Hishuula: neva..I will be thinking a big child pass tru her puss* so wetin my own pppp wan do wey wan satisfy her ? I want a girl that even a finger can turn her ON,I want it tight

alexandakin: I can't, just came out of a relationship with one, It was hell! Like aren't u gonna send somfin 2 my child? I don't hv money 2 keep myself and my child. Its a jerk! Totally NO!!!

Kash007: I have followed your comments with keen interest and I must you have a sound mind.

princetunex: Yes I can













If it's my baby.

Sweetlemon: So many immature replies here.

Then again, this is NL romance section..........

badesco: I am into it and my advise is that, dont do it. As for my own situation, i never knew at the beginning and when i later discovered, it was already too late

jmoore: Yes, I can marry her if she is still a virgin.

Jamean: Before you quote the Bible to butress your point, Virgin Mary is the only woman on earth impregnanted by the holyspirit. Hence, man was not involved.

Conceiving without a known father now, still requires an unknown father, through the services of a sperm bank.

So, where are the men that made these women single mothers? FOR EVERY SINGLE MOTHER THERE IS A SINGLE FATHER. It takes two to tango.

Titiluvly:


Lolllzzz Obi adiro Mu nma Nwanne...

ideology:


Really love your response pals, now I know lots of folks do understand what love is.

Love says i choose this is who I wanna spend the rest of my life with.
Maturity also has a role to play.

But Generally it depends, if the child was out of wedlock it would be a little bit challenging, but Love covers all things.

I'll definitely marry her if she fits my dream wife

Hishuula: neva..I will be thinking a big child pass tru her puss* so wetin my own pppp wan do wey wan satisfy her ? I want a girl that even a finger can turn her ON,I want it tight

tlops:

The problem is not marrying her but also accepting the child.

I don't see anything wrong in it, though I will prefer it otherwise.

sweetysexy: Am a single Mother and getting married in few weeks With my finace and he loves everything about me, so no Discrimnating or painting black

sugaarbear: yeah i can marry her if her kid is between the ages one to two

CharmO1: Wow! Many comments, mostly negative. I'm a single mother. I did the same thing many ladies have done and will always do: s3x. But I did what only a brave woman with a conscience would do, I kept my son. I laughed when I read some HELL NO's. Better a tokunbo. Car than a car that was wrecked in an accident and then panel-beat, repainted, and repackaged as new. I haven't had issues with men looking down on me because I'm independent and I don't even allow a man I'm dating meet my son. I don't want my son seeing different men in my life. It's only that lucky man that would have the priviledge of meeting him though adopting him is out of the question cos my family won't let him out of their sight. Fertility is not guaranteed because a woman has given birth but there's a higher chance of fertility and if there are no kids after marriage, then na the man get problem be that. As someone rightly said, it takes a mature mind and a good heart to be with a single mother because honestly we hardly trust because we've been hurt deeply before. I haven't met any promiscuous single mother. Strangely, most single mothers can close legs tight because of fear of being used and dumped. My advice to single mothers, don't be desperate, rely on God's time. It will happen for you too. And also be financially independent so no man calls you a gold-digger. And no matter what love your child/children because a man can break your heart and abandon you but your kid(s) are yours forever.

Sweetlemon: So many immature replies here.

Then again, this is NL romance section..........

maternal:

Nobody wants to hear your story, just as you wouldn't hear a broke man's story if he asked for your hand in marriage before you had your child. Of course you would have laughed in his face and say no. It's funny how all these naija women who have a unrealistic list of what a man should be or have before they marry him become so humble now as single mothers. I'd rather die a honorable death than marry a single mother. Me raising another man's child? Over my dead body.

Nwa4Jesus: I am a single mother of one. From d story behide it, my baby father wants me to abort d baby n I refused so he back off n I face d chanellages blc I val not to abort my baby. So tell me am I bad? Its not that I don't have d money for d abort or my mates are nt doing it but I promised God that I will never abort if I take in my relationship. Be wise when concluding issues that u don't know blc d ones without baby does nt means the are virgil Mary.

Safari29:
seems u had a bad experience.My hubby married me even with my love child and he keeps telling who cares to listen dat am d best woman he has ever dated dats why he married me.he is my top priority .so pls change dat mentality

my friend think about it. Again think deep about it. It is difficult. It is not meant for a young guy. Am talking from experience. U are going to be third on her priority list. U are definately going to marry her with her kid. her kid must like you. You are going to make her happy almost every time because if u don't u ll be resented. if she is smarter than you pls forget it. most of them are pathetic because of their past and dont have a heart. If she is supportive and u know genuinely that she loves u (not just I love u I love you too)then I wish u the best. I know you have butterfly in ur tommy now wait till you guys are in bad terms. then u know if she really loves u or not

IdomaLikita:

Who is beyond Mistakes?

MadCow1: Observations of a Mad Cow.. Why are most of the responses on this thread so far gender bias towards the women? The title didn't specify single mothers, it said "someone who has a child".. Even the female respondents are ignoring the single fathers and focusing on single mothers like they are lesbians.

I guess the trend of the responses speaks a great deal about our overall mentality as a people towards single parents which is;

Single Father = acceptable..
Single Mothers = taboo..



Just an observation.. But it's none of my business..