Safari29:


bro I mean when u are in bad or hard time and she is not yet stable. She won't be loyal

ericessien24: so you want to admit your relationship Is perfect? havnt you had misunderstanding before and resolved it? why didn't you leave him?

khiaa:


Answer my question. I asked you, would you stay with a woman who continue to break your heart?

ericessien24: I can't even go out with that kind of a woman not talk of marry her? that's the reason for relationship.and your turn

khiaa:

So why do you feel a woman should stay with a man who breaks her heart but you admit you would not stay. Why the double standards?

ericessien24: explain the meaning of heart breaking and causes?

khiaa:


Constant lying, cheating,stealing abusing, a man she loved that turned out to be a son of a biatch.

ericessien24: all this you wrote ,who does it more in a guy and lady.you making all the ladies look like saint but don't forget bitches ain't loyal.

tonychristopher: I will marry and I have dated many ...most of them are matured but apart from that she must have only a kid . I won't take children

The kid won't stay with us the first few years of marriage but then I will love the kids as mine

Its no big deal

Better to marry a baby mama that will give me peace or single presumed virgin and give me hell

woptri1: hmmmmmm this topic is pointing directly at me cos that's the trouble av got myself into now. She don love die but I know there will be problem in the future. Thinking of a way to wave it o

nex:
I can marry a woman who already has a child. Who knows, it may turn out that I'm incapable of having my own children, and having a spouse with her own kid could be a blessing.

cliffm43:
i will marry a single mother,because she is tasted and trusted...you can trust that she can give you a child also,but single ladies?NO,unless she become pregnant for me,because they have killed many children through abortion

sugaarbear:
sorry about that hun buh what happened to your late husband's 4 kids?

Farouksenior:

Am in a relationship. Wit one. Bt she has dis problem of thinkin too much. Worried abt my family Esp. U eva in dat scenario wit ur naw husband??


[i]I love her alot. My mates tink m weird bt dts dia P[/b]

Safari29:



bro I mean when u are in bad or hard time and she is not yet stable. She won't be loyal

Safari29:



thank ur God u made it. guys dating single mother with marriage prospect is hell if u are still young. especially if she's broke. she'll suck u dry

CharmO1:
Now if for instance a single mother's child doesnt live with her and she doesnt ask you for a dime and doesnt even want you to adopt him talk less of training him, would you marry her?

maternal:


Nobody wants to hear your story, just as you wouldn't hear a broke man's story if he asked for your hand in marriage before you had your child. Of course you would have laughed in his face and say no. It's funny how all these naija women who have a unrealistic list of what a man should be or have before they marry him become so humble now as single mothers. I'd rather die a honorable death than marry a single mother. Me raising another man's child? Over my dead body.

ephee:


maternal u ar short sighted nd immature. if tables were turned am sure u wil b a complete jerk.

no girl wanted to be a single mum by choice.its circumstances beyond control that led to it which involved a man like u.

CharmO1:
Some people raise their fingers to point and judge forgetting their hands are smeared as well. Yes, some single mothers are this way because of careless decisions made in the past. No one is above mistakes. Where I usually get angry is where a man wants to sleep with a single mother all in the name of dating but he later would say he can't marry her. That is very wrong. Some men here shouting NO have forgotten they have sisters. And bros, if a guy impregnates ur sister and says he won't marry her, I bet you, you can't force him. What if he is forced and he eventually kills your sister? Some of these men that impregnate ladies would just abandon the ladies. Even if she begs with her blood, he won't take her meanwhile he is part of the cause. This whole thread has reminded me of when I gave birth and the whole world was laughing at my family, we kept our heads up. Few years ago, one of those laughing families faced this very same issue. Their daughter got pregnant and to cover shame they took her for abortion. She died in the process. Don't judge and condemn people because you don't know what karma has in store for each one of us. After all, marriage is a choice. Choose wisely who will make you happy because happiness is what makes a home.

maternal:


Go and sit down. And every broke man want to be poor ? Is it not circumstances as well ? But if a broke man approached any of these girls prior to them being single mothers they would laugh and insult them. Now they're in a unfavorable situation see how humble they are. They want the whole world to feel sympathy for them. Circumstances beyond control ? Close your legs, wear protection, and marry a man based on good moral/values oppose to his bank account. These women need to own up to the poor decision most made. Some are unavoidable I know. Like a widow.

maternal:


Impossible. How can you share finances as a married couple and be sure not a penny of your hard earned money would go to ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD ? With all the single childless women out there only an idiot would marry a single mother. It's like buying a used car for the same price of a brand new car. Makes no sense. His extended family wouldn't even accept ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD as their own. Single mothers or baby mama's should go sit down. After carry belle for some useless guy you're now looking for a captain save a baby mama.