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Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 6:36am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I don't get the hype and the "whoa" face ladies make at the sight of engagement rings lately. After dating for 2-4years doing things married people do normally, you expect to be asked "will you marry me" at a point so why the make-up surprise face at the question? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Nobody: 6:46am On Oct 07, 2014 |
tyconcepts:Maam, its one thing to date and court for years...its another thingy for him to choose you to to spend the rest of his life with.... No chick will be happy to know that after doing the needful he decides to go ask someone else! !!!! |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 6:48am On Oct 07, 2014 |
ladunsky: You have a point tho' but doesn't "feigning" surprised at the question makes it look as though he is doing you a favour? |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Doubletee13(m): 7:07am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Op, I don't really understand what you mean by "feigning" surprise BUT I expect my girl to be actually surprised when I pop the question...Haba!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Harmthe(m): 7:14am On Oct 07, 2014 |
let dem be surprised o cuz according to survey of vision2020 15% of man will be engaged whike others will be on flirting mode |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Omolecturer(m): 7:15am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Her face go be like ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 7:40am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Doubletee13: And if she ain't surprised it would ruin what?? So the surprise actually grease you guys ego?? |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 7:40am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Harmthe: Over rated... |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I think this trend is more subscribed by the ladies to maintain modernity, glitz and the hype while in the actual sense great percentage of ladies eagerly awaits such moment then fake it to high heavens in their fantasy of "surprise". I concur with your sentiment on this issue wholeheartedly. Men may employ dynamics to the engagement to spice it up but usually their female lover already knows what she'd expect. |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 8:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
SeaGold: Seagold you get me totally. If a relationship is altar bound, the signs are there and if its the other way round, the signs too are obvious, before being asked "will you marry me" ladies know its headed in that direction already. Well obviously the "surprise" is just to compliment the spice effort the guy puts in asking. 1 Like |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Nobody: 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
If it isn't a surprise, it isn't a marriage proposal. It's a birthday gift or whatever. Psychos..... |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by pgo17(m): 9:06am On Oct 07, 2014 |
i think its a show of happiness and fufilment. I mean, if after dating for 2-4 yrs and he chooses some else there is nting you can do. So if he propose you should be suprisingly happy. |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by MisterLongman(m): 9:30am On Oct 07, 2014 |
tyconcepts:I agree with you that one will know that the relationship is altar bound but you cannot be too sure when you don't know what's going on in his minds.... I agree some fake it because they don't want to break from the norm and in order to boost their would be husband's ego |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by emmanok24(m): 9:54am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Can someone please remind me how T-Billz proposed to Tiwa? ![]() |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 10:53am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 10:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MisterLongman: Hearts aren't transparent maybe that's the element of surprise in it all..... |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by valmunich(m): 11:00am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Space booked. Will edit when I do mine *sekems out* |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by emmanok24(m): 11:26am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Doubletee13(m): 11:30am On Oct 07, 2014 |
TrollMan: That's my point....If there is no "Aah" "Idonblivit" babyyy then my effort is wasted....She has to cry because I choose her o! |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Kunleskey(m): 12:08pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Marriage without suprise to me is...nt a sweet or happy marriage...marriage should be a suprise package to d one you are willing to marry |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Acidosis(m): 12:18pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
fake emotions, |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
It should be a surprise |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 12:29pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Kunleskey: Surprise in the marriage....YES The fake or must look surprised for the engagement....NO I mean if "na chop am clean mouth" then we shouldn't be counting years but months but we are counting years then the engagement is always expected. |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by jmoore(m): 12:30pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
When belle don show for most of them. surprise, huh? |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I think it has to do with the fact that some ladies weren't actually expecting it at that particular point in time, place or with all the drama, so it could be surprising and then a mixture or both surprise and happiness, shyness even... I believe people who shouldn't show surprise are those who have a kid or 2 already. 1 Like |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Kunleskey: Are you 14? Ok let me dignified with a comment. Courting precedes engagement. In courting, a lady already knows where the relationship is headed and has started discussing family life and expectations with her groom so what actually happen afterwards in form of engagement is immaterial. So why will a lady feigned ignorance of a cause action? What should be a surprise to a lady is when a random guy meet a lady he'd been admiring but never went close or someone he'd been in a platonic relationship with and pop the question "will u marry me?" and she accepts if indeed the feeling is mutual. This fallacy of feigned ignorance should be discontinued! Our ladies faking everything since the days of Judas Iscariot ![]() |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by 100Cents: 12:50pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
tyconcepts: God bless you for being straight to the point.. It is called deceit, dubiousness, foolhardiness that after phu.cking each other for over 2 or 4 years, one person goes on his knees asking to marry another person whom they have discussed over several love making sessions that they would marry, " Will you marry me " ? |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by 100Cents: 12:56pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
emmanok24: That is what we are saying... Unless the babe is begging him secretly to marry her and he has not made her to understand that he has accepted. That's where i expect her to be surprised at the ring.. But I don't buy those glitz.. |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 1:03pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
jmoore: Abi ooo...After all not all marriages starts with "Will you marry me"...Some starts with "I don get belle" ![]() |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 1:07pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Prettybecca: When my man asked me to marry him on my birthday (September 7th 2014) I wasn't surprised, I mean why should I be? We practically plan with the word "our" long before the statement. Besides he didn't even ask the question, he said it as a matter of exactly so no shyness, mix of surprise and happiness et all....If you can expect it then we shouldn't be counting years baseless....#Myopinion |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 1:09pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Is A Marriage Proposal Lately Meant To Be A Suprise?? by tyconcepts(f): 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
emmanok24: Tiwa & Tee bleeze...After the whole hype and kneeling and suppose surprise engagement with strictly by invitation marriage...where them dey?? |
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