Heebucun:
This is a countinuation of my other thread.
U can check it the other thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/1912423/how-bring-shy-guy-out

An introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness.

Shyness is the tendency to feel awkward, worried or tense during social encounters, especially with unfamiliar people. Severely shy people may have physical symptoms like blushing, sweating, a pounding heart or upset stomach; negative feelings about themselves; worries about how others view them; and a tendency to withdraw from social interactions.
Most people feel shy at least occasionally. Some people’s shyness is so intense, however, that it can keep them from interacting with others even when they want or need to— leading to problems in relationships and at work

Since we are clear now.Let's continue

SkinnyDude:

please, how do i reduce the rate with which i stutter?
it's really the source of my shyness.

#PleaseExcuseMyBadEnglish

SkinnyDude:

please, how do i reduce the rate with which i stutter?
it's really the source of my shyness.

#PleaseExcuseMyBadEnglish

SkinnyDude:

please, how do i reduce the rate with which i stutter?
it's really the source of my shyness.

#PleaseExcuseMyBadEnglish

Tallesty1:
Bros.

Me sef dey do hard starting before.

TBH it is very embarrassing.

Thou I stopped mine when I was small.

How

I developed a speech pattern.

I learnt to speak slowly and calmly.

To relax and focus on what I'm saying instead of how I'd say it.

To slow down or pause when I reach a stuttering obstacle.

It really helped me.

The only time I do hard starting now is when I'm really angry.

Read this================================>http://mobile.goaskalice.columbia.edu/managing-stuttering

missberrypop5:
hmmm, i used to be shy. Still have little traces.
#following.

SkinnyDude:

ya. anytime i want to talk/speak, what first comes to my mind is 'i hope i wont stutter'. then my heart starts beating. na anxiety oh!
i tend to focus on how i'd speak instead of what i will say. and i dont speak calmly and slowly, i rush words in other to speak faster before stutter comes, but it ain't helping.
Thanx. i will start putting them into practise.

Btw, it gets worse anytime am on phone or trying to speak english. why?

ebolablast:
jj

Heebucun:


I admire u courage dear.I hope u get over this
1)Don't talk too fast.talking too fast will onli increase the stuttering.try talking slow even when annoyed
2)Read out aloud.try reading books,captions anything u come across loud to urself.
let others drop their advice

missberrypop5:
hmmm, i used to be shy. Still have little traces.
#following.

Tallesty1:
lols.....

I don't know.

Just try what I listed there and visit the link when you are free.

Dottune:
Mine is:

When I See A Girl, I can't muster Up courage to talk to her, what goes through my mind is she'll Wash me or what would she think of me.

Sometimes when I'm among my friends, not all though, like I find it hard to express myself. If I feel like saying something I will just suddenly trail off on it, or say it so quietly no one will hear and they'll be like "what is this one saying" or I should just say something stupid or I should just say something out of the blue, instead of making sense I will make it incomplete.

chukwuma101:
Come out of your shell. Give a speech in a class, address a crowd, stare at people eyeball to eyeball, let them be the first to blink, join a social group, woo a stubborn biatch... F**king get out of your goddamned house... You have only your shyness to lose. Pardon my slurs. I am trying to cure shyness too.

Heebucun:

Care to share how u got over urs?u can help some peeps and wat are the little traces u have.we can also help out

agrovick:

spotit:
I've also noticed that a lot of stammerers appear to be too serious for their own good. learn to find humour in people and to be funny naturally..

missberrypop5:
taaaa