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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:51am On Feb 17
jaxxy:
He must have some balls of steel. Lol

Or maybe she can hold her own ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:55am On Feb 17
blingxx:


South Africans donโ€™t see it that way they rather drag you because your father was born in Nigeria

We hate the unnecessary noise. * SA women love us more than their men* even though 99*9%of SA women are married to SA men. No one talks about Zim,Brits,Malawians etc marrying in SA because they don't make a nuisance of themselves when they do....they see it as normal not a flex. But insecure Nigerians see it as a win grin grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:56am On Feb 17
dkidd:
Good for them. At least he doesn't have that SA head structure for males so their kids will be good

A Nigerian is talking about a head structure of another male group? grin grin grin grin grin grin


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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:58am On Feb 17
Stolen:


By the way, our Nigeria women are irresistible.

This is another of your SA brothers hooked.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZuI-955jiI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4v5Fxx3P_g


Doesn't seem like a genuine relationship though....seems like Two gold-diggers acting for the audience for fame and gifts grin grin grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 8:01am On Feb 17
Shattuck:
how do Nigerians look? Because I see folks who look like her here, why do you assume she does not look Nigerian?


She neither sounds nor looks like the typical Nigerian women we see here. Plus her skin looks very natural . Her parents might be living in Nigeria but I'd love for her to say where her mother is really from.....I'm still not convinced grin. And the guy must tell us where his father is from grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Federalis: 8:02am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:



Why don't you teach him how to kill her and sell her body parts as it's a norm over there ? grin grin

Who be this mumu? Kill her first like you kill your useless women that you don't regard, and you will hear from us. Mugu

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 8:06am On Feb 17
Stolen:
Back to the topic, nobody stopped, prohibited or banned south african men from marrying Nigeria women or any African women.

If u generate positive vibe, the women will feel safe to come around you.

If it is hate, hate, hate and intolerance, you scare them all away.


As a matter of fact not only the women runing, everybody will flee from you.

U only have yourself to blame.

You missed the point .
South African men have never shown interest in black foreign women...it's not that they have never attracted them....they are mostly unmoved by their presence here. If a black SA men isn't with his own kind....they mostly date white women both local and foreign ( their own weakness) grin. So it's suprising to see one with a black foreigner and not only that but a Nigerian shocked shocked....very shocking ....no one saw that coming grin. That's why I'd love to see his own father and her mother to be convinced of their story grin

It's possible him daddy be a Nigerian grin....and her mother be South African....otherwise this is the strangest pairing ever grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 8:09am On Feb 17
Federalis:


Who be this mumu? Kill her first like you kill your useless women that you don't regard, and you will hear from us. Mugu


LMAO tell the guy where he can sell her body parts once he has killed her?. What's the average going rate for a vagina over there ? grin. Hear from you ? grin grin grin grin. Oh! Please tough guy grin grin grin. What the fck can you possibly do to a SAn or SA except run your mouth online grin grin grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by blingxx(m): 9:27am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:


We hate the necessary noise. * SA women love us more than their men* even though 99*9%of SA women are married to SA men. No one talks about Zim,Brits,Malawians etc marrying in SA because they don't make a nuisance of themselves when they do....they see it as normal not a flex. But insecure Nigerians see it as a win grin grin

Like you said โ€œinsecure Nigeriansโ€ ๐Ÿ˜‚ .. their Nigerian woman treated them badly thatโ€™s why
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Shattuck(m): 9:42am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:



She neither sounds nor looks like the typical Nigerian women we see here. Plus her skin looks very natural . Her parents might be living in Nigeria but I'd love for her to say where her mother is really from.....I'm still not convinced grin. And the guy must tell us where his father is from grin
ok so south Africans can decide who is Nigerian by the nature of it skin.
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 9:45am On Feb 17
blingxx:


Like you said โ€œinsecure Nigeriansโ€ ๐Ÿ˜‚ .. their Nigerian woman treated them badly thatโ€™s why

Always someone else's fault with you Nigerian men...do you guys ever take any responsibility for any of your actions at all? shocked. Nigerian women treated you badly so you decide to go and make an arse of yourselves in another society and you wonder why you're looked down on with this mentality? cry grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 9:49am On Feb 17
Shattuck:
ok so south Africans can decide who is Nigerian by the nature of it skin.

Nope, we don't decide a damn thing but genes do. I can tell when someone isn't SA ( 99.999% of the time ) by just looking at them. And I can differentiate between a West,East and Southern African...the only people I find confusing are Central Africans because they can look like both Eastern and Western Africans ..

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:56am On Feb 17
Can that cuntface get a grip ..

It's a monday morning FFS!!!

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by ultraviolet27(f): 9:59am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:



She neither sounds nor looks like the typical Nigerian women we see here. Plus her skin looks very natural . Her parents might be living in Nigeria but I'd love for her to say where her mother is really from.....I'm still not convinced grin. And the guy must tell us where his father is from grin


who be this oloribuku low life mgbeke running Helter skelter, spewing trash and messing up this thread?they are so superior yet couldn't resist gloating like a fool up and down low self esteem, mentally retarded apish looking vacuous troglodyte!!

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by ultraviolet27(f): 10:07am On Feb 17
Shattuck:
ok so south Africans can decide who is Nigerian by the nature of it skin.


You dey mind that ozuor yarning okpata up and down?the slowpoke has never been to the south south or eastern part of Nigeria where almost all their women are light skinned in complexion.even the Edo state the you tube lady is from in Nigeria,many of her ethnic sub group women from esan land,I think that is where she is from in Edo are light skinned in
complexion.
To her all Nigerian women have the same dark skin tone and complexion.the mentally retarded ugly imp,thinking she had opinions on where it matters,mgbeke feeling funky!!
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Shattuck(m): 10:07am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:


Nope, we don't decide a damn thing but genes do. I can tell when someone isn't SA ( 99.999% of the time ) by just looking at them. And I can differentiate between a West,East and Southern African...the only people I find confusing are Central Africans because they can look like both Eastern and Western Africans ..
somehow true, I know a typical east African feature when I see it, sometimes I identify folks on TV too by looks. But I just feel that Nigerians don't have that distinct feature by looks that easily give them out, maybe speech.
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by blingxx(m): 10:09am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:


Always someone else's fault with you Nigerian men...do you guys ever take any responsibility for any of your actions at all? shocked. Nigerian women treated you badly so you decide to go and make an arse of yourselves in another society and you wonder why you're looked down on with this mentality? cry grin

I still donโ€™t understand why you make this look bad , a lot of westerners come here to marry our women ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿป๐Ÿคท๐Ÿป I can decide to marry a Chinese woman tomorrow why does it matter ?
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:09am On Feb 17
ultraviolet27:


who be this oloribuku low life mgbeke running Helter skelter, spewing trash and messing up this thread?they are so superior yet couldn't resist gloating like a fool up and down low self esteem, mentally retarded apish looking vacuous troglodyte!!


LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin

What has angered you so much in my post,was it the natural skin part? grin

Point me to where I said anyone was superior to the other....that's a Nigerian language not ours....we don't do the better pass our neighbor rubbish here. But the reality is that Nigerian women and men do stand out here because of their skin; that looks unnatural most times because of all the chemicals they use even on the kids faces. That's a reality not a diss. You can go and jump over a cliff if that hurts you.

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:12am On Feb 17
Shattuck:
somehow true, I know a typical east African feature when I see it, sometimes I identify folks on TV too by looks. But I just feel that Nigerians don't have that distinct feature by looks that easily give them out, maybe speech.

They do have features we recognize... the head grin grin. The legs in men . The big lips. Etc. And ofcourse the skin that looks almost unnatural ...especially the females.

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:15am On Feb 17
blingxx:


I still donโ€™t understand why you make this look bad , a lot of westerners come here to marry our women ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿป๐Ÿคท๐Ÿป I can decide to marry a Chinese woman tomorrow why does it matter ?

I said people marry who ever they prefer,but what we despise is the inferiority complex and the ignorance of the Nigerian males ....*South African women prefer us*. That's delusional and a stupid thing to say. No one stops you from marrying ans shutting up your trap ...it's the noise we despise .

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:20am On Feb 17
ultraviolet27:


You dey mind that ozuor yarning okpata up and down?the slowpoke has never been to the south south or eastern part of Nigeria where almost all their women are light skinned in complexion.even the Edo state the you tube lady is from in Nigeria,many of her ethnic sub group women from esan land,I think that is where she is from in Edo are light skinned in
complexion.
To her all Nigerian women have the same dark skin tone and complexion.the mentally retarded ugly imp,thinking she had opinions on where it matters,mgbeke feeling funky!!


LMAO...inferiority complex grin


I never mentioned anything about complexion...but a pained chronic bleacher made it about skin tone....guilty conscience ? grin grin grin.

I'm talking about the quality of the skin....you guys use too much makeup and skin altering creams,and it shows. Stop the skin mutilation if you don't want people to notice๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:22am On Feb 17
Silentgroper:
This is what I was talking about ..


They wake up in the morning, grab a beer and go on being idle for the rest of the day chatting piles of bollocks ..

.get a life miss ..

. Nigerians are not the cause of your frustration...


grin grin grin grin

Qoute me like a man you lazy coward grin cheesy.

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:24am On Feb 17
Silentgroper:
Can that cuntface get a grip ..

It's a monday morning FFS!!!

You left our earlier chat,why ? grin grin grin grin...... Couldn't back up the noise with substance? grin grin grin....and

I'm not going any bloody where incase this is your way of chasing me away grin grin grin....I'm here watching you grin grin
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Samantha125(f): 10:44am On Feb 17
He did say he's from Marapyane village in Mpumalanga... It's really shocking right? grin grin grin... But I'm still kinda suspicious of the girl's mother, even though I could be wrong.

And it seems like I was mistaken about his tribe, he's actually Tswana, but he Speaks like a Pedi...๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ... He must've live in Pretoria for some time and now mixing both languages, because I always find it hard differentiating Pretoria Tswanas and Pedis when speaking.


Here's a video of both their families, his father is definitely a South African because he was dressed normally like a typical South African father on his child's lobola negotiations, he's the one in a blue and white shirt in the beginning of the video... Nigerians always dress up and like showing off...๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚... But I understand your doubts, we've been played way too many times... I finally found his surname and his name is Amon Kau, it's a Tswana surname.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDhxMcjmz0k?si=1hiqiAHDscPaQdhr

Lionessza6:



She neither sounds nor looks like the typical Nigerian women we see here. Plus her skin looks very natural . Her parents might be living in Nigeria but I'd love for her to say where her mother is really from.....I'm still not convinced grin. And the guy must tell us where his father is from grin
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 11:05am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:



grin grin grin grin

Qoute me like a man you lazy coward grin cheesy.



Fvck off ...


I've got important things to do...
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 11:46am On Feb 17
Lionessza6:




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The difference between the wealthy Nigerian man and the wealthy South African man is that ,the SA man will use his position and influence to uplift the women in his life ; make sure there is a significant female representation in his company, department, institution etc. Those women will forever be grateful to him because he has given them an opportunity to do for themselves without bending a knee everytime they want a new car wink.

There are reasons why the most independent , women leaders in Africa are mostly found in ; South Africa, Rwanda, Botswana and Kenya. Men in these countries don't see women as liabilities,burden or* little kids to be dashed pocket money*. Women are partners not subjects.

SA has the highest number of black dollar millionaires after USA, and females make up a significant number of those,and no ....they were not given those riches by their men,they were given equal opportunity in education, funding etc both at home and by the government. When you can feed yourself ,someone else's money comes as an extra....it's not your entitlement, a SA woman from birth is groomed to know this. That's why we don't have women chased out of their " husband's houses" grin grin....because there is no such here....a woman and a man are co-owners of the home.

The wealthy Nigerian man uses his position to feed the hungry an ofcourse lord over them ,reminding them anytime he can that he *takes care of them *

There are reasons why you'll never hear men from any other place beating theie chest over *taking care of women * the way Nigerian men do grin. Listen to British ,USA, Japanese men etc none will tell you how they are the centre of their women's world. But look at countries like Pakistan,Nigeria, Somalia etc the men there cannot wait to tell anyone who can hear how their women depend on them even for toothpaste grin. Even when they set up that mini-business for them ....the men will announce this gesture to the world grin grin.

With that being said; there is no country in the world where men* don't take care*of their women's * spend more on relationships than women*......common sense should tell you. Men earn more and are also more likely to be self sufficient than women. But normal men don't make noise about this because it comes naturally to them.

There are only about 86 000 SA married to foreign nationals out of a population of about 60 million grin. And most of the females are married to Zim, German,India British, Mozambique, Pakistan, ( I won't count Lesotho, Swaziland &,Botswana). Nigeria is not even in the top 10. So I'm wondering where all this * SA women love Nigerian men* nonsense comes from if not from Nigerian men themselves grin cheesy. Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know grin grin grin. Inferiority complex Masked with hot bravado grin. There is a certain type of SA woman who would be willing to date a Nigerian man and even make it public in SA ,and her family don't want her around...her friends are all dating Nigerians ,she has no job ,business, education etc. Basically has nothing to lose and everything to gain ...she is actually the winner as she comes with nothing but baggage ( two or three kids mostly) cheesy.
And the relationships and marriages usually don't last ...the Nigerian man can't lord over her in her country(if she ain't stupid) as she has the police and courts in her favor. And she would never move to Nigeria where she will be like most Nigerian women ( powerless ) . Once he comes into financial distress...she leaves because he nolonger has what she came for, why be with a Nigerian if you're not going to be heavily compensated for it ? grin. And there are reasons why your Nigerian wives give you the middle finger when you reach abroad grin grin...they can take care of themselves now, what's the use of having you around in q country that empowers them? grin

And yes,we know you pay women to give birth to.your kids grin...you even rent their love grin. A SA broke man can sleep with the same SA woman you're* taking care of *without giving her dime ,just his personality ....no SA woman would ever date a Nigerian who has no paper to offer her.

And lastly, know between outliers vs norm. SA women dating Nigerian men are not a norm but outliers in SA. Nigerian men mostly recycle the same women. She dates Chike in Durban, moves to Cape Town to marry Tunde grin grin grin.

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๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜†beautiful.! You try small grin
But you know what? Your notes are too long to have a good defense over SA niggaz. Few points, SA men still are not up to by all standards. Letโ€™s assume, SA economy being A class, a single Nigerian manโ€™s economy is 100x more than the economy of SA in the life of a woman even in hardship. Many can relate. We value family and without a woman where is the family? Argue with yourself.

Not all men are good, some are dead beats, Lazy, etc. but theyโ€™re very fewโ€ฆbecause the society has to be complete somewhat. God has made it so! To teach!

What are you talking about positions at the work place? are women meant to work? Is that the nature in them? To manage a firm and still manage a home how can both match together.? Is this how SA men value women.? Something must be wrong with them! That overload! SA women can not expect the height of single handed good a man from Nigeria will do for a woman so it understandable to talk on other advantages they benefit from their men. Leave other countries out of this, we are exceptional! Even though mixed religion but the same thing in us.

Nigerian men wey money dey shark, spend on luxury, on real doings, flex in Large! Beat your cheat on one SA guy that can brag about this.

You had said the Nigerian women give their men the middle finger when abroad, yes, thatโ€™s for some, because most women who are not sensible are ingrates, they abuse privileges. Is it all women that are good? You answer for yourself.

What a Nigerian man will give to a woman, she gets it on a platter without working for it! What is job position, thatโ€™s the easiest thing to do.

If I marry you, tell you not to work, and I will put you on a monthly salary, choose one?. In addition to access to all luxuries. How will I want my wife to work when I am affordable. I am surprised you can be this proud to say this. Should that be compared with?

Job is the smallest thing to do, itโ€™s meant for relatives.

Babe, donโ€™t feel proud where youโ€™re, defending SA guys does not carry weight at all. Do you know how many carrier Nigerian women overseas.? In USA alone! SA women are learning. We are hard working much more than all African nationals put together. What is SA๐Ÿ™ƒWhatโ€™s the big deal about that.!

If not for the nature of the economy in which men marry working class women to meet up with demand and supply, should that be called life. Overseas have no families values and that is whatโ€™s applicable there..!

So in SA, man and woman are equals as husband and wife? Thatโ€™s a mess. No wonder, SA women may be pretty but donโ€™t look soft!

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Stolen: 12:34pm On Feb 17
Lionessza6:


You missed the point .
South African men have never shown interest in black foreign women...it's not that they have never attracted them....they are mostly unmoved by their presence here. If a black SA men isn't with his own kind....they mostly date white women both local and foreign ( their own weakness) grin. So it's suprising to see one with a black foreigner and not only that but a Nigerian shocked shocked....very shocking ....no one saw that coming grin. That's why I'd love to see his own father and her mother to be convinced of their story grin

It's possible him daddy be a Nigerian grin....and her mother be South African....otherwise this is the strangest pairing ever grin

Shocking to Xenophobe like you.

SA men do anything to be with Nigeria women they love.

This one followed Yvonne to Nigeria.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksbxI9FzSMU



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxcL2ZuX8l0

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 1:46pm On Feb 17
Afolue:
๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜†beautiful.! You try small grin
But you know what? Your notes are too long to have a good defense over SA niggaz. Few points, SA men still are not up to by all standards. Letโ€™s assume, SA economy being A class, a single Nigerian manโ€™s economy is 100x more than the economy of SA in the life of a woman even in hardship. Many can relate. We value family and without a woman where is the family? Argue with yourself.

Not all men are good, some are dead beats, Lazy, etc. but theyโ€™re very fewโ€ฆbecause the society has to be complete somewhat. God has made it so! To teach!

What are you talking about positions at the work place? are women meant to work? Is that the nature in them? To manage a firm and still manage a home how can both match together.? Is this how SA men value women.? Something must be wrong with them! That overload! SA women can not expect the height of single handed good a man from Nigeria will do for a woman so it understandable to talk on other advantages they benefit from their men. Leave other countries out of this, we are exceptional! Even though mixed religion but the same thing in us.

Nigerian men wey money dey shark, spend on luxury, on real doings, flex in Large! Beat your cheat on one SA guy that can brag about this.

You had said the Nigerian women give their men the middle finger when abroad, yes, thatโ€™s for some, because most women who are not sensible are ingrates, they abuse privileges. Is it all women that are good? You answer for yourself.

What a Nigerian man will give to a woman, she gets it on a platter without working for it! What is job position, thatโ€™s the easiest thing to do.

If I marry you, tell you not to work, and I will put you on a monthly salary, choose one?. In addition to access to all luxuries. How will I want my wife to work when I am affordable. I am surprised you can be this proud to say this. Should that be compared with?

Job is the smallest thing to do, itโ€™s meant for relatives.

Babe, donโ€™t feel proud where youโ€™re, defending SA guys does not carry weight at all. Do you know how many carrier Nigerian women overseas.? In USA alone! SA women are learning. We are hard working much more than all African nationals put together. What is SA๐Ÿ™ƒWhatโ€™s the big deal about that.!

If not for the nature of the economy in which men marry working class women to meet up with demand and supply, should that be called life. Overseas have no families values and that is whatโ€™s applicable there..!

So in SA, man and woman are equals as husband and wife? Thatโ€™s a mess. No wonder, SA women may be pretty but donโ€™t look soft!



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You failed woefully in countering my post,instead you danced around the issues I raised...let's recap;


1. Majority of SA women have never and would never date Nigerian men...we are conditioned differently. So all the lies about us *rushing * you disgust us ...but I get why you have to lie to yourselves๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. If you're looking for SA women who *love * you...visit downtown clubs and taverns....you'll find plenty of them ..looking for you to *flex * for them ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.


2. Women in South Africa have always worked for their own food. Before colonialism; we went to the fields to farm and took care of our kids ,whilst the men did their own part. Things changed when colonialists came to disturb and change things up...making us idle and dependent on men for survival. Post democracy...we went back to our natural roles of being partners in our homes not subjects who sit idle for a men to feed us and use us to boost his fragile ego* I take care of you...I feed you ...I buy your clothes....so be Obidient and do as you're told*๐Ÿ˜‚. You can miss us with that rubbish .

3. You say are women meant to work ?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Show me one country that's developed with a diverse economy that doesn't have women working and thriving in their own society?๐Ÿ˜‚. Apart from the emirates who enslave foreigners from poor countries in the global South, where else can you find this ? . South Africa has a diverse economy and is an upper middle income country not a poor one because all members of society are expected to chip in. You cannot have a somewhat functional country without women playing a role in the decision making . Forget it. Look up your mates in Pakistan, Somalia etc . Women there have no say and are * taken care of*๐Ÿ˜‚. I.can bet you no Nigerian woman wants to migrate there. But you'll find plenty of them in SA and other countries where women play a part in the development of their countries.

4. Lmao. You just shot yourself in the foot. So Nigerian women have to leave you in your Nigeria to be independent?๐Ÿ˜‚..why can't they have those Careers where their * great * men lead ?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. They thrive better under the leadership of other men than you ?๐Ÿ˜‚. We are in SA leading Medicine,Science,politics ,Agriculture etc. We don't need to escape our country and men to get the opportunity Kemi Badenoch has ...we are afforded that privilege here . We are learners in what ? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

5. I repeat .....men spend more on their families than women ...everywhere not just Nigeria. You are only making noise about this because you're the world's poorest men and what is normal to other men seems like a flex to you ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

6. You keep on talking about luxury and flexing....I'm confused ....is that supposed to impress me?๐Ÿ˜‚.

Here is the reality;
The wealthiest black people after Afro-Americanns are black SA.

SA is one of only 7 African countries that are classified as upper middle income countries.

This means that we aren't strangers to high standards of living ,luxury and good income. These aren't a *flex* for us...they are normal things unlike in Nigeria where these words send the fear of God down one's heart ๐Ÿ˜‚.


7. You are the most hardworking black people?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Hardworking in what when you're the poorest and one of the most food insecure and underdeveloped countries in Africa?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

When you list the indices below, you won't find Nigeria in the top 15 even with the population and resources like oil๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

* health care system
* Education
*Gdp per capita
*widespread infrastructure
* citizen's welfare
* electricity access
*water & sanitation
Etc

So what exactly are you working hard on when you're at the bottom in everything that matters....fighting it out with the likes of Somalia?๐Ÿ˜‚.

Please show me the results of your hardwork๐Ÿ™. Hardwork no be by mouth. Hardworking men don't make noise....they work๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚....and when you go to their countries you'll see the results.

8. Nigerian women don't see the need to have you around them once they reach the *saner* climes๐Ÿ˜‚. Who wants an overlord when you can make your own money and decisions?๐Ÿ˜‚. You are left with no choice but to recycle local skanks,junkies and grandmas as wives ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

9. Wealthy men in other climes have their women minding the finances,image etc of the family. They don't make their wives sit idle while giving them stipends like teenage girls ๐Ÿ˜‚....that's demeaning . They are involved in the business, one way or the other. No SA wealthy man will not teach his woman the business he is into ....if he dies...how will she take care of his kids when she can't do shyt except spending un-earned money ? Talk about shortsightedness๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Women are partners in marriage not subjects and Obidient slaves ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

And lastly, the average SA man and the average Nigerian man are not wealthy...so I don't see why you're making it seem like Nigeria is the home of wealthy mem grin grin grin. Let's rather discuss what is readily found in both countries grin grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 2:07pm On Feb 17
Stolen:


Shocking to Xenophobe like you.

SA men do anything to be with Nigeria women they love.

This one followed Yvonne to Nigeria.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksbxI9FzSMU






https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxcL2ZuX8l0


Just looked this up....a media relationship between two broke people? grin grin grin grin. These two seem to be acting and pulling the mumu buttons of Nigerian people, companies and media grin. No one even pays attention to them here ,their followers are Nigerians grin

And lastly...the relationship between a SA man and Nigerian woman is the rarest among all. SA men donโ€™t usually date black foreigners....fact!. The lady in the main topic must be part SA and or must be very self sufficient and capable. No SA man will go around collecting foreign liabilities as a wife grin grin grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Stolen: 2:14pm On Feb 17
Lionessza6:



Just looked this up....a media relationship between two broke people? grin grin grin grin. These two seem to be acting and pulling the mumu buttons of Nigerian people, companies and media grin. No one even pays attention to them here ,their followers are Nigerians grin

And lastly...the relationship between a SA man and Nigerian woman is the rarest among all. SA men donโ€™t usually date black foreigners....fact!. The lady in the main topic must be part SA and or must be very self sufficient and capable. No SA man will go around collecting foreign liabilities as a wife grin grin grin

Talk is cheap, the real question is walk the talk, then comes the excuses.

Love is LOVE, people want what they want regardless of the walls men erect.

Like i said before now, nobody is stopping SA men dating any woman, likewise nobody is begging them to date any woman either.

Each to his own, whilst others spend the short time on earth hating; another is spending same time loving, traveling, growing and raising a loving family.

The world is their oyster, for them to enjoy, from Lagos to Cape Town.


Whilst u remain the bitter sad African in Kwazulu natal village. grin grin grin

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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Stolen: 2:25pm On Feb 17
Lionessza6:




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You failed woefully in countering my post,instead you danced around the issues I raised...let's recap;


1. Majority of SA women have never and would never date Nigerian men...we are conditioned differently. So all the lies about us *rushing * you disgust us ...but I get why you have to lie to yourselves๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. If you're looking for SA women who *love * you...visit downtown clubs and taverns....you'll find plenty of them ..looking for you to *flex * for them ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.


2. Women in South Africa have always worked for their own food. Before colonialism; we went to the fields to farm and took care of our kids ,whilst the men did their own part. Things changed when colonialists came to disturb and change things up...making us idle and dependent on men for survival. Post democracy...we went back to our natural roles of being partners in our homes not subjects who sit idle for a men to feed us and use us to boost his fragile ego* I take care of you...I feed you ...I buy your clothes....so be Obidient and do as you're told*๐Ÿ˜‚. You can miss us with that rubbish .

3. You say are women meant to work ?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Show me one country that's developed with a diverse economy that doesn't have women working and thriving in their own society?๐Ÿ˜‚. Apart from the emirates who enslave foreigners from poor countries in the global South, where else can you find this ? . South Africa has a diverse economy and is an upper middle income country not a poor one because all members of society are expected to chip in. You cannot have a somewhat functional country without women playing a role in the decision making . Forget it. Look up your mates in Pakistan, Somalia etc . Women there have no say and are * taken care of*๐Ÿ˜‚. I.can bet you no Nigerian woman wants to migrate there. But you'll find plenty of them in SA and other countries where women play a part in the development of their countries.

4. Lmao. You just shot yourself in the foot. So Nigerian women have to leave you in your Nigeria to be independent?๐Ÿ˜‚..why can't they have those Careers where their * great * men lead ?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. They thrive better under the leadership of other men than you ?๐Ÿ˜‚. We are in SA leading Medicine,Science,politics ,Agriculture etc. We don't need to escape our country and men to get the opportunity Kemi Badenoch has ...we are afforded that privilege here . We are learners in what ? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

5. I repeat .....men spend more on their families than women ...everywhere not just Nigeria. You are only making noise about this because you're the world's poorest men and what is normal to other men seems like a flex to you ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

6. You keep on talking about luxury and flexing....I'm confused ....is that supposed to impress me?๐Ÿ˜‚.

Here is the reality;
The wealthiest black people after Afro-Americanns are black SA.

SA is one of only 7 African countries that are classified as upper middle income countries.

This means that we aren't strangers to high standards of living ,luxury and good income. These aren't a *flex* for us...they are normal things unlike in Nigeria where these words send the fear of God down one's heart ๐Ÿ˜‚.


7. You are the most hardworking black people?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Hardworking in what when you're the poorest and one of the most food insecure and underdeveloped countries in Africa?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

When you list the indices below, you won't find Nigeria in the top 15 even with the population and resources like oil๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

* health care system
* Education
*Gdp per capita
*widespread infrastructure
* citizen's welfare
* electricity access
*water & sanitation
Etc

So what exactly are you working hard on when you're at the bottom in everything that matters....fighting it out with the likes of Somalia?๐Ÿ˜‚.

Please show me the results of your hardwork๐Ÿ™. Hardwork no be by mouth. Hardworking men don't make noise....they work๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚....and when you go to their countries you'll see the results.

8. Nigerian women don't see the need to have you around them once they reach the *saner* climes๐Ÿ˜‚. Who wants an overlord when you can make your own money and decisions?๐Ÿ˜‚. You are left with no choice but to recycle local skanks,junkies and grandmas as wives ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

9. Wealthy men in other climes have their women minding the finances,image etc of the family. They don't make their wives sit idle while giving them stipends like teenage girls ๐Ÿ˜‚....that's demeaning . They are involved in the business, one way or the other. No SA wealthy man will not teach his woman the business he is into ....if he dies...how will she take care of his kids when she can't do shyt except spending un-earned money ? Talk about shortsightedness๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Women are partners in marriage not subjects and Obidient slaves ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

And lastly, the average SA man and the average Nigerian man are not wealthy...so I don't see why you're making it seem like Nigeria is the home of wealthy mem grin grin grin. Let's rather discuss what is readily found in both countries grin grin


Like i said, talk is cheap.


After the noise, the problem is to walk the talk.


This is the Director General and Boss of World Trade Organisation.


show us your one?

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