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See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Bookhub: 6:55pm On Feb 22
My girlfriend will shower me with love,care, attention,multiple calls and plenty food,for a long period of time,then from no where she will just ghost me for up to 3 days then use menstrual cramps and ,I will get angry,change it for her but I notice I can't still let her go,the food don get me finish
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Samantha125(f): 7:08pm On Feb 22
I'm not saying what she's doing is right, but maybe she is telling the truth about those menstrual cramps because some ladies would have mood swings during those days and would just want to isolate themselves from the world.

I used to be like that before I found the right pills to help with the cramps... Everyone would easily piss me off during those days even when they didn't do anything wrong and sometimes I'd even miss my tests and exams.

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by suckprick: 7:33pm On Feb 22
Those days wey she ghost you, na another person turn. You sef you wicked, na only you wan dey enjoy? Let her attend to other customers too nah. Na wa smiley

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Ibkay32(m): 8:34pm On Feb 22
suckprick:
Those days wey she ghost you, na another person turn. You sef you wicked, na only you wan dey enjoy? Let her attend to other customers too nah. Na wa smiley

It's better to keep your problems to yourself than bringing them to Nairaland for opinions because the kind of comments you'll receive can mess with your mental health. Some people won’t even try to help; they'll just troll you for fun. If you're not strong-willed, you might leave there questioning your entire existence. 😂

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Merry100: 8:44pm On Feb 22
There are men who can never be satisfied; even if they date or marry angels, they will still find faults.

Don’t you have sisters or female cousins who experience menstrual cramps? A woman endures menstrual cramps every month, and on top of that, you’re forming angry and shouting at her. Na her I blame, I no blame you. When a woman finds the right man, she doesn’t have to do too much, everything will just fall into place.

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by NGArmyTerrorist: 9:14pm On Feb 22
suckprick:
Those days wey she ghost you, na another person turn. You sef you wicked, na only you wan dey enjoy? Let her attend to other customers too nah. Na wa smiley
E good make you break the news for am!
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by NGArmyTerrorist: 9:16pm On Feb 22
Ibkay32:


It's better to keep your problems to yourself than bringing them to Nairaland for opinions because the kind of comments you'll receive can mess with your mental health. Some people won’t even try to help; they'll just troll you for fun. If you're not strong-willed, you might leave there questioning your entire existence. 😂
This place is not for the weak! Witches and wizards dey here! Just be strong!

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Bookhub: 9:27pm On Feb 22
NGArmyTerrorist:
This place is not for the weak! Witches and wizards dey here! Just be strong!
.
I no even send them mumu them
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Natbrowny: 10:55pm On Feb 22
grin grin grin grin

My babe wasn't food related but I learnt to ghost her b4 she ghosts me.

Once asked me why i ghosted her for hours. I said i had mood swing and still having it, so I can't really talk or express mysef. E pain her badly

After d whole shit. She said she was depressed all that period and why wud a guy have mood swing.

I told her so i am a robot without emotions abi. And what u felt during doze periods is what i always cope with with ur bullshit swings.
Since then bros. Even inside her moody swingy bullshits she dey compose, laff n play.

No b only una get skushi for head. Noooonsense

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Verydarkhearted: 4:21am On Feb 23
Next good woman I come across I wouldn’t Bleep that shit up.. really hard to see genuine people today.

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Baronthecelebri: 5:47am On Feb 23
Foolish man
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Lanmonfishery(m): 7:38am On Feb 23
Oga u better enjoy the food, lash the punnani, enjoy urself that punnani n national cake when it’s ur time appreciate it don’t be ungrateful

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Englishisamust: 8:25am On Feb 23
suckprick:
Those days wey she ghost you, na another person turn. You sef you wicked, na only you wan dey enjoy? Let her attend to other customers too nah. Na wa smiley

grin grin grin
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Tigernut101: 10:42am On Feb 23
The pussy no belong to you alone
Na another nigga turn dos days she dey ghost you
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by YoungBTCxchange: 10:53am On Feb 23
No matter how the mood swings, there is no way a girl or boy will love you deeply and go 3 days without hearing from you, no text or call, nothing nothing " that's not possible.
Are you telling me that 3 days she didn't answer call from anybody at all both her family or important call from her work, what if she's working in a bank or reputable company that means she's gonna be skipping work every month "3 days"

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by TheFreshVanilla: 11:03am On Feb 23
Merry100:
There are men who can never be satisfied; even if they date or marry angels, they will still find faults.

Don’t you have sisters or female cousins who experience menstrual cramps? A woman endures menstrual cramps every month, and on top of that, you’re forming angry and shouting at her. Na her I blame, I no blame you. When a woman finds the right man, she doesn’t have to do too much, everything will just fall into place.

YoungBTCxchange:
No matter how the mood swings, there is no way a girl or boy will love you deeply and go 3 days without hearing from you, no text or call, nothing nothing " that's not possible.
Are you telling me that 3 days she didn't answer call from anybody at all both her family or important call from her work, what if she's working in a bank or reputable company that means she's gonna be skipping work every month "3 days"

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by lionphil(m): 11:54am On Feb 23
Bookhub:
My girlfriend will shower me with love,care, attention,multiple calls and plenty food,for a long period of time,then from no where she will just ghost me for up to 3 days then use menstrual cramps and ,I will get angry,change it for her but I notice I can't still let her go,the food don get me finish


These small kids... have you bothered using the Internet to find out how bad menstrual cramps can be for a lady?

I have a friend that gets hospitalised every month and is kept on drips because the pain is so much some times she passes out
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by DeeScan: 12:04pm On Feb 23
Nothing sweets me more than when I 'm being ghosted ..


Cause she just indirectly gave me permission to go explore other cunts ...
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by SuperOnyi: 12:10pm On Feb 23
Bookhub:
My girlfriend will shower me with love,care, attention,multiple calls and plenty food,for a long period of time,then from no where she will just ghost me for up to 3 days then use menstrual cramps and ,I will get angry,change it for her but I notice I can't still let her go,the food don get me finish


shocked



If you understood how the human brain works when the silence is used, then you'll understand why you have become so hooked. If she's doing that intentionally, you will end up giving her all the power you should actually possess as the man. The bad guy uses silence too as a dangerous weapon, in fact, a well planned silent treatment is far more effective than a millions words.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=linKuiyLeJo?si=FMAuh58CRQewGbnG

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by IntelLord: 12:16pm On Feb 23
Samantha125:
I'm not saying what she's doing is right, but maybe she is telling the truth about those menstrual cramps because some ladies would have mood swings during those days and would just want to isolate themselves from the world.

I used to be like that before I found the right pills to help with the cramps... Everyone would easily piss me off during those days even when they didn't do anything wrong and sometimes I'd even miss my tests and exams.

What kind of pills helped with the cramps?
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by sharpwriter(m): 12:48pm On Feb 23
Natbrowny:
grin grin grin grin

My babe wasn't food related but I learnt to ghost her b4 she ghosts me.

Once asked me why i ghosted her for hours. I said i had mood swing and still having it, so I can't really talk or express mysef. E pain her badly

After d whole shit. She said she was depressed all that period and why wud a guy have mood swing.

I told her so i am a robot without emotions abi. And what u felt during doze periods is what i always cope with with ur bullshit swings.
Since then bros. Even inside her moody swingy bullshits she dey compose, laff n play.

No b only una get skushi for head. 9Noooonsense
Lol... S-m-a-r-t man
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Exceed15: 2:10pm On Feb 23
Ibkay32:


It's better to keep your problems to yourself than bringing them to Nairaland for opinions because the kind of comments you'll receive can mess with your mental health. Some people won’t even try to help; they'll just troll you for fun. If you're not strong-willed, you might leave there questioning your entire existence. 😂

Bro don't trust girls of nowadays o . Dem go do runs, clean mouth
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by KingNom(m): 2:13pm On Feb 23
Hmm
Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Ibkay32(m): 2:33pm On Feb 23
Exceed15:


Bro don't trust girls of nowadays o . Dem go do runs, clean mouth

I get your point, bro, but it's better to seek opinions elsewhere rather than bringing the discussion here. You’ll likely get more diverse perspectives and deeper insights that could help you see things from a broader angle.

Nairaland is polluted with lot of bad mouthed people..

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Merry100: 6:59pm On Feb 23
TheFreshVanilla:


Love and care have always been part of the central themes of my relationship. I am more concerned about the welfare of my partner than about adhering to relationship rules. Rather than waiting for his girlfriend, who is in pain, to call him or message him, if he truly loves her and wants to stay in contact with her, he would make an effort to visit her during such time to comfort and care for her. She would genuinely appreciate such a gesture.

If I were a banker, I certainly would not skip work because of my period; I would go to work because I have no choice, but I might unintentionally take my frustrations out on a client, especially if they annoyed me, as my menstrual cycle can lead to mood swings.

During my period, I tend to limit my business activities. My job requires a lot of travel, so I carefully schedule my trips to ensure they don’t coincide with my cycle. Spending several hours confined to a car is already so frustrating and stressful, I sometimes participate in online discussions just to alleviate boredom.

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by YoungBTCxchange: 12:57pm On Feb 24
lionphil:



These small kids... have you bothered using the Internet to find out how bad menstrual cramps can be for a lady?

I have a friend that gets hospitalised every month and is kept on drips because the pain is so much some times she passes out
if she's really your girl, she will carry you along.
You know what it means to carry someone along in a relationship or business wise.
When a girl and boy are into each other you will even be the first person she calls if she is having any serious issues or something is happening to her. That's when you will know that she sees you as her biggest support.
If my female besties is in any situation that needs urgent attention or anything, I'm the first she call's before her boyfriend even something before her siblings

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Tidal23: 1:04pm On Feb 24
It could be she's not faking it or not
I suggest you just reciprocate the vibe she gives you

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Re: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by YoungBTCxchange: 1:51pm On Feb 24
Merry100:

Love and care have always been part of the central themes of my relationship. I am more concerned about the welfare of my partner than about adhering to relationship rules. Rather than waiting for his girlfriend, who is in pain, to call him or message him, if he truly loves her and wants to stay in contact with her, he would make an effort to visit her during such time to comfort and care for her. She would genuinely appreciate such a gesture.

If I were a banker, I certainly would not skip work because of my period; I would go to work because I have no choice, but I might unintentionally take my frustrations out on a client, especially if they annoyed me, as my menstrual cycle can lead to mood swings.

During my period, I tend to limit my business activities. My job requires a lot of travel, so I carefully schedule my trips to ensure they don’t coincide with my cycle. Spending several hours confined to a car is already so frustrating and stressful, I sometimes participate in online discussions just to alleviate boredom.
I love your explanations, but let me point something out to you, before this guy is complaining , it must have been happening not just once but a thousand times, you don't expect the guy to be reaching out every time.
There is something called carrying your partner along, you can just be leaving your partner in the dark all the time, when a lady sees you as her biggest support you are always the first person she calls, when she is having any difficult issues or needs urgent attention, a girl who loves you will even vent her mood swing character on you,

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