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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by descarado: 3:37pm On Mar 22
Every day, Nigerian women this and that.

Next pls
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by descarado: 3:39pm On Mar 22
dominique:


And that's why most of them die in the hands of their insufferable husbands
These days, Indian women eye don tear.
They are dating and marrying outside India.
Just give them time.
They will start fighting for themselves.

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by irepnaija4eva(m): 3:39pm On Mar 22
Orlu13:


I didn't bother to read the rubbish you wrote

I'm not tribalistic and I will never be...but I say the truth wen I see it

U don't even know dat I'm from orlu imo state

But it doesn't stop.me frm calling my tribesmen out...say the truth no matter what

Igbo men like playing odogwu and fatherly roles to women, dats why they are the biggest victims in all these

Our ppl always use money to buy love...not knowing that such things have implications


Mugu.. What I highlighted was from the article it's self..... Show you a fact that most cases like this happens to the yoruba folks... Bloody hypocrites.. Infact your women are far more masculine than yoruba men.. No wonder they are the least in attraction..
You wonder why your elites go for Igbo women? ...
This the fucking reason...
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Juoflife1(f): 3:39pm On Mar 22
"To chase out abusive husbands"
Fixed

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Tellmeastory: 3:42pm On Mar 22
JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

I don’t blame you.

I blame the moro.ns who look for Nigerian women like you to marry and take abroad, when there are millions of beautiful, humble women from Africa all over Europe and America who just WANT a Nigerian man.

Go on social media and see women from all over the world begging for a Nigerian man.

Never seen any foreigner beg for a “Nigerian woman”, because they know you are greedy, selfish, materialistic shiit faces.

Useless things.
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by HEAVEN4444: 3:45pm On Mar 22
bigpicture001:


The girl I know in pH.. immediately she travels to the UK sh stopped dating her long time pH boyfriend who is also a graduate and huzling... Sh is a doctor..

She later came back for him , guess when..? 9 years later after she past 37 years .. marriage pressure hooked her.. sh couldn't hold a man down in the UK...

The guy agree , knowing sh doesn't love him.. got there , worked for 3years, gathered her money , paid her back, told her why he will. Leave and left her..

His argument is that, u dumped me at the most crucial stage, we could have been married very very long ago.. but u chose class over real. Love.. me also I dnt want to marry an old lady too.. upon sh is a doctor, the guy never cared.. ND left
the guy is stupid. You know how long it takes to settle after you Japa ? Takes like 10 years and in her case she will sit many exams. Soon as she settle well well dey earn correct doctor money she come naija come carry her bobo but the emotional werey dey act like small pikin. Troway good thing over small pikin emotions. 37 is not old

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by 1Sharon(f): 3:45pm On Mar 22
Sleekfingers:
That's what indians women don't do...


And that's why they end up on crime documentaries titled: " Honour killings"

Ozuor.
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by JovialJune(f): 3:45pm On Mar 22
Tellmeastory:


I don’t blame you.

I blame the moro.ns who look for Nigerian women like you to marry and take abroad.

Useless things.

Die crying.

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Tellmeastory: 3:49pm On Mar 22
JovialJune:


Die crying.

Go finger your putrid stinking c.unt. Stupid, ugly who.re.
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by HardBishop(m): 3:50pm On Mar 22
Is it only Nigerians women are available? Go and explore other African women. Haha Kenya no dey? Zimbabwe women no dey be?

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by HEAVEN4444: 3:52pm On Mar 22
Jandexpat:
I know of one foolish Nigerian woman. Daughter of an ex NYSC director living in the UK. She brought her sister with two kids to come and stay in her husband house for over 5 months.

When the husband gave the sister two weeks notice to leave the house as he is the one supporting his wife and two kids and then the sister and two kids. She went to lie to the police that he was physically abusing her.

That was how the police told him to leave the house oh. The stupid idiot thought she will win the house and car and the husband will continue to pay mortgage.

After a good 5 years in court battle, She got nothing, right now she is living in rented accommodation and trying to use her kids as pawns. She will hardly let them call him and she starves her children so that when the husband gets to have them e go dey pain am.
that UK na useless place to be married. It destroys people. My advice to people ? You can never have a happy married life living under another man's authority and set of rules. It's better you are single in the UK forever. Never ever try to marry or have kids there. Your life will be miserable. Plus it is structured to only be enjoyed by single people. It's a single people's country. Houses too tiny etc. claustrophobia. You can never be happy in uk if you are married. If you are married just go to the USA

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by justli: 3:53pm On Mar 22
gabbytabby:
Overseas the women just don’t stand for the abuse.

By becoming the abuser? Or are you denying that these men are being terribly abused?

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Tellmeastory: 3:53pm On Mar 22
HardBishop:
Is it only Nigerians women are available? Go and explore other African women. Haha Kenya no dey? Zimbabwe women no dey be?

Exactly. When I lived abroad, I never went near Nigerian women.

If they are not talking rubbish about church and pastor they are trying to manipulate you in some other stupid way. And they are so materialistic, they are repulsive.

I only deal with black women from every other Black Country from Zimbabwe to Jamaica to Sierra Leone to Kenya and South Africa. Peace of mind.

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On Mar 22
MOTIONTECH:
I managed to read the first story, Eze sef funny, you marry 16 year old girl, left her in Naija and traveled for 10 years,😂😂😂,(sorry for the laugh) but Eze na mumu. How can you marry a young girl that her hormones are just kicking in to travel,young girl that sees what are peers are doing, married woman wey dey see wetin single girls dey do for bed and she no fit do am, Eze played himself, its a pity.
Eze never talk true be the thing. undecided

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 3:56pm On Mar 22
HardBishop:
➜Is it only Nigerians women are available? Go and explore other African women. Haha Kenya no dey? Zimbabwe women no dey be?
Do Nigerian men do to that foreign African woman what they do to their fellow Nigerian women? undecided
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 3:57pm On Mar 22
justli:
➜By becoming the abuser? Or are you denying that these men are being terribly abused?
Abroad, the law typically stands on the side of the victim and not the abuser unlike what is nearly commonplace in Nigeria. undecided

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 4:00pm On Mar 22
jaxxy:
As a general rule you can't really know the true character or loyalty of a broke person. They are with u majorly cos its beneficial for them so u have to know how to test the integrity of a broke person. Lol
Isn't that what everyone pretty much does which is to engage majorly in that which is beneficial, abandoning that which isn't? Why make a broke person out as evil for doing what pretty much everyone out there also do? undecided
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by HardBishop(m): 4:01pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
Do Nigerian men do to that foreign African woman what they do to their fellow Nigerian women? undecided
Our women mentality differs from other African nationality.. I'm telling you..... Is only to exploit and manipulate men is the mentality of ours.... Ah Nigerians me are now getting wiser

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Lordbinsmar: 4:01pm On Mar 22
Ebubu:
Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise.

Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria.

The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue.

The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.

Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all.

Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you.

If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing.
If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to.

Love is no longer blind these days.

E better to carry woman come from Nigeria ooo.

Naa the one wey meet here self be wahala.
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by gabbytabby: 4:02pm On Mar 22
I don’t run English comprehension classes.

justli:


By becoming the abuser? Or are you denying that these men are being terribly abused?
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Tellmeastory: 4:04pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
Abroad, the law typically stands on the side of the victim and not the abuser unlike what is nearly commonplace in Nigeria. undecided

SHUT UP THERE.

MADAM “ABROAD”.

THERE IS NO COUNTRY CALLED “ABROAD”. THERE ARE OVER 200 COUNTRIES ON EARTH. WHICH COUNTRIES ARE YOU REFERRING TO?

THE LAW DOES NOT “TYPICALLY STAND ON THE SIDE OF THE VICTIM” IN THE ANGLO-SAXON NATIONS LIKE USA AND UK.

IT “TYPICALLY STANDS ON THE SIDE OF” THE WOMAN.

YOU THINK YOU CAN COME IN HERE AND LIE?
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by gabbytabby: 4:06pm On Mar 22
If you are a good man for the most part and not an abuser who likes to physically discipline his wife and a provider and a protector not one who imported slave who works and hand over her salary and has to beg for money on top then you never need to worry.

Most Nigerian women like to be married and will protect their home some even to their death.

Lordbinsmar:


E better to carry woman come from Nigeria ooo.

Naa the one wey meet here self be wahala.

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 4:07pm On Mar 22
HardBishop:
➜Our women mentality differs from other African nationality..
➜ I'm telling you..... Is only to exploit and manipulate men is the mentality of ours.... Ah Nigerians me are now getting wiser
What you are telling us here is that it is the Nigerian woman to blame when her husband's toxic and violent nature towards her. The foreign woman is better than the Nigerian woman and this is why those same Nigerian men are submissive and docile creatures around them.

2. Exploit and manipulate? but isn't that exactly what the Nigerian man has done to the Nigerian woman for so many generations before this one? For the longest, women were exploited only to then be abandoned by their husbands and lovers, left with nothing in the end. You are telling me it is wrong for women to do to the men exactly as the men have and continue to do to them even to this day? undecided
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by AngelicBeing: 4:11pm On Mar 22
BlackfireX:
Who betrayed Adam?

Who betrayed samson?

Who betrayed king Solomon?

Who instigated the death of John the Baptist?

Efokan bale, Eleyi gi di gan ooo shocked
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 4:17pm On Mar 22
1Sharon:
Mumu man. He married a 16 year old minor because he thought she would be 'tamable' and that backfired greatly. E sweet me. A 4 year old was left in his care and he was unable to care for her because he was undocumented. Is that how he would have been unable to care for his own biological child had he conceived with Edith? Now what did we learn?
Just imagine the excuse sef! undecided
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by pquaver(m): 4:17pm On Mar 22
JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.


One day monkey go go market, e no go return.. Time will come nothing like marriage, make i see where una wan take exploit law again... Shebi hakimi and Boniface don start the divorce own, e go reach marriage own soon... Enjoy it while it last change is a constant

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Helpout12345: 4:19pm On Mar 22
Naija men better believe the statistics.

Stop taking women abroad. Stop sending women to school. Women are naturally ungrateful. Anything you do for women, they see it as entitlement.

Women are in business, men are in love when it comes to relationship and marriage.

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by killuminati(m): 4:21pm On Mar 22
irepnaija4eva:



[b] It's obvious you didn't read all the story... Yoruba women dey show una sgege that's why you rushing to Igbo women...
To erase your ignorance and inferiority complex read below...

Stop weaponising the system against your husbands’

Meanwhile, an official of the MET police has issued a stark warning to Nigerian women in the United Kingdom, urging them to desist from using law enforcement as a tool to oust their husbands from their homes.

The caution was delivered during a special women’s programme at Divine Restoration International Church, located at Hanworth House, John Ruskin Street, Camberwell, London.

Addressing the congregation, largely composed of Nigerian women, particularly of Yoruba descent, the officer, who alternated between English and Yoruba, expressed concern over the growing trend of family breakdowns fuelled by false allegations and police interventions.

According to the officer, it has been estimated that over 70 per cent of Yoruba women in England, Wales, and Ireland are single mothers, colloquially referred to as ‘Dalemosu’ in Yoruba. Many, he noted, had threatened their partners with police action, a practice that not only fractures homes but also deprives children of fatherly guidance.

The officer stressed that both parents play vital roles in a child’s upbringing, warning that using the justice system to remove fathers from their children’s lives would have long-term consequences on family stability and social cohesion.

While acknowledging that law enforcement should be contacted in genuine cases of abuse, the officer cautioned against fabricating accusations to gain an upper hand in marital disputes.

He also urged the women to be vigilant against the rising tide of knife crimes in the UK, a crisis that disproportionately affects young people, including children of African heritage.

While the police statement sparked mixed reactions, with some women defending their right to seek protection in troubled marriages, others acknowledged that some individuals abuse the system.

Many argue that the complexities of immigration, financial independence, and shifting gender roles contribute to marital tensions in the Diaspora, making it crucial to approach these issues with fairness and restraint.

The call from law enforcement serves as a reminder that while legal protections exist for victims of domestic abuse, these laws should not be manipulated to unfairly punish spouses or separate children from their fathers.

“Let peace reign in your homes. Allow your children to benefit from the love of both parents. The law is there to protect, not to be weaponised,” the Met officer said[/b]



No run crawl back to that hole you come from...
You mussi crazily mad fi posting dat a long thing an wan me fi read up cry

Me cyaan bother

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Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Kobojunkie: 4:21pm On Mar 22
Mccollins042:
Women are naturally created to be helpers to men, subordinates, they are meant to be submissive to their husbands and men are meant to love and care for their wives and families being the head of the home. Whenever this rule is broken the family gets destroyed. Whenever a woman becomes the breadwinner there is a problem, when the man stops loving his wife there is a problem etc.
The west has taught women that they are not subordinates to their husbands and made their laws to that effect there by destroying families, the smallest units of every society. Nothing will change till they retrace their steps. No organisation survives without a leader, none!
This one is still smoking religious cool-aid! 😂😂😂😂😂

There is no biological or physical evidence that women were created to be helpers to men, subordinates, and all the other religious nonsense your ancestors and their religious masters filled your heads with. Many women in places like Nigeria are raised with this mentality that they are unequal to the males, however, the same women can break free of the brainwashing when they leave the African shores, proving that women aren't innate helpers or subordinates for men but merely programmed by society to think so. undecided

2. Are marriages in Nigeria any better than marriages abroad? Talk true! 😂😂😂
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by killuminati(m): 4:22pm On Mar 22
naturefellow:
2025, you still don't have sense!
guh suck yuh madda tongue
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by irepnaija4eva(m): 4:24pm On Mar 22
killuminati:
You mussi crazily mad fi posting dat a long thing an wan me fi read up cry

Me cyaan bother

Lol.. No vex nna...
Was just setting the record straight to counter that tribalist battician...
Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by jaxxy(m): 4:24pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
Isn't that what everyone pretty much does which is to engage majorly in that which is beneficial, abandoning that which isn't? Why make a broke person out as evil for doing what pretty much everyone out there also do? undecided

Some people go for what is beneficial without genuine intentions or offering anything in return. That is what is bad.

I did say only broke people are this way or all broke people are like that but they are more likely to pretend or just forced to act a certain way to get what benefits them.

The pretence intentionally or unintentionally is the problem here.

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