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Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 1:13pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
First; Here’s What Not to Do. >1.Do Not Play Nice. You’re not there to play nice. Nice guys don’t only finish last, they don’t even finish at all. They get friendzone in the end, and my guy, the days of dulling are gone. When you want a chick, you have to go for her. You could be gentlemanly but don’t play nice. In simple terms: don’t act like a mumu. ![]() >2.Do Not Stalk Her. Never stalk her and never ‘accidentally’ bump into her when she’s with him. That is so uncool, bro. It might be cute the first time but if you do it more times, she or her man will notice and your game will be up. ![]() >3.Do Not Touch Her. Keep your hands to yourself, at least initially. Chicks already have it in their mind that all guys want is to sleep with them, and then you go and put your hands on her? Don’t do that. Respect her body and never give any indication that you want sex. But you could be subtle. Like, let’s say, pick something off her lip, brush her hair away from her face or ward off an imaginary fly off her dress. ![]() >4.Do Not Speak Bad Against Her Guy. No matter how it’s itching you, don’t badmouth him. Don’t goodmouth him either. But the point is, no bad words against him or you’ll make her defensive of him. ![]() >5.Do Not Open Up Your Heart. If you tell her how you feel too prematurely, she will stay away from you. And worse, she might even tell her guy about it. So be careful to keep your feelings and plans tucked in. and here is what to do >1. Get To Know Her. I mean, everything about her. I’m assuming by now you know you have to be her friend. Not that very attached friend but that aloof friend that is totally concentrating on her whenever she’s with you. So, you have to know her whenever you spend time with her. Knowing her makes you find spaces in her life that you can fill in where her boyfriend is not doing a good job, so don’t skip this step. >2. Let Her Get To Know You. Here’s where you can’t sell yourself short. You have to put your best foot forward. Show her why you will make such an awesome boyfriend, without actually telling her so. Show off your strong points. Talk about your past relationships and in a happy light. Go like, “when I was dating so and so…I used to give her these massages that turned her on…”‘ Brag about your selling point. Make this girl want you! >3. Build Trust. Chicks love honesty. You have to be 100% dependable. While you’re keeping your top dawg status, maintain class. Show chivalry because girls generally believe that gentlemen are trustworthy. >4. Be The Other Guy. This is where things start to heat up. Every relationship has its down moments and you should look out for those so that you know when to swoop in. Couples hang out at eateries, go for movies, sit home and play games etc. You should suggest some of that when she’s fighting with her boyfriend and while doing so, encourage her to open up and talk. Be careful not to engage in activities that will make you spend your money on her a lot or she’ll use you. >5. Add Fuel to the Fire. Be noteful of how many times they fight. Once it gets to the third time, throw in some fuel to the flames by asking her why her boyfriend is treating her unkindly. She might be cautious at first but she will eventually open up to you and then you can let her know that she deserves better. Good for you if the fight is about you,then you can be sure that you have a place in her heart so much that oga is not finding it funny. You can plainly tell her that you like her and respect her relationship but left to you, she’d be in your arms. Add that the choice is hers. >6. Give Her Space. Women don’t like being put in uncomfortable positions, just so you know. Be patient with her and give her space. Still leave hints that you’re that awesome guy she’s missing. You could even go on a date with some other chick and tell her about it. If you notice jealousy, then you’re good to go. Tell her the date was okay but you have had more fun with her. Leave her thinking about you. >7. Make Your Move. This is the riskiest part of the whole game. If you jump in prematurely, you might screw things up. Be very sure she has feelings for you when you do this: Get intimate, a little. Could be a peck on her cheek or on her lips. Or stroking her fingers when you hold her hand, or hugging her and smelling her hair, or looking deep into her eyes and holding her stare. Make her know you want her with being slightly physical. It’s risky but it is guaranteed to seal the deal. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
You can only try to do half of number one with a lady that is "smart" and "committed". When it starts moving from number one to two she gets you off her back. To me, your tips will only work for those girls you could have easily saved yourself the stress of going through that process and just spend cash to get. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by harffie(m): 1:27pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
All these steps are enough for you to go and get yourself a pretty girl.... 3 Likes |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Kindluv3(m): 1:27pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
some times but not always |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 1:32pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
harffie:...u n I know that the pretty girls are not always single, that's why they are pretty |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 1:34pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Kindluv3:...nothing work always |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by ebolablast: 1:40pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Team I made my present GF brake up with her Den BF and am proud of it cos d guy is a cheat.. |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 1:41pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
NairaMode:bro, nothing is free even in freetown. The article never said "tips to get a lady without spending", u still have to spend even with the process |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 1:44pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
ebolablast:beta pikin, tell us how u manage to do it |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Okworigeorge: Aiiiggghhhttt! |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Harmthe(m): 1:57pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
op u tried bt wit all dis dozen steps even agbani darego wnt eat up your time lyk dis b4 u get her |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by ebolablast: 2:05pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Okworigeorge: typing Ehen..I met Dis gal at our orientation party early Dis year,she was in my department but we never spoke due to d fact dat we were over 400 in class and I was d latest student to resume cos my name was on d last list..as I went to d party,I was dancing alone so she suddenly started dancing towards me, as a sharp guy,I know say d green light na full current so I just grab d bakasi dey take care of am,d party was all night but she left early, she left around 12:30 with her sister,b4 she left,we still didn't talk but she winked at me,told me bye and gave me d most beautiful smile I had ever seen,she left me craving for Monday so I could talk to her..I felt stupid for not collecting her digits..going home was hell cos soldiers use me and 5 of my guys warm dia hand...Monday reach na me and gate man open school gate o..Lol...I really wan c ha even tho our lectures na by 12,at last I met her and we talked,I collected her digits,bros if I talk all e go long pass season film but my main selling point dat got her was, 1) I am cute my pic at my oda moniker www.nairaland.com/ 2) I dey answer questions even tho na me dey sit down last 4 a class of more Dan 300 3) I treat her like a queen 4) was not quick to make a move 5) I kept in contact with her on whatsapp and calls too 6) I walked her home (actually, she asked me to and her house is a 10 mins walk from school) 7) with me,dia is no boring moment ![]() 9) as d op said,don't talk bad about her ex or den bf(she still don't know d guy was cheating on her den) 10) give her d much needed attention 11) b open to her,tell her ur secrets and she sure will tell u more of hers 12) b friendly to every 1 13) b a gentle man 14) don't pretend 15) others too numerous to mention. 16) she never said I love u back,she just kissed me and from dia,d rest na atoru advice to d guys out dia,a gal is not a play toy,treat her right and give her attention, if not,some1 out dia who knows how to play his cards might help u. 4 Likes |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Justeenaleo(f): 2:07pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
This is stealing by trick |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by harffie(m): 2:41pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Okworigeorge:True talk tho |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by harffie(m): 2:43pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 2:50pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
ebolablast:buh dem no d eva wan learn 1 Like |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by ebolablast: 3:05pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Okworigeorge: yes o..sometimes I laugh wen I hear dem say all guys are d same... |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Kenzico(m): 3:34pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Lolzzzzzz @ OP. Before I do dis steps, have d poster succeded in doin so or are u jux copyin n pastin? |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 3:54pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Kenzico:...I av succeeded in it, not jez once |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Kenzico(m): 4:06pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Okworigeorge:˚☺k˚ (-͡. •͡)! Wat else after all no gal is single. Until u colet am 4rm anoda man |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by ronald4lif(m): 4:20pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Unless I am unaware I won't woo a girl who is already in a relationship, can't deal with the thoughts of imagining my woman in someone else's arms. Mbanu 5 Likes |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by haibe(m): 4:25pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Nice tips but it's stealing. *In Jesus voice* "Do for others what you want them to do for you" 2 Likes |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:33pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
That's so wrong! |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by ayobase(m): 6:54pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
snatchers! ladies, see as dem dey judge una matter here o. |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:05pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
What is wrong with just telling her you like her and doing what it takes to steal her from the BF? It can't be this hard. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Pervert1(m): 7:22pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
andromida:like that helps? |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Pervert1(m): 7:25pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
OP....dis your long note sef! anyways,I think killing her Boyfriend should be an alternative. |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:38pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Pervert1: Telling and doing whatever does not help? |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Pervert1(m): 7:55pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:28pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 9:57pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Pervert1:...dat 1 na kirikiri maximum u go end o andromida:...telling her when u know she is still in love with her BF will only end with a capital NO |
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by TheyVid(m): 10:01pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Please... 1 Like
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