Kobojunkie:
Hopefullly, the union ceases with it.

MightySparrow:

This is issue of deception not money. Why didn't the husband tell her the truth from the onset? If the woman wasn't comfortable with such union, she would have another man and the man would have another woman.

How many more children has the man in secrecy? This is a woman, what if the woman has problem of child bearing and the husband feels indifferent? What is her fate?

I think your position is callous.

yewit37486:
➜The unon can cease without all the screaming and theatrics, so what's the point?

Kobojunkie:
There is no law against screaming in these situations.

yewit37486:
➜And where did I state there is a law against screaming in these situations?

Bringbackmandat:
can that woman swear that she has told her husband every secret in her life?

Kobojunkie:
Well, we do agree that it matters not that she added her screaming to it all then.

yewit37486:
➜That's your viewpoint. I did not agree with you on anything. I am done engaging your aimless no head no tail arguments.

Obierika:


The husband did not do well by not telling her but I still insist that the reason why she is vibrating so much is because she has the upper hand as regards finance in the relationship

Jman06:
I was heartbroken watching this video. I think the woman should have directed her anger to her husband for keeping such secret, and not asking the poor girl to leave the house. Seeing the small girl kneeling and begging her really broke me!

Again, if the husband has been the one footing the family's bills, then the wife ought to calm down and forgive her husband for keeping it a secret since. Unless she's the one paying the family's bills, she doesn't have the right to order the girl out in that manner.

The man didn't do well though for lying to his wife about the girl

GistMedia0:
A dramatic confrontation has gone viral after a Nigerian woman living abroad discovered that the girl her husband brought into their home—claiming she was his niece—is actually his biological daughter.

According to reports, the woman had accepted the girl into their home under the belief that she was just a relative in need of help. But everything changed when the truth came out. In the shocking footage, the wife is seen bitterly confronting her husband, shouting repeatedly, “Did you tell me she was your daughter?” as the visibly shamed man tries to calm her down.

The situation grew even more emotional when the teary woman ordered the young girl to leave the house. The girl, clearly frightened, is seen kneeling and begging the woman to let her stay, while the desperate husband pleads with his wife to calm down. But the woman stands her ground, replying firmly, “No!”

To make matters worse, the woman threatened to post the footage online—and she eventually did. The viral clip has since ignited massive online reactions, with many weighing in on issues of trust, deception, and hidden family secrets.

While some sympathize with the wife’s pain, others have raised concerns about the girl’s emotional trauma and questioned the husband’s motives for keeping such a huge secret from his spouse.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSAJWHxqPVE

She's obviously in control of the home.

Kobojunkie:
... When you discover that the boy that has been living with you is not your wife's brother but her actual son, let us know how you would calmly react to that news then.

Bringbackmandat:
I will not attack the boy. I will face my wife but I will not record it on camera.

MightySparrow:
The truth has finally come out. It has gone viral.
Now what?

Nonexisting1:
Exactly now what. The woman was very foolish for handling the matter the way she did.

ttoyetade:


It is not a case of deception. There is no time they tell the woman, she will always overreact. The way she reacted she can poison that girl. I think she's probably the bread winner of the house or may be the husband is a dependant. She really maltreated the husband. It may come back to hunt her because you don't know what God will do especially the poor innocent girl. I wish I can talk to the husband.

MASTAkiLLAh:
exactly and that's why I'm angry the man allowed his daughter to kneel down and beg. It has happened already so if madam can't stay in the house that night, she should leave or I'll leave with the girl until tempers calm and family elders mediate but my daughter will never kneel down for any woman who's dowry I paid. Of course I can't be ashamed of any child I have outside wedlock, I do tell you straight say I get pikin o, she dey my hand or she dey her mama hand so just let me know whether we go be make we no waste time

Bringbackmandat:
the man knows his wife lack of emotional control that is why he was trying to lie to her. But that doesn't mean that he is right.

gechiye12:
That's why you must have money as a man. If anyone try Recording Me over such trivial matter she will never be able to use her hand again and if it was my wife she might not be able to use that mouth to talk in three years again

gechiye12:
That's why you must have money as a man. If anyone try Recording Me over such trivial matter she will never be able to use her hand again and if it was my wife she might not be able to use that mouth to talk in three years again

ttoyetade:


It is not a case of deception. There is no time they tell the woman, she will always overreact. The way she reacted she can poison that girl. I think she's probably the bread winner of the house or may be the husband is a dependant. She really maltreated the husband. It may come back to hunt her because you don't know what God will do especially the poor innocent girl. I wish I can talk to the husband.

Obierika:
It appears the woman is the main breadwinner of the family that's why she's vibrating like a generator that is about to knock engine!