I really don't think it's possible. You have to be an extraordinary guy to be loved by a Nigerian woman over the age of 30. I mean what is there to love ? She is not moved by your looks or swag because at that age she has seen it all. She is jAded by life and getting slightly angry and easily irritated and hot tempered. Nothing you are or have will make her love you because at that age she is more than likely incapable of loving you. You are just an essentiAl irritant to her. She is only interested in her own comfort meaning a man with money just for comfort not genuine love. At that age she is incApable of loving you. You are just two people in an invisible business contract of convenience. Truthfully men are a source of irritant for most women over 30. They put up with you because of peer pressure and societal pressure. And so in conclusion ? I don't think a woman over 30 if still single can ever love any guy anymore.

Nlfpmod.
Mynd44

Except her husband.

Or if she hasn't had her heart broken mercilessly or been used mercilessly over time. Then she can still love.

They are a disaster very proud yet expired, and think all men coming thier way want sex

An average Woman starts dating at age 15, now a lady of 30 has a whopping 15 years dating experience lets say she date 2 men per year it equal 30 men she has seen it all plus woman naturally do not like guys who loves them genuinely so heartbreak go yapa.

Be realistic how many ladies below 30 get married? How many have you met in the past 3 years?

Women worldwide, especially in cities now marry above 30. With better self care, health awareness etc, people now look good even in their 40's. I've seen some really hot 40 something year old women.

The new reality is that women hardly marry below 30. Irrespective of the name calling, men are marrying these 30 plus women, as they are usually the ones with sense and are ready to settle down. Let's face reality and move on.

Forget about love, even men don't love. We all have selfish interest when choosing a partner.

The average age Nigerian women marry should be around 28yrs very few get married at 22 to 24yrs and in extreme cases 35ys while those who get married at 40 tend to do so with men who already have a wife or wives.

zed7:
Be realistic how many ladies below 30 get married? How many have you met in the past 3 years?

Women worldwide, especially in cities now marry above 30. With better self care, health awareness etc, people now look good even in their 40's. I've seen some really hot 40 something year old women.

The new reality is that women hardly marry below 30. Irrespective of the name calling, men are marrying these 30 plus women, as they are usually the ones with sense and are ready to settle down. Let's face reality and move on.

Forget about love, even men don't love. We all have selfish interest when choosing a partner.

This is entirely offpoint

Be like you just dey see this statistics, na why you dey dump am on top any thread wey no even relate

He's talking about easily-impressed minds of girls in their early 20s and how much it changes as they grow older

Understand his message first

EmperorCaesar:

This is entirely offpoint

Be like you just dey see this statistics, na why you dey dump am on top any thread wey no even relate

He's talking about easily-impressed minds of girls in their early 20s and how much it changes as they grow older

Understand his message first

You kids should stop wanking over women in their 30's and move on. If you are lucky to get married, you'll probably end up with a 30 plus woman.

Every other thing you and the OP is saying is unintelligent. Women in their 30's don't love, bla bla and they are getting married. They hate the men they marry then.

diamond68:
I really don't think it's possible. You have to be an extraordinary guy to be loved by a Nigerian woman over the age of 30. I mean what is there to love ? She is not moved by your looks or swag because at that age she has seen it all. She is jAded by life and getting slightly angry and easily irritated and hot tempered. Nothing you are or have will make her love you because at that age she is more than likely incapable of loving you. You are just an essentiAl irritant to her. She is only interested in her own comfort meaning a man with money just for comfort not genuine love. At that age she is incApable of loving you. You are just two people in an invisible business contract of convenience. Truthfully men are a source of irritant for most women over 30. They put up with you because of peer pressure and societal pressure. And so in conclusion ? I don't think a woman over 30 if still single can ever love any guy anymore.

Nlfpmod.
Mynd44

Including men, over time, you are suffering from financial, emotional and psychological trauma or problem, the word Love will be far from you.

No. Una don destroy all their hearts finish, nothing is left for love

Don't be deceived, 9ja girls can never love. They are only in love with the thing they can get from you.

Why do you think they are all into ashawo codedly or openly?

A Nigerian woman over the age of 30 does not have the capacity to love.

The only thing that is in her head is how to manipulate you into putting a roof over her head in the name of marriage.

This is a general phenomenon. It's like that around the whole world

Wotoporiously speaking

Women don't love, they only see value, if you're not of value to her it's gone.

Nigeria Government make people situation worse,so people will find means to survive neither genuine or not

OP, make una still allow our 30+ ladies to rest nah. Don't give them High BP.

Allow the Old Cargoes to breathe.

The Creator wey make woman begin menstruate by 12 know wetin e dey do; but oyibo colonize our thinking to believe say she has to pursue a career before she starts a family.

This comes with it's flaws. By the time she's ready to settle down level up, she must have amassed a lot of 'bodies' and could hardly submit to a man.

The earlier a woman marries, the better for the union. It's not mandatory that sex must begin the moment she marries - in a case where she's still very young. The most important thing is that the early marriage will enable the husband groom her to his desire.

Butt na wetin husband wan tell hin 35 year old retired hookup bride??

2 Men per year bawo?
In this instagram/tiktok age?? Or u meant "2 men per week"

If you know the amount of goats in their DMs, u go fear fear!

Bookhub:
An average Woman starts dating at age 15, now a lady of 30 has a whopping 15 years dating experience lets say she date 2 men per year it equal 30 men she has seen it all plus woman naturally do not like guys who loves them genuinely so heartbreak go yapa.

Just have money

An expired evening newspaper of 30 will NEVER choose you when she was at her prime. An average Nigeria girl starts dating and chopping dick at 15 until she has been used and reused. Why then MUST you be her retirement plan?

zed7:


You kids should stop wanking over women in their 30's and move on. If you are lucky to get married, you'll probably end up with a 30 plus woman.

Every other thing you and the OP is saying is unintelligent. Women in their 30's don't love, bla bla and they are getting married. They hate the men they marry then.

Read to understand and not to reply

Where in my comment did i even mention women in their 30s?

Where did i support his claims?

I have never shamed people for their age as theif misfortune at older age isnt my business....same as their fortunes

Try dey read abeg

purples25:
Except her husband.

Or if she hasn't had her heart broken mercilessly or been used mercilessly over time. Then she can still love.

Why do you ladies feel men used you when men are the ones doing the break up but never think this way when you are the ones doing it? Mind you 70 to 80% of relationships/marriage breakups are initiated by women, why?

E possible bro!

Ronsgal dey get feelings also. Nofoh!

idahme:



Why do you ladies feel men used you when men are the ones doing the break up but never think this way when you are the ones doing it? Mind you 70 to 80% of relationships/marriage breakups are initiated by women, why?

Sex is often insisted upon, it becomes the only important thing in the relationship to the man while the woman tries to show her worth but unfortunately the men don't care for that, probably the women are not even their type. After being satisfied the man goes on to end the fake relationship and therefore the woman feels used. Women are rated by their purity while men are not, so they feel at a loss when broken up with.

If a woman breaks up with a man, mostly that man might have shown her he doesn't want her and he doesn't even care if she leaves. Hence not feeling it's of any loss to him if she leaves. Definitely there are times when the man has given his all and yet the woman is still self centered and doesn't understand his pains, but I feel that situation is less.

I don't think break ups are initiated more by women as they are more emotional, and stand more to lose with the dominance of premarital sex, plus the heavy judgement of society. Men on the other hand live a sexual adventure, life is their adventure ground as nobody will blame them for having multiple relationships for fun so they care less and may be entering relationships and coming out as they wish. Even in old age a man can be on the dating scene to the max as long as he has money but once a woman is old, even her money doesn't give her the same freedom. So men initiate break ups more, it's more comfortable for them, in my opinion.

purples25:


Sex is often insisted upon, it becomes the only important thing in the relationship to the man while the woman tries to show her worth but unfortunately the men don't care for that, probably the women are not even their type. After being satisfied the man goes on to end the fake relationship and therefore the woman feels used. Women are rated by their purity while men are not, so they feel at a loss when broken up with.

If a woman breaks up with a man, mostly that man might have shown her he doesn't want her and he doesn't even care if she leaves. Hence not feeling it's of any loss to him if she leaves. Definitely there are times when the man has given his all and yet the woman is still self centered and doesn't understand his pains, but I feel that situation is less.

I don't think break ups are initiated more by women as they are more emotional, and stand more to lose with the dominance of premarital sex, plus the heavy judgement of society. Men on the other hand live a sexual adventure, life is their adventure ground as nobody will blame them for having multiple relationships for fun so they care less and may be entering relationships and coming out as they wish. Even in old age a man can be on the dating scene to the max as long as he has money but once a woman is old, even her money doesn't give her the same freedom. So men initiate break ups more, it's more comfortable for them, in my opinion.

As usual zero accountability and responsibilities for actions taken by women men are always at fault

Lets take you as the experimental sample only, how many relationship have you had? How many break up have you initiated and how many eas initiated by the men you dated ? A close thought process will tell you that all what you wrote up there blaming men is actually very wrong.

Learn accountability and responsibilities as a human it helps, do you see men all over shouting how much they have lost? If women are in mens shoes they will cry blood...

Bookhub:
An average Woman starts dating at age 15, now a lady of 30 has a whopping 15 years dating experience lets say she date 2 men per year it equal 30 men she has seen it all plus woman naturally do not like guys who loves them genuinely so heartbreak go yapa.

that's what happens to your sisters n not everywhere

Don't equate ghetto life with what happens every, a 15 year old girl is still in school or probably planning to write waec

Wait didn't u people go to university? Y is your approach about life so stupid, like u dwell in hasty generalisation n believe everyone's life went through the same phase

So have u met every over 30 year old lady in Nigeria?
So y make it like their live all followed d same pattern?

idahme:



As usual zero accountability and responsibilities for actions taken by women men are always at fault

If the actions are taken without any form of pressure or coercion, or deceit, we would have no problem accepting them as our total fault.

Lets take you as the experimental sample only, how many relationship have you had? How many break up have you initiated and how many eas initiated by the men you dated ? A close thought process will tell you that all what you wrote up there blaming men is actually very wrong.

Since you already concluded that a close up thought procession of my life would vindicate men, your mindset is already fixed. No need for me to argue in futility.

Learn accountability and responsibilities as a human it helps, do you see men all over shouting how much they have lost? If women are in mens shoes they will cry blood...

Perhaps men should not push women into relationships on the condition of premarital sex with only the aim of using them for said sex and later ask women to take full responsibility for it.

Sharpsharp00123:
who do foolish guys like u take delight in saying stupid things

What makes u feel all ladies above 30 have seen it all?
Are ladies above 30 not humans like u?
What if they got jilted by a long time lover or their lover died?

Reading your write up gets me angry, y will an over 30 not be capable of love

Now I am believing those girls here that many of u are just stupid n raised badly

come on mane it's a factor of life experiences at 30 and not necessarily relationship experiences. At 30 most people are fiercely independent . But I just picked naija women as a topic but it applies to everybody above 30. Are you still capable of love ?

Is this not age- shaming? For real love can happen to anyone at any age. And irrespective of age everyone is capable of love.

Temitunz:
Is this not age- shaming? For real love can happen to anyone at any age. And irrespective of age everyone is capable of love.

Exactly....anyone at any age is capable of being in love. Btw, How's 30 old for God sakes...