When you communicate with men you should always
keep in mind that they don’t tell you everything they
think. I must admit that women are considered to be
more talkative and emotional than men. Sometimes it
can be a real problem for some men to express their
feelings and emotions. They can’t find appropriate
words to tell the woman they like. However, it is
possible to find a man who will easily share all his
thoughts with you. But even these communicative
guys can’t speak about all the truthful things. Here
you will find some of them.



1. You are so beautiful
Certainly, we are melting when men tell us
compliments. But there are some guys who can do
that perfectly, while others find it really difficult. I met
different boys in my life. Though, only one of them
could make me happy with his pleasant words. It’s so
important for girls to hear how pretty and beautiful
they are. After that, their self-esteem increases
greatly. Sometimes you can be extremely
disappointed as you tried hard to do an excellent
make-up for some special occasion and nobody
appreciated your great efforts. In contrast to this,
there can be such situations when you don’t pay
much attention to your appearance, you simply get
up in the morning, do not do any make-up or hairdo,
but still some men can find lots of ways to tell that
you are beautiful.



2. They miss you
I’m sure that if a boy really loves a girl he will always
tell her how much he misses her. No doubt that all
the girls become excited on hearing or reading
words about that. If your boy can easily say to you “I
miss you”, you are really lucky. Usually, it costs a lot
of efforts for men to admit their true feelings. For
most of them, that is the matter of their pride. Some
boys will never say they miss you as they consider it
to be a shame and weakness. Predominance in the
relationship is the most important for them. Such
men do everything possible to hide their true
emotions. What should you do if your boyfriend is
one of them? Simply take the initiative in your hands,
break the ice and say first that you miss him. This
tactics works perfectly.



3. They can’t be alone
A lot of women get nervous of being alone when they
become older. It will be a big surprise for you, but
some men also worry about this issue. I have never
thought about this before as almost all my friends
married in their 20’s and they didn’t feel any anxiety
because of loneliness. Only some time ago, after
speaking with my boyfriend, I began to realize that
most men are afraid of being alone when they grow
older. We can see that both men and women have
the same fears and feelings. The difference is that
men won’t always express all their emotions and
thoughts.



4. They don’t like your guy-friends
If you go out with your friends among whom there
are also guy-friends, don’t expect that your man
won’t be jealous. Certainly, he will. Just he is strong
enough not to show you all his worries. Besides,
when your boyfriend feels jealous about you that
means he has some doubts concerning your love.
You should remember that there are two types of
boys: those who can be mad because of their
jealousy and those who will never express their real
feelings. Perhaps you think your man doesn’t love
you enough as every time when you meet with your
guy-friends he doesn’t tell anything and never
objects. Don’t jump to conclusions, maybe your boy
find it difficult to speak about that subject with you.
Be sure, he is always jealous even without any good
reasons.



5. Boy’s nights out are not always great
entertainment for them
Whenever our men go out to see their friends and
spend a night with them at a club or some bar, we
become crazy and jealous. Usually, girls imagine that
lots of women will be around their guy and speak all
night and flirt with him. Actually, this is wrong
opinion. In most cases, men go out for boy’s night for
relaxing and chatting with the mates. For instance,
when my boyfriend comes back after such meetings,
he says that he was bad without me and it would be
better for him to spend the night out with me in
some cozy restaurant. That’s why you should not
angry at your sweetheart when he wants to have
some night out with his friends.



6. Concern about the right choice in their life
All people think about their achievements and
success they’ve reached at some certain age. When
we become mature, we begin to analyze what was
right and what was wrong and what could be
changed. Our dear men are the same. Their worries
and aims are not different from ours, they only don’t
speak often about them or don’t speak at all. It
happens so that sometimes men need more time to
understand what they want in their life and make
right choice. It is necessary for men and women to
figure out their life path and follow it until they are 30
years old.



7. You are too emotional when you have PMT
If you have a caring and loving man in your life, he
will always understand that involving you in some
meaningful conversation during your PMT is not a
good idea. It’s not a secret for you how nervous,
irritable and scary you can be these days. But your
ideal man will never tell you that. He will try hard to
keep calm and reserved even at such terrible
moments when you can cry and shout at him without
any reason. We should be proud of our patient men
as that is really hard work to cope with our monthly
moods.



Now you can understand that for some men, it can
be hard to show their feelings and share their
thoughts. You should never make your boyfriend
guilty because of that. He surely loves you very much
and he is quite emotional guy, just he can’t speak so
easily about certain things...

Jez saw d article n decided 2 share

Nice one op
..but does this also apply to Nigerian guys. To me, most of them don't seem to have a problem expressing themselves. I could be wrong.

Doesnt make any sense

The Topic Title Is Misleading!!!

Modify this please, no message passed

barackodam:




Modify this please, no message passed

What's point when you just quoted me?

Begonia:



What's point when you just quoted me?

I and probably we, ddnt get your message

barackodam:




I and probably we, ddnt get your message

I meant what's the point of modifying my comment when you already quoted it.

Begonia:



I meant what's the point of modifying my comment when you already quoted it.

Okay, modify, ayaf deleted the quote

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Begonia:
Nice one op
..but does this also apply to Nigerian guys. To me, most of them don't seem to have a expressing themselves. I could be wrong.

u are definitely right luv, it's u gals that have a hard time expressing urselves, even when d guy don tell u say e eye dey there, una go dey do smesme.

but OP,guys tell me all of that!