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Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:08pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:ur friends are thieves,and if u yield to that advice u are greedy. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:08pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sparklesebony:The best way to protect you is by making you successful just as he is.... he is not protecting you by leaving properties for you to inherit you may not be able to manage his business as he would. which may still fail in your hands leaving you with nothing but you will be able to manage yours. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by NifemiOlu(m): 10:09pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sixix: The man is funny. Does he expect Nigerian laws to take hold in the UK? Assuming they got married in Nigeria and have Nigerian documents, Oyinbo go cry o. Why is Pastor Chris' wife getting a divorce in the UK? LoL |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:10pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Amelian:well , you misunderstood it ... he can still marry other wives thats my point . |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:11pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sparklesebony:The best way to protect you is by making you successful just as he is.... he is not protecting you by leaving properties for you to inherit you may not be able to manage his business as he would. which may still fail in your hands leaving you with nothing but you will be able to manage yours. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by gogodaye(m): 10:12pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
@ charistim Your words of admonition are misplaced...The fable from the OP is what they enjoy hearing & applying....They're so confused..don't know what they want!...can't build homes!....break up the homesteads of others...in their wealth grabbing enterprise....Traditional marriages just like their native names are to be relegated to the stone age..listening to them pouting their shallow views on issues, you're left wondering if they share any positive trait with the rest of humanity.......... 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
majekdom2: Well, he can av another wife or wives, will I stop him? Or tie am rope for neck? The best I can do, is 2 be his legal wife and make sure none of his concubines, disturb my peace and peace and well being of my children @ home, shikena. I no get high bp ontop husband matter. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Sixix: 10:15pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Amelian: Too bad, the international will not recognise them as his legal wives but it will as his PARTNERS, whether the marriages were legal or not and the kids are legally his He even made her [b]in charge of all his documents and takes her abroad for trips as his only legal wife[/b] That doesnot imply that the properties are in her name, she would be asked to provide them if need be by the court of law There is this old case in English law, the man left his his legal wife for another woman, there was no divorce. He opened an account in his name and upon his death, the issue of inheritance arose, whether it was the legal wife's or the partner's. Guess who inherited it..... You guessed wrong The partner did. According to the evidences before the court, the man had said to her that 'this money is much yours as it is mine' and also the woman paid her money into that account (it could have been just £10 while the man could have paid £2000). The account was supposed to be a joint account, but it wasn't in their names but only in the man's because they were not legally married and she ended up holding the sole ownership to the money even though the court could have directed the money to be divided into two, one as inheritance for his legal wife and the other for the partner... ![]() Your cousin's husband might have created a trust for all his kids without your cousin's knowlegde ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Amelian:the ones he got married to are also legal , because he goes to court to do the same . am just making you understand the typical Nigerian system. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Sixix: 10:18pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
NifemiOlu: I think It did o ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Sparklesebony: 10:19pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
majekdom2:Don't you gerit that this is more than acquiring wealth whether d man is dead or alive? |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:20pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
In a typical nigerian system, u can't go 2 court and marry as many wives as u want.. Nah that's not true. U can pay their bride price, but so many women in court, saying they are all yur legal wives? I hear ![]() |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:21pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sixix:hehehe , young girls that dont look deep .... thinking is by document.who was given respect at mandela's burial even as they were divorced. 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by NifemiOlu(m): 10:22pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sixix: Na wa o. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:23pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
1. how them dey take get first to comment? i don dey try am all my life. 2. who dey talk about white wedding nowadays? you want make we share our property were we don work for years by. MONKEY DEY WORK BABOON DEY CHOP,... |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Sixix: 10:23pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
NifemiOlu: Itshekiri not Ijesa I found the link http://www.forbes.com/sites/mfonobongnsehe/2012/02/21/nigerian-oil-baron-to-fight-21-million-divorce-with-african-law/ Forbes 2 Likes |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:23pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Amelian:how would you know ? have you not heard of military men that were married legally to several women because of transfers. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
how difficult is it to sign a legal document? |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by symbian03(m): 10:33pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: Hahaha.. Those your friends must be jealous lol... I'm sure they're single as well. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Sunshinelady(f): 10:35pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:. God forbid really. Wat a pathetic case. Girls be wise 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
majekdom2: Apart military men, whoelse?? And mr majek, I hope u read wat sweetlemon said, abt a first wife bn dumped becos , no legal document 2 support , she's legally married 2 her husband.. She's left behind in nija, while her husband came back, did the needful with another sweet potatoe, then jand back together wit hin brand new wife... Anyways, women, thise who have ears.. Let them ear. Let no man sweet talk you, into just traditional alone. Be wise. 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
teeowl:only if you truly know the intent of who you are signing it with. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Toks2008(m): 10:39pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Legal wedding is no guarantee of happy union but the good thing is that you just cant wake up one day to say you are done but must prove why you are done unlike the traditional wedding that you can just wake up and drive the lady out with no justifiable reason and the lady is just as helpless as anything helpless and despite all the money spent on trad wedding and no matter the bride price,its inconsequential. For instance my case is an interesting one, i had an elaborate introduction with my ex but we both agreed to wait till her mum returns from USA but we went ahead to do legal wedding. After five years of marriage my ex claims she is disconnected for reasons best known to her asides adultery or assault of any kind so she left. She even said i have not married her as i have not paid her bride price and i got confused at that point that indeed some women can be impossible and i was wondering if i was actually really married to her because her mum has not really arrived so we just kept waiting until the separation came up The bottom line is that despite her calling the legal wedding we had mere document signing,i made her realize that for her own good, she must unsign that mare document else she may face the wrath of the law if she eventually marries someone else without divorce. So i quite agree that legal wedding is very strong and very vital to put sanity into randy partners brain because the truth is that even if i paid a million pounds as bride price on her,she would still have left as she did and infact marry someone else very fast without any form of penalty and all they will do is return my bride price. Ladies please dont fool yourself with this bride price thing. Try to do legal wedding because that is more powerful than any other MY CANDID ADVICE 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by NifemiOlu(m): 10:41pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Amelian: I'm not sure though. I feel court wedding doesn't prevent a man from getting another wife. I think it only protects the woman who has documents (to be catered for and not just pushed out of the house without benefits) |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:41pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
you have a point some ladies are gold diggers and you need to screen hard when it comes to marriage (personality, attitude etc..)... my quality control is I would NOT marry any jobless lady... only a lady that has a profession or a business of her own. In case she is broke and jobless, well just attach a prenuptial agreement as the condition for a court marriage. PS: I am allergic to broke and jobless ladies... they stink just like desperate for marriage (DFM) ladies! majekdom2: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by philo20(m): 10:43pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
I don't like dis...... |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by ayobase(m): 10:43pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Amelian:am not against full marriage rights and all . am not in support of the op ruling out traditional marriage. customary law can beat any other law in court , u just read the story above . the essence of all these is because of your kids , the best thing is to make sure their future is secured and I dont mean properties. There are men who go on business trips with their concubines , infact their business partners dont know their wives but know their concubines very well . its just about TRUST. go with whichever you know will work for you and your partner not convincing anybody one is better than the other. afterall our fore fathers had traditional marriages and they lasted more than marriages of these days . |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by 100Cents: 10:45pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
ayobase: Who cares to answer you ? smh You open mouth say me go pursue widow claim her husband property ? |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 10:46pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
NifemiOlu: Exactly! What are we saying? Women needs 2 be protected. So many men av woken up one day, madam. Am getting another wife, u better accept her or move out. If she's legal wife, and signed those documents, he can't just push her around like a piece of rag. He can marry a dozen women if he wants traditionaly, naim him prick, naim money. But don't treat d one @ home like trash bin. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GooseBaba: 10:49pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
gogodaye: And that nonsense you call white wedding is what...? |
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