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Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 10:17am On Oct 09, 2014
I wake up this morning with a call from my friend.
Aisha am in trouble ooo, sobbing, I decided to calm her down so that I should hear the full gist……………

I'm pregnant, Just confirmed it last week, am so scared"
Is he aware of this an what is he doing about it?
He distant himself since he heard an the only thing he said is that am matured."

Am so confused, My career is on the brink, I'd never tried abortion, marriage to this man is a suicidal mission"
What kind of advice do u want from me?
Abortion can be Implicative
Single Mum is frown upon by our society…

Given a fact that our society frowns on illegality of a child. Thus, it become a nod among our single ladies to have an abortion to get rid of the child, even some parent are guilty of pressuring there daughters on it.

Therefore when u go against the societal view by trying to have your baby your own way you'll be termed a single mum(2nd hand).……

Comparing this two;. Yes Abortion can be done in the secrecy to avoid been term a 2nd hand but what about the implications; A doctor can make mistake which could lead damage of the uterus or perhaps loss of life. how pathetic…………
You can also succeed but the guilt will keep hurting u for the rest of your life.

on the other hand, Single mum is no any less, Career an future are also shaky with your decision……An without a Man to keep your Child in check by supporting with a parental care.
Men also shy away from dating or perhaps marrying a single mum it takes courage for a man to woo a single mum. Society see them as promiscuous.
This also will leave a single mum traumatized an breaking her from her shell.

Since some women have devised a strategy on hooking a man with pregnancy. Our problems will keep compounding therefore making the child suffers our atrocities.

Stay save
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Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by dytbabe: 10:24am On Oct 09, 2014
3 options na
1. Marry him by force by fire
2. Keep the child
3. Abortion


Is she a mumu ni, when she was doin without cd, it was sweeting her
Ode oshi
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by yuncka: 10:31am On Oct 09, 2014
dytbabe:
3 options na
1. Marry him by force by fire
2. Keep the child
3. Abortion


Is she a mumu ni, when she was doin without cd, it was sweeting her
Ode oshi

Exactly! Thank you for dat last point. We can always wana eat our cake and have it.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 10:33am On Oct 09, 2014
So whats the essence of this information, make i no abort undecided


ps :i never read d post sef, forgive Me cry
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by olorunthobby(f): 10:36am On Oct 09, 2014
dytbabe:
3 options na
1. Marry him by force by fire
2. Keep the child
3. Abortion


Is she a mumu ni, when she was doin without cd, it was sweeting her
Ode oshi

no be her fault...na cd tear na
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Tallesty1(m): 10:39am On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:
I wake up this morning with a call from my friend.
Aisha am in trouble ooo, sobbing, I decided to calm her down so that I should hear the full gist……………

I'm pregnant, Just confirmed it last week, am so scared"
Is he aware of this an what is he doing about it?
He distant himself since he heard an the only thing he said is that am matured."

Am so confused, My career is on the brink, I'd never tried abortion, marriage to this man is a suicidal mission"
Why she come open leg 4 am nah??

Women and their fishy Brain sha.

She thinks she take the worm without getting caught by the hook.............






@OP. I understand where you are coming from sha buh I just had to say that cause some ladies really think that way.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Tallesty1(m): 10:41am On Oct 09, 2014
dytbabe:
3 options na
1. Marry him by force by fire
2. Keep the child
3. Abortion


Is she a mumu ni, when she was doin without cd, it was sweeting her
Ode oshi
Abortion is not an option at all.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by chimerase2: 10:45am On Oct 09, 2014
I swear she is in a precarious position nw
But why will he denie de pregnancy
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by priscaoge(f): 10:47am On Oct 09, 2014
Some people shaa undecided

Forget what the society will say and have your baby! Complications may come up which might lead to infertility in d future. The deed has been done,abortion is never an option. Since She get mind "nack" without protection,make She get mind carry d pikin without giving a damn undecided



Don't forget that #Karmaisabitch

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Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Godmother(f): 10:55am On Oct 09, 2014
Tallesty1:
Why she come open leg 4 am nah??

Women and their fishy Brain sha.

She thinks she take the worm without getting caught by the hook.............






@OP. I understand where you are coming from sha buh I just had to say that cause some ladies really think that way.

Thank you jare. The babe in question is out of her mind. Marriage to the man is suicidal, yet she couldn't keep her legs closed. Let her dance to the music of her actions!
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 11:07am On Oct 09, 2014
Tallesty1:
Why she come open leg 4 am nah??

Women and their fishy Brain sha.

She thinks she take the worm without getting caught by the hook.............






@OP. I understand where you are coming from sha buh I just had to say that cause some ladies really think that way.
A mistake have been made
the most pathetic part is that the guy is a broke guy
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Tallesty1(m): 11:10am On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:
A mistake have been made
the most pathetic part is that the guy is a broke guy
No...................

The Most Pathetic Part Is That They Are Both Broke.

BTW there is no mistake here.

Do you call getting pregnant a mistake?

Or is dating someone you know you can't marry a mistake?
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by chimerase2: 11:12am On Oct 09, 2014
priscaoge:
Some people shaa undecided

Forget what the society will say and have your baby! Complications may come up which might lead to infertility in d future. The deed has been done,abortion is never an option. Since She get mind "nack" without protection,make She get mind carry d pikin without giving a damn undecided



Don't forget that #Karmaisabitch
is not always easy u knw
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by priscaoge(f): 11:16am On Oct 09, 2014
chimerase2:
is not always easy u knw


Yea U are right,but the deed has been done. She better save her future and keep d baby.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 09, 2014
Y taste poison if don't wana die??
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by jmoore(m): 11:47am On Oct 09, 2014
A single mother is better than a lady that has aborted.

Abortionist=Babyharam
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 09, 2014
jmoore:
A single mother is better than a lady that has aborted.

Abortionist=Babyharam
Buh men love ladies without a baby
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 12:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
Harbosede02:
Y taste poison if u don't wana die??
I dont understand
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 09, 2014
Godmother:


Thank you jare. The babe in question is out of her mind. Marriage to the man is suicidal, yet she couldn't keep her legs closed. Let her dance to the music of her actions!
Someone that could deny her
no force marriage
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by iconize(m): 1:52pm On Oct 09, 2014
Getting married to the same man you got pregnant for, is suicidal? undecided

Why then did she open her cum tank for the dude?
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 2:05pm On Oct 09, 2014
iconize:
Getting married to the same man you got pregnant is suicidal? undecided

Why then did she open her cum tank for the dude?
The guy is not ready, he's broke
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by agohmamuda(m): 2:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
no one is even considering sucide as an option.
#remember, no pain, no gain. #Na play oh.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
agohmamuda:
no one is even considering sucide as an option.
#remember, no pain, no gain. #Na play oh.
make it straight
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by agohmamuda(m): 3:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:

make it straight

i swear i dont have a ruler.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 3:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
agohmamuda:


i swear i dont have a ruler.
lol u are funny
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by agohmamuda(m): 3:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:

lol u are funny

and ure cute...
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by iconize(m): 3:17pm On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:

The guy is not ready, he's broke

It all boils down to dumbness.

The dude is broke and also not ready for some crappy marriage sh_it and she knew these things, yet she opened her cum tank.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by ERCROSS(m): 3:25pm On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:

The guy is not ready, he's broke
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by ERCROSS(m): 3:26pm On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:

The guy is not ready, he's broke
And the gurl is broke too.
Re: Abortion an Single mum lifestyle by Nobody: 4:47pm On Oct 09, 2014
ERCROSS:

And the gurl is broke too.
she never state it to me

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