My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

she is already having side chek

I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

Such a nice woman.

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

No mind all those trouble makers wey small power dey shack.

My father was in the army and so was my mother's father.
If anyone of us goes out making trouble thinking they will call soldiers on our behalf, they will first kick our butts before looking into the matter. We were always warned to "behave ourselves".

yomi007k:


No mind all those trouble makers wey small power dey shack.

My father was in the army and so was my mother's father.
If anyone of us goes out making trouble thinking they will call soldiers on our behalf, they will first kick our butts before looking into the matter. We were always warned to "behave ourselves".

Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃

pocohantas:


Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃

No...na captain planet

yomi007k:


No...na captain planet

Lol! I am not sure I watched this one. 😂😂

yomi007k:


No mind all those trouble makers wey small power dey shack.

My father was in the army and so was my mother's father.
If anyone of us goes out making trouble thinking they will call soldiers on our behalf, they will first kick our butts before looking into the matter. We were always warned to "behave ourselves".

bt dey will look into it eventually...


I don tire for marriage sef... after na pregnancy lie she take hold me enter marriage.

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

u don't know how it feels...

Marrying a woman that is a feminist and woke. Always right and wants to be in charge of u like u are a baby. Tells u how to do and undo things yet she can never stage an arrest for u.

Asquare84:
Such a nice woman.

nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies

Your wife is simply the kind of person we want in our society.....Her likes see every public office as a platform to serve the people and not to abuse their powers........

Na people like una go wan dey oppress others simply because una get big people for army . But thank God your wife is wise

May God bless her

pocohantas:


Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃

d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Ringstonermasks:
bt dey will look into it eventually...


I don tire for marriage sef... after na pregnancy lie she take hold me enter marriage.

Oga relax. Take deep breaths. Remove negative thoughts from your mind.

Do this every hour of the day for like 5 minutes and see how peaceful you will become.

yomi007k:


Oga relax. Take deep breaths. Remove negative thoughts from your mind.

Do this every hour of the day for like 5 minutes and see how peaceful you will become.

after five days, who will fight d battle ?

Ringstonermasks:
after five days, who will fight d battle ?

Pls kindly tell your wife that their is forum called Nairaland.

TELL THAT MANY OF US HERE APPRECIATE HER PATRIOTIC SERVICE TO THE NATION AND ESPECIALLY HER RESPECT TO RULE OF LAW.

She is exactly how we want our military to be.

Ringstonermasks:
after five days, who will fight d battle ?

What battle?

Ringstonermasks:
u don't know how it feels...

Marrying a woman that is a feminist and woke. Always right and wants to be in charge of u like u are a baby. Tells u how to do and undo things yet she can never stage an arrest for u.

Naso. Now na feminist done enter am.
We the evil feminists are proud of her. I hope other women that go fighting their husband's battles can learn from her. Because some women, once the husband tells them small secret, they will carry it for head and start beefing in-laws and friends. Turn the table and men would settle it man-to-man.

yomi007k:


What battle?

d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow

Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow

Just relax first. It is good to snap the pictures as evidence. You sound angry but anger will only worsen issues.

In life we really need to lower our expectations in order to reduce disappointments. Just imagine that your wife was not in the army, how would you have handled this case?

Correct woman

You be weakling

You expect her to be fighting your battles for you because she's in the military

You be disgraceeee to our gender

Ringstonermasks:
➜My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me. I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on. We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.
➜ My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again. She wasn't like that until we got married.
➜Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

You came to tell us you have a problem with your wife's refusal to abuse her power and you want us to say what exactly against that?

2. You should take the case to the police and get it properly investigated. I am not sure what you expect an army officer to deal with what seems like a civilian matter.

3. Someone said, "Nigerians do not hate corruption. Rather they hate it when they are not the ones benefitting from the corruption." Ogbeni, consider this carefully.

Ringstonermasks:
➜u don't know how it feels... Marrying a woman that is a feminist and woke. Always right and wants to be in charge of u like u are a baby. Tells u how to do and undo things yet she can never stage an arrest for u.

Assuming she is doing all this out of genuine concern for that which is right and not that she has checked out of her marriage to you, then I say that woman is very unlucky to have you as a spouse! Kai!

Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies

She has done it twice and not just once, I think she has a professional reason why she doesn't want to be involved in such matters.
After all, the child is also hers

Remember a woman's pride is her child, so if her child is getting harassed and she's not stepping in, maybe she has once been involved in such situation and has been cautioned.
If you live in the barracks, you might need to move out

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Ringstonermasks:
u don't know how it feels...

Marrying a woman that is a feminist and woke. Always right and wants to be in charge of u like u are a baby. Tells u how to do and undo things yet she can never stage an arrest for u.

You have a good and amazing woman, but it seems like your low self-esteem is clouding your perspective. You think she’s trying to dominate you, but that’s not the case. Why not collaborate with her and build something great together? Women like her are rare, and honestly, she’s the kind of partner I’ve been looking for. If not for the fact that you already have a child together, I’d have asked for her number—I just want to ask her something. 🤠

Your wife is a sparogative good officer, leave her alone. If you get problem call God

Guy I had to login my account so I can comment on this.

I think the woman is going places high places..and forced or not.. you should enjoy the ride... it would be a time of your life and believe me it would be Worth your while... but I still can't take the humor out of this story..


So soldier use fear force Belle for your head?...How you wan take b Man for this kind marriage.. she go call van for your head when you try dose Una Nigerian Men misogynistic nonsense

It's quite depressing, maybe you guys should have a heart to heart talk. Better still visit any good marriage councilor.

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Sorry, but how old are you? 12?

You should have married a tout, bro. Military women are kindhearted and adorable.

Ringstonermasks:
✓ d boy was bullied and nearly killed...
✓ U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control. Am just waiting for her off. I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

The boy was bullied...a civil case that should be handled by the police. There is no need to drag the fact that the woman is an army officer into it.🤔

2. Probably for the best then! 🤔