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Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 11:18am On Dec 04
AngelSlay:
grin

I literally just told you and have multiple times

Cancer 6 years ago passing away 2 months after our daughter was born
A brain tumour

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Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 12:54pm On Dec 04
Onegai:


(Ehhh, I'm not a fan of mercenaries, but that's between you and the Lord, I won't judge you).

I'm not saying you don't deserve happiness, everyone does.

I'm saying, of course you make her feel safe, secured and loved. You're hero, the age gap and your money make her feel that way. I was once her age. Older men made me feel that way, especially when they had money. If they don't have money, they look pathetic. If she was older and established, I'd be wishing you all the best. I've got several classmates in interracial marriages and they're going well.

Anyhoo, please ignore me. You're not hurting anyone (well done for taking care of your late wife during her cancer).

Just be careful with this one. I'm glad she's signing a prenuptial. Protect yourself. Make sure she never comes between you and your daughter, no ifs or buts.

Women from 3rd world countries are usually survivors and are tough as nails. Make no mistake about it.

There's a saying in Igbo land: "if you're going to eat a frog, eat one that has eggs so at least there's some benefit when people call you a frog eater".

Congratulations on your marriage, dude.

You dont even know why Africa is a 3rd world country its not your economy, its not your way of life

Its because of the cold war

1st world all countries allied with America

2nd world all countries allied with Russia

3rd world all countries not involved

And who says shes broke?

Who said i met her in Nigeria?

I said i came because my daughter asked to, this amazing woman chose to come back with me as she works remotely so all she needs is a laptop and her income is not naira

So please stop judging by your standards and the way you think
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 1:13pm On Dec 04
All i came on here for was advice about the introduction nothing else as i cant mentally cope with how Nigerians do it and very few non Nigerians can, turns out its not an issues as her family dont care her brothers sorted it, the issue was just 1 pig headed man thats not her blood and married her aunt not even her tribe but thought he could throw weight around

Its you lot on here that made all ridiculous assumptions and added your own issues
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Onegai(f): 8:02pm On Dec 04
Fenrir:


You dont even know why Africa is a 3rd world country its not your economy, its not your way of life

Its because of the cold war

1st world all countries allied with America

2nd world all countries allied with Russia

3rd world all countries not involved

And who says shes broke?

Who said i met her in Nigeria?

I said i came because my daughter asked to, this amazing woman chose to come back with me as she works remotely so all she needs is a laptop and her income is not naira

So please stop judging by your standards and the way you think



Oya, no vex.

Truth is, the Rule most of the time is what most of us see. It does seem you're the exception.

Congratulations to you and your future wife. I'll go modify my post now

And I'm sure I know why my country is shite, I chose to move back to it in the glorious hopes that things would turn around, but alas...

Fenrir:


And i was a royal marine

And unlike you nancy boys we will fight for other countries taking bullets for people we have never met and will never meet just to protect innocent women and children

And let's just stay on topic please. Because whilst you believe his majesty's military was running around the world, fighting for noble causes, I would hate to bring up what British forces did (and probably still do) in Kenya to innocent women.

You guys have quite the reputation there.
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 8:58pm On Dec 04
Onegai:


Oya, no vex.

Truth is, the Rule most of the time is what most of us see. It does seem you're the exception.

Congratulations to you and your future wife. I'll go modify my post now

And I'm sure I know why my country is shite, I chose to move back to it in the glorious hopes that things would turn around, but alas...



And let's just stay on topic please. Because whilst you believe his majesty's military was running around the world, fighting for noble causes, I would hate to bring up what British forces did (and probably still do) in Kenya to innocent women.

You guys have quite the reputation there.

Im not British im Scandinavian but do hear of Scandinavian counties going to war these days?

I war given a condition to join a military do 12 years service and fight in war for an inheritance so i had to pick a military that actually goes to war

But i still kept the honour and duty of clan
THE WARRIORS OF THE NORTHERN LANDS we fight for freedom not to abuse
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 9:04pm On Dec 04
Onegai:


Oya, no vex.

Truth is, the Rule most of the time is what most of us see. It does seem you're the exception.

Congratulations to you and your future wife. I'll go modify my post now

And I'm sure I know why my country is shite, I chose to move back to it in the glorious hopes that things would turn around, but alas...



And let's just stay on topic please. Because whilst you believe his majesty's military was running around the world, fighting for noble causes, I would hate to bring up what British forces did (and probably still do) in Kenya to innocent women.

You guys have quite the reputation there.

And hes not my king Scandinavia is

Norway
Sweden
Denmark
Finland
Iceland
Greenland

Norway and Sweden. Have royal families finland and Denmark dont

Im Norwegian /swedish dads side and Norwegian /Danish mums side 0% British
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Maeve7: 9:14pm On Dec 04
Fenrir, I‘m glad you have found love. Happy married life. I hope you and your future wife will compromise where needed and have a wonderful unforgottable wedding ceremony. All the best!
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 9:16pm On Dec 04
Onegai:


Oya, no vex.

Truth is, the Rule most of the time is what most of us see. It does seem you're the exception.

Congratulations to you and your future wife. I'll go modify my post now

And I'm sure I know why my country is shite, I chose to move back to it in the glorious hopes that things would turn around, but alas...



And let's just stay on topic please. Because whilst you believe his majesty's military was running around the world, fighting for noble causes, I would hate to bring up what British forces did (and probably still do) in Kenya to innocent women.

You guys have quite the reputation there.

I fought in Afghanistan and if i personally was ordered to do anything to this paradise or any African nation i would have refused and done the prison sentence Africa is the cradle of our entire species no matter race or nationality

And do not care what any religious book says we have proof the first humans were Africans not other races, we all came later through mutations to adapt to new environments

That's the magic of science things that can actually be proven
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 9:41pm On Dec 04
Onegai:


Oya, no vex.

Truth is, the Rule most of the time is what most of us see. It does seem you're the exception.

Congratulations to you and your future wife. I'll go modify my post now

And I'm sure I know why my country is shite, I chose to move back to it in the glorious hopes that things would turn around, but alas...

And there nothing wrong with your country lady its a paradise
You can grow crops
You can raise cattle
You have water
Marvellous fishing for food and sport

The problem is the people you let run the country
Exhibit A= that corrupt asshole you call a jagaban



And let's just stay on topic please. Because whilst you believe his majesty's military was running around the world, fighting for noble causes, I would hate to bring up what British forces did (and probably still do) in Kenya to innocent women.

You guys have quite the reputation there.
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by We4all: 9:59pm On Dec 04
Neptunium:


Does she know you're not going back to Norway and you will both live in Nigeria after the marriage? She might be enticed by you being from abroad and so will want to move to Norway. Many Nigerian ladies marry white men as a ticket to leave Nigeria. You should let her know you want to live in Nigeria and not go back to Norway.

Do you want to put sand in her garri? Bad belle!
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 10:04pm On Dec 04
on a lighter note

Anyone know where i can find whole fresh ducks in lagos? My little girl wants me to cook a classic roast dinner once we get back
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 10:08pm On Dec 04
We4all:


Do you want to put sand in her garri? Bad belle!

Why? When my white uncircumcised, fully tattooed and pierced gbola fills her perfectly
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Onegai(f): 6:39am On Dec 05
Fenrir:


Why? When my white uncircumcised, fully tattooed and pierced gbola fills her perfectly

Yup, this is a Nigerian man catching trips with us smiley

Ducks, ask your cook (as you're a baller in Ikoyi) to buy you fresh ones, the chicken sellers in the market will have a farm plug.

Or check Renee's supermarket for fresh dressed duck. If not there, there's a supermarket on Admiralty (can't remember the name) that sells different types of meat (I used to buy lamb there).
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 10:13am On Dec 05
Onegai:


Yup, this is a Nigerian man catching trips with us smiley

Ducks, ask your cook (as you're a baller in Ikoyi) to buy you fresh ones, the chicken sellers in the market will have a farm plug.

Or check Renee's supermarket for fresh dressed duck. If not there, there's a supermarket on Admiralty (can't remember the name) that sells different types of meat (I used to buy lamb there).

Not Nigerian but when you've been visiting 20 years and date from the County you pick up the fucking languages you utter fool
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 10:46am On Dec 05
I love Nigeria the culture, food (not the cow skin its fucking dog treat) the music, the dancing, the beautiful areas, the fun and dynamic people and all Muslims in the world Nigerian ones dont Bleep with me because they understand the difference between me a wolf and your men fucking spaniels

The 2 things i hate about your country is the religious ABUSE because you do value religion over education its ridiculous you pray and worship in school your not secular your pretend secular

The selfish and greedy wedding process, what right do your fathers and uncles have to try and demand we get on our stomachs and beg to marry its mentally deranged 1 tribe of 50 million people in a world of nearly 9 billion believe they should be thanked for raising their fucking child, a child is result of your choices and your actions you owe the child everything and the child owes you nothing

A home
Food
Clothing
Medical
Education
Entertainment
Holidays

If you cannot provide that the bare minimum without expecting thanks or making that child feel guilty you dont deserve to breed and your balls should be removed

And dont get me started on kneeling for the blessings for all other tribes its just fucking bigoted

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Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by AngelicBeing: 10:56am On Dec 05
Hmmmmmmm
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Gloriagee(f): 10:59am On Dec 05
Knew you were a phony. What do you gain from trolling?

Fenrir:


Why? When my white uncircumcised, fully tattooed and pierced gbola fills her perfectly
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 11:01am On Dec 05
Gloriagee:
Knew you were a phony. What do you gain from trolling?


Send a private message and do a video call or stop calling me Nigerian you retard
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 11:26am On Dec 05
Fenrir:


Send a private message and do a video call or stop calling me Nigerian you retard

20 years of visits mush and an accumulated 10 years of living here and your going to learn the languages its called Emerson now I'll admit Yoruba still breaks my brain as i cant get context right as 1 word can mean many things based on context but pidgin is piece of piss its just pig latin the English version

You see how pathetic the people on here are? I used 1 common Nigerian word and you all scream scammer because you are surrounded by them open your small minds you petty people and grow the Bleep up
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Gloriagee(f): 11:26am On Dec 05
I'm not a retard. Hopefully, this format pays off for you, unku wey wan marry Plateau Igbo grin ....

Fenrir:


Send a private message and do a video call or stop calling me Nigerian you retard
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by tosinhtml: 11:29am On Dec 05
Gloriagee:
I'm not a retard. Hopefully, this format pays off for you, unku wey wan marry Plateau Igbo grin ....


So he is lying about the whole tread & being white I guess, I'm wondering why a white veteran is asking all these questions from strangers online. I almost fell for it.
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 11:35am On Dec 05
tosinhtml:


So he is lying about the whole tread & being white I guess, I'm wondering why a white veteran is asking all these questions from strangers online. I almost fell for it.

Video call or grow up

30 seconds will prove you wrong but your a coward and keyboard gangster nothing more

Your all mouth no action grow a spine and do a video call i dare you

And you will see a 6 foot 7 red head
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by tosinhtml: 11:36am On Dec 05
Fenrir:


Video call or grow up

30 seconds will prove you wrong but your a coward and keyboard gangster nothing more

You will get tired eventually.
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 11:46am On Dec 05
now i have to take the mrs out ill be back in a few hours to see if you can be an adult and accept PROOF your wrong
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by armyofone(m): 3:55pm On Dec 05
Maeve7:
Fenrir, I‘m glad you have found love. Happy married life. I hope you and your future wife will compromise where needed and have a wonderful unforgottable wedding ceremony. All the best!

Happy for him too. Talk to your lady. Let her know how you feel about the wedding and what you preferred you guys should do.
All the best in your wedding planning.

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Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 4:34pm On Dec 05
armyofone:


Happy for him too. Talk to your lady. Let her how you feel about the wedding and what you preferred you guys should do.
All the best in your wedding planning.

All sorted

Small introduction with her mothers side of her family
Modern bride price to them
Off to Hawaii with her 5 brothers and 2 elders
My daughter as a flower girl
And my womans dream small wedding in her dream location

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Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by DenreleDave(m): 5:45pm On Dec 05
Fenrir:


All sorted

Small introduction with her mothers side of her family
Modern bride price to them
Off to Hawaii with her 5 brothers and 2 elders
My daughter as a flower girl
And my womans dream small wedding in her dream location

You are just an atm.

U carried 5 brothers and 2 elders from her family go Hawaii

Either ways, congratulations
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by AngelicBeing: 7:37pm On Dec 05
DenreleDave:


You are just an atm.

U carried 5 brothers and 2 elders from her family go Hawaii

Either ways, congratulations
tongue
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 9:22pm On Dec 05
DenreleDave:


You are just an atm.

U carried 5 brothers and 2 elders from her family go Hawaii

Either ways, congratulations

Its 7 people big deal and thats all she wants there 7 people each, you lot are proper nutjobs
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by armyofone(m): 9:50pm On Dec 05
Fenrir:


All sorted

Small introduction with her mothers side of her family
Modern bride price to them
Off to Hawaii with her 5 brothers and 2 elders
My daughter as a flower girl
And my womans dream small wedding in her dream location

Good! Send wedding cakes and fine wines cheesy. Destination wedding - Enjoy Hawaii - after everything is done, the ride to Dole plantation is memorable.
Best wishes to you and your family.
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Fenrir(m): 10:17pm On Dec 05
armyofone:


Good! Send wedding cakes and fine wines cheesy. Destination wedding - Enjoy Hawaii - after everything is done, the ride to Dole plantation is memorable.
Best wishes to you and your family.

No thanks, dont drink grape juice, mead and German beer are better 😉
Re: I Need Wedding Advice Please by Onegai(f): 10:18pm On Dec 05
Fenrir:


Not Nigerian but when you've been visiting 20 years and date from the County you pick up the fucking languages you utter fool

grin grin

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