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How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
She can't do domestic chores, she can't hustle/work 2 make money (even in a little way)she only demands 4 everything she needs and expects her wish 2 work in her favour.. She is full of excuses when confronted. How can 1 cope wit dis kind of lady? Folks, I need ur contributions on dis pls. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
Wife or galfriend? My sincere advice FLEE! |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by baby124: 6:14pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
OP, Are you being over critical Or is this for real? How come you married her when you saw all these traits did not agree with you. Or you are tired of her, as reality has set in? Well a tiger cannot become a lion. You will just have to be patient noni, and hope she grows up. And keep doing what you were doing before marriage. Cleaning, cooking, working and giving her salary. You see gbese, you marry. You come dey ask how much? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
Lmao sorry OP <---- not sincere by the way You must've married a queen no? Brb Dayokanu over to you 2 Likes |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
baby_123:She was a good lady during courtship dat was why I married her. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Daresh(f): 6:59pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
ekenedegreat: She can't do domestic chores, she can't hustle/work 2 make money (even in a little way)she only demands 4 everything she needs and expects her wish 2 work in her favour.. She is full of excuses when confronted. How can 1 cope wit dis kind of lady? Folks, I need ur contributions on dis pls. You don enter 1 chance ol boi! |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by armyofone(m): 7:29pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
ekenedegreat: She was a good lady during courtship dat was why I married her. you should have added the above to the 1st post. Have you communicated the changes/latest development with her? 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by greatgod2012(f): 7:41pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
ekenedegreat: She was a good lady during courtship dat was why I married her. a good lady in what sense(s) |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by coogar: 7:41pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
ekenedegreat: She can't do domestic chores, she can't hustle/work 2 make money (even in a little way)she only demands 4 everything she needs and expects her wish 2 work in her favour.. She is full of excuses when confronted. How can 1 cope wit dis kind of lady? Folks, I need ur contributions on dis pls. • set her up with a business • get her housemaids • stop whinging 6 Likes |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
armyofone:yes! 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Mynd44: 7:47pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
ekenedegreat: She was a good lady during courtship dat was why I married her.If she was a good lady then, maybe you changed after marriage or perhaps something change......or you my friend have been played |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by biolabee(m): 7:52pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
@OP is there any positive thing about this lady is there any reason why she is not working Has she put her hand on any business who then does the chores in the home |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by coogar: 7:58pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
biolabee: @OP the op is just fibbing! there's no way a wife would be useless in domestic chores. it's the basic standard you would expect from any woman from age 12. if she was useless like the op is painting her then how did he miss these lazy attributes in their courtship? it seems op is looking for cheap excuses to cheat....... 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by biolabee(m): 7:59pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
coogar: hahaha .. lets hear the OP first before we make a decision |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by dayokanu(m): 8:03pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
coogar: How about the OP was a born again brother who never cohabited with the girl and doesnt know her domestic chores ethics Boyfriend in Lagos, GF in Portharcourt, How would he know she snores at night and cant clean after herself 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by armyofone(m): 8:07pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
says who? let me help you: it's the basic standard you would expect from anybody from age 12. coogar: the last part was well said. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by coogar: 8:10pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
dayokanu: what about her personal hygiene? a lazy woman would be extremely untidy. armyofone: says who? boys can be excused..... what would my boy be doing in the kitchen? what's he aspiring to be? a caterer or a house-husband? armyofone, take your time o..... |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by dayokanu(m): 8:13pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
coogar: what about her personal hygiene? a lazy woman would be extremely untidy. How many times do they meet? You cant know someone over MTN free night calls Everyone knows when traveling to meet your significant other you wear your best clothes or even buy new ones Thats why I would advocate a 6 months trial living together before any marriage to avoid these kind of surprises |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by coogar: 8:18pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
dayokanu: i don't think you need that many months to study your significant other. i still maintain the op is fibbing or at best, exaggerating! |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by baby124: 9:08pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
coogar: A lot of people have been raised by plenty househelps doing everything for them. You would be terribly shocked how some girls can only boil water. I dont agree with cohabitation, but staying over some weekends may be fine. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by dayokanu(m): 9:09pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
baby_123: Exactly and being physically neat is not really an indication of how lazy you can be at doing housework |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by baby124: 9:11pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
dayokanu: At all, what is that term used in boarding house where you dont bath, but wear perfume and clean clothes. . Answer: Rub and shine 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by baby124: 9:13pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
I suspect OP though if this story was true, is one of those guys that give their women salary as girlfriends. . Most likely a young, fresh out of uni girl. With what he wrote about her demands for money, its obvious. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
Didn't you see all these before you went ahead to marry her? You where blinded by Love. Well the best thing for you to do is employ a house help. 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
Mynd_44:She is d 1 dat changed as 4 me, am still d same old person. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Mynd44: 12:05am On Jun 05, 2013 |
ekenedegreat: She is d 1 dat changed as 4 me, am still d same old person.From your point of view, that's what you think... |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by coogar: 12:15am On Jun 05, 2013 |
baby_123: that's not feasible! girls can only boil water? nigerian chic - can't cook, can't clean, can't tidy herself up?? come on..... |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by baby124: 12:19am On Jun 05, 2013 |
coogar: Your idea of all Nigerian girls is the village girl sweeping the compound, washing clothes manually and cooking food. Well some people were raised by househelps. This is even more rampant in Nigeria, since a lot of people have house helps, cooks, drivers etc. From birth to adulthood. Parents are too busy to train their kids. |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by coogar: 12:22am On Jun 05, 2013 |
baby_123: these kids went to boarding schools, stayed in uni hostels. you mean their parents had housemaids with them in the hostel? come on - i refuse to believe that! 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by Nobody: 12:26am On Jun 05, 2013 |
baby_123: I won't blame the parents tho, I learnt everything from preteen years, everybody should take responsibility for their own actions and stop blaming parents that strive till dawn to give them the best in life. Thank God for YouTube and Nigerian websites for confirmed recipes. They are just LAZY period but again what else is there to say, everybody is out to point fingers and play victim 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by slimyem: 12:42am On Jun 05, 2013 |
dayokanu:I agree.. Had friends sometime back who were always extra clean and chic on the outside and with their bodies but were pigs in every other sense and averse to all forms of house chore or cooking. 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Cope Wit A Lazy Wife? by slimyem: 12:49am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Op,send her back to her momma for a few weeks and let momma know why she's coming home. By the time she's back,something should have changed. |
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