I have really pondered on this issue for a very long time. Trying to get over someone i used to be (or still am) crazy about. I have read books, browsed d internet, asked questions and even done silly things and i have come to the conclusion that you dont really get over an ex, you just learn to live without them. Sometimes you think you are makin progress but just seeing that person again and having just one decent conversation with them will start to dig up old feelings and memories. I think what matters at the end of the day is your self control.
What do you think?

Its not so easy especially if its one u loved, even the ones that comes as rebound won't make no impact, only u can help ursef trust me
No matter how hard u try not to do things to mk u rem him, u will find ursef lost in his thoughts.
Get a diary/someone to talk abt him to
Its normal to feel that gush all over again
Cry if need be
If u get so busy, the time u less busy, u will almost choke with his thoughts.

Same thing everyone advices, get busy, delete in contacts, stay away frm emotionsl/movie/musics, hang out often with frnds and lastly open up, do not lock up

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Just Face your book

Getting over an Ex is not an easy task dear, it takes courage and determination.

Its really hard getting over an ex u really did love, the best way i feel u could actually get over one is to get really busy with sthelse, then u would feel they dont even exist, i have tried this before. But if ur the type that always lay idle on ur bed all day doing nthing, u might find it one heck of an herculean task getting over one.

Gettin over an ex dependz mainly on hw d relationship ended_ d truth iz wen u get emotionally attached 2 some1 nd 4 some reason(s) dat "some1" decides 2 ends d affair, wt breaks u down is solely dis feeling of total rejectn Nd nt d fact dt u'll hv 2 move on witawt dat fellow...

Bur in a situatn were d break up was ur idea, u'll practically hv ntin 2 get over_ instead u'll develop dis euphoria feeling of self worth...(Xcept u'r d sentimental type)

D tin is, nxt tym dnt let dem break up wif yu_ initiate d break up instead. Etz easier 2 move on dat way...

Nd I over read some1 mention "love"...
Pls letz stop cloaking ourselvez unda d shadow of dat 4-lettered word_ d fact dt u'r fond of some1 or sensually attached 2 dat some1 doesn't define LOVE.
#justAnOpinionThough

It took me more than a year to get over my x...
Am still recovering sef
Der is no perfect formula 2 recuva 4rm it ooo.....

PROCTOR: Just Face your book

just like u're facin urs?

My prev was not intended twas a space booking tactics.........
Its not easy dear,but you u just have to try
some people are going to leave it's not the end of your story'rather it's the end of their part in your story

dytbabe: Its not so easy especially if its one u loved, even the ones that comes as rebound won't make no impact, only u can help ursef trust me
No matter how hard u try not to do things to mk u rem him, u will find ursef lost in his thoughts.
Get a diary/someone to talk abt him to
Its normal to feel that gush all over again
Cry if need be
If u get so busy, the time u less busy, u will almost choke with his thoughts.

Same thing everyone advices, get busy, delete in contacts, stay away frm emotionsl/movie/musics, hang out often with frnds and lastly open up, do not lock up

Ironically, I built myself in a way that, my worst fear is my greatest weapon. A lot of people would advise that spending time less busy would most certainly worsen the situation and as such they advocate that one spends less time doing nothing that can take their full attention. And for someone like me that happens to be a thinker, it would kill to allow for such occurrence. But then, the irony here is that, that time I spend less busy is what gives me the edge for getting over anything. Yeah I know this seems weird and bizarre(as its the negation to what alot of people believe) but its the truth. Having time to summon my thoughts would help me in getting stronger and better and can see me through any situation rather than bring me down.

Well, I think this is just me.

I just saw her in my dream this noon .... its really a hard thing... being a year plus now . .... trying to tho . the best thing is to avoid contacts no matter what.

The number one thing not to do.
Don't go into another relationship yet.using someone as a rebound is unfair and will end up hurtin u most.
What I did was pamper myself.
I love reading.I bought as many novels as possible.not romantic novel mind you cos it just made me sad so i developed interest in crime,fantasy,e.t.c
Deleting all pictures we took together.
I started going out on my own.if i feel like swimming bam to the pool.if its to dance its to d club somtimes to d garden just to hang out.me dat don't have time for friends before i also make sure I visit some frnds just to kill boredom.
I tried enjoying my company.
I looked at the brighter said,no more wasting of calling card.since I found my inner strength.
I forgave him.dis is a big step if u don't do dis
U might find it difficult moving forward.
Lastly,I made some friends online.online friends can really be cool and easy to share tins with but never let dem take advantage of u.

polz:
Gettin over an ex dependz mainly on hw d relationship ended_ d truth iz wen u get emotionally attached 2 some1 nd 4 some reason(s) dat "some1" decides 2 ends d affair, wt breaks u down is solely dis feeling of total rejectn Nd nt d fact dt u'll hv 2 move on witawt dat fellow...

Bur in a situatn were d break up was ur idea, u'll practically hv ntin 2 get over_ instead u'll develop dis euphoria feeling of self worth...(Xcept u'r d sentimental type)

D tin is, nxt tym dnt let dem break up wif yu_ initiate d break up instead. Etz easier 2 move on dat way...

Nd I over read some1 mention "love"...
Pls letz stop cloaking ourselvez unda d shadow of dat 4-lettered word_ d fact dt u'r fond of some1 or sensually attached 2 dat some1 doesn't define LOVE.
#justAnOpinionThough

LUST! LUST!! LUST!!!

Andy790:
It took me more than a year to get over my x...
Am still recovering sef
Der is no perfect formula 2 recuva 4rm it ooo.....

too long my brother...are you not in another relationship?

polz:
Gettin over an ex dependz mainly on hw d relationship ended_ d truth iz wen u get emotionally attached 2 some1 nd 4 some reason(s) dat "some1" decides 2 ends d affair, wt breaks u down is solely dis feeling of total rejectn Nd nt d fact dt u'll hv 2 move on witawt dat fellow...

Bur in a situatn were d break up was ur idea, u'll practically hv ntin 2 get over_ instead u'll develop dis euphoria feeling of self worth...(Xcept u'r d sentimental type)

D tin is, nxt tym dnt let dem break up wif yu_ initiate d break up instead. Etz easier 2 move on dat way...

Nd I over read some1 mention "love"...
Pls letz stop cloaking ourselvez unda d shadow of dat 4-lettered word_ d fact dt u'r fond of some1 or sensually attached 2 dat some1 doesn't define LOVE.
#justAnOpinionThough

Nice idea but you got it wrong. Even the person who initiates the breakup can be seriously affected especially if there was emotional attachment. The best way remains getting busy with tasks at work, school, church and spending more times with friends of same sex.

urcutecrush:
The number one thing not to do.
Don't go into another relationship yet.using someone as a rebound is unfair and will end up hurtin u most.
What I did was pamper myself.
I love reading.I bought as many novels as possible.not romantic novel mind you cos it just made me sad so i developed interest in crime,fantasy,e.t.c
Deleting all pictures we took together.
I started going out on my own.if i feel like swimming bam to the pool.if its to dance its to d club somtimes to d garden just to hang out.me dat don't have time for friends before i also make sure I visit some frnds just to kill boredom.
I tried enjoying my company.
I looked at the brighter said,no more wasting of calling card.since I found my inner strength.
I forgave him.dis is a big step if u don't do dis
U might find it difficult moving forward.
Lastly,I made some friends online.online friends can really be cool and easy to share tins with but never let dem take advantage of u.

i knew from d start it was a lady talking.......#PackedFullOfLies

eminentme:
i knew from d start it was a lady talking.......#PackedFullOfLies

If u can neva imagine urself living life without odaz!dat is left to u.I don't see any reason y u would call my post pack full of lies.Don't qoute me again

Aesop's "Sour Grapes" fable works magic. My default setting is "No babe is irreplaceable", with that in mind, if you stay, fine. But if you don't, then you weren't good enough for me, and I'll be on the look out for someone better. It works 10 out of 10 times. Just try to remember and focus on all the bad things about her that love made you overlook and you'll be fine in no time.

You're welcome.

Just go through with it, the time will pass.

The worst experience...ever