arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

allthingsgood:


[b]Sorry but the only reason why they are able to tell u this is because maybe you have really made anything for yourself.
If you were successful and independent, or at least not relying on anybody for anything, then nobody will put mouth in your business or at least it will be minimal.

That said, it is actually a good thing to get married. But not before you are ready.
My advise is to go out and hustle, make money and everybody will leave u alone.[/b
]

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

Snowx:
Just 30..Hmm
.the pressure I am facing at 38..I don't want to get depressed but the pressure is much on my side..the pressure I am facing really getting on me..but sometimes I said "I am enough"
Though I am looking for a wife..atleast now I can boast of paying bride price and traditional marriage..she won't be hungry in my house.

But past years I can't boast of even 200,000 and I am the first and bread winner of my family..but as God may have it man can boast of 5million..

Guy take your time..look for something that fetch you money..and start looking for decent girl to settle down in future

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

Kobojunkie:
You can't feed yourself and make sense of your life as it is but you are dreaming of having a whole other human adult as a dependent and intending to even raise children on top of that? This thing wey dey do una, na the water e dey abi na the food?

Snowx:
Just 30..Hmm
.the pressure I am facing at 38..I don't want to get depressed but the pressure is much on my side..the pressure I am facing really getting on me..but sometimes I said "I am enough"
Though I am looking for a wife..atleast now I can boast of paying bride price and traditional marriage..she won't be hungry in my house.

But past years I can't boast of even 200,000 and I am the first and bread winner of my family..but as God may have it man can boast of 5million..

Guy take your time..look for something that fetch you money..and start looking for decent girl to settle down in future

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

MrSly:

At 38 you are not married. Abeg I go even join pressure you, unless you are not financially stable for marriage; that ilcould be understandable but if not, go get married. QED

qtx:
✓ Some people cant read and comprehend. Read that write-up very well. He said he can afford N5M right now. Haba this guy.

incogni2o:


Look deep inside, is your reason not to get married an instinctual one or you just made yourself consciously rebellious towards it.

The Truth remains, It is not good for a Man to be alone.

If you think God made you different, then you shouldn't be angry, rather ignore or give them a reason for your calling.

But if you are just working, working and working. Then you need to get married. Ignore the fear and irresponsible mentality you are embracing.

ibechris:
U don't know what pressuring is all about.
They are advising u and now u have turned it to pressure.
Na u dey pressure yourself uncle.
If u marry without money u will see the real pressure with ur naked eyes.

Kobojunkie:
So because he talk say him get 5 million that means he is ready to feed another mouth and even carry kids add in Nigeria of today, abi? Many of you are still disconnected.

Kobojunkie:
So because he talk say him get 5 million that means he is ready to feed another mouth and even carry kids add in Nigeria of today, abi? Many of you are still disconnected.

calabaman:
Do not let anyone put you under pressure to marry

**Op I married when I clocked 40**

Some things I would advise though:

> Marry a soul mate who you can tell sit down on the ground and she will.
> You are a man and can marry when you are ready , however if you are waiting for millions before you marry you may never marry.
> I didn't have up to 200k in my account, but had a 3 million wedding with spare change.
> Don't let your wife to bes people dictate the spending on your wedding ( you are the one paying not them)
> My experience - I fought the TM list and reduced it drastically (whilst telling them they can marry their daughter if they won't budge) my wife did the needful.

Funny enough now, there is pressure on my wife not me to have a child.

I have asked her to chill, some days she listens...some days she doesn't stating menopause.

But me.... I put my feet down and told her whoever is putting her under pressure can come and give her belle (she won't cheat)...but the idea that I don't care puts shiver down her spine.

In summary, the decision to marry now or in 10 years time depends solely on you. Looking for a homely girl ready to settle down and not a broke a55 slay queen with a broke a55 family to make your forever partner.

Imagine demanding for a bike (okada), big gen amongst other outrageous things - regalia for a great grandfather who don kpai since all in the name of tradition for this economy. Aunty come dey say it's tradition (all in the name of looking for marriage) mchewwe

Good luck bro!

Kobojunkie:
You can't feed yourself and make sense of your life as it is but you are dreaming of having a whole other human adult as a dependent and intending to even raise children on top of that? This thing wey dey do una, na the water e dey abi na the food?

virginboy1:
hmmm...They wont pressure you with good job connections ooo, they wont pressure you with lucrative business deals ooo, they wont pressure you with sure gigs...

But once it comes to marriage, you see pressure every where.

omo, indeed, "Misery loves company"

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

virginboy1:
hmmm...They wont pressure you with good job connections ooo, they wont pressure you with lucrative business deals ooo, they wont pressure you with sure gigs...

But once it comes to marriage, you see pressure every where.

omo, indeed, "Misery loves company"

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.