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She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by teekay213(m): 1:31pm On Mar 14 |
I'm currently dating a lady who's 41yrs.but she's lazy and dirty.she doesn't clean the house,that's washing plates,she can leave used plates for days. our kitchen is dirty and parlour as she will not sweep.she doesn't wash her clothes not to talk of my own clothes. She wears her clothes over and over again.she can be on tik tok for hours .I have also turn house boy in my own house because I do most of the chores as I don't like dirty place. These bad behaviours among others but she's contributing financially in the house. House rent ,bills and foodstuffs.and also have family that can help easily.Me too am an hustler but the Nigeria economy is hard you can't pay the bills alone.Most ladies am seeing out there are dependant and after money and material things. I don't know what to do... please advice me.should I leave her? |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by TheBreastSucker(m): 1:34pm On Mar 14 |
It seems her personal hygiene level is low. As for me I can't suck the breasts of such a lady 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Powerbando(f): 1:57pm On Mar 14 |
teekay213: I can do 5 rounds at a stretch 2 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by theophorus(m): 2:01pm On Mar 14 |
Teekay213 If na only personal hygiene she be minus, then fill up for her naw. But how you and 41yrs old Girl go dey cohabit? Abeg una do old make una do the needful. 7 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by carl90(m): 2:02pm On Mar 14 |
What are men dating these days ? ![]() Are you this comfortable dating such a person ? I can't stand such nonchalant and unhygienic person around me o 4 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Dogalmighty17: 2:27pm On Mar 14 |
If she's lazy, how does she earn money that she's contributing to the home? 12 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by hotelMan: 3:00pm On Mar 14 |
You are the lazy one and notice how you mentioned the lady's age at the start of your rambling. You what is your own age? A hustling 45 year old man because you are older than her. Probably you have been with her for years and she's the bread winner.Oga she can't go out and make money and still clean the home. Things have changed and roles are reversed here and you are complaining. When you ceased being a bread winner you sold your man-right. Live with it! Someone who pays the bills is who you want to wash plates? She's not your choice from your write so do the needful by making money so you can follow your choice ( the ones who are dependent) 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by GbemiTrabaye01: 3:17pm On Mar 14 |
TheBreastSucker: 4 Likes
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Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by elipheleh(m): 3:23pm On Mar 14 |
Dirty ladies are a turn off. Completely disgusting. I can't suck their breast. Their bra will smell like dead rats. Eww 5 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by teekay213(m): 3:27pm On Mar 14 |
Dogalmighty17:she has a small business and her family do send her money 1 Like |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by teekay213(m): 3:31pm On Mar 14 |
hotelMan:ode! See the conclusion like you live in this house with us. It's be like 60/40 contribution and am not a lazy man. To pay the bills alone and sometimes I go broke too...you know dey go broke? 3 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by FitCorper: 3:32pm On Mar 14 |
Baba if you are currently unemployed, clean the house and wash the dishes. If she can work to provide you money, then keeping your house clean is the least you can do to be supportive. Hope you de Bleep her well, because after the stress of the day she needs a goodnight sleep, most especially her days off. 7 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Vergovert: 3:47pm On Mar 14 |
Get house help ASAP. |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by hotelMan: 4:14pm On Mar 14 |
teekay213: He pain am grin 45 going 50 man! 60/40 kpai you there grin Hustle and stop waiting for who is making money to come wash plates for you. If she's 41 then how old are you grin. Her family won't help you so go and hustle so you can be man enough 5 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by hotelMan: 4:15pm On Mar 14 |
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Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Emmabyte: 4:27pm On Mar 14 |
Financially Helpful you said, how much can she transfer at once anything less than 5 billion is not accepted |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Afolue(m): 4:48pm On Mar 14 |
teekay213:as long as you benefit from her economically, do well to assist her on aspect of hygiene. Although it could be tiring, annoying and discouraging sometimes but no one is perfect everyone has their short falls. Just make sure she is the type that listens, takes correction and readjusts. If not, if she has pride there will be serious issues too often between you both. My fears is the cooking aspect of hygiene because a Lady must enter the kitchen to do one or two. In this circumstance, you have a lot to do sha! 1 Like |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by ItisWell22(f): 5:00pm On Mar 14 |
hotelMan: 💯 |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Kobicove(m): 5:21pm On Mar 14 |
If she is working or doing a business and contributing significantly to the financial burden for running the house then it's not fair for you to still expect her to do all the chores in the house ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by meobizy(f): 5:23pm On Mar 14 |
What is the problem again? She’s handling bills and you’re handling hygiene. It’s a perfect relationship. You’re still in it. Continue. 4 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by advanceDNA: 5:47pm On Mar 14 |
hotelMan: Guy calm down.... The guy don offend you before?? |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by teekay213(m): 6:10pm On Mar 14 |
advanceDNA:as in? He didn't read the part I said I paid most of the bills. How can I come home from work and meet an untidy house 😤 |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by teekay213(m): 6:10pm On Mar 14 |
meobizy:where did I say she handling the bill? |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Exceed15: 6:15pm On Mar 14 |
It's not an excuse for her poor hygiene. Discuss it with her. 1 Like |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by teekay213(m): 6:16pm On Mar 14 |
hotelMan:I read the 22 comments you made since you open this account 2 years ago.. .and it all about attacking the op..I think that's how you let your anger out attacking people online lol 1 Like |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by meobizy(f): 6:36pm On Mar 14 |
teekay213:Una go fake story come forget the details. but she's contributing financially in the house. House rent ,bills and foodstuffs. |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Karleb(m): 7:08pm On Mar 14 |
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Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by hotelMan: 7:10pm On Mar 14 |
teekay213: Go and hustle so you can claim your man right back. You won't get it from that lady because she's already bigger than you. I hope you don't go diabolical on her. She's helping and her family helps. So how come it's shared 60/40. You will have to keep washing those plates and keeping the house clean if you don't want to be out on the streets. Lazy bones 2 Likes |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Smitaro100(m): 10:16pm On Mar 14 |
Oga as long as ur write up is concerned ure truly d house boy. ![]() |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Mopeola(f): 11:06pm On Mar 14 |
It all depends on you maybe you like dirty or not dirty but what I can sense from what you are saying is she's financially funding needs which is more important to you due to the bad economy, but I will tell you that due to the financial status of what she's dropping is what makes her not contributing to the house chores and l don't think that should be a problem for you since she's assisting you on one way or the other, so it's left for you to either go ahead if she doesn't bath or even brush to have fun with her, Shiloh 1 Like |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by Baronthecelebri: 6:10am On Mar 15 |
Talk to her na |
Re: She's Dirty And Lazy But Financially Helpful by MORIERA: 6:57am On Mar 15 |
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