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Is She Trying To Play Me? by elimsun(m): 9:23pm On Jan 03
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by immortalcrown(m): 9:27pm On Jan 03
elimsun:
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it.
So, tell us why it took her long to notice it.

elimsun:
Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...
As if her parents have confirmed that you are God's will for her.😂

You are a backup plan. A spare tyre, not the main tyre. Whoever made you a second choice can hardly make you the first choice.

On a general note, she wants to marry as soon as possible because she has become a single mother. She understands that the earlier she hooks someone, the better for her.

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Namaster: 9:51pm On Jan 03
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that have been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Factcheck0001: 10:20pm On Jan 03
elimsun:
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting
see foolish simp

Someone didn't give in to u when she was fresh meat n followed her choice but now that she's more of a condemned property that no one wants then she switches to d foolish last option

Some boys no get sense

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by princefrank76: 10:27pm On Jan 03
elimsun:
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting

Guy you are second choice.

Back up plan

You are just like a polytechnic.

If university no give you admission, you enter poly

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by dkidd: 10:43pm On Jan 03
Lol... These comments are crazy 😅😅😅

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by marlow1962(m): 10:48pm On Jan 03
Lol pls save some bashing for other commenters cheesy

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by immortalcrown(m): 10:56pm On Jan 03
Namaster:
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that has been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!
Chei! You are brutal with words. That lady is someone's daughter. She can commit suicide if she reads your opinion about her.

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by AndrewTate(m): 11:12pm On Jan 03
Is your brain not functioning enough to use a logical approach? Why do you have to “hear from God” on little things like this. Are you retarded?
You know what she’s trying to do but you just want to be deliberately dumb. Well, it’s your call and your consequence to face…

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Karleb(m): 11:22pm On Jan 03
elimsun:
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting

She is using you. Can't you see this? undecided

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Karleb(m): 11:23pm On Jan 03
princefrank76:


Guy you are second choice.

Back up plan

You are just like a polytechnic.

If university no give you admission, you enter poly

grin grin

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by AllBlack: 11:23pm On Jan 03
elimsun:

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting

yes you are.
she loves you but you are too weak to accept her love and take her as she is.

I just prayed about it and THE LORD showed me she's the one for you. Don't miss this opportunity.
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by IfyAwazie(f): 1:00am On Jan 04
Namaster:
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that have been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!

Waooo.. Really a nice message but Not from God because God won't bash someone like this. Nawa.

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Lonestar124: 1:13am On Jan 04
The angel that created this op with God forgot his brain inside incubator in heaven.

Instead of him to ask God for his brain back, here is what his asking God...Off target!!!

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by imagrg(m): 3:48am On Jan 04
Oh boy, follow your mind. Don't marry her. Just chop and clean mouth.
elimsun:
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by imagrg(m): 3:53am On Jan 04
Na her toto she take confuse you.
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Baronthecelebri: 6:31am On Jan 04
Foolish man, stupid SIMP, don't marry her

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Fiscus105(m): 6:37am On Jan 04
elimsun:
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting


You are sign yourself off to polyandry marriage, I don't know if you know the meaning sha?


Meanwhile,she hasn't given you the real reason, why she and that guy didn't marry,....as you affirmed, she is using you head too play gangan.
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by elimsun(m): 8:30am On Jan 04
Namaster:
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that have been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!


You couldn't have said it any better. Thanks man

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Automolite: 10:20am On Jan 04
elimsun:
I'll make this very brief as possible


Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship

Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do.
One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...

Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child

Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting
Mehn.
make u better resist that siren call.
Na women for u bdat. Dey go always get back up plan. That nice and gentle guy wey been dey give them time and energy before. No go become another willing fuul oh.

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Zonefree(m): 11:12am On Jan 04
E reach time to marry the girl, you now want to hear from God. But, you didn't hear from God when you're collecting doggie. undecided

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by laivwire(m): 11:27am On Jan 04
For her to play this st*pid game on you means she sees you as an equally d*mb person.

What's worse is you considering it.

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Fahvvy: 11:38am On Jan 04
I wouldn't want to be anyone's second option undecided...

If I'm not your first and only, then you and I can never be together undecided...

I'd rather die single than hook up with a woman who turned me down in times past undecided...

Let the man you left me for because you thought he was better commit to you undecided...

I'm not in the habit of settling for crumbs or cleaning up the mess made by another man undecided...

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by ChiefOkporghe: 11:59am On Jan 04
Namaster:
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that have been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by BigDickProblems: 12:00pm On Jan 04
Not only are you dumb, but to still bring it up here to ask such a question makes you the dumbest Nairalander I’ve seen this new year.

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Talkisneeded(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04
The bills has doubled and here you are captain save the day...
Go do your job as usual....


I sell herbs tho
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by drstranged: 9:19pm On Jan 04
Namaster:
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that have been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!
This write up here has answered your question 💯% op
Nothing else I can add to this wonderful contribution

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Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Exceed15: 9:27pm On Jan 04
May you not be spare tyre.
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by Nonexisting1: 9:33pm On Jan 04
No she is not playing you, she is being honest. She just started loving you now because you're meant for an overused and overstretched leftover pussy. The time her pussy was still fresh, simps like you didn't deserve it so she couldn't love you at that time. I wish you both a blissful marriage.

Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by shiffynaani(m): 12:40am On Jan 05
Namaster:
Of course, she is! grin

You expressed your feelings to her but she FRIEND ZONED you while ANOTHER man was pounding her like owambe yam.

While you were busy forming good FRIEND, she was busy forming BADDIE for another man.

She DIDN'T bother to use condom.
She DIDN'T bother to use birth control pills.

Now that she's been TRAUMATIZED by pregnancy and childbirth and ABANDONED by the man she BENCHED you for, she sees the MERITS of a faithful and committed man ready to settle for RUBBISH.

You wanted to fuccck her but you SETTLED for being her friend.

So she KNOWS you as the guy who settles for LESS. That's why she's singing a different tune and aggressively LOBBYING for you to marry her.

You were the BACKUP plan.
Ready to swoop in when her MAIN man fails her.
The backup plan has been ACTIVATED.

She gave you a body and pussy that have been RUINED by the birth of another man's spawn and you're already CONFUSED.

Wake up!
However good you think the pussy is now, it was BETTER before she pushed a human head out of it.

If you give in to the manipulations of her SHIPWRECK of a pussy and her SUDDEN newfound realisation that you are her long lost SOULMATE, you will WASTE your life by labouring to provide for her and her BASTARD.

Meanwhile, the father will ALWAYS be lurking in the corner ready to RAVISH the pussy you now cherish at a moment's notice.

They will use excuses of "letting the child know both parents" to frolick and canoodle right under your nose.

Resist or interfere and you'll be branded an INSECURE man.

It's a LOSING game for you.

You have been waiting for a message from God, here it is:

VANISH!
OP this is what you've been looking for

Don't be a second fiddle to any useless hoe. Marry better package or uf possible sef, a virgin


But do her one favour, it's your turn to revenge now. fuccck her pussy anyhow, use her to your satisfaction and slowly distance yourself away from her

Brainless hoes
Re: Is She Trying To Play Me? by torqque7(m): 1:45am On Jan 05
Dumb fvck.. waiting to hear from God indeed..odeh no worry as a simp wey you be you go learn painfully

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