MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

DejiPlug:
Praise GOD

Nigerian man sparks online debate after sharing his family drama in an anonymous post through social media influencer @Wizarab.

According to his account, he revealed his sister’s repeated infidelity to her husband, a man who had played a pivotal role in his own financial stability and supported their family extensively.



Opinions are welcome

Jesus is Lord

DollarSigns:

A lot of people will come attacking you
But don’t be dismayed, that’s how Jesus in his infinite wisdom was treated when he was on earth
Your comment is an example of clear cut wisdom
Family denotes bond; temporary solace/peace of mind
Had the sister been wicked and not allow the said husband help him (the foolish brother) in any way, would he have done same to her?
I blame the sister for opening a door so wide that it was grossly downtrodden
Unmarried man Dey go meddle for married people affairs against his own kin citing destiny helper
A clown and fool for life
Only a foolish man doesn’t know that cat do not eat its kind
Only dogs do cos they can’t tell🥹

maziude:


Fact: the sister cheated.

Fiction: your hypothetical situation.

Let’s call a spade, a spade.

It is wrong, it is wrong.

chris51:
I support you 100% and I'm sure God will bless you you.

Your family is unfair to you. How can they encourage immoral acts of your sister?

Hotfreezer:


There is a reason why Igbos have the highest rate of bastards in West Africa.

boxypane:
God bless. You just saved your family indirect. That your papa na yahoo man. What is the world turning into??

Believeintruth:

Unfortunately the statistics show that Yorubas have high rate of paternity fraud. Your hatred and bitterness is more of a mental sickness.

DeepSight:


I dont know about what is wrong oh. Because I am not a party to their marriage. Let us say she cheated. Who appointed her brother the Inspector General over her marriage.

You guys are drunk.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

CJStarz:
No Igbo man would do this to his family.
He could have found other ways of halting or correcting the sister.
Las las, family above all.

Lamasta:


The way you are typing already shows that people like you have tendency of supporting and abating criminals cos your continued silence shows your support to it and the young man is fed up with such cos of his conscience coupled with the fact that the man is benevolent to the family and did not deserve such from the wife.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

maziude:


You are the one with the double standard.

If you say this guy is wrong for being ‘truthful’, then your leaders are right for being corrupt.

DeepSight:


Corruption in public office is a public matter. The matters of the heart in a marriage are a private matter. I dont know what kind of indiscreet and thoughtless person believes it is his duty to go about revealing every private indiscretion in a marriage which he stumbles upon, when he may not even know the beginning or the end of that indiscretion.

aswani:


Your defence is so weak that I suspect you are just playing devil's advocate.

DeepSight:


You simply are not being thoughtful. It is not your business to go about gossiping in the name of truth. Those are private matters. You are not the morality police. No one appointed you to that role. The only thing that is itching you to go and tell what is none of your business is gbegborun.

What is wrong with leaving them alone? Is it your marriage?

Anyway, we cant start this again. I remember telling you yesterday to enjoy your planned career as a gossip reporter.

aswani:


You jus dey catch cruise. Not a hope in hell can you believe all this stuff you are posting.

You are good at it I must admit. For you to draw me back after I had closed the chapter on it, you are very good at it.

DeepSight:


I didnt draw you back. If I mean to draw you back I will really take my time and give you many angles to think of. But its up to you to think for yourself. I sense you are a very young person from a number of things you have said (not that they are foolish, but they sound so innocent). So in time I think you will realize that these things are not black and white and there is more nuance involved than you think. It is not so simple as seeing one person having an affair on the side and pointing to them and shouting - "Jezebel! I must report you!" Then running off as the morality police that you are to the spouse to report. Then you dust your hands and congratulate yourself for being righteous.

In many cases what you may have just accomplished is broken a home unnecessarily, render children fatherless or motherless, cause unmentionable heartache, and in some cases even death, or grievous bodily harm. You dont know what you are starting and no one asked you to. The two people involved know much better the whys and wherefores of their relationship. Also in many cases you will end up with egg on your face because they will unite and despise you forever.

But as I said, enjoy your reporting career. After a few "successful" reports, no one will tell you before you wise up and know that fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

aswani:


The fact that you are responding even before the post has been submitted (I am making a point, I know it's not possible) suggests you are primed and waiting.

The person cheating is the one breaking the home, not the person that rightfully outed them. But you knew that anyway.

Like I said Kudos to you. Hopefully I can now sit back to enjoy your defence of the indefensible without saying anything. That's on me though.

Ihebu4chelsea:
you think maturity is by age? It's obvious you will take back a cheating partner for reasons best known to you. It's a pity!

Solofresh2:
Oga let's tell our self the truth, and be real with it.If the husband hadn't helped the family the way he did, the guy wouldn't bother telling him anything at all

Lamasta:


Everything about your stand is based on money and not good morals.....

That young man has been waiting for her Sister to change for better but she refuses to do the needful, I see no reason why you are still basing his decision to inform the Sister's husband on the ground of he was jealous and because of money, does that make any sense to you

aswani:


Your defence is so weak that I suspect you are just playing devil's advocate.

ElevationD:



“So the sister did right…”. That absolutely was not his business.

Cheating on your spouse is improper, but a family member who is a dependant, has no business reporting his benefactor to the spouse for gain! His sister was his benefactor.

Did he report his sister just because he felt it was immoral? For me I can safely say NO. It was eye service and an outright attempt to gain advantage over his sister. Again, it is highly probable that he was always jealous of his sister success and sought ways to nail her. When you read such stories, look through them and think about possibilities.

The sister was their family’s bread winner. What he did was to block their financial source. His reason is close to his heart. I can safely bet that the young man cannot be trusted to help lift up his own family.

Regarding the marriage. It was the business of the unsuspecting husband to find out, if he ever had any reason to.

Now the young man broke up the home. Set the children apart from their parents and put the entire family in disarray.

Infidelity is handled with a lot of care. It is not a childish matter or a matter to be handled with immaturity.

Will you do such a thing to your sister?
If a member of your family does such, will you find not fight?

Susily:



Nah. The philandering LovePeddler was the one solely responsible for breaking her home by opening her legs outside wedlock and not her brother

She should face the consequences of the fallout as she's solely to be blamed

It's as simple as ABC

Susily:



Nah. The philandering LovePeddler was the one solely responsible for breaking her home by opening her legs outside wedlock and not her brother

She should face the consequences of the fallout as she's solely to be blamed

It's as simple as ABC

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.