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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by kay29000(m): 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2014
Gbadegesin19:

It might still b a little bit confusing oh. I baffled @ the way '1k' was quietly under-estimated. Shook might be present but quantity might over-shadow after much unuseful logic.

Pls what did u study in school or what are u studying? Why can't you use simple english to get your point across? You are giving me headache o! lol!

It's funny you brought up the "1k" issue...someone just quoted me and made fun of me about it. Saying I wrote all that story because a girl spent "only 1k" on me. So, you see...We are all looking at this from separate vantage points (make me sef speak small english.) lol!
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Mistermamus(m): 5:01pm On Oct 07, 2014
only naija gals dat do not spend on dere bfs only a few do. like my ex gf for 4yrs bck then nothing not even 100 Mtn card smh. US girls n oda African gal I av come across spend on a guy and its nothing to em. A day I took a gal out while in kenya on a date she asked me hw much waz on me I told her d amount n she gladly added her own money to pay for d bills. I waz shocked. naija gals nowadays no dey try atall. get money travel out u see hw girls treat guys in relationship u just shake ya head for our girls

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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2014
kay29000:


Pls what did u study in school or what are u studying? Why can't you use simple english to get your point across? You are giving me headache o! lol!

It's funny you brought up the "1k" issue...someone just quoted me and made fun of me about it. Saying I wrote all that story because a girl spent "only 1k" on me. So, you see...We are all looking at this from separate vantage points (make me sef speak small english.) lol!
Lol... Answers... Studying political Science.....
Thats what makes d world interesting and still confusing... Everybody critic everything even with the most useless points....
Me just felt d way u put d ,1k' is like you be-littled it.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Daraloye: 5:03pm On Oct 07, 2014
They exist but i havent found one though
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by finditng: 5:05pm On Oct 07, 2014
MrsBreezy:


Lol don't worry the right girl is there somewhere

Introduce me to ur friend then...#winks...'Lld be grateful if she turns out decent....am a decent dude btw...lol.....tired of the searching...even google myt fail @ dis search in naija....lmao
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by kay29000(m): 5:07pm On Oct 07, 2014
Gbadegesin19:

Lol... Answers... Studying political Science.....
Thats what makes d world interesting and still confusing... Everybody critic everything even with the most useless points....
Me just felt d way u put d ,1k' is like you be-littled it.

Okay, I get you. I guess I wrote "just 1k" cos I was anticipating comments from the likes of the guy that asked why I wrote a long post just cos a girl spent "1k" on me.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by yemionline(m): 5:10pm On Oct 07, 2014
Well, i can say from experience that such girls really do exist.
My Girlfriend is a living example. she has bought me things, sewn traditional wears for me and always wants to make me smile. she's a gift from the most High to me & i love her so much.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by kay29000(m): 5:10pm On Oct 07, 2014
Mistermamus:
only naija gals dat do not spend on dere bfs only a few do. like my ex gf for 4yrs bck then nothing not even 100 Mtn card smh. US girls n oda African gal I av come across spend on a guy and its nothing to em. A day I took a gal out while in kenya on a date she asked me hw much waz on me I told her d amount n she gladly added her own money to pay for d bills. I waz shocked. naija gals nowadays no dey try atall. get money travel out u see hw girls treat guys in relationship u just shake ya head for our girls

Hmm! I swear I really need to travel and see the world before I settle down.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Hero10001: 5:11pm On Oct 07, 2014
I can't marry/date a lady that won't spend for me cos i ain't a cheap lovernigga.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 07, 2014
finditng:


Introduce me to ur friend then...#winks...'Lld be grateful if she turns out decent....am a decent dude btw...lol.....tired of the searching...even google myt fail @ dis search in naija....lmao

Lol as in my friend in the picture?

Hmm well maybe you should let the right girl come to you..
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Mistermamus(m): 5:22pm On Oct 07, 2014
kay29000:


Hmm! I swear I really need to travel and see the world before I settle down.
As in eh! u hammer money travel out especially US. u c chicks wey fine like Beyonce clean skin buh actually tho some do av attitude. if dey love u, dey love u finish. relationship with gals dere make sense love go dey sweet u sef coz both parties spend unlike our gals which is d opposite. sum times wen I come back n do see how guys fool demselves over sum bleached skinned posh gals i just feel sad coz most of em dey wowor 4 my eyes.

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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 5:24pm On Oct 07, 2014
MrsBreezy:


Well I'm not infested with poverty. We thank God.
I don't see the big deal only pisses me off when the fella starts getting all egoistic
U mean d guy?
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by ddooskie(m): 5:29pm On Oct 07, 2014
Wizpa:
She said to me;
take this N20,000 for your up keep. Take this T-Shirt, i bought it at the mall yesterday, it worth N7,500.
Well, i don't have much oh but I also bought you a phone (iphone 6) since you don't have a phone since two weeks now. Pls, don't reject it. Well, i also bought you N2,500 Mtn recharge card for your subscription and N1,00 Airtime for calls.
You celebrated your birthday some days back, so take that this Parcel. I opened the parcel and found "Boxers, Sneakers, Gucci Belt, NY face cap, Rolex watch, singlets and Frame". Lastly, she told me; pls get ready i'm taking you out to a cinema to watch a movie. Take this N5,000 for our tickets. Pretend as if u're the one taking me out. Don't reject my offer!
My question is,
DO SUCH GIRLS EXIST......

and then you woke up from the dream.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by cooljoe(m): 5:33pm On Oct 07, 2014
MrsBreezy:


You want me to get some juju beating yeah
we both know wat I fil for u is true, pure nd unconditional. Take a chance on me, ts a risk worth ts candle
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by kay29000(m): 5:36pm On Oct 07, 2014
Mistermamus:
As in eh! u hammer money travel out especially US. u c chicks wey fine like Beyonce clean skin buh actually tho some do av attitude. if dey love u, dey love u finish. relationship with gals dere make sense love go dey sweet u sef coz both parties spend unlike our gals which is d opposite. sum times wen I come back n do see how guys fool demselves over sum bleached skinned posh gals i just feel sad coz most of em dey wowor 4 my eyes.

lol @ bleached skin girls. I feel your pain. Nigerian men need exposure.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by YINKS89(m): 5:37pm On Oct 07, 2014
Na lie jawe...... #na only sugar mummy dey do am.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MrKevinBig(m): 5:46pm On Oct 07, 2014
Yeah they do and personally ve dated like 3. But the current one ehn! She no d try at all I had to talk to her yestaday, this is a girl I got job for and am still there for sum little little things that sumtyms I give her fare to work even she knows am nt working for now and am telling U ntn has cum from her to me. Na wao! 4 sum girls o!
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by finditng: 6:01pm On Oct 07, 2014
MrsBreezy:


Lol as in my friend in the picture?

Hmm well maybe you should let the right girl come to you..

Nope...didn't view ur profile ...I will now though and I was talking generally btw......u just myt be a grand "hitch"...lol
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MORNDEW(m): 6:02pm On Oct 07, 2014
Jenams:
Hmmm my ex come to mind. Ever since I left her, av bn goin tru hell
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by oluamid(m): 6:03pm On Oct 07, 2014
MYAs2011:
Generous ladies that are ready to carry me to lime light ,here is my number 08123163293..... My pix attached below lol.....my BlackBerry Pin 7E0FEF11....holla


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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by gegeski: 6:04pm On Oct 07, 2014
Truth is, I dnt like commenting much on post, bt fr dis I jst hav to. Men, am sayin dis wit no bone in my throat. Dey exist. My girl is a proof. She can spend her last dine jst to get mi stuffs, she is one in a zillion, I hv datd girls nd at a point I tot its nt normal fr girls to buy stuffs fr guys bcus dey neva wil, i ws d only one giving, bt dis my luv rite nw is soooooo diff. She is sooooo amazing. As am tlkin to u guys nw, she bought mi a very beautiful wrist watch yestday nd a very fine daviva ankara material. Dts d least. Men, dey do exist, someone who truely luvs u wil do it.

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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Oct 07, 2014
OkikiOluwa1:

U mean d guy?

Yeah the guy
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 07, 2014
cooljoe:
we both know wat I fil for u is true, pure nd unconditional. Take a chance on me, ts a risk worth ts candle

Lol yeaaaaah riiight... Hmm I'm not one for risks.. I'm not lucky like yourself
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 07, 2014
finditng:


Nope...didn't view ur profile ...I will now though and I was talking generally btw......u just myt be a grand "hitch"...lol

Haha I'm no grand hitch oo
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by cooljoe(m): 6:11pm On Oct 07, 2014
MrsBreezy:


Lol yeaaaaah riiight... Hmm I'm not one for risks.. I'm not lucky like yourself
so ur just gona say no nd shaun me jst like dat
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by rhymz(m): 6:14pm On Oct 07, 2014
The fact is that an average boyfriend - girlfriend relationship in Nigeria is typically one-sided and too traditional in its setting.

It is like the two people involved go into it with preconceived notions of their roles, the guy is in it mostly for the $exual gratification and the Chic is it for the monetary gains.

It is very rare for a Nigerian lady to go out with her boyfriend and opt to pay without any prodding from the guy, even if she has her own money. You see women working who find it difficult to Change their faulty phone unless their boyfriends do so and all that crap!!! I have had a woman tell me that there are some things she just does not spend her money on even though she can afford them, she expects that whoever is dating her has to provide those.

I have female colleagues at work who make it a routine that when they go out with you to the restaurant to eat, you must pay the bills. If they notice any hesitation on your part, they pay for theirs alone and forget the times when you used to foot the bills for them. The next thing they do is to start acting out like you owe them something the next time situation comes.

That's a typical Nigerian lady for you. One was even so keen on us going to see a movie even when I am not interested, she is not even a date yet she dey expect say na me go foot all the bills, I was just looking at her. Not that it is big deal, I just get pissed when I notice that you expect me all the time to do stuff for you all because you are a woman, crop!!!

Nothing opens up a man like a woman who is not expectant in a relationship, who is in it for the real thing not somebody to help her get by financially, only one of my girlfriends have been able to surprise me before with her selflessness...... Once I told her I was broke and she asked for us to meet at an eatery, not only did she load my stomach, she also gave me an amount of money I totally did not expect from her. This was a lady who at the time we had stopped dating but we're still very much in good terms. Till today, she is the only ex I respect for her personality, works very hard for her own money and has no qualms spending it on herself and people she loves.

I have already made it a point not to date anyone that is not working or come from a family whose issues require that you must get involved financially if you must date the girl, I have experienced it and it was a big relief once I disengaged myself from the relationship. I wish I can be that lucky with ladies that have their own money, I find myself falling for the same type of ladies, no job and very dependent on their relationships for survival. For now, I dey oyo.

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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by ochuisboy: 6:20pm On Oct 07, 2014
yes they do exit, last year i was going to NYSC camp, my girl give me 15k just to hold in my hand, because she saw that i don't have a dem in my hand.
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Revolva(m): 6:23pm On Oct 07, 2014
Umm I fit bet wit my last kobo they don't exist in this part of the world .....naija gals are wolves...and greedy ass holes...they don't know why they are women sef just to consume....na dem sabi
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by osasbliss: 6:30pm On Oct 07, 2014
Dis are small things na, an average lady do wat is more dan dat. moreova must it b material things?
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 07, 2014
yes, such girls do exist! probably the rich old ugly ones who have no experience in dating, or the over kind, and ignorant onesundecided but they are few. smart girls like me don't smiley wanna know why? because majority of boys are selfish, stupid and wicked animals! you help a boy financially, at the end, what? they dump u like u never mattered embarassed this happened to my best friend who's rich, but a useless boy used her, and dumped herangry I'm still planning on how to send the bastardd to his grave..(kiddinggrin ) but I'm planning to deal with him cheesy GUYS, BETTER WATCH YOUR BACK$!! angry
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 07, 2014
cooljoe:
so ur just gona say no nd shaun me jst like dat

I didn't say no and I didn't shaun you.

You have a girlfriend...
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by cooljoe(m): 6:42pm On Oct 07, 2014
MrsBreezy:


I didn't say no and I didn't shaun you.

You have a girlfriend...
ur so mean

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