Manage her like that ooo
Na Agbaya dem full street now oo

Biqsahm:
Bro, dis ur case no b hard nut jare. u b confirm ingrate just own dis ur personality with ur full chest n chase er away, stop worrying about er she will b fine. since ur peace of mind no really dey dat important to u no worry boss u go learn n na d hardest way e go b.

How is he an ingrate Must he marry her FYI, the girl is only pretending to be a good girl because op is better off financially than she and her family. If the tables were turned that same girl would dump op like a piece of trash without thinking twice but your likes would guiltrip a guy into marrying a girl that's not his spec.

@topic, i totally understand what op is going through. Sexual attraction is an entirely different feeling on its own. You can love someone's personality without being attracted to them. I'm in similar dilemma right now. There's this lady I feel very comfortable around and really love her personality but not attracted to her sexually. On many occasions, I have been alone with her in my room for so long without touching her even when she was making all the seductive moves. The sexual chemistry no just dey there. It can really be frustrating. On the other hand, there are girls I'll be with and I can't take my hands off their bodies.

So op, if I were you I'll break up with the lady because I cannot marry out of pity! Sexual connection is very important to me in marriage because I wouldn't want to be looking outside when I get married. I'll like to focus on my wife and drink only from her ocean of pleasure.

wish you could read this, no woman can be perfect and you will never get all you ever wanted in a woman, but a woman that can give you peace of mind is paramount and worth the world to be with.....if all the good attribute you listed are true don't leave her an advice from experience

AGManuel:


I didn't ask for insults but thank you.

You need heavy slap not insult.until you and get that jezebel you want then you will look for rope.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

1. Was it like that from the beginning of your relationship? Or you were attracted to her and now you feel different after some years.
2. Have you been with someone else during this time of your relationship with her?
3. What is your general attitude towards people or things that you liked from childhood? Do you find yourself disliking something you initially enjoy?


"Chemistry" is fickle, it eventually fades over time, no matter how sexually attracted you are to your spouse. Sometimes it sparkles after a slight fight for some people.
But you see those virtues you mentioned about her? They're rare in a woman, especially your preferred kind.

So, the only advice I have for you is you need God and a virtuous woman for a wife to make a home.

Yes, you can still marry her. She's qualified because you don already give am score, she's every Man dream, beautiful, respect you, being there for you even when you're low.
That alone will work against you if you let her go, you love her too and that's why she deserves the knot, MARRY HER AND WITH TIME GOD WILL CREATE ATTRACTION IN YOU and you will be sexually attracted to her, Don't leave her please.

Na see finish cause am
You don see her finish
2 years of free sex and you are talking of marriage and sexual attractiveness
I no kukuma blame you
Na see finish cause am
Na her wey sell herself cheap l blame.
Ladies shey una dey see una life outside ...

Stupid attention seeking write up. Bible said in Hebrews 13:4 marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled.

4yrs later, OP's wife would come to complain that he isn't attracted to her and sex seems like a chore. Same guys here would say she isn't giving him peace of mind. She is physically unattractive. She ties wrapper in the house...etc

This marriage thing come hard. 😃

Fuckyoumod:
hmmm this one you carry woman matter for head like SIMPle man, abi you be women advocate?

How many women ditched their men after training them in school?

Abeg be calming down, the young said he is not sexually attracted to her. Where is the happiness when you are stock with a woman that you are not sexually attracted to?

lol everything no b about forming hardcore bro, him carry person daughter for house for good two years, him no even drop d girl f. Up for here pass say him no dey sexually attracted to er again. Dat light skin with big ass wey him dey fantasize about make him lash dat one for two years too same phenomenon go still occur. I just dey advice am make him no leave wife go marry girlfriend.

Good girl hard to find o

AGManuel:


Thank you.

You suddenly remembered she wasn't your spec after what? 2 years of constantly having sex with her?
Who are you leaving her for? Tell me!

I don talk am before say most men actually no like women wey gentle.
They eventually find them boring, then take them for granted.

Na why I no dey take una serious when una say na peace of mind una dey find. Lies!
Na fire una actually need once once.

Jman06:
How is he an ingrate Must he marry her FYI, the girl is only pretending to be a good girl because op is better off financially than she and her family. If the tables were turned that same girl would dump op like a piece of trash without thinking twice but your likes would guiltrip a guy into marrying a girl that's not his spec.

@topic, i totally understand what op is going through. Sexual attraction is an entirely different feeling on its own. You can love someone's personality without being attracted to them. I'm in similar dilemma right now. There's this lady I feel very comfortable around and really love her personality but not attracted to her sexually. On many occasions, I have been alone with her in my room for so long without touching her even when she was making all the seductive moves. The sexual chemistry no just dey there. It can really be frustrating. On the other hand, there are girls I'll be with and I can't take my hands off their bodies.

So op, if I were you I'll break up with the lady because I cannot marry out of pity! Sexual connection is very important to me in marriage because I wouldn't want to be looking outside when I get married. I'll like to focus on my wife and drink only from her ocean of pleasure.

Toor! This one is about to break one virtuous morning newspaper's heart.

Jman, I greet o.
Long time!

When you met her first, I'm sure your penis was rising 247. But now you have had enough of her to start talking nonsense. I don't blame you, I blame her who went ahead to open her legs for someone she's not married to. Guess what, that's life. That is how marriage is. Go for your light skinned girl and two years down the line, you'll be back to square one, looking for another woman. I don't know why weak men like you who don't have the courage to stick to one woman is exactly people that irresponsible women fall for.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

She no dey give u headache na why.

dandollaz:

You need heavy slap not insult.until you and get that jezebel you want then you will look for rope.

Some people actually need to experience bad to appreciate good.
If not, good will mean nothing.

You guys keep bringing up this old story all the time why ?

fool

pocohantas:


How can he have peace of mind when he isn't sexually attracted to his spouse? Peace of mind done suffer for social media o.

u wey b women advocate for here n dis ur point ?i don’t get, u see u can’t b having vigorous sex with a girl for two years straight n still expect to be sexually excited when d person passes their is more to marriage than different sex style u know.

Lol.
Life na risk, risk am bro

pocohantas:


Toor! This one is about to break one virtuous morning newspaper's heart.

Jman, I greet o.
Long time!

Lolzzz

Poco, I think it's better I break her heart now than marry her and still be lusting after other ladies outside. I'll definitely find another morning newspaper that has all the news I want.

Longest time o. How about your sugar daddy?

eastOFwest:


This is not a good enough reason to enter into a LIFELONG commitment. You never really know the TRUE character and behavior of a woman until you are married and have been living together for a few years. All you see while dating is an IDEA of how she is. Enough to enable you take a calculated risk. Yes, marriage is a gamble. You can never be 100% sure or unsure.

na the yellow and big yansh go kon show am...bro the best is with him now if he wants a better or worst its out there too, you live for the moment and prepare for the future

Jman06:
How is he an ingrate Must he marry her FYI, the girl is only pretending to be a good girl because op is better off financially than she and her family. If the tables were turned that same girl would dump op like a piece of trash without thinking twice but your likes would guiltrip a guy into marrying a girl that's not his spec.

@topic, i totally understand what op is going through. Sexual attraction is an entirely different feeling on its own. You can love someone's personality without being attracted to them. I'm in similar dilemma right now. There's this lady I feel very comfortable around and really love her personality but not attracted to her sexually. On many occasions, I have been alone with her in my room for so long without touching her even when she was making all the seductive moves. The sexual chemistry no just dey there. It can really be frustrating. On the other hand, there are girls I'll be with and I can't take my hands off their bodies.

So op, if I were you I'll break up with the lady because I cannot marry out of pity! Sexual connection is very important to me in marriage because I wouldn't want to be looking outside when I get married. I'll like to focus on my wife and drink only from her ocean of pleasure.

no vex boss but shey in ur own case shey u don lash d girl wey u dey refer to for two good years?

YoungBTCxchange:
I mean I get tired of having sex from that particular girl, but with another fresh new girl I'm ready to go

Those new girls, you will also get tired of having sex with them if you can have sex with them for like 2 yrs just like u have it with ur girl.

Moreover, when the bible says we should not defile the bed and not have sexual intercourse until marriage, we always think we are wiser.

Can you see the after effect now?

Nah see finish nah, if dey tell una wait until marriage, you go gree, Henceforth, gradually withdraw yourself from her, don't see another woman, just stay without sex, pray and commit your life to God, come back and marry her if the feeling is still there, if not, move on and sin no more( cos, even if you keep 2 years relationship with a fair girl tomorrow without marrying her. Same thing will still happen)

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

You are the wizard in this relationship
Oga her type no de plenty again
U have answer all.the questions.
Just 2 years u are tire of sex .
Oga bring back your libido n entire good women.
Of say I never marry I for ask you to give me her contact ok
Carry your woman n go see her family ok

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

Nobody without fault ! You just are looking through rose petal glasses.
That’s said, I feel this is the person you marry . She appears homely , reliable yet you are fixated on outward appearance.
If you truly don’t see anything about her that is physically attractive then let her go . Stop wasting her time.
There is more to a relationship than sex. Are you compatible. Do you laugh together , enjoy each others company, like walking around together.

I wish there was a way to charge people for wasting others people time.

Biqsahm:
no vex boss but shey in ur own case shey u don lash d girl wey u dey refer to for two good years?

Even at that, I must not marry her if I no longer find her attractive

Biqsahm:
u wey b women advocate for here n dis ur point ?i don’t get, u see u can’t b having vigorous sex with a girl for two years straight n still expect to be sexually excited when d person passes their is more to marriage than different sex style u know.

So because I am a women advocate, I should encourage him to marry her out of pity? He is simply with that girl because the kind of women he wants are not drawn to him YET. When he has the means to attract them or meets one, this lady will cryyyy more than she is already crying. She is always crying and falling sick because he holds all the aces. 💀💀

I think the problem is because you guys fvck everytime. I fvck my girlfriend more than 20times in a week, and I'm also tired of her.

We seem to be in the same shoe bro, I don't have any plans of marrying Her, I just dey use her to catch cruise.

Honestly, if not for children, I won't come close to women let alone marrying one.

My candid advise to op..follow ur heart, coz i can see it ain't wit her any more but for pity.I can relate ur pain.Search for dat which ur heart craves for and get it by any means.I've been married to a beautiful light skin woman with a big soft ass for close to ten years with two boys and have always been sexually attracted to her.Even as am typing right now she's sleeping face down with her big ass up with a gstring and my dick is hard rock steady nodding at her big booty.[color=#990000][/color]

Jman06:
Lolzzz

Poco, I think it's better I break her heart now than marry her and still be lusting after other ladies outside. I'll definitely find another morning newspaper that has all the news I want.

Longest time o. How about your sugar daddy?

Why does it take you guys years to realise you are not attracted to her? And the interesting part is, una no go breakup with the babe o. Let her go, no way. Nna eh!

My sugardaddy is fine. We still dey and you done wan breakup with your own. Naso life be.