Why would I want to get rid of a faithful man?

shizzle11:
why exaclty are you looking for them? to teach you how to get rid of a faithful man i guess?

cococandy:
Why would I want to get rid of a faithful man?

but then you feel the best/more appealing punishment for a cheating man is to 'get rid' of him, am i right? going by your comments so far

Yes darling. Dey my front in case I find trouble. So I can hide behind you

edwife:


Yes cococandy,looking for moi

By 'rid' you mean?

shizzle11:
but then you feel the best punishment for an unfaithful man is to 'get rid' of him, am i right? going by your comments so far

ChristyG:
smh:pwhat is it with all dese braggings,it is not like ijebu pple dont say mean things about other yoruba groups.and what are u dominating?which people in dis world can live in isolation(NO MAN IS AN ISLAND),so calm down on d chestbeating,we are all yorubas

Well, that's not chest-beating, I posted something postive to counter the negativity. You can go check forbes' list for confirmation. Chest-beating is when you're dramatically arrogant over non-achievement.

Anyway, I'm just tired of reading useless tripes about Ijebus all the time. When are you lot going to get tired of spouting id.iotic stereotypes induced by 19th century jealousy everywhere? And if you're obsessed with Ijebus, how about create a balance, and talk about both the good and the bad? At least, talk about how the Ijebus are the biggest industralists in Nigeria (facts are out there for all to see). Talk about Ijebu Kingdom being one of the oldest in Nigeria, and the great things one of the first European explorers around the shores of Nigeria like Dapper said about how highly organised they were in the 14th century - and the clothes he bought from the Ijebus. Talk about how influential the Ijebus have been to the Yoruba group, and Nigeria at large etc.

And if you hate positive stories, then make the useless stereotypical threads a general one. I want to see threads about the stereotypes of other Yoruba subgroups. I want to see what other Yorubas think about Ibadan, Awori, Egba, Osun, Ondo, Ekiti, Ilorin, Okun, Oshogbo etc. folks. If you can't do that, just leave Ijebus alone.

These Ijebu hating threads reek of illiteracy, and it isn't surprising since majority of Nigerians are barely literate, apart from being able to write poorly and read without the necessary comprehension skills. The average Ijebu person doesn't care about what you think, but it's nauseating to see folks populate google's servers with nonsense all the time. Who cares if you get married to an Ijebu person or not? Just keep that crap in your head or within your family. Ijebus never needed anyone when they built their great Kingdom, and flourished, pre-Nigeria. They actually prefer being isolated. So, leave Ijebus alone!

cococandy:
By 'rid' you mean?

kill

No.
I don't have such liver.


Kick to the curb. More like.

shizzle11:
kill

TV01, this is one excerpt. the writer even included the oriki - how the muscular slaves were quickly sold to the europeans & the frail slaves were kept as domestic servants.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1765328_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188

cococandy:
No.
I don't have such liver

.With the way you looking for an ijebu bestie, i fear you may hire one to do the job if your man faulters

Kick to the curb. More like.

but most woman do that already naa, you sounded like you wanted something more severe/drastic

cococandy:
Yes darling. Dey my front in case I find trouble. So I can hide behind you

Ahahaha ,you and i will hide behind each other.I don't know how to fight or quarrel

So don't go looking for trouble o.

SirShymex:


Well, that's not chest-beating, I posted something postive to counter the negativity. You can go check forbes' list for confirmation. Chest-beating is when you're dramatically arrogant over non-achievement.

Anyway, I'm just tired of reading useless tripes about Ijebus all the time. When are you lot going to get tired of spouting id.iotic stereotypes induced by 19th century jealousy everywhere? And if you're obsessed with Ijebus, how about create a balance, and talk about both the good and the bad? At least, talk about how the Ijebus are the biggest industralists in Nigeria (facts are out there for all to see). Talk about Ijebu Kingdom being one of the oldest in Nigeria, and the great things one of the first European explorers around the shores of Nigeria like Dapper said about how highly organised they were in the 14th century - and the clothes he bought from the Ijebus. Talk about how influential the Ijebus have been to the Yoruba group, and Nigeria at large etc.

And if you hate positive stories, then make the useless stereotypical threads a general one. I want to see threads about the stereotypes of other Yoruba subgroups. I want to see what other Yorubas think about Ibadan, Awori, Egba, Osun, Ondo, Ekiti, Ilorin, Okun, Oshogbo etc. folks. If you can't do that, just leave Ijebus alone.

These Ijebu hating threads reek of illiteracy, and it isn't surprising since majority of Nigerians are barely literate, apart from being able to write poorly and read without the necessary comprehension skills. The average Ijebu person doesn't care about what you think, but it's nauseating to see folks populate google's servers with nonsense all the time. Who cares if you get married to an Ijebu person or not? Just keep that crap in your head or within your family. Ijebus never needed anyone when they built their great Kingdom, and flourished, pre-Nigeria. They actually prefer being isolated. So, leave Ijebus alone!

are u okay,can u pls calm down,which kain transferred aggression is dis?abeg save me dis long epistle,am not d one who created d thread,am not d people who are saying negative things about ijebu ,so i dont know why u overheating on my post.i dont know why u are bragging as if others dont ave deir strengths too and ijebu pple dont ave their weakness.am not dat jobless for me to creating topics(u can start if u like)so ppls direct ur questions to op who created d thread

No dey fear

shizzle11:
.With the way you looking for an ijebu bestie, i fear you may hire one to do the job if your man faulters


but most woman do that already naa, you sounded like you wanted something more severe/drastic

coogar:
TV01, this is one excerpt. the writer even included the oriki - how the muscular slaves were quickly sold to the europeans & the frail slaves were kept as domestic servants.

Right on the money. Ijebu sold a lot of slaves via Epe. And my pops is from Epe, and from a royal lineage there. So, the people must have been connected with slave trade one way or the other. Hence every time I read about the horrors of slavery, I just feel a certain way. That was basically wickedness. And those people didn't really understand what they were doing back then.

That said, a lot of Ijebus were also sold into slavery. And I'd say majority of the slaves shipped into the new world were captured because the total number of people shipped to the new was just too many, for it to have happened via trade alone. More than 40 million people, with over 300,000 sailors. Very dark history!

a yoruba lady had this to say about the ijebu people:

o yes i remember

apparently they will do absolutely anything for money

they can sell thier own mothers for rituals

burn thier own babies etc etc

those horrific stories normally ijebu originated

and yes they dnt normally admit where theyre from

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ChristyG:
are u okay,can u pls calm down,which kain transferred aggression is dis?abeg save me dis long epistle,am not d one who created d thread,am not d people who are saying negative things about ijebu ,so i dont know why u overheating on my post.i dont know why u are bragging as if others dont ave deir strengths too and ijebu pple dont ave their weakness.am not dat jobless for me to creating topics(u can start if u like)so ppls direct ur questions to op who created d thread

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Eat a dyck!

I see you on every Ijebu thread and you always have something idi.otic to say.

Others can't measure up, hence all the bile and hatred. Perhaps, when you start measuring up, you will stop creating useless threads everywhere. You're from Ibadan, right? Well, your Ibadan King is also Ijebu. And since Ijebus were one of the first settlers in Ibadan, you might have Ijebu blood flowing in your veins. Just tell ya folks to leave Ijebus alone.

Apart from Terracotta, an astute intellectual, with an extensive knowledge of Yoruba history. And the only person who post positive stories about Ijebus and Ijebu history - the rest of you have never had anything positive to say.

cococandy:
No dey fear

fear catch me on behalf of your man i no go lie'oo I know you cant have such a heart lol. Women can be so terrible thou.

Once heard a lady say here on NL that if she gets divorced today, 10 years down the line she would still poison her ex to make sure he pays the ultimate price for divorcing her

cococandy:
Sounds like my kind of women.
Do you know any ijebu lady I can befriend?

coogar:


tpia
sambarry
alutacontinua

my brother

I have never been to Ogun State, except in transit on the way to lagos.

That is what i know.

Just mentioning this because you may start believing your own lies, not sure what you are up to this time or who your target audience is.

SirShymex:
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Eat a dyck!

I see you on every Ijebu thread and you always have something idi.otic to say.

Others can't measure up, hence all the bile and hatred. Perhaps, when you start measuring up, you will stop creating useless threads everywhere. You're from Ibadan, right? Well, your Ibadan King is also Ijebu. And since Ijebus were one of the first settlers in Ibadan, you might have Ijebu blood flowing in your veins. Just tell ya folks to leave Ijebus alone.

Apart from Terracotta, an astute intellectual, with an extensive knowledge of Yoruba history. And the only person who post positive stories about Ijebus and Ijebu history - the rest of you have never had anything positive to say.

dude u are definately retarted and a disgrace to all reasonable ijebu pple cos u obviously ave ur brains in ur anus.point to where i said anything negative ijebu pple,u are just being emotional and ranting like someone bitten by a mad dog.and btw i am from ogun state not from ibadan,i ave no reasons to hate them since i ave them many in my fam and as friend.it is ur kind of ijebu who are always bragging that makes other talk bad about ijebu.go phuck urself and tell ur biatch of a mama to go choke on a dick cos she definately didnt raise u well.iwo omo alaileko alainironu jati jati,omo aja

Like seriously shymmex why are you getting all defensive and offensive at ChristieG at thesame time? You need to take a chill pill cos virtually every yoruba man/woman i know share thesame sentiment about the ijebu people, except ijebus like you ofcourse.

'ijebu we mu garri'

Joy83:
@TV01, you have said a good and encouraging point. I want to believe you are from Ijebu?
As to your question, I belong to people of Akoko land in Ondo state. So am I good to marry your Ijebu person?

Bro, if you are indeed what you claim, you'd know akoko people have a long history of intermarriage with ogun state axis.

perhaps you dont?

as per objections to the union, that is nothing new- most yorubas will not approve people marrying from certain areas outside their locality.

coogar:
TV01, this is one excerpt. the writer even included the oriki - how the muscular slaves were quickly sold to the europeans & the frail slaves were kept as domestic servants.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1765328_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188

Well received. Thanks.


TV

***could you post the book title please***

Joy83:
There is this orientation given by our elders that, there are some town within yoruba that they don't marry each other, and when they coincidentally do, bad things will happen to them.
They said, it is advisable for those areas to marry themselves than inter-marriage with other areas. This leads to the place like Ijebu in ogun state, where due to some things in the part, those who are not from Ijebu area are not advisable to marry from Ijebu. Whereas I envisage Ijebu citizens are not comfortable with this perception from other areas within yoruba with my recent encounter with some Ijebu citizen.
What is your opinion about this diatribe/bitter criticism within yoruba's sons and daughters?
Do you think we are in the right direction?

Your perception about this may help in great ways in our yorubaland!

what type of help exactly are you looking for?

instead of all this rumour mongering via web, why not do something better like accepting Jesus into your life?

if you are searching for a spouse, the best way to start is with prayer.

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ChristyG:
dude u are definately retarted and a disgrace to all reasonable ijebu pple cos u obviously ave ur brains in ur anus.point to where i said anything negative ijebu pple,u are just being emotional and ranting like someone bitten by a mad dog.and btw i am from ogun state not from ibadan,i ave no reasons to hate them since i ave them many in my fam and as friend.it is ur kind of ijebu who are always bragging that makes other talk bad about ijebu.go phuck urself and tell ur biatch of a mama to go choke on a dick cos she definately didnt raise u well.iwo omo alaileko alainironu jati jati,omo aja

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Stark illiterate!

Go learn how to read and write in English language, insolent little slag. I can't demystify illiterate-speak and I don't speak Nigerian!

Stop stalking Ijebus everywhere, by jumping on every Ijebu-hating threads with ya harebrained opinions.

You know you and I don't belong in the same age bracket, right? I'll smack you like my little sister.

SirShymex:


Right on the money. Ijebu sold a lot of slaves via Epe. And my pops is from Epe, and from a royal lineage there. So, the people must have been connected with slave trade one way or the other. Hence every time I read about the horrors of slavery, I just feel a certain way. That was basically wickedness. And those people didn't really understand what they were doing back then.

quite sure they did.

That said, a lot of Ijebus were also sold into slavery. And I'd say majority of the slaves shipped into the new world were captured because the total number of people shipped to the new was just too many, for it to have happened via trade alone. More than 40 million people, with over 300,000 sailors. Very dark history!

true that.

shizzle11:
Like seriously shymmex why are you getting all defensive and offensive at ChristieG at thesame time? You need to take a chill pill cos virtually every yoruba man/woman i know share thesame sentiment about the ijebu people, except ijebus like you ofcourse.

'ijebu we mu garri'

And where are you from?

Shymmex, please, easy! ChristyG hasn't denigrated the Ijebu on this thread.


TV

TV01:


And where are you from?

Shymmex, please, easy! ChristyG hasn't denigrated the Ijebu on this thread.


TV

Im a Nigerian. How does that help?

SirShymex:
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Stark illiterate!

Go learn how to read and write in English language, insolent little slag. I can't demystify illiterate-speak and I don't speak Nigerian!

Stop stalking Ijebus everywhere, by jumping on every Ijebu-hating threads with ya harebrained opinions.

You know you and I don't belong in the same age bracket, right? I'll smack you like my little sister.

'i dont speak nigerian' and u call me an illitrate,oloshi ni bobo yi sha.i dont stalk ijebu threads,how many ijebu ave u seen me comment in(since u know d threads i stalk).u ave nothing to reasonable to say,dat is why u are just barking..i feel sorry for whoever is ur sister cos she has a deranged animal for a brother;(

LOL@ people who are getting all worked up over stereotyping ish.
I can swear no one has ever said as much evil about ijebu folks as they have about mbaise people.
In fact our own bashing thread was a mile long and graced front page like a best seller novel for days.

Yet me and my darling edwife and brother dailynews were unperturbed.

zeemoore:

Great!!
So, where should we meet?
Sagamu, Ijebu-Ode, Ikenne, Imodi-mosan, Iperu or Ibefun?

Show-off!!!

tpia1:

quite sure they did.

true that.

Yes, and that's why I kind of feel the pains of those in the new world whose ancestry was from that dark history. Obviously, slavery back them was a norm - and serfdom was a universal thing. However, I believe those slave traders never knew what they were getting themselves into, and the horrible things the slaves were subjected to. And that has created a generational thing that both blacks in Africa and the new world are yet to recover from.

Anyway, I feel their pains and I understand the struggles of those in the new world. Hence I'll never look down on them. The experience in black diaspora today is also relative for both those in the new world and, 2nd/3rd generation Africans. The legacy of the slave trade, and why it's always better to look for ways to bridge the gap.

TV01:

And where are you from?

Shymmex, please, easy! ChristyG hasn't denigrated the Ijebu on this thread.


TV

I know her from the culture section. And it has reached a stage where you always have to question why these folks always create tons of hateful threads about just the Ijebus. Apart from the Yoruba and Igbo threads - no other group has more stereotypical threads than the Ijebus ( you can check NL's database). And this chic is ever present on those threads.

Ijebus have different subgroups: proper Ijebu in Ogun, Remo division, waterside Ijebu in Lagos, Ibadan Ijebus, and Iseyin. They should at least tell us which of the Ijebus have these stereotypical tosh because no one in my own family is fetish, stingy, and wicked. It's just boring now.

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ChristyG:
'i dont speak nigerian' and u call me an illitrate,oloshi ni bobo yi sha.i dont stalk ijebu threads,how many ijebu ave u seen me comment in(since u know d threads i stalk).u ave nothing to reasonable to say,dat is why u are just barking..i feel sorry for whoever is ur sister cos she has a deranged animal for a brother;(

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So, you don't know what speaking Nigerian is, stark illiterate?

Anyway, go learn how to read, spell, and improve your comprehension skills.

I don't even like Ijebu women, but they're not as doltish as you're.