carefreewannabe: My sympathy is with you. I am really sorry you have to go through such an experience. You will need time to heal. It goes without saying that he doesn't deserve you. Look at it from this perspective, he has been a big disappointment to his parents, so he can easily be a disappointment to anyone else. It's not your fault, it's obviously his character.

What is conspicous, though, is that your previous relationship was toxic too and the new one wan't easy either and ended in a very bad way for you. What is it that draws you to "toxic men"? Ask yourself and start anew from there so that your next relationship will be with someone who deserves women like you.

My best wishes to girl. Don't allow this experience to make you bitter, but let it make you stronger and wiser.

Lovexme: Guys like him are the reason ladies 'hate' men, and dread relationships.

Bludeville:
you took these exact words right out of my mouth!!!

jay bee: Can you please answer this question.
Are you angry because he was a cheat and things didn't work or you are distraught because "after all you did for him" he still cheated on you?

mysticgal: had a similar experience,but mine was worst,he used my money to marry his ex,it pained me,but i have moved on.there was a time i went to the police station to file some charges of fraud,but how will i explain i just left,i spent thousands of nairas on that bastard,i may say sweet words to some guys but i hate men,i hate men.

mysticgal: had a similar experience,but mine was worst,he used my money to marry his ex,it pained me,but i have moved on.there was a time i went to the police station to file some charges of fraud,but how will i explain i just left,i spent thousands of nairas on that bastard,i may say sweet words to some guys but i hate men,i hate men.amya move on and forget the freaking bastard

Dyt:

Omo
Babes eyes don see o
I been dey think say my tori no get competition
My STORIES for another day

haha! No wonder you are so ruthless

Amya:

1. I'm not angry. I'm sad, miserable, in the dumps e.t.c

2. Who says he cheated? He may be planning to.

3. I didn't do any of those things for him because I wanted him in my debts forever, no! I did it cos I loved him! Why should he suffer when he has me?

4 it hurts because if he truly loved me, he wouldn't want to get back with his ex. He wouldn't say all he said to her if he truly loved me. He wouldn't deny my existence if he truly loved me.

Dyt:

Omo
Babes eyes don see o
I been dey think say my tori no get competition
My STORIES for another day

xynerise:
But we love you

Omolola1:

haha! No wonder you are so ruthless

Dyt:

Omo
Babes eyes don see o
I been dey think say my tori no get competition
My STORIES for another day

jay bee:

So let's focus on the fact that this dude (albeit a lazy sod not worthy to be called a man) lied about your existence despite what you guys have and solid you though it was.

The frank thing is, he doesn't deserve you and you are better off without him. I think the quicker you can start looking at the positives out of this whole debacle the easier it will be for you as far as moving on is concerned.

I know it's tough but i pray you will be able to find the much needed inner strength to be able to pull through.

All the best

Amya:

The only joy from my own story is that I did the dumping amidst his tears. He was actually rolling on the floor begging. But I would hear none of it. Years before when I was a complete mumu, I'd have justified his actions and forgiven him till he dumps me! I've grownup since those childishness. I'd rather cry today than cry tmrw!

xynerise:
Every wise person don see fire for relationship o. If you hear my own you go hate your specie. .

Heartbreak gives you wisdom in your next relationship