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| I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 12:34pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
So my parents are in village for christmas. Coming from lagos to visit for xmas I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village What i found in my fathers room shocked me Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away. Ky gel found open on the table For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex. This is enough proof this man is cheating. Should i repirt him to my mum?? 10 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
How your brain don't think about talking to your father first about it baffles me 👀 290 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by illicit(m): 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Report your dad to your mum, for what exactly...? If he has been doing all that and there was peace and harmony, you don't have a right to disrupt his life... And ur mums Disrupt urs if u like... Yoruba say house wey dey peaceful, bastard dey there but e never mature ni... 354 Likes 27 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by naijapikin2(m): 12:47pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Congratulations Your eyes are open. Just be wise about it. Wisdom means SHATAAAP! 126 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 12:53pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
MondayOmoAdugbo:my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready. Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december. Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH  Only God will judge that man!! Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms 3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again 30 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 12:55pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
illicit:So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat?? Imagine if it is your own father Will you be saying this nonesense  40 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PeterObi4Presid: 12:57pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
If u tell on ur father...u are a bastard foooolish child. . A man can marry two wives A wife can't marry two men Instead go and talk to ur father and tell him his act is wrong and will hurt ur mom and will affect the family........ u may threaten him that if he doesn't stop u will report to ur mom. Ur dad will sit up and respect u only if u don't tell ur mom If u tell ur mom, that's if she doesn't know , she will bring issue that might damage the home Don't be the genesis of a damaged home...or the genesis of disrespect of ur father from ur mother....it can quickly damage the family and the love in ur home...imagine ur sisters also losing their respect for that man cos ur foooolish gossip. Don't be a fooool. . Mans cheating habits does not usually damage the home, especially for responsible men, unlike womens cheating Have sense as a man, and know what u are doing 224 Likes 16 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by illicit(m): 1:00pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna: If it's my father, he has no worries So are u a saint? 238 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 1:02pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
PeterObi4Presid:If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls. You will be clalping for him As a useless son you are to your mother. You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother?? 31 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sonnobax15(m): 1:04pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
 Report him to your mom and scatter their marriage as well as your home generally...... Las las,your mom go blame you say na because of you her marriage take scatter.. Use your brain bruh 138 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 1:06pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
illicit:Now i know why nigeria is doomed Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women. I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father 30 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 1:07pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna: He's older than you sit your ass and learn.... Don't be a girlie girl Bro 64 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PeterObi4Presid: 1:09pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:. U are a foooolish son..lol . I'm telling u what to do and the implications of what u are about to do, yet u are still capping . It shows u are not even a man, and u don't understand men.. probably u are a mamas boy who has been brainwashed by his mom . Wake up....ur father kmew what he did was wrong.....but u don't have to escalate the whole thing into disaster. even if he doesn't know its wrong the last thing he expects on a son is to tell on him.....u will lose the mans respect and love cos he will believe u are a very foooolish son... . The best way to handle this issue is to confront him like a man, and he will respect u the more... Don't tell on him...what if he had done it in the hotels outside ur knowledge wud u have known? Have sesne little boy.... don't be too emotional over women issues....u will grow up too and have better understanding of why men do certain things and the regret or torments they suffer from Follow my advice if u are a man. A man don't gossip, they confront and resolve issues.....gossip is for little stvpid sisters..leave it to them...... don't complicate the life of that breadwinner u and ur mother still have.... 177 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by illicit(m): 1:10pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna: How do you know he was sleeping with numerous women, it might be one young girl or a widow that he assists... It's better he even uses condom... But wait o, what makes you think he wasn't using all these things with ur mum, some couples use condoms and oil... Are they not used for sex? Have they stopped fuckin  Maybe u shd ask ur mum if they use oil first... Don't go and embarrass yourself 226 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MrOreo(m): 1:17pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Op, instead of you to settle down and pick up one or two things from people's advice, you're busy capping carelessly. Go and tell your mother let everything kuku scatter. 115 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Bonab: 1:21pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Old habits are hard to overcome.You might be surprised to know that your mum maybe away of your Dad's issues with women; typical of a Nigerian woman to stay in marriage because of her children. Instead of telling your mother about it,talk to your Dad. Let him know respectfully how disappointed you're, and that you would want him to change. Don't shout at him or insult him(African Father's have pride). Men, please let's do better. Those things you do in secret,one day your children may get to know about it, and just like the OP they won't feel happy about it. Be a good model to them. 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Bahamas95(m): 1:24pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
What I don't understand is why a man would bring another woman into his matrimonial home, that's nonsense. Nobody is stopping him from cheating but he shouldn't disrespect his wife to that extent.....What your father did is same as sleeping with his female workers/colleagues, e dey cause see finish. Have a man to man talk with your dad, warn him not to disrespect your mum again. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 1:24pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
illicit:My mom was in village since 21st And i 2000% doubt they use condoms. Come on!!! Use your brain He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking. I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!! If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am. See how you all are busy defending him Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending. When it comes to morals Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!. No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 1:29pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
PeterObi4Presid:This will be the last i will reply a kid like you. Their is a proverb " When the carry another person dead body. For your eyes it will look like they are carrying wood. Until you carry dead body of your family member, you will see how painful it feels" I wont go back and forth with a kid Until it happens to you Then you apply all that rubbish you just wrote 23 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PeterObi4Presid: 1:49pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna: Oga, I'm not a child or baby.....I don't have to reveal too much about my experience with women and use of wisdom to relate with ones father. See u will only understand the worth of your father when u are well grown into marriage or after u must have lost him to death......by then it will be too late cos I can see ur mother has brainwashed u soo much that u have little respect or consideration for your father... The question is, why do u hate ur father and decide to always side with ur mother? Wetin dat man do u? Does he beat ur mother? Din't he pay ur school fee or care for the family? Aren't u proud of his success and achievement? So wetin dat man do you that u believe telling on him is the best way to repay his fatherhood over u.... . U see the language I use? It's intentional cos I know ur type..... Ur type re the ones who usually do mumu mumu to their girlfriend, who usually simp for women, who only learn the hard way.. Regardless of what ur father may have done, learn to forgive or learn to draw close to him to ask him question when he's still alive, at least to understand him and hear his side of things and also learn wisdom. ... As a son u need more wisdom cos u are the husband and father to ur mother as well as ur dad's heir if paraventure he leaves u today.....so how will u show leadership btw ur mom and ur wife when u become their only husband? Grow up....and stop seeing everything from ur mother's point of view alone. If u are a man and sad about ur father's behavior....FUCKING CONFRONT HIM RESPECTFULLY WTH WISDOM AS AN AFRICAN CHILD! .....and stop whining like a baby 123 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 2:07pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna: your dad is an adult and can decide to do whatever rocks his boat, Think about things that will better your 2025, don't be a snitch, reporting him is foolery, your dad can even decide to marry her officially and you can't do nothing about it, When I was n the university like 10 years ago, ASUU was on strike and I parked my stuff and went back home, as I approached my street leading to our house, I saw my dad dropped off a girl before heading to the junction that led to our street, I flagged him, and he gave me a lift, the ride was a quite and awkward one until my dad stopped and started pressing his phone, after a few minutes he said to me, check your phone, I did and he had sent me money, he said remember that shoe u told me u like, go and get it for your self, and remember, you saw nothing I answered yes boss 🙌😂, He's an adult, and I can't tell him what to do, me snitch on my dad ke, I dey mad ni 😂😂😂😂😂 114 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Meteng: 2:07pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
You didn’t catch him. You just saw condom and the rest in his room. Is that catching? 86 Likes 6 Shares
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| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 2:14pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Meteng: This picture always crack me up 😂😂😂😂 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PeterObi4Presid: 2:26pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Sucre6:Lols....ur papa na bad guy..... Thank God u were a wise son I can bet that even if u had not received any shut-up-cash , u wouldn't have told on him....unlike this OP wey no one geh sense....lol... .. 75 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 2:35pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
PeterObi4Presid: My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂 Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂 His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I miss my papi seriously 144 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Smilleydr(m): 4:02pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:waiting dey pain me be say you carry this matter come nairaland and Nairalander dey advice you but you come still dey proof your stupidity here, oga comont go settle your family problem and leave us alone. 84 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Smilleydr(m): 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Sucre6:Omo you dey crack me oooo, I swear I like that man, I want to be like him when I grow up 32 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by AcadaWriter0: 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
If you talk to your father about this, it may not be the best approach. A man can have multiple wives, but a wife cannot have multiple husbands. Instead, consider discussing your concerns with your father directly and express that his actions are wrong and could hurt your mother and affect the family. You might want to let him know that if he doesn't change, you may have to inform your mother. This could encourage him to take your feelings seriously. If you do tell your mother, and she is unaware, it could create issues that might harm the family dynamic. Try to avoid being the cause of conflict or disrespect between your parents, as it can quickly damage the family and the love within it. Think about how this could also affect your sisters and their view of your father. It's important to approach this situation thoughtfully and responsibly. 15 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by SkengRay: 4:18pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:This one na Smallie o. Shuuu  . Do you know the aftermath of you snitching? You sha one wan use your hand scatter your family. I'm not justifying cheating but na your papa you ignore or you Follow him reason man to man.27 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 4:31pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Smilleydr: Me too oh, my dad nah very cool guy man 😂 7 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ITbomb(m): 4:53pm On Dec 27, 2024 |
Sucre6:Make him proud pls, his kind and even your kind (as a son) are rare 19 Likes 1 Share |
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