jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

If you really love her, marry her without delay. The age difference is perfectly fine. My wife and I are happily married for three years with two kids, and I’m nine years older than her.

No, she is not too young for you. The average wide age difference is 7 to 12 yrs.

People only raise eyebrows when you are generations apart. Nothing new in 9yrs between a couple as long as you understand the realities of what it entails and do not expect more than she can give at 24.

I have a sister that is 20 but looks n behave older. My junior by 9 years. When I want to settle in some years' time, I'll go for someone in her age bracket. 9-12 years my junior

She is 24 years old and you think she is young ??I was thinking you are going to say 14 or 17 yrs old she is not be fast if you are readly

jbreezy:


Lol..I'm doing pretty good for myself..money ain't the issue

money aint the issue but sense stilllllllllll far

24, too young? a lady for that matter?...40 year olds full market, stop wasting the girls time

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

bro you not serious my age gap na 9years between me nd my banny, i don even forget sef say i senior her wella cos we best of friends. note we marride o

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

Go and marry your grandma age then.

Some stupid threads we see these days on nairaland front page.

I'm 19 years older than my lady and neither of us see anything wrong in that.

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

How is a 22 years old girl too old for you? Please remind me of Reginal Daniels and her husband's age again lol.

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

When people say, "Don't marry older men," they are not referring to men like RMD. RMD is 63, and he looks fitter than many men in their 30s.

The age gap should not be an issue; there is nothing wrong with marrying a younger or older woman. As long as you are fit enough for her, she is satisfied with you, and you are financially stable, you can marry her.

You can help her set up a business if she does not already have a stable job or a business, this will make your relationship healthier.

jbreezy:
Haha..nahh, I've not even kissed her before. I like her, just sensitive to people always saying 30+ men going for youngies are paedophiles

Lmao.. btw she don reach age of consent and again you no fit marry your age mate.. you better wise up carry the babe jeje make am your wife..

lecowas:
Even Ned Nwoko who is a public figure didn't ask this. The age difference is very okay as women tend to catch up later on. If you marry your mate, they may end up looking like ur mom at 50 while u're still bouncing around.

It is this school of thing that is making us to be looking at our mate.
Nothing in history ever stated that a man should marry his mate/woman. Historical men figures (Bible etc) all married, 10, 20, 30 years their juniour.

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

see wetin you dey talk sef. I am older than my wife with 12 years. Ned nwoko is over 40 years old than his wife. I know people who are 25 years older than their wives. You own na 9 years. You never ready to marry

She's not too small, except you want to marry an old woman

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

The fact that you ask this question, given her age as an adult, it shows you have decided not to marry her.

If you love her and want to marry her, you don't need to ask for other opinions.

All that matters is that you are not getting married to a teenager whom you love.

She is not too young. Even a girl of 22 is not too young for you. As long as you guys understand each other wants and needs. Goooood

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

The most important thing is if she’s matured enough for marriage. Maturity is not by age, it’s mostly a mind thing. She could be 35 and not ready to marry or 22 and ready to marry. You should have guessed by now having been with her for some time. Na she hold the key. I wish you luck

pocohantas:
No, she is not too young for you. The average wide age difference is 7 to 12 yrs.

People only raise eyebrows when you are generations apart. Nothing new in 9yrs between a couple as long as you understand the realities of what it entails and do not expect more than she can give at 24.

I won't argue with this at all. But though, these days, there's a stupid problem of phone/social media.
Before social media, everybody kind of had same mature mind.
So, 7–12-year age difference, both parties would be similarly minded and get along. Our parents and grandparents.
But this current generation that is governed by internet and smart phone.
The man's Internet, music, social media is 12 years different from the woman's internet, social media and music.
They are not on the same page at all and may ended MARRYING their PHONES instead to seek companionship with their phone, instead of finding companionship with their spouse and paying attention to their spouse.
It can lead to strained communication. You just don't understand me... etc.

She's 25 years older than you! In other words, she's too old for you at 24.

jbreezy:
Haha..nahh, I've not even kissed her before. I like her, just sensitive to people always saying 30+ men going for youngies are paedophiles

At this age and time, you still care about what people say and do. Quite strange isn't it.

jbreezy:
Haha..nahh, I've not even kissed her before. I like her, just sensitive to people always saying 30+ men going for youngies are paedophiles

.. 8 years difference isn't bad.. If you were talking 21 downwards then you should be worried.... But coming to think of it... Nigeria is gone... It's soo gone that secondary school girls were at a Yahoo men's/boys pool party....

jbreezy:
Haha..nahh, I've not even kissed her before. I like her, just sensitive to people always saying 30+ men going for youngies are paedophiles

De play try taste the car before you buy I dated a 24 yr old girl I told her openly I will taste the car before I buy.she started giving me church vibes but on my last birthday last year December I kiss her she sabi kiss o.

This girl sweet.

The younger the berry the sweeter the juice

Shy guys will be scared to even kiss a girl after 3month I will tell her to her face I will kiss her o. If she no want the door is open.

We dated for a ur her dad no let me go then next level with her so we break up this August

Meteng:
The most important thing is if she’s matured enough for marriage. Maturity is not by age, it’s mostly a mind thing. She could be 35 and not ready to marry or 22 and ready to marry. You should have guessed by now having been with her for some time. Na she hold the key. I wish you luck

Very true.... Remembered then before I married my wife... Lady I dated I was just 4 years older than her....she was sooo fking immatured and entitled... Till this day she isn't married.... So yeah maturity is key

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

Oga go and read ur holy book to seek for opinion. Because you will never get it here. Ode

you are doing pretty good and you no wan marry the girl

jbreezy:


Lol..I'm doing pretty good for myself..money ain't the issue

they lash person pikin for free

Just put yourself in ned nwoko shoes and you are good to go

I'm already 33 and my wife whom i married this year is 24.... Bro the age difference is perfect..

Dey play!!!!
Am 16 years older than my girl, the family dey zuzu (igbo people with their wahala), I go knack her Belle!!!
I just dey wait for her approval.
Correct girl na rare commodity now oooo

Apparently, there is a calculator used in the US for these kind of things. Your age divided by 2 ,then add 7. That's the lower age limit that you can go for. So,based on the above, your age limit should be 23.5. You barely scraped through 😂🤣

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

jbreezy:
Haha..nahh, I've not even kissed her before. I like her, just sensitive to people always saying 30+ men going for youngies are paedophiles

You are on point..






However avoid replying fools like this

Carndidlaydid:
Hope you have not had anything to do with that poor girl...


You manipulative thing

Make good use of your sense if you have at all

sonsomegrigbo:





Make good use of your sense if you have at all

In your life never ever quote me ..