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Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:51am On Feb 17 |
jaxxy: Or maybe she can hold her own ๐โโ๏ธ |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:55am On Feb 17 |
blingxx: We hate the unnecessary noise. * SA women love us more than their men* even though 99*9%of SA women are married to SA men. No one talks about Zim,Brits,Malawians etc marrying in SA because they don't make a nuisance of themselves when they do....they see it as normal not a flex. But insecure Nigerians see it as a win ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:56am On Feb 17 |
dkidd: A Nigerian is talking about a head structure of another male group? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 7:58am On Feb 17 |
Stolen: Doesn't seem like a genuine relationship though....seems like Two gold-diggers acting for the audience for fame and gifts ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 8:01am On Feb 17 |
Shattuck: She neither sounds nor looks like the typical Nigerian women we see here. Plus her skin looks very natural . Her parents might be living in Nigeria but I'd love for her to say where her mother is really from.....I'm still not convinced ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Federalis: 8:02am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: Who be this mumu? Kill her first like you kill your useless women that you don't regard, and you will hear from us. Mugu 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 8:06am On Feb 17 |
Stolen: You missed the point . South African men have never shown interest in black foreign women...it's not that they have never attracted them....they are mostly unmoved by their presence here. If a black SA men isn't with his own kind....they mostly date white women both local and foreign ( their own weakness) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's possible him daddy be a Nigerian ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 8:09am On Feb 17 |
Federalis: LMAO tell the guy where he can sell her body parts once he has killed her?. What's the average going rate for a vagina over there ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by blingxx(m): 9:27am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: Like you said โinsecure Nigeriansโ ๐ .. their Nigerian woman treated them badly thatโs why |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Shattuck(m): 9:42am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6:ok so south Africans can decide who is Nigerian by the nature of it skin. |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 9:45am On Feb 17 |
blingxx: Always someone else's fault with you Nigerian men...do you guys ever take any responsibility for any of your actions at all? ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 9:49am On Feb 17 |
Shattuck: Nope, we don't decide a damn thing but genes do. I can tell when someone isn't SA ( 99.999% of the time ) by just looking at them. And I can differentiate between a West,East and Southern African...the only people I find confusing are Central Africans because they can look like both Eastern and Western Africans .. 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:56am On Feb 17 |
Can that cuntface get a grip .. It's a monday morning FFS!!! 2 Likes |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by ultraviolet27(f): 9:59am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: who be this oloribuku low life mgbeke running Helter skelter, spewing trash and messing up this thread?they are so superior yet couldn't resist gloating like a fool up and down low self esteem, mentally retarded apish looking vacuous troglodyte!! 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by ultraviolet27(f): 10:07am On Feb 17 |
Shattuck: You dey mind that ozuor yarning okpata up and down?the slowpoke has never been to the south south or eastern part of Nigeria where almost all their women are light skinned in complexion.even the Edo state the you tube lady is from in Nigeria,many of her ethnic sub group women from esan land,I think that is where she is from in Edo are light skinned in complexion. To her all Nigerian women have the same dark skin tone and complexion.the mentally retarded ugly imp,thinking she had opinions on where it matters,mgbeke feeling funky!! |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Shattuck(m): 10:07am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6:somehow true, I know a typical east African feature when I see it, sometimes I identify folks on TV too by looks. But I just feel that Nigerians don't have that distinct feature by looks that easily give them out, maybe speech. |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by blingxx(m): 10:09am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: I still donโt understand why you make this look bad , a lot of westerners come here to marry our women ๐คท๐ป๐คท๐ป I can decide to marry a Chinese woman tomorrow why does it matter ? |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:09am On Feb 17 |
ultraviolet27: LMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What has angered you so much in my post,was it the natural skin part? ![]() Point me to where I said anyone was superior to the other....that's a Nigerian language not ours....we don't do the better pass our neighbor rubbish here. But the reality is that Nigerian women and men do stand out here because of their skin; that looks unnatural most times because of all the chemicals they use even on the kids faces. That's a reality not a diss. You can go and jump over a cliff if that hurts you. 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:12am On Feb 17 |
Shattuck: They do have features we recognize... the head ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:15am On Feb 17 |
blingxx: I said people marry who ever they prefer,but what we despise is the inferiority complex and the ignorance of the Nigerian males ....*South African women prefer us*. That's delusional and a stupid thing to say. No one stops you from marrying ans shutting up your trap ...it's the noise we despise . 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:20am On Feb 17 |
ultraviolet27: LMAO...inferiority complex ![]() I never mentioned anything about complexion...but a pained chronic bleacher made it about skin tone....guilty conscience ? ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm talking about the quality of the skin....you guys use too much makeup and skin altering creams,and it shows. Stop the skin mutilation if you don't want people to notice๐คทโโ๏ธ 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:22am On Feb 17 |
Silentgroper: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Qoute me like a man you lazy coward ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 10:24am On Feb 17 |
Silentgroper: You left our earlier chat,why ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm not going any bloody where incase this is your way of chasing me away ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Samantha125(f): 10:44am On Feb 17 |
He did say he's from Marapyane village in Mpumalanga... It's really shocking right? ![]() ![]() ![]() And it seems like I was mistaken about his tribe, he's actually Tswana, but he Speaks like a Pedi...๐คฆ๐คฆ๐คฆ... He must've live in Pretoria for some time and now mixing both languages, because I always find it hard differentiating Pretoria Tswanas and Pedis when speaking. Here's a video of both their families, his father is definitely a South African because he was dressed normally like a typical South African father on his child's lobola negotiations, he's the one in a blue and white shirt in the beginning of the video... Nigerians always dress up and like showing off...๐๐๐... But I understand your doubts, we've been played way too many times... I finally found his surname and his name is Amon Kau, it's a Tswana surname. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDhxMcjmz0k?si=1hiqiAHDscPaQdhr Lionessza6: |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 11:05am On Feb 17 |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 11:46am On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6:๐คฃ๐ ๐๐๐beautiful.! You try small ![]() But you know what? Your notes are too long to have a good defense over SA niggaz. Few points, SA men still are not up to by all standards. Letโs assume, SA economy being A class, a single Nigerian manโs economy is 100x more than the economy of SA in the life of a woman even in hardship. Many can relate. We value family and without a woman where is the family? Argue with yourself. Not all men are good, some are dead beats, Lazy, etc. but theyโre very fewโฆbecause the society has to be complete somewhat. God has made it so! To teach! What are you talking about positions at the work place? are women meant to work? Is that the nature in them? To manage a firm and still manage a home how can both match together.? Is this how SA men value women.? Something must be wrong with them! That overload! SA women can not expect the height of single handed good a man from Nigeria will do for a woman so it understandable to talk on other advantages they benefit from their men. Leave other countries out of this, we are exceptional! Even though mixed religion but the same thing in us. Nigerian men wey money dey shark, spend on luxury, on real doings, flex in Large! Beat your cheat on one SA guy that can brag about this. You had said the Nigerian women give their men the middle finger when abroad, yes, thatโs for some, because most women who are not sensible are ingrates, they abuse privileges. Is it all women that are good? You answer for yourself. What a Nigerian man will give to a woman, she gets it on a platter without working for it! What is job position, thatโs the easiest thing to do. If I marry you, tell you not to work, and I will put you on a monthly salary, choose one?. In addition to access to all luxuries. How will I want my wife to work when I am affordable. I am surprised you can be this proud to say this. Should that be compared with? Job is the smallest thing to do, itโs meant for relatives. Babe, donโt feel proud where youโre, defending SA guys does not carry weight at all. Do you know how many carrier Nigerian women overseas.? In USA alone! SA women are learning. We are hard working much more than all African nationals put together. What is SA๐Whatโs the big deal about that.! If not for the nature of the economy in which men marry working class women to meet up with demand and supply, should that be called life. Overseas have no families values and that is whatโs applicable there..! So in SA, man and woman are equals as husband and wife? Thatโs a mess. No wonder, SA women may be pretty but donโt look soft! 2 Likes |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Stolen: 12:34pm On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: Shocking to Xenophobe like you. SA men do anything to be with Nigeria women they love. This one followed Yvonne to Nigeria. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksbxI9FzSMU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxcL2ZuX8l0 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 1:46pm On Feb 17 |
Afolue: ๐๐ You failed woefully in countering my post,instead you danced around the issues I raised...let's recap; 1. Majority of SA women have never and would never date Nigerian men...we are conditioned differently. So all the lies about us *rushing * you disgust us ...but I get why you have to lie to yourselves๐๐. If you're looking for SA women who *love * you...visit downtown clubs and taverns....you'll find plenty of them ..looking for you to *flex * for them ๐๐. 2. Women in South Africa have always worked for their own food. Before colonialism; we went to the fields to farm and took care of our kids ,whilst the men did their own part. Things changed when colonialists came to disturb and change things up...making us idle and dependent on men for survival. Post democracy...we went back to our natural roles of being partners in our homes not subjects who sit idle for a men to feed us and use us to boost his fragile ego* I take care of you...I feed you ...I buy your clothes....so be Obidient and do as you're told*๐. You can miss us with that rubbish . 3. You say are women meant to work ?๐๐๐๐๐. Show me one country that's developed with a diverse economy that doesn't have women working and thriving in their own society?๐. Apart from the emirates who enslave foreigners from poor countries in the global South, where else can you find this ? . South Africa has a diverse economy and is an upper middle income country not a poor one because all members of society are expected to chip in. You cannot have a somewhat functional country without women playing a role in the decision making . Forget it. Look up your mates in Pakistan, Somalia etc . Women there have no say and are * taken care of*๐. I.can bet you no Nigerian woman wants to migrate there. But you'll find plenty of them in SA and other countries where women play a part in the development of their countries. 4. Lmao. You just shot yourself in the foot. So Nigerian women have to leave you in your Nigeria to be independent?๐..why can't they have those Careers where their * great * men lead ?๐๐. They thrive better under the leadership of other men than you ?๐. We are in SA leading Medicine,Science,politics ,Agriculture etc. We don't need to escape our country and men to get the opportunity Kemi Badenoch has ...we are afforded that privilege here . We are learners in what ? ๐๐. 5. I repeat .....men spend more on their families than women ...everywhere not just Nigeria. You are only making noise about this because you're the world's poorest men and what is normal to other men seems like a flex to you ๐๐. 6. You keep on talking about luxury and flexing....I'm confused ....is that supposed to impress me?๐. Here is the reality; The wealthiest black people after Afro-Americanns are black SA. SA is one of only 7 African countries that are classified as upper middle income countries. This means that we aren't strangers to high standards of living ,luxury and good income. These aren't a *flex* for us...they are normal things unlike in Nigeria where these words send the fear of God down one's heart ๐. 7. You are the most hardworking black people?๐๐๐๐. Hardworking in what when you're the poorest and one of the most food insecure and underdeveloped countries in Africa?๐๐๐๐. When you list the indices below, you won't find Nigeria in the top 15 even with the population and resources like oil๐๐๐. * health care system * Education *Gdp per capita *widespread infrastructure * citizen's welfare * electricity access *water & sanitation Etc So what exactly are you working hard on when you're at the bottom in everything that matters....fighting it out with the likes of Somalia?๐. Please show me the results of your hardwork๐. Hardwork no be by mouth. Hardworking men don't make noise....they work๐๐๐๐....and when you go to their countries you'll see the results. 8. Nigerian women don't see the need to have you around them once they reach the *saner* climes๐. Who wants an overlord when you can make your own money and decisions?๐. You are left with no choice but to recycle local skanks,junkies and grandmas as wives ๐๐๐๐๐๐ 9. Wealthy men in other climes have their women minding the finances,image etc of the family. They don't make their wives sit idle while giving them stipends like teenage girls ๐....that's demeaning . They are involved in the business, one way or the other. No SA wealthy man will not teach his woman the business he is into ....if he dies...how will she take care of his kids when she can't do shyt except spending un-earned money ? Talk about shortsightedness๐๐. Women are partners in marriage not subjects and Obidient slaves ๐๐ And lastly, the average SA man and the average Nigerian man are not wealthy...so I don't see why you're making it seem like Nigeria is the home of wealthy mem ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Lionessza6(f): 2:07pm On Feb 17 |
Stolen: Just looked this up....a media relationship between two broke people? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And lastly...the relationship between a SA man and Nigerian woman is the rarest among all. SA men donโt usually date black foreigners....fact!. The lady in the main topic must be part SA and or must be very self sufficient and capable. No SA man will go around collecting foreign liabilities as a wife ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Stolen: 2:14pm On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: Talk is cheap, the real question is walk the talk, then comes the excuses. Love is LOVE, people want what they want regardless of the walls men erect. Like i said before now, nobody is stopping SA men dating any woman, likewise nobody is begging them to date any woman either. Each to his own, whilst others spend the short time on earth hating; another is spending same time loving, traveling, growing and raising a loving family. The world is their oyster, for them to enjoy, from Lagos to Cape Town. Whilst u remain the bitter sad African in Kwazulu natal village. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Stolen: 2:25pm On Feb 17 |
Lionessza6: Like i said, talk is cheap. After the noise, the problem is to walk the talk. This is the Director General and Boss of World Trade Organisation. show us your one? 1 Like
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