elobrave17:


Those are not really my problem at this stage of my iife. My question is if it's ok to marry such a lady.
Thanks for your contribution.

Fast forward 20 years after with two kids, if your wife tells you this story again and then tells you your kids needs cleansing from her plug because the reason why they ain't excellent in school is because they have been bewitched by your siblings who don't like her.

if you won't accept that scenario occuring in different aspect of your union for the rest of
your life then think twice. Its difficult to talk her out of that route because she sees it as working efficiently for her even if it's act not working

elobrave17:
I joined a new line of business after loosing my previous job. Company shut down so everyone had to leave. There are many aspects of this new business so you would always get people to do some part for you while you pay them. Finally I got my first direct business and got someone to assist me with some part of it of which I paid him for. He was actually guiding me because it was my first direct job. While doing this job, I met a lady who was also doing her own job. I noticed she has been in the business for long and very good in it. I went to her and told her few challenges I was having. We exchanged contacts and ever since I would call her once in a while to make one inquiry or the other and she has been helpful. Business has been dull and sometimes I feel like quitting. Someone has advised me to use my car for taxi sometimes when I don't have any business on ground. Honestly I find it difficult to do besides the car is a bit old and might begin to give wahalla if I stress it much. I am no longer a baby and would have married if not for lack of money, so marriage is one of my major priorities at this point.

Last week I remembered that lady that assisted me with the job. I called her and inquired if she is single and she said yes. We had a date and I told her I want a relationship with her and she didn't hesitate. We had some discussions from job to school & then family. In my mind I was having the thought to marry her if things work out because I felt we might be able to achieve a lot together. Since she knows the job more than me, I can hustle for business & contacts while she will be in the field doing the job. It looked so perfect to me but then she is not exactly my type of girl physically and I noticed she talks a bit too much. I was also concerned about her age. She told me she is 35 but I feel she is older than that. All these concerns I was willing to cope with them until she told me something that scared me. She told me that even though she is a Christian and prays very well but she is also into native tradition because of the job and other things. She told me that once things don't go as planned she normally seek for solution in a native way. She also told me to look deeply into my own life to see the need to look for solution to my own problems. She told me that in her dream before, she always see herself in the village and sometimes in the secondary school. I told her I also see myself in the secondary school in my dreams always. I always see myself writing exam with people, almost everyone will be writing well while I will sit alone and won't know what to write. Sometimes I won't even know the particular subject I was going to write until I receive the question paper. She then told me I need to find solution traditionally that she will give me a contact. She said that she want me to know what she does so that in the future I won't feel bad if I find out. She is now in love with me and also willing to support me financially to seek this solution traditionally. From the discussion, I noticed that she rely so much on this traditional stuff & almost all her faith is in it.

Personally i don't like the whole traditional thing and my family hates to hear anything like native doctor, herbal this or any traditional means. I am also the last born and respect my siblings a lot. If they find out what she does, they would never accept her. But then can it be true that i will find a solution traditionally as she suggested? What if she keeps going deeper to the extent of bringing a shrine into my family. I am very confused. This girl is industrious and would make a great team but then her age and this traditional stuff. I am 38 and everyone is asking me, "how is my family",thinking I am married. I feel ashamed to be single at this age.

People with experience especially elders in the house, please I need your advice on this.
Admin please can you push to front page. Thanks.

Women are liabilities don't marry them...

Kobojunkie:
Slavery had nothing to do with Christianity as it was already a long-established industry in much of Africa for many centuries before the white man showed up on the shores of Africa in the 1600s. Yes, Religion is a confirmed scam, but let's make an effort to stick to the facts nonetheless.

please kindly revisit "Prince Henry the Navigator" . You can Google about the man and no more about slavery business in West Africa and African in general.
Thank you

cybernaut:
✓ please kindly revisit "Prince Henry the Navigator" . You can Google about the man and no more about slavery business in West Africa and African in general.
Thank you

Prince Henry? I thought you were going to quote something from at least the time of the Greek Empire as proof against what I said. 🤔

Kobojunkie:
Prince Henry? I thought you were going to quote something from at least the time of the Greek Empire as proof against what I said. 🤔

Fool, why haven't you jumped on your second account Judas1X to start insulting people? You this useless Atheist.

Who doesn't know you are the one that has the account Judas1X?

Whenever you're conversing with someone, and you can't say anything reasonable, you will jump on your Judas1X account and start insulting people. Junkie, who doesn't know how useless you've become with your atheist ideology?

You will die wretched as an atheist and your family must burry you for not believing in God. Your ideology cannot save you unless you repent.

Stupid entity with woke mentality. Jump on your second account and start insulting me. You will be forming like a saint with your junkie account and be insulting people with your Judas1X account. How coward can you be.

Can't you see that I am interacting with you with my one and only account? But heck no, you have different accounts you use to show your insanity on Nairaland out of cowardice.

Useless maggot.

Kobojunkie:
Prince Henry? I thought you were going to quote something from at least the time of the Greek Empire as proof against what I said. 🤔

tell me more about Greek Empire and the coming European in Africa soil

cybernaut:
u can hit the wall is not my business. Christianity lead us to slavery. Am a pagan my choice if you like jump to the sea . King James who translates bible u lead today is a slave master and slave trader who teaches u about Christianity. To hell with you and your white men god .

I agree with you it is your choice as you choose destructive path. Even your small gods you worship don't care so far you do the bid of Satan their master that leads to everlasting hellfire hereafter. The only person that cares for you not to die in your ignorance and paganism is Jesus, who is full of love and mercies. Christianity leads you out of slavery that those idols had put you and your generation. Imagine the cruelty of your idols asking for twins to make sacrifice in those days. What slavery is more than that?

Imagine burying men and pregnant women without mercy as sacrifice for the dead kings! What slavery is more than that the your paganism has put you into? Christianity came and set you free from this slavery. Mary Slessor who was a christian missionary stopped killing of twins you used for sacrifice and your small idols could not strike kill her for stopping idol food.

Paganism represents backwardness and no one argues with you for choosing and dwelling with backwardness. Almost the entire cities and villages were filled of paganism from our forefathers before who were into all kinds of slave trades and killings of one another. Christianity brought liberation, brought education, brought the power of Jesus Christ and brought civilization to your door steps. No one cares if you choose to stay back into darkness and backwardness after Christianity had offered you opportunity to come out of your dark world.

Christianity conquered traditionalists and paganism through the superior power of Jesus. Many evil forests that your gods forbidden were penetrated by christians. Many villages that were into withes and wizard practices were stopped through the power of Christ without fighting physical war and many of your herbalists and spiritualists abandoned and burnt their charms, jujus and shrines. Now, Christianity is everywhere even in your remote pagan villages and your gods could not challenge true christians.

Come out of your dirty religion of slavery and paganism. Jesus loves you! Jesus is more powerful than your idols. Ask your idol when you go to make sacrifice or ritual to your backward gods about whom Jesus Christ of Christians are. Ask your idols to tell you the truth who is superior between them and Jesus Christ of Christians. Your idols will enter into coma mode or might be very angry at you for bringing Jesus Christ to your shrine. However, I pray Jesus Christ will come to your rescue when your idols get angry at you, so your life will be saved to realize superiority of Jesus power.

Most learned and powerful people and cities on earth today are christians. You think all these people can be fooled to become christians if Jesus Christ is not real? Engineers, doctors, professors, inventors and researchers are uncountable in Christianity to the extent Christianity remains most populous and richest worldwide. You must be joking and still remains blind to think all these people are tricked into believing Jesus Christ if they have not seen the power of Jesus in demonstration as superior to gods of pagans.

Your gods could not save our fore fathers from being enslaved, conquered and even your pagan gods were kidnapped and transported to white men museums and their thunders refused to work on white men. Wake up and come into light of Christ! Ask Jesus to reveal Himself to you one on one so you can enjoy the abundant Grace of Christ, and stop deceiving yourself that it is a white man religion. Jesus is available to prove himself to you at anytime you choose to. You don't need to kill goat or any animal or carry sacrifice in the middle of night to evil forest before Jesus shows up to reveal himself to you, only what you need is to humble yourself, be sincere to yourself that you want Jesus to reveal himself to you and offer that sincere prayer in 5 minutes or less. That's all, Jesus that is full of love will show up to you, then you will know Christianity is not a white man religion as Satan is deceiving you to believe.

When you pray this prayer sincerely, I pray may God of Truth reveals Himself unto you and prove to you He is more powerful than your small idols.
Shallom

sreamsense:

I agree with you it is your choice as you choose destructive path. Even your small gods you worship don't care so far you do the bid of Satan their master that leads to everlasting hellfire hereafter. The only person that cares for you not to die in your ignorance and paganism is Jesus, who is full of love and mercies. Christianity leads you out of slavery that those idols had put you and your generation. Imagine the cruelty of your idols asking for twins to make sacrifice in those days. What slavery is more than that?

Imagine burying men and pregnant women without mercy as sacrifice for the dead kings! What slavery is more than that the your paganism has put you into? Christianity came and set you free from this slavery. Mary Slessor who was a christian missionary stopped killing of twins you used for sacrifice and your small idols could not strike kill her for stopping idol food.

Paganism represents backwardness and no one argues with you for choosing and dwelling with backwardness. Almost the entire cities and villages were filled of paganism from our forefathers before who were into all kinds of slave trades and killings of one another. Christianity brought liberation, brought education, brought the power of Jesus Christ and brought civilization to your door steps. No one cares if you choose to stay back into darkness and backwardness after Christianity had offered you opportunity to come out of your dark world.

Christianity conquered traditionalists and paganism through the superior power of Jesus. Many evil forests that your gods forbidden were penetrated by christians. Many villages that were into withes and wizard practices were stopped through the power of Christ without fighting physical war and many of your herbalists and spiritualists abandoned and burnt their charms, jujus and shrines. Now, Christianity is everywhere even in your remote pagan villages and your gods could not challenge true christians.

Come out of your dirty religion of slavery and paganism. Jesus loves you! Jesus is more powerful than your idols. Ask your idol when you go to make sacrifice or ritual to your backward gods about whom Jesus Christ of Christians are. Ask your idols to tell you the truth who is superior between them and Jesus Christ of Christians. Your idols will enter into coma mode or might be very angry at you for bringing Jesus Christ to your shrine. However, I pray Jesus Christ will come to your rescue when your idols get angry at you, so your life will be saved to realize superiority of Jesus power.

Most learned and powerful people and cities on earth today are christians. You think all these people can be fooled to become christians if Jesus Christ is not real? Engineers, doctors, professors, inventors and researchers are uncountable in Christianity to the extent Christianity remains most populous and richest worldwide. You must be joking and still remains blind to think all these people are tricked into believing Jesus Christ if they have not seen the power of Jesus in demonstration as superior to gods of pagans.

Your gods could not save our fore fathers from being enslaved, conquered and even your pagan gods were kidnapped and transported to white men museums and their thunders refused to work on white men. Wake up and come into light of Christ! Ask Jesus to reveal Himself to you one on one so you can enjoy the abundant Grace of Christ, and stop deceiving yourself that it is a white man religion. Jesus is available to prove himself to you at anytime you choose to. You don't need to kill goat or any animal or carry sacrifice in the middle of night to evil forest before Jesus shows up to reveal himself to you, only what you need is to humble yourself, be sincere to yourself that you want Jesus to reveal himself to you and offer that sincere prayer in 5 minutes or less. That's all, Jesus that is full of love will show up to you, then you will know Christianity is not a white man religion as Satan is deceiving you to believe.

When you pray this prayer sincerely, I pray may God of Truth reveals Himself unto you and prove to you He is more powerful than your small idols.
Shallom

I don't have time to read ur story because no facts and figures.

Christianity use human being for sacrifice and if you doubt it let me prove it for you.

They killed and sacrificed Jesus in the cross according to bible god. Which in the sense means Christanity also perform rituals too

Coming to civilization. Christianity does not bring civilization in Africa soil because civilization started in Africa. Africa is the first continent to rule Europeans and is northern Africa,if you are a good student of history.

Christianity also accept burnt offering which is ritual sacrifices in disguise. You went to church and offer goats ,cow etc to the gods What does that means? Christianity also do ritual sacrifices because they slaughter cows,goat when so called Christians brings their offers etc or even sell it out and pocket the money .

Christianity is a business when you know these you have peace

Only a foolish man abandoned their ancestors and worship foreign ancestors who contributed nothing during his upbringing and his/ her existence in the world

cybernaut:
I don't have time to read ur story because no facts and figures.

Christianity use human being for sacrifice and if you doubt it let me prove it for you.

They killed and sacrificed Jesus in the cross according to bible god. Which in the sense means Christanity also perform rituals too

Coming to civilization. Christianity does not bring civilization in Africa soil because civilization started in Africa. Africa is the first continent to rule Europeans and is northern Africa,if you are a good student of history.

Christianity also accept burnt offering which is ritual sacrifices in disguise. You went to church and offer goats ,cow etc to the gods What does that means? Christianity also do ritual sacrifices because they slaughter cows,goat when so called Christians brings their offers etc or even sell it out and pocket the money .

Christianity is a business when you know these you have peace

Only a foolish man abandoned their ancestors and worship foreign ancestors who contributed nothing during his upbringing and his/ her existence in the world

I never expected you to read it since your gods are also illitrates that forbids education and civilization. Uncountable christians universities and secondary schools abound, but yet to see:"Irunmole University of Science and Technology". It might even be surprising that probably you attended christian schools at least once from primary to your higher institution. If not nowadays that you force your small gods to leave in the flat, your gods live in the bushes and dirty environment. Your gods can't even eat on a glass plates, they prefer muddy plates.

Partially, regarding Jesus was made as human sacrifice. Yes, you are right to some extent. Jesus offered himself as sacrifice, he was not forced as your gods forced twins and pregnant women to be sacrificed to your idols. The sacrifice of Jesus was once and final. No need to sacrifice goats, humans or animals for sacrifice again. Jesus, being fully human and fully divine, took upon Himself the punishment for humanity's sins. His sacrifice paid the price for our sins, redeeming us from the consequences of sin, which is eternal death.
Through Jesus' sacrifice, God reconciled humanity to Himself, restoring the relationship between God and humanity.

Jesus' sacrifice opened the way for humans to approach God, enabling us to have a personal relationship with Him.That was why I told you to tell Jesus to reveal himself to you if he is real or not. Jesus sacrifice was prophesied to the world through prophets of God many centuries before it came to pass. His sacrifice through death and resurrection was made known by many true prophets of God, and it came to pass as prophesied.

Jesus' resurrection from the dead demonstrated His power over death, ensuring that those who put their faith in Him will also be resurrected after death. You will escape eternal punishment after physical death from this world. Jesus' sacrifice and resurrection defeated Satan's hold on humanity, freeing us from the grip of evil. Jesus' sacrifice was a once-for-all event, eliminating the need for repeated sacrifices and offerings. Jesus' willingness to lay down His life for humanity set an example of selfless love for humanity.

Keep deceiving yourself! Africa civilization that could not bring you education, internet, AI, social media and even phone and laptop which you used today, is that civilization you like to emulate ? Civilization that only encourage you to e cruel to another by offering twins and pregnant women as sacrifice to your evil gods; is that civilization or wickedness? Where are the championing country of African civilization of the past today, they are also backward like Egypt?

You missed it! Christianity doesn't offer goat or animal sacrifice anymore since Jesus volunteered to be offered perfect and holy sacrifice at once. Any christian or church doing that is not a true bible believing christian which Jesus had warned us about to be careful of them in the end time. Read some passages by yourself from Bible to affirm yourself:

Hebrews 9:12
"He (Jesus) did not enter by means of the blood of goats and calves; but he entered the Most Holy Place once for all by his own blood (volunteered sacrifice), thus obtaining eternal redemption."

Hebrews 7:27
"Unlike the other high priests, he (Jesus) does not need to offer sacrifices day after day, first for his own sins, and then for the sins of the people; he sacrificed for their sins once for all when he offered himself."

Hebrews 10:10
"And by that will, we have been made holy through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ once for all."

Hebrews 10:12
"But when this priest (Jesus) had offered for all time one sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God,"


If Christianity is a business, most richest men, educated men and wisest men on earth will not be there because they have well paying job already. It is Satan and your evil idols that are giving you those suggestion to make you remain in bondage. Why can't your idols offer better business than than that of Christianity worldwide if not because paganism s satisfied with backwardness.

It is only foolish people that will hide under what ancestor passed to next generation without first distinguish good from bad. Because your ancestor passed sacrificing twins, why did we choose to abandon it? If your ancestor passed offering pregnant women for ritual sacrifice, why did we choose to ignore the practice? Choose good and reject bad. Choose good culture, clothing, greetings, respect as passed to you, but reject evil of idol worshipping and human ritualism. Come into the light of Christ today and do away with daily and repeated ritual practices that one volunteered sacrifice has barnished.

Sacrifice of goats and animal bloods can no purify or make atonement for you, only the sinless blood of Jesus that was offered once forever is enough to cleanse you and get you out of eternal punishment after physical death

sreamsense:


I never expected you to read it since your gods are also illitrates that forbids education and civilization. Uncountable christians universities and secondary schools abound, but yet to see:"Irunmole University of Science and Technology". It might even be surprising that probably you attended christian schools at least once from primary to your higher institution. If not nowadays that you force your small gods to leave in the flat, your gods live in the bushes and dirty environment. Your gods can't even eat on a glass plates, they prefer muddy plates.

Partially, regarding Jesus was made as human sacrifice. Yes, you are right to some extent. Jesus offered himself as sacrifice, he was not forced as your gods forced twins and pregnant women to be sacrificed to your idols. The sacrifice of Jesus was once and final. No need to sacrifice goats, humans or animals for sacrifice again. Jesus, being fully human and fully divine, took upon Himself the punishment for humanity's sins. His sacrifice paid the price for our sins, redeeming us from the consequences of sin, which is eternal death.
Through Jesus' sacrifice, God reconciled humanity to Himself, restoring the relationship between God and humanity.

Jesus' sacrifice opened the way for humans to approach God, enabling us to have a personal relationship with Him.That was why I told you to tell Jesus to reveal himself to you if he is real or not. Jesus sacrifice was prophesied to the world through prophets of God many centuries before it came to pass. His sacrifice through death and resurrection was made known by many true prophets of God, and it came to pass as prophesied.

Jesus' resurrection from the dead demonstrated His power over death, ensuring that those who put their faith in Him will also be resurrected after death. You will escape eternal punishment after physical death from this world. Jesus' sacrifice and resurrection defeated Satan's hold on humanity, freeing us from the grip of evil. Jesus' sacrifice was a once-for-all event, eliminating the need for repeated sacrifices and offerings. Jesus' willingness to lay down His life for humanity set an example of selfless love for humanity.

Keep deceiving yourself! Africa civilization that could not bring you education, internet, AI, social media and even phone and laptop which you used today, is that civilization you like to emulate ? Civilization that only encourage you to e cruel to another by offering twins and pregnant women as sacrifice to your evil gods; is that civilization or wickedness? Where are the championing country of African civilization of the past today, they are also backward like Egypt?

You missed it! Christianity doesn't offer goat or animal sacrifice anymore since Jesus volunteered to be offered perfect and holy sacrifice at once. Any christian or church doing that is not a true bible believing christian which Jesus had warned us about to be careful of them in the end time. Read some passages by yourself from Bible to affirm yourself:

Hebrews 9:12
"He (Jesus) did not enter by means of the blood of goats and calves; but he entered the Most Holy Place once for all by his own blood (volunteered sacrifice), thus obtaining eternal redemption."

Hebrews 7:27
"Unlike the other high priests, he (Jesus) does not need to offer sacrifices day after day, first for his own sins, and then for the sins of the people; he sacrificed for their sins once for all when he offered himself."

Hebrews 10:10
"And by that will, we have been made holy through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ once for all."

Hebrews 10:12
"But when this priest (Jesus) had offered for all time one sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God,"


If Christianity is a business, most richest men, educated men and wisest men on earth will not be there because they have well paying job already. It is Satan and your evil idols that are giving you those suggestion to make you remain in bondage. Why can't your idols offer better business than than that of Christianity worldwide if not because paganism s satisfied with backwardness.

It is only foolish people that will hide under what ancestor passed to next generation without first distinguish good from bad. Because your ancestor passed sacrificing twins, why did we choose to abandon it? If your ancestor passed offering pregnant women for ritual sacrifice, why did we choose to ignore the practice? Choose good and reject bad. Choose good culture, clothing, greetings, respect as passed to you, but reject evil of idol worshipping and human ritualism. Come into the light of Christ today and do away with daily and repeated ritual practices that one volunteered sacrifice has barnished.

Sacrifice of goats and animal bloods can no purify or make atonement for you, only the sinless blood of Jesus that was offered once forever is enough to cleanse you and get you out of eternal punishment after physical death

u are talking nonsense. No facts no point

Kobojunkie:
Prince Henry? I thought you were going to quote something from at least the time of the Greek Empire as proof against what I said. 🤔

Stupid atheist, you will die young before your time except God does not exist. But if he exists, may his wrath rise against you day and night to prove his power to you. May everything you do become fruitless. May all the evils on the surface of the earth and in the sea rise against you until you accept the existence of God.

May your going out be filled with evils. May you meet evils when you rise and when you sleep.

May you not know peace until you repent and accept God as the one and only Almighty God.

It's only an idiót that says there is no God and you must pay with your life for blaspheming the name of God and his son.

Stupid walking corpse!

cybernaut:
u are talking nonsense. No facts no point

I expected it to be nonsense to you since your gods have already blindfolded your eyes to the truth. Read again slowly, aloud and think along when you read again and again. Call on Jesus Christ that has made only one Holy, sinless, perfect and everlasting sacrifice for all mankinds to reveal Himself to you so that you can see the Truth that those christians saw in Christ Jesus. No more daily human or animal sacrifice is acceptable by God, you are offering sacrifice to Satan through his agent idols. Join the train of Jesus Christ today so you can access free gift of eternal life after death through Christ Jesus

sreamsense:

I expected it to be nonsense to you since your gods have already blindfolded your eyes to the truth. Read again slowly, aloud and think along when you read again and again. Call on Jesus Christ that has made only one Holy, sinless, perfect and everlasting sacrifice for all mankinds to reveal Himself to you so that you can see the Truth that those christians saw in Christ Jesus. No more daily human or animal sacrifice is acceptable by God, you are offering sacrifice to Satan through his agent idols. Join the train of Jesus Christ today so you can access free gift of eternal life after death through Christ Jesus

so those cows,goat given to ur so called pastor or reverend is not sacrifice to their white man idol god. You are myoptic.