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Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Sirchiboy: 7:34am On Dec 01
I only hear it on internet but haven't really seen one
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Natbrowny: 7:39am On Dec 01
😂 Danladi my streetG Just help me construct one long bench. Na ontop i sit down like dis. E fit carry 15 people

Here to read and learn and maybe laugh

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Samantha125(f): 7:47am On Dec 01
It's called girlfriend allowance... grin grin grin

I've never received one, so I'm not sure.
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by nicho450(m): 7:51am On Dec 01
. grin

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Nairalander248: 7:55am On Dec 01
nicho450:
Before I got married, I place my woman on monthly allowance.

After marriage, I increased it

The one you told us how you found out she was lying about her salary in 2022?

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by nicho450(m): 7:58am On Dec 01
Nairalander248:


The one you told us how you found out she was lying about her salary in 2022?

That one is fiction

It is copy and paste
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by MadamVanessa(f): 8:02am On Dec 01
shocked



The only women who rightfully deserve financial support from you are your mother and wife. Spoiling other women financially can create unrealistic expectations and unfairly tarnish the reputation of hardworking, independent women who have earned their own success without relying on a man's support.

I'm not saying it's wrong to support your girlfriend if you choose to. However, avoid creating a sense of entitlement. Instead, encourage and support her independence, allowing her to work and earn her own financial freedom.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Nairalander248: 8:03am On Dec 01
nicho450:


That one is fiction

It is copy and paste

Okay.

My wife earn more than I do, but I still give her allowance and she's always appreciate and happy about it...

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Merry100: 8:37am On Dec 01
Yes, they do. I have a friend who received a monthly allowance for her upkeep from her husband before they got married. I was her maid of honour. He was 36, and she was 38. On the day he proposed to her, he gifted her a car. True men can easily recognize potential.

The guy even had to reassure her that he was different. She was skeptical about men because her long-term ex bf exploited her.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Nazgul: 8:43am On Dec 01
Sirchiboy:
I only hear it on internet but haven't really seen one
People do it. But believe me, it's a very foolish thing to do.

I see guys who do it as people with low self esteem. Cos I can't see myself paying someone to date me. If you want money, send me your credentials I'll help you get a job...but for me to be paying you monthly for dating me... No way.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by DeeScan: 8:43am On Dec 01
well if i'm going to receive bf allowance too .. no wahala ...
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by pryme(m): 8:45am On Dec 01
MadamVanessa:
shocked



The only women who rightfully deserve financial support from you are your mother and wife. Spoiling other women financially can create unrealistic expectations and unfairly tarnish the reputation of hardworking, independent women who have earned their own success without relying on a man's support.

I'm not saying it's wrong to support your girlfriend if you choose to. However, avoid creating a sense of entitlement. Instead, encourage and support her independence, allowing her to work and earn her own financial freedom.

Funny enough some mothers and wives deserve nothing from you, apart from the entitlement aspect (which you won't see in a good woman) some woman deserve to be given more than that, and such women are the ones that can make a man complete.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by nicho450(m): 9:22am On Dec 01
Nairalander248:


Okay.

My wife earn more than I do, but I still give her allowance and she's always appreciate and happy about it...

Yes that's how it is suppose to be
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by advanceDNA: 9:42am On Dec 01
DeeScan:
well if i'm going to receive bf allowance too .. no wahala ...

bf allowance?? LoL !! Women's brain don't work like that...
They believe they are already doing u the greatest favour with their vagina....so even if u give them 800million dollars...the vagina is still greater

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Slydan204: 10:10am On Dec 01
Toto Maintenance Allowance (TMA). Hmm, what do I even know sef
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by idahme(m): 1:06pm On Dec 01
Nazgul:

People do it. But believe me, it's a very foolish thing to do.

I see guys who do it as people with low self esteem. Cos I can't see myself paying someone to date me. If you want money, send me your credentials I'll help you get a job...but for me to be paying you monthly for dating me... No way.



I agree with you, interesting 99% of ladies who demand that they get paid for dating if you stop that money they will break up with you meaning they can't be with you if you don't pay them. Imagine my ex even mentioning it to my that her ex paid her monthly up that made me to remove money from the relationship to gauge her level of interest, she broke up after 3 months. Assuming I don't know the psychology of ladies she would have used me for the cleaners.

Same way I see men paying women (prostitutes) for sex, it's very disgusting to me. If a woman wants to see me as an IGR , that's a wrong move it will certainly hit the rocks. You will hear these same men let's educate the girl child and then after educating the girl child she then b comes and adult and refuses to be responsible adult who firstly should be responsible for herself before anyone else. This is how entitlement starts

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by idahme(m): 1:08pm On Dec 01
nicho450:


Yes that's how it is suppose to be


That's how he wants it to be and not how it's supposed tow abe, your reality is not others reality. This is how men who behave certain way call themselves real men and others who don't follow herd mentality are not real men. I prefer not to be a real man but a man.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Blitzking: 1:41pm On Dec 01
Samantha125:
It's called girlfriend allowance... grin grin grin

I've never received one, so I'm not sure.
If u fine I can put you on a gf alawee...
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Samantha125(f): 1:42pm On Dec 01
What do you do for a living?😏😏😏
Blitzking:

If u fine I can put you on a gf alawee...
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by nicho450(m): 2:12pm On Dec 01
idahme:



That's how he wants it to be and not how it's supposed tow abe, your reality is not others reality. This is how men who behave certain way call themselves real men and others who don't follow herd mentality are not real men. I prefer not to be a real man but a man.

That's how he wants it to be

Thank you for making it right

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Blitzking: 2:27pm On Dec 01
Samantha125:
What do you do for a living?😏😏😏
Healthcare entrepreneur
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Samantha125(f): 2:31pm On Dec 01
That's nice... But last thing I'd want is for a man to start complaining about how he used to give me girlfriend allowance, if it happens that things don't workout.
Blitzking:

Healthcare entrepreneur
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by richmond500: 2:35pm On Dec 01
Samantha125:
It's called girlfriend allowance... grin grin grin

I've never received one, so I'm not sure.
u no be understanding girlfriend na
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by tanigororo: 2:47pm On Dec 01
Sirchiboy:
I only hear it on internet but haven't really seen one
It's true, I assigned 45% of my 1million Naira Salary to my Girlfriend, despite the fact that I have never touched her.
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Blitzking: 3:29pm On Dec 01
Samantha125:
That's nice... But last thing I'd want is for a man to start complaining about how he used to give me girlfriend allowance, if it happens that things don't workout.
The lady must play her part by being truly committed and not for the money. I can spot it from a mile away.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Gadafii: 3:38pm On Dec 01
Some weak men still do.

One was lamenting few days ago that he wants the two cars and over 100million he had sent to his ex girlfriend all in the space of two months.

The girl said all the money he ever sent to her was not more than 2millions and she's not refunding 1 naira, it was clear the girl never really even liked him while he was sure his money could buy her over.

If you have to pay your girl monthly, you have failed.

Best you can do is help her get a skill or job so she can earn and take care of herself, but many of you will learn the hard way, that's if you are not an eternal mumu with money.

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Gadafii: 3:38pm On Dec 01
tanigororo:

It's true, I assigned 45% of my 1million Naira Salary to my Girlfriend, despite the fact that I have never touched her.
weldone my brr.

Please when you finally touch her, ensure to assign over 98 of your salary to her, she's worth more than that, after all you don't have ambition in this life, so keep this particular one up chief, I dey with you on this

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Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by tanigororo: 3:59pm On Dec 01
Gadafii:
weldone my brr.

Please when you finally touch her, ensure to assign over 98 of your salary to her, she's worth more than that, after all you don't have ambition in this life, so keep this particular one up chief, I dey with you on this
Thanks my friend, I even dey book Bolt for her whenever she is going to her ex house in Shangisha, if she is sleeping over that's extra 200k in her account in case of emergency 🦺
I no dey take my Babe play 😘 Ooo
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by tunjijones(m): 8:07pm On Dec 01
Some foolish guys do...
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by Sirchiboy: 8:14pm On Dec 01
tanigororo:

Thanks my friend, I even dey book Bolt for her whenever she is going to her ex house in Shangisha, if she is sleeping over that's extra 200k in her account in case of emergency 🦺
I no dey take my Babe play 😘 Ooo
..
I command you to send 100m into my account now
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by tanigororo: 10:41pm On Dec 01
Sirchiboy:
..
I command you to send 100m into my account now
You don't have 2 mutual benefits
Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by verminnel(f): 3:45am On Dec 02
Monthly? haba naw, relationships should be mutual. sounds like something a simpleton would do

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