Caleycash:
NO!... naturally a man is polygamous, that's my own personal belive, then if we go by nature and religious standards, a non virgin shouldn't be married, paying bride price for her is a taboo, but 80% married women are not, men still love and marry them, spending millions on whats unacceptable, only VIRGINS have right to leave a man who's cheating💯

SmellingAnus:
I agree with you bro that men and polygamous in nature but what most Nigerian men don't know is that women also polyandrous in nature.... That's why most married women cheat on their husbands but most times the husband is under the illusion that he has a faithful wife... At the end what we call marriage in most cases is a diluted version of open marriage cos most times the women know that they men are cheating whole the men don't know...

Caleycash:
Then better nothing like marriage, instead of wasting a man's resources and scamming him of his resources!, and everything should be 50/50 then!

SmellingAnus:
But why will a man marry a woman that will seek divorce later? He obviously made a wrong choice cos there are men who got married to women that never asked for divorce in their marriages..

Proudlyngwa:

Because shit happens.
People change for better or for worse, your input into why they change is inconsequential.

SmellingAnus:
I concur shit happens because we all make mistakes...

Omoawoke:
Almost all of them.

I sabi them wella, but truth be told, some of them suffered in the hands of their husbands.
I’m a guy but make I talk truth, some of these divorced women were bullied, damaged and abused by some crazy men. I actually understand these ones and feel their pains

While some were just too unforgiving and egotistical, I can’t take no shitt from no man. I know my rights, etc na those ones deserve to suffer!
I know women in both categories, but the ones that are happier after divorce are the first categories that suffered a lot before running away to get peace


While those “ain’t taking no shit from no man “ categories are often filled with bitterness and frustrations. They want to be treated like queens even after becoming single mothers na dem dey cry pass because it never gets better. Then they look back and see the men they left happy with another younger woman. E dey pain dem die. They are the worst set of people to have as colleagues, they eventually become frustrated men haters



I agree partially with you

Some of this women in your second category were innocent. People change over time, some were even deflowred by their husbands and were ready to make things work. But the once loving man eventually became a beast and started maltreating her.
Let’s be fair, as long as there are terrible women, there are terrible men too

Okiton:


Divorce women are very experienced in bedmatics
I love them.

Not demanding like these empty stomach, hungry Gen-Zs

Proudlyngwa:

Sometimes shit happens not because of your mistakes but because of associated or inherited mistakes


But then as a SmellingAnus you should already know this

philme87:
Watch the video below;


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZjE5TtQ4AVs

Namaster:
Divorced women are a big TABOO!

They should be AVOIDED like politicians avoid the truth.

It's either they are so HORRIBLE that a man who spent money on TRADITIONAL and CHURCH marriage could no longer put up with them.

Or

They are so STUPID that they made the CHOICE to marry a TERRIBLE man. In other words, they did not see, or saw and chose to ignore, RED FLAGS throughout the dating and courtship phase until they got hitched to a bad man.

Either way, DIVORCED women are BAD news!

AcadaWriter0:
Divorced women are often viewed with skepticism. Some believe that a man who invested in a traditional marriage may have found it difficult to continue in the relationship. Others think that the choice to marry someone unsuitable reflects a lack of judgment, as they may have overlooked warning signs during the dating phase. In any case, divorced women are frequently seen in a negative light.

Feldie:
Dating is different from marrying. She will not be expected to perform wifely duties. She gets sex from the married man and also get money. Doesn't have to wash his clothes, cook for him, carry his baby inside her womb, feed it with her breast, get scolded for not returning early from the market to come and cook. If you are a married woman and your husband is irresponsible and useless, divorce him and look for a rich married man to date

SmellingAnus:
so sorry to hear that... Marriage is not easy... So did your uncle make the right choice by marrying her in the first place?

Gerrard59:
So this means a single young man who is doing well financially has access not to only single ladies/girls, but single mothers, female divorcees, married women,, widows and who else?

Be like say to live for Nigeria good o

Exceed15:

They became divorced men because they don't want to die out of frustration in the name of marriage. My uncle ended his marriage himself. The woman is so stubborn, disrespectful she almost gave him heart attack.

SmellingAnus:
you are right so when the marriage ends does it mean the wrong choice was made?

Oshin56:
maybe some madness arises that you cannot manage, you have optout of the union..

xpressionx:
They left because a man cheated.

Now they don't want another woman to enjoy her husband is peace.

Gerrard59:
So this means a single young man who is doing well financially has access not to only single ladies/girls, but single mothers, female divorcees, married women,, widows and who else?

Be like say to live for Nigeria good o

IbeOkehie:
Ever since I read the news a month or so ago that 27% of DNA tests result in wrongly attributed paternity, I see Nigerian marriages in a different light.

Worst of all, because the testers tended to be middle to higher income Nigerians and thus likely more educated, it says something about the elite of the society.

Fully 27% of children in Nigeria are the result of infidelity. I know a few...3 men in Nigeria from many years ago who discovered this but I didn't know it's so widespread.

I mentioned it to a visiting Nigerian politician. He assured me that ALL the top politicians in Nigeria EACH have DOZENS of children conceived with other men's wives.

He even mentioned one currently generating several court cases, including one couple with TWO out four kids fathered by a BIG 2nd Republic politician who died a few years ago...no, not MKO Abiola.

The state of Nigerian marriage is worse than anything in any Western country. Not 5%, not even 15%....over ONE QUARTER of all children conceived in deceit!!! In the world's most religious country!!! Tell me something.

There's nothing to discuss about Nigerian marriage again. Truly it is FINISHED. There's no basis for a good society in Nigeria.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

Dizzyyish:


There was a statistic from years ago showing Nigeria has the highest rate of paternity fraud in the world, second to Jamaica - that was years ago - I'm quite certain that 27% is inaccurate.

It's much higher.