A good, beautiful woman.
A cool Woman.

PlasmaTV:

Sorry, but how old are you? 12?

He sounds very childish to me, thereby making me to even doubt the story

Is it that she doesn't care about u at all, or she want the case to follow due process by allowing the right authority to tackle the issue... before she can come in incase if there is any partiality..Or u want her to use her power to protect by all means...

Your wife is a wise woman..

You obviously don't love/like your wife. You don't deserve her.

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

you guys when. So you want her to misuse power? She told you to call police which is d right thing. I’m sure you married her to oppress people

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Your plan to tame a feminist failed woefully and now you are crying b!ood You want to rubbish her integrity because you can’t be her.

Do you think she got to the position of a Lieutenant by being a troublemaker? Yeye Dey smell! Hopefully you get your introduction money back. Poor you that couldn’t even afford to give the bride price. You called her mother because her father already saw through you.

People advise your sisters and daughters to not marry down to avoid this kind of stories. I hope the next time you go out making trouble you are dealt with.

pocohantas:


Naso. Now na feminist done enter am.
We the evil feminists are proud of her. I hope other women that go fighting their husband's battles can learn from her. Because some women, once the husband tells them small secret, they will carry it for head and start beefing in-laws and friends. Turn the table and men would settle it man-to-man.

even her knows she fuckeed up, she has apologized and her family called too... it better she tells me she was cautioned against using her office, that would have been understandable rather than making me feel neglected.

D possibility of me being kidnapped and she telling the kidnapper to kiss her ass is still very much possible with that act.

Anyways, she loves me... we went to thesame primary sch as close friends, dsame secondary school together, nd we av been together ever since then, only guy she ever had anything with... I'm 100% sure she won't gamble with her marriage considering her own proud personality and how she portrays herself to people about me.

pocohantas:


Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃

a wife supposed to support her husband. Even if she doesn't want to go, y can't she call police for the boy on my behalf or even handle the situation since I was unreachable that moment.

Sonnobax15:

Your wife is simply the kind of person we want in our society.....Her likes see every public office as a platform to serve the people and not to abuse their powers........

Na people like una go wan dey oppress others simply because una get big people for army . But thank God your wife is wise

May God bless her

So if someone beats ur boy and u are unreachable, ur wife can not help or atleast call Police or someone to go and help ur boy out ?


That's sad.

obiekunie01:


Pls kindly tell your wife that their is forum called Nairaland.

TELL THAT MANY OF US HERE APPRECIATE HER PATRIOTIC SERVICE TO THE NATION AND ESPECIALLY HER RESPECT TO RULE OF LAW.

She is exactly how we want our military to be.

No, that's not how a wife behaves.

A wife supposed to support her husband irrespective of the action, and then caution the husband in private.

What happened to calling the police to help my boy as i was unreachable that moment. She has the DPO number, her sister is a magistrate, that would be reasonable.

Y didn't she call my brother or someone to help my boy out?

duduade:
Correct woman

You be weakling

You expect her to be fighting your battles for you because she's in the military

You be disgraceeee to our gender

I expect her to support me, she could have just call d police to help my boy out. Or even call someone to look into the matter since i was unreachable that moment.

In my opinion, she is doing the right thing.

Mr OP, she may be your wife....but she knows her boundaries, for such trivial matters why not involve the police as she rightly adviced?

Imagine if she drilled the person you and your boy had issues with and he eventually faints and dies, who would you blame ?

Your wife?
Yourself?
Your boy?
Or the person?

Your wife reminds me of my brother. Even when he became a very senior officer, he won't help.

Shebi you be man
So because she be lieutenant, make she turn herself to MC oluomo because of you.
Act like Man
You are to protect her and her children not the other way round.....
Bro grow up Man
Take responsibility.
No be you go dey tell her when to fight for you , when it is time to, nobody go tell her.

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

You are a dunce. You don't even sound like a man, how will one accord you respect that you don't deserve? Mumu man.

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

The rule is " try your best to de-escalate the situation"... your wife is well trained

That is how she is supposed to be. She is not the Police to meddle in such affairs.

Your wife is the kind of woman I would love to associate with, it's very shameful that you want her to illegally misuse her constitutional powers to perpetuate evil against hapless citizens of the country. That lady is thoo good for an evil minded person like you, you are a disgrace and should never have the opportunity to hold any power of any kind else citizens will suffer for it.

You are a disgrace of a man, pathetic.

yomi007k:


No mind all those trouble makers wey small power dey shack.

My father was in the army and so was my mother's father.
If anyone of us goes out making trouble thinking they will call soldiers on our behalf, they will first kick our butts before looking into the matter. We were always warned to "behave ourselves".

My late father was a police officer, and retired as an Assistant Commissioner of Police, but we were always told to behave ourselves whenever we were outside. I grew up with that mindset!

Because you married soldier and a lieutenant ..... No mean say she go kill herself for and fight all your battles

Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow

You are a dullard. Go to the police. If I see you I go best you join. Mumu of a man. She deserves a better man. Olodo!

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

You have a wise woman for a wife... a woman that defers to you as the head of the house who should have the ability to use his critical problem-solving abilities as a man to resolve conflict.

But here you are, trying to use her as a problem-solving tool barrack-style to solve problems you are directly responsible for.
Why are you always getting into conflict with people all around? You think because you have a soldier for a wife, you can use it as a tool to be looking for trouble up and down so she will send her boys to teach the other party a lesson. People have been unalived down the road over trivial issues because of this.

Supposing she sends her boys to beat up the other party and the person dies or is badly injured...maybe the person may even be related to someone in power. That is how your indiscretion then puts her in trouble.

Let me tell you something about the military. There are places you work with that lying low and not drawing undue attention to yourself and position is just the best. Ask those in mil int...they will tell you better.

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

major general dey lubricate your wife hence her behaviour

When we are telling you that the worse set of people female to marry are soldiers especially Nigeria army 🪖

Why will you even step so low to marry an army personnel for that matter?

Otilor

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

You are a boy..
Grow up...your wife yen yen yen...
Cry cry baby

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

Your wife is doing the right thing. It is paining you because she won't use her position to act like a thug. You should be proud of her not bellyaching like a helpless baby.

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

This isn't about gender, if you are truthful either you or a family member must have used a military personnel to intimidate civilians in civil cases which is bad. You as a woman shouldn't call a man who is a personnel of the military for civil matters because it's wrong and not because of stupid gender issues.

When will you ladies stop this nonsense narrative?

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

My bro that is what is called maturity, what if she wasn't a Soldier, wunt u clear ur mess

so you want your wife to abuse the privilege of being an army officer. You av to marry a police cobra

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

Yes you are right but not in every case.... When my friends wife was jacked by one chance..he could hear her shouting and screaming for help on the phone. He couldn't reach out to anyone but to us(not exactly military)..... Trust me under 40 min we swang into action and got the situation under control...... If he had gone to the police only heaven knows what would have happened...... In the security sector there are laws that provision for matters that requires us to activate help from the inside.... Why do you think most junior officers attend civilian matters for Friends and relatives with no name badge Although to an extent people abuse the privileges

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

The woman respects her uniform and rank. Obviously, he wants her to use her position to sort out every minor issue when in reality the army is not meant to interfere in civil matters that do not threaten national security.