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I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by AfricaDefender: 7:03pm On Feb 07
I am a 27 years old Bayelsan from Kolokuma/Opokuma LGA Ijaw by tribe
Having a 24 years old Bayelsan lady also Ijaw from Southern Ijaw LGA.
We have a 4 years old Daughter and 1 year old son.


I met this lady when I had nothing.
I was homeless but we were together.
She even slept and lived at front of people's shops with me saying she rather die by my side than let me go.
When her father sent her out of his house for my sake because she choose me instead of to take her life serious the way he wants and she pack to my room from their town and my father sent both of us packing because he doesn't like her either.


Along the line I hit jackpot due to some lawful deals that got my way and I became a millionaire.


Sometimes I fear that life is unpredictable and if anything should happen to me my brother's and sisters won't allow her touch my money since my youngest sister is my next of kin.
By then I never had a child so I'm thinking of changing all my account to her name as next of kin so that if anything happens to me since life is unpredictable I know that my children will not suffer.


Note: I didn't do any thing evil to get the money o.
And I didn't marry her lawfully but we just refuse to leave each other till she gave birth to two


What do you think?
I need advice please.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by The6thAustralia: 7:04pm On Feb 07
You go cryyyyyy

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by helinues: 7:04pm On Feb 07
Where is your family or parents?

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by festacman(m): 7:06pm On Feb 07
Write a will, bro.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by AfricaDefender: 7:06pm On Feb 07
The6thAustralia:
You go cryyyyyy

But it's next of kin to my account because I fear that my family won't give her a dyme if anything ever happen to me.
Atleast I know that she will use the money on my daughter and son.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Fisiryorh(m): 7:07pm On Feb 07
It would end in premium tears....
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by AfricaDefender: 7:08pm On Feb 07
Fisiryorh:
It would end in premium tears....

On someone who slept on the streets with you when you had nothing.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by helinues: 7:09pm On Feb 07
AfricaDefender:


But it's next of kin to my account because I fear that my family won't give her a dyme if anything ever happen to me.
Atleast I know that she will use the money on my daughter and son.

Bro, whatever any amount you got, divide into 3

Put one in your personal account, then another one in your baby Mama's account, the 3 Rd part can be fixed.

Putting all the eggs in one basket might come with gory story

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 7:09pm On Feb 07
Set up a Trust for your kids with the money. They will have access to it when they become of age.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by EXOUSIAng: 7:10pm On Feb 07
If you had millions you won't open this thread.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 7:11pm On Feb 07
AfricaDefender:


On someone who slept on the streets with you when you had nothing.

It doesn't matter. Nobody is saying you shouldn't take care of her. The important thing is not to make her an authority on your money.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Babangidapikin: 7:12pm On Feb 07
Why not marry her officially then do the right thing and leave it in her name. If you are not ready to marry her leave it in your kid's names .

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by jflower06(m): 7:12pm On Feb 07
Write a will and make your children your next of kin.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 7:14pm On Feb 07
Babangidapikin:
Why not marry her officially then do the right thing and leave it in her name. If you are not ready to marry her leave it in your kid's names .

Why marry her all of a sudden?
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Fisiryorh(m): 7:16pm On Feb 07
AfricaDefender:


On someone who slept on the streets with you when you had nothing.

Baba, never bank a 100% on any human (male or female)....

If she like make she sleep inside gutter with you, if devil wan whine her brain, E GO SUP....

you know where eve been sleep with Adam?....


Oga, WISE UP...

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Babangidapikin: 7:17pm On Feb 07
MufasaLion:


Why marry her all of a sudden?
Do you want it to be said he left everything for a Baby Mama. Your Wife is still your Wife, there is still some form of respect there, even if you Kpai and she remarries.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by givedemwotowoto: 7:18pm On Feb 07
Meet a lawyer and inquire about setting up a Trust for your family. Your lawyer will clarify you on the best way to handle this. I hope you have life insurance as well. Your son needs money from your life insurance policy in case anything happens.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 7:21pm On Feb 07
Babangidapikin:

Do you want it to be said he left everything for a Baby Mama. Your Wife is still your Wife, there is still some form of respect there, even if you Kpai and she remarries.

It's irrelevant if it's a wife or a baby mama. The main thing is to guard his money. Giving her authority over everything he has would be his greatest mistake.
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Olatunji1929: 7:26pm On Feb 07
AfricaDefender:
I am a 27 years old Bayelsan from Kolokuma/Opokuma LGA Ijaw by tribe
Having a 24 years old Bayelsan lady also Ijaw from Southern Ijaw LGA.
We have a 4 years old Daughter and 1 year old son.


I met this lady when I had nothing.
I was homeless but we were together.
She even slept and lived at front of people's shops with me saying she rather die by my side than let me go.
When her father sent her out of his house for my sake because she choose me instead of to take her life serious the way he wants and she pack to my room from their town and my father sent both of us packing because he doesn't like her either.


Along the line I hit jackpot due to some lawful deals that got my way and I became a millionaire.


Sometimes I fear that life is unpredictable and if anything should happen to me my brother's and sisters won't allow her touch my money since my youngest sister is my next of kin.
By then I never had a child so I'm thinking of changing all my account to her name as next of kin so that if anything happens to me since life is unpredictable I know that my children will not suffer.


Note: I didn't do any thing evil to get the money o.
And I didn't marry her lawfully but we just refuse to leave each other till she gave birth to two


What do you think?
I need advice please.
if you fear that your family will not give her anything to take care of your children if you kpai you can change it to her name or your children name but don't let her know because the moment she knows your life might be in danger

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by GanagiBitrus: 7:34pm On Feb 07
Try to formalise the marriage since you 2 have kids together. & try to promote a cordial relationship between your wife and your family.

The welfare of your kids & your wife should take priority. So do whatever it will take to secure their future & not expose them to greedy family members.

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Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Nicepoker(m): 7:36pm On Feb 07
What if she kick the bucket first grin
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Babangidapikin: 7:48pm On Feb 07
MufasaLion:


It's irrelevant if it's a wife or a baby mama. The main thing is to guard his money. Giving her authority over everything he has would be his greatest mistake.
Why he has kids for him. All he need do is to do the proper thing
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Ruke1989: 7:49pm On Feb 07
AfricaDefender:
I am a 27 years old Bayelsan from Kolokuma/Opokuma LGA Ijaw by tribe
Having a 24 years old Bayelsan lady also Ijaw from Southern Ijaw LGA.
We have a 4 years old Daughter and 1 year old son.


I met this lady when I had nothing.
I was homeless but we were together.
She even slept and lived at front of people's shops with me saying she rather die by my side than let me go.
When her father sent her out of his house for my sake because she choose me instead of to take her life serious the way he wants and she pack to my room from their town and my father sent both of us packing because he doesn't like her either.


Along the line I hit jackpot due to some lawful deals that got my way and I became a millionaire.


Sometimes I fear that life is unpredictable and if anything should happen to me my brother's and sisters won't allow her touch my money since my youngest sister is my next of kin.
By then I never had a child so I'm thinking of changing all my account to her name as next of kin so that if anything happens to me since life is unpredictable I know that my children will not suffer.


Note: I didn't do any thing evil to get the money o.
And I didn't marry her lawfully but we just refuse to leave each other till she gave birth to two


What do you think?
I need advice please.

Buy lands, properties with your children names instead. Land will appreciate as the kids grow and if anything happens to you, God forbid, your siblings have no way to take such land. Your land documents can be privy to your wife. But don't make the mistake of pushing more than 10% of your money to her custody. Women respect you for having what they wish to have but cannot have. Once you hand it to them, you will be gone. That she stuck to you when you had no money is nothing. She could have seen other things in you that made her stay. Maybe you sabi the other room and she hasn't tasted it better elsewhere as at then
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Hankim: 8:08pm On Feb 07
AfricaDefender:
I am a 27 years old Bayelsan from Kolokuma/Opokuma LGA Ijaw by tribe
Having a 24 years old Bayelsan lady also Ijaw from Southern Ijaw LGA.
We have a 4 years old Daughter and 1 year old son.


I met this lady when I had nothing.
I was homeless but we were together.
She even slept and lived at front of people's shops with me saying she rather die by my side than let me go.
When her father sent her out of his house for my sake because she choose me instead of to take her life serious the way he wants and she pack to my room from their town and my father sent both of us packing because he doesn't like her either.


Along the line I hit jackpot due to some lawful deals that got my way and I became a millionaire.


Sometimes I fear that life is unpredictable and if anything should happen to me my brother's and sisters won't allow her touch my money since my youngest sister is my next of kin.
By then I never had a child so I'm thinking of changing all my account to her name as next of kin so that if anything happens to me since life is unpredictable I know that my children will not suffer.


Note: I didn't do any thing evil to get the money o.
And I didn't marry her lawfully but we just refuse to leave each other till she gave birth to two


What do you think?
I need advice please.










A very good idea and anyone who is contrary to this beautiful idea is your enemy, they say experience is the best teacher, cheers 😂
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by tommy589(m): 8:12pm On Feb 07
Nothing to add. Just listen to @ Ruke1989
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 8:20pm On Feb 07
Babangidapikin:

Why he has kids for him. All he need do is to do the proper thing

Having kids with someone doesn't mean you should/must marry them.
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Righteousness2(m): 8:28pm On Feb 07
Go and do whatever you should do to Marry her Lawfully.
Once that is Done , you Do exactly as you desire to do.

But do what is right
AfricaDefender:
I am a 27 years old Bayelsan from Kolokuma/Opokuma LGA Ijaw by tribe
Having a 24 years old Bayelsan lady also Ijaw from Southern Ijaw LGA.
We have a 4 years old Daughter and 1 year old son.


I met this lady when I had nothing.
I was homeless but we were together.
She even slept and lived at front of people's shops with me saying she rather die by my side than let me go.
When her father sent her out of his house for my sake because she choose me instead of to take her life serious the way he wants and she pack to my room from their town and my father sent both of us packing because he doesn't like her either.


Along the line I hit jackpot due to some lawful deals that got my way and I became a millionaire.


Sometimes I fear that life is unpredictable and if anything should happen to me my brother's and sisters won't allow her touch my money since my youngest sister is my next of kin.
By then I never had a child so I'm thinking of changing all my account to her name as next of kin so that if anything happens to me since life is unpredictable I know that my children will not suffer.


Note: I didn't do any thing evil to get the money o.
And I didn't marry her lawfully but we just refuse to leave each other till she gave birth to two


What do you think?
I need advice please.
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Babangidapikin: 8:29pm On Feb 07
MufasaLion:


Having kids with someone doesn't mean you should/must marry them.
I don't support Baby Mama been a next of kin, rather he can leave his asset for the kids ..Because any man can take Baby Mama at any time.
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 8:30pm On Feb 07
Babangidapikin:

I don't support Baby Mama been a next of kin, rather he can leave his asset for the kids ..Because any man can take Baby Mama at any time.

Nobody is asking him to make a baby mama the next of kin. I already advised him on what to do.

Even a married woman could be snatched by other men.
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Nonexisting1: 8:32pm On Feb 07
I read your entire write-up and for th first time in this forum, I approve. As long as everything you said is true, go ahead and do it. You're on the right track.

Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by Babangidapikin: 8:32pm On Feb 07
MufasaLion:


Nobody is asking him to make a baby mama the next of kin. I already advised him on what to do.

Even a married woman could be snatched by other men.
grin You right sha, I have seen that before ..
Re: I Want To Put All My Millions Into My Babe's Name Advice Me Please. by MufasaLion: 8:33pm On Feb 07
Babangidapikin:

grin You right sha, I have seen that before ..

Right.

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