marriage prospect she is just 23, I am an ex student and own a cafe In the school,.
however I notice that whenever my girl reaches home from school she doesn't pick calls any more or chat me up it seems our relationship ends temporarily once she leaves the school gate and secondly she doesn't allow me knack her just romance and kisses no matter how hard I try I just kept my cool because I am even sex freak but we always argue over her not answering my calls or chatting me up she always use her senior brothers as excuse.
The school went on a three months break before resuming last two weeks I didn't see her she doesn't even pick my calls or chat me up I just ignore the whole shiit and focus on my side chick,lo and behold she resumed lasy week heavily pregnant my God I was so hurt I didn't even bother talking to her and she saw the pain In my face and didn't bother talking to me either.
This week she came to my shop to withdraw cash from my pos and i attended to her shockingly I discovered she was wearing a wedding ring , a diamond one for that matter the pain In my heart was relieved immediately I just laughed and I asked her why she didn't invite for the wedding and why can't she be patient for me to hammer so I can marry her is it because the other guy is ready and rich? We both laughed and she told she was already married before gaining admission. and it was her husband sponsoring her to school omo my mouth open e no fit close again,omo I immediately cancelled the relationship and friendzoned her we can't continue this romance that will eventually destroy me.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by immortalcrown(m): 9:15pm On Nov 16
You are her spare tyre.

Resign from that role. Otherwise, she will be back, maybe when her husband travels and she needs the spare-tyre service.

She started a relationship with you but didn't want sex with you probably because there was a tamper proof somewhere.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by almarthins(m): 9:25pm On Nov 16
Goodmarlian:
I met this very pretty girl on her first semester in school, after months of toasting her she accepted to be my girlfriend,we are all lovey dovey in school and many people are aware of our relationship this was early 2023 I liked her personality and picked her for marriage prospect she is just 23, I am an ex student and own a cafe In the school,.
however I notice that whenever my girl reaches home from school she doesn't pick calls any more or chat me up it seems our relationship ends temporarily once she leaves the school gate and secondly she doesn't allow me knack her just romance and kisses no matter how hard I try I just kept my cool because I am even sex freak but we always argue over her not answering my calls or chatting me up she always use her senior brothers as excuse.
The school went on a three months break before resuming last two weeks I didn't see her she doesn't even pick my calls or chat me up I just ignore the whole shiit and focus on my side chick,lo and behold she resumed lasy week heavily pregnant my God I was so hurt I didn't even bother talking to her and she saw the pain In my face and didn't bother talking to me either.
This week she came to my shop to withdraw cash from my pos and i attended to her shockingly I discovered she was wearing a wedding ring , a diamond one for that matter the pain In my heart was relieved immediately I just laughed and I asked her why she didn't invite for the wedding and why can't she be patient for me to hammer so I can marry her is it because the other guy is ready and rich? We both laughed and she told she was already married before gaining admission. and it was her husband sponsoring her to school omo my mouth open e no fit close again,omo I immediately cancelled the relationship and friendzoned her we can't continue this romance that will eventually destroy me.

Aaah woman! Na why I dey always tell men to sow the seed first be that. Imagine say she let u sow the seed first, omo eyes for clear later later.
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by tnerro1(m): 9:29pm On Nov 16
So you slept with a married woman, wait make I report you to the oracle
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Aleem26(m): 10:49pm On Nov 16
U sabi diamond if you see am❓

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Holybaddo: 2:14am On Nov 17
Aleem26:
U sabi diamond if you see am❓

😆😆😆😆😆

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by lecowas: 3:38am On Nov 17
OP said he friendzoned her, joke of the century grin grin grin

Sorry to break it to you brother, she dumped ur broke ass.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Lifestone(m): 3:49am On Nov 17
immortalcrown:
You are her spare tyre.

Resign from that role. Otherwise, she will be back, maybe when her husband travels and she needs the spare-tyre service.

She started a relationship with you but didn't want sex with you probably because there was a tamper proof somewhere.
She was most likely pregnant by then, reason why she didn't allow sex.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by sharpwriter(m): 5:00am On Nov 17
Aleem26:
U sabi diamond if you see am❓
Lol... The thing funny to me too. He saw ring and concluded say na diamond. The guy was really hurt, hence his assumption cheesy grin

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by sharpwriter(m): 5:01am On Nov 17
tnerro1:
So you slept with a married woman, wait make I report you to the oracle
He didn't sleep with her. Read again angry

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by sharpwriter(m): 5:09am On Nov 17
Lifestone:

She was most likely pregnant by then, reason why she didn't allow sex.
The lady dey collect the little change our guy dey make for café dey use am chop dórímẹ́ cheesy cheesy that's her intention, camouflage as girlfriend, give the guy a little relationship and sexual hope through romance and kissing, then guy go release small small money. Nobody fit joke with any amount now, afterall, country hard grin cheesy
Thunder fire APC and T. Pain angry

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Blitzking: 5:40am On Nov 17
Goodmarlian:
I met this very pretty girl on her first semester in school, after months of toasting her she accepted to be my girlfriend,we are all lovey dovey in school and many people are aware of our relationship this was early 2023 I liked her personality and picked her for marriage prospect she is just 23, I am an ex student and own a cafe In the school,.
however I notice that whenever my girl reaches home from school she doesn't pick calls any more or chat me up it seems our relationship ends temporarily once she leaves the school gate and secondly she doesn't allow me knack her just romance and kisses no matter how hard I try I just kept my cool because I am even sex freak but we always argue over her not answering my calls or chatting me up she always use her senior brothers as excuse.
The school went on a three months break before resuming last two weeks I didn't see her she doesn't even pick my calls or chat me up I just ignore the whole shiit and focus on my side chick,lo and behold she resumed lasy week heavily pregnant my God I was so hurt I didn't even bother talking to her and she saw the pain In my face and didn't bother talking to me either.
This week she came to my shop to withdraw cash from my pos and i attended to her shockingly I discovered she was wearing a wedding ring , a diamond one for that matter the pain In my heart was relieved immediately I just laughed and I asked her why she didn't invite for the wedding and why can't she be patient for me to hammer so I can marry her is it because the other guy is ready and rich? We both laughed and she told she was already married before gaining admission. and it was her husband sponsoring her to school omo my mouth open e no fit close again,omo I immediately cancelled the relationship and friendzoned her we can't continue this romance that will eventually destroy me.
Lol u wan marry benefit boy wife...but she get mind.
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by zed7: 6:12am On Nov 17
Nothing should surprise anyone in life, especially things women do. Always know that since there are men addicted to alcohol, drugs, smoking,, sex etc, there is the female version of that man.

People are people, irrespective of their sex. I've seen married female bosses, preying on young male staff, just the way men do. I've seen young ladies, trying to get as much body count by approaching men for sex.

People are people. Our responsibility should be to always seek out people with good values, both male and female.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Baronthecelebri: 7:36am On Nov 17
Good for you, next time use your head
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by galadima77(m): 10:34am On Nov 17
OP, deep inside your instincts must have told you something's fishy when she didn't pick calls or respond while school's on break, and some other red flags you chose to ignore.

Gradually as life happens to you, you begin to develop the capacity to absorb life's shocks and move on. Leave revenge for the weak.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Nonexisting1: 10:46am On Nov 17
Why are you shouting help? She never told you she was married because you never asked. She has used you to temporarily resolve her emotional needs at the time she needed to because that's what women are, users. Breast you no press, toto you no fucck. Better luck next time my friend, and learn to always apply your brain before your dick.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by stainzvill(m): 10:47am On Nov 17
Why are u like this grin
Aleem26:
U sabi diamond if you see am❓

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Rizzputin(m): 10:53am On Nov 17
You were a side nigga she used for fun. No big deal. Keep smashing or move on
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Goodmarlian: 11:24am On Nov 17
lecowas:
OP said he friendzoned her, joke of the century grin grin grin

Sorry to break it to you brother, she dumped ur broke ass.

Did you read the story at all? Learn to read patiently
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Padipadi: 11:28am On Nov 17
immortalcrown:
You are her spare tyre.

Resign from that role. Otherwise, she will be back, maybe when her husband travels and she needs the spare-tyre service.

She started a relationship with you but didn't want sex with you probably because there was a tamper proof somewhere.
Sensini.
Goodmarlian, here's the likely summation.
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by detectivejones: 3:49pm On Nov 17
Aleem26:
U sabi diamond if you see am❓

😂😂😂 Was this the only thing that caught your eyes on the story?

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by detectivejones: 3:53pm On Nov 17
Nice way to console yourself, no be only "friendzoned her"😂😂


Wait ooo. She not picking your calls didn't send a signal to you? Na waooo for some men ooo una dey fall hand wellla.
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by dkidd: 4:01pm On Nov 17
Lol...
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by ItisWell22(f): 4:24pm On Nov 17
Aleem26:
U sabi diamond if you see am❓

The thing tire me oh.

Same way every golden ring is tagged GOLD.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by ItisWell22(f): 4:25pm On Nov 17
sharpwriter:

Lol... The thing funny to me too. He saw ring and concluded say na diamond. The guy was really hurt, hence his assumption cheesy grin

He had to make himself feel better, by assuming she left him for a “rich dude”.

The normal tale in such scenarios.

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Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by sharpwriter(m): 5:48pm On Nov 18
ItisWell22:


He had to make himself feel better, by assuming she left him for a “rich dude”.

The normal tale in such scenarios.
grin grin
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by Kobicove(m): 7:33pm On Nov 18
tnerro1:
So you slept with a married woman, wait make I report you to the oracle

It's obvious you did not read the story undecided
Re: Help! My New Girlfriend Never Told Me She A Married Woman. by tnerro1(m): 8:43pm On Nov 18
Kobicove:


It's obvious you did not read the story undecided

No vex, I was rushing to my neighbor‘s house wey cook rice for return match, I walk back my statement

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